scribble:


to catch a side chick u have to cast many nets...

pweetixandy:
I think the opoooo is just here to talk aboiut his new boo..and not really about how scared he is of commitment. U said u can commit to diff women all at once,u said u have a "side chic" who has promised to stick around,u said u can't commit to one woman so u have gotten a side chic. My opinion,this o.p is a man without ball.s and the only way to feel like u are in control or to feel like u are gonna be man enough to handle a woman like ur wife-to-be for eternity,u came to a faceless forum to say rubbish and to talk about how u have a new girl friend.

zeb04:
I have learnt that the reason why most girls don't get angry when they find out the cheating story is because they do it hemselves.
Guilty conscience won't even let you talk.

Its possible the lady is only interested in the marriage yo bear Mrs while still doing her own stuff.

100Cents:


Supported.

That a lady chose to be with you doesn't mean you should trample her. Everyone deserves some form of respect even if she is crying to keep your love.

There is a bad guy somewhere called KARMA...

dovelike:

Including your wife to be?

scribble:


side chick gets her own apartment

she will soon enter UNI

she is above 18 oooo

scribble:



thats fine too...


frankly i wouldnt give a damn

zeb04:
Mr stop your lies.

you are not getting married

Next time come up with a better lie

You don't even reason or talk like one who is getting married.

scribble:



thats fine too...


frankly i wouldnt give a damn

*continues smh*..

Am sure you will give a damn when she gives birth to another man's baby as yours

scribble:



lol ok delude yourself

or embrace reality, there are men that think and reason like this everywhere

many men see marriage as a chore

especially the ones that been dating a long time

but its wisdom that allows us still go ahead and marry

because eventually the new chick becomes a chore too...its a vicious cycle really

and its understandable why women detest it...y'all cannot compete with the new chicks as u age and your bodies sag...

u try to manipulate the man to seeing you as the all in all

meanwhile the wool has since fallen off his eyes

Solomon the wisest man that lived, had a few bad side chicks

its the way of the alpha male

but there is a way out...just be a good wife and give him a reason to love you every so often he will stay married to you...or just put otapiapia in his food

zeb04:
a chore?

Why do you want to displease your self for a very long period of time to please someone else?

Why do you want the bondage......don't you like to just be single and shag everywhere, anyhow?

I feel sorry for you.you are not alpha enough with your bondage mentality

You think wools don't fall of the eyes if women? With your big tummy, shrinkled dic.k

I bet your d wool covering your lady's eyes will fall before you say jack.

You know why I don't have problem with your type, cause I know pple come from dysfunctional home so it's OK to be stup..id.

scribble:


1. its called sacrifice
2. i love her more than most so i will marry her, she is a really good woman

my tummy and shriveled cockadoodledoo will never overshadow my bank account

its not just my family thats dysfunctional, its society...if not why will u come on my post with ur strong face and be spewing garbage because it dawns on u that the man u marry may reason just like me or even worse....

u'd be surprised that im the good guy

u women dont understand that men dont even talk as much as i am about these issues, most men just take it as given...

abi u nor dey visit Linda or Stella?

scribble:



pls dont quote me if u have problems with comprehension





my wife to be is the main, im casting nets for the side

surely u see the logic now

3cycle:
You think she will just fold hands and pray for you while you cheat on her?

You must be a learner...
Before you might even think of sleeping with 5 side girls, she must have slept with 10 young guys including your boss
The measure you give, is what you should expect bro. So your home will actually turn to a godless family of hoes....
Husband.... Useless
Wife.... Hoe
Children.... Bastar.ds
I don't envy you...
Hml in advance

passionate88:
.... I'm just scared of what marriage might turn the woman into... Nag nag nag nag nag nag.... Every little thing is nag. If I ever meet a lady that's as quiet as my mom nd I then I might just consider marriage... But alas!, they mistake arrogance for confidence.

chymystique:



*continues smh*..

Am sure you will give a damn when she gives birth to another man's baby as yours

3cycle:
You think she will just fold hands and pray for you while you cheat on her?

You must be a learner...
Before you might even think of sleeping with 5 side girls, she must have slept with 10 young guys including your boss
The measure you give, is what you should expect bro. So your home will actually turn to a godless family of hoes....
Husband.... Useless
Wife.... Hoe
Children.... Bastar.ds
I don't envy you...
Hml in advance

Tymax:
@ the emboldened; you have said it all! Gbam!

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@ Topic:

OP you should be wary of the silence of your fiancée. You think any woman would gladly permit cheating in her marriage? She may be planning something big. Bro, just try to reciprocate her faithfulness. For your own good and that of your unborn children.

scribble:



What she doesn't know won't kill her


A lot of the happily married women in Nigeria have learned to turn a blind eye

Go and seek advice from elders



Only if the man is broke but why should a broke guy even have a mistress?

BigBashiru:
the issue of side chicks is an interesting one.

OP while i understand where you are coming from in need for variety, the women cause men to have this side chick mentality.

Men like em young and hot. period.

Men also like variety.

If you dont want a man to have variety then he needs to be married to some 21 year old, 23 max.

Side chick comes in because when women are young they are not ready for marriage...

do you honestly want me to settle for 32 year old and ignore 21 year olds all in the name of marriage?

You must be kidding me.

For me, I dont ask for too much. Just one main young chick that is 21 or 22 max. Its just to avoid cheating. but then again, at this age, they dont want to marry. so maybe modern marriage just cant work?

BigBashiru:
the issue of side chicks is an interesting one.

OP while i understand where you are coming from in need for variety, the women cause men to have this side chick mentality.

Men like em young and hot. period.

Men also like variety.

If you dont want a man to have variety then he needs to be married to some 21 year old, 23 max.

Side chick comes in because when women are young they are not ready for marriage...

do you honestly want me to settle for 32 year old and ignore 21 year olds all in the name of marriage?

You must be kidding me.

For me, I dont ask for too much. Just one main young chick that is 21 or 22 max. Its just to avoid cheating. but then again, at this age, they dont want to marry. so maybe modern marriage just cant work?

scribble:

im not sure im scared of commitment, i can commit to more than one person, financially, emotionally, physically etc...
i have what it takes

scribble:
Ppl dey carry my matter for head

I understand why the babes are doing it

I understand why the broke niggurs, hypocrites and NL romance seekers are doing it


But my wife to be gave me the ground rules:


Don't get any ho pregnant,

Don't marry wife no. 2


And what u do is none of my business.


Is she tryna kill a niggur?


Lolz

U guys never jam love...love is blind....marry the woman that understands you

Some ppl r in relationship where the babes na lez and the husband dey encourage am (albeit for selfish reasons)

But he doesn't trip....U have to understand your spouse and marriage is acceptance.

She has known from day 1, I will not let any prominent ukwu willing to mingle pass me by unless she is physically present

A lot of the women acting like their husbands are saints, na their damn biz...I saw a Bella naija groom once who spent at least 16m on wedding


Next weekend he was calling our most popular bachelor friend to organize those "Moremi hall shawties again"


Not up to one month after marriage....Make I hear word plz

scribble:



Clown...U need to go and have a long talk with your father and mother....


Let your mom tell you the truth


A lot of you guys don't know how far....


Me personally I'm not the type of man a woman just open eye and cheat on...for several reasons....

I'd let you in on a few but that would be bragging

scribble:



pls dont quote me if u have problems with comprehension





my wife to be is the main, im casting nets for the side

surely u see the logic now