kaima1984:
keep that to d gal next door,am NT impressed pls try something new

hahaha..... You must be a banker or a career woman in some other profession..... The attitude speaks..... But anyways, I love your hardware..... Sign of a strong woman...... Anyways, sorry If i offended you.... I truely am.....

GodMode:
DjAndroid... Your answer(my opinion):



Like what uwa1 Most Nigerian men are looking house wives... They are insecure and want women they think they can control..




From ogawisdom view,

Most Nigerian men are insecure and already conclude in their minds that corporate ladies(high standard) are b*tches..
High standard ladies would leave the responsibilities of the home to a house maid and cook..

Do u kw d meaning of insecurity ...... I doubt u do. This is abt personal choice, I dnt believe a woman can make a good wife n mother in certain career n d no 1 is banking. A female banker ll make a good match only for a lazy house husband n nt to another busy man.
I dnt want a house wife but one with a flexible work hours bc I am very busy too. Busy husband plus busy wife equal to disaster home

Busy wife plus less busy husband equal to average home

Busy man plus less busy wife equal to good home

Less busy man plus less busy wife equal to poor home

Ceteris paribus

I still want a wife dt ll serve me breakfast n dinner daily n this helps our bonding process n nt one dt ll hit d door rushing for work b4 4:30am lol
N returnin home at 9pm gosh some men dey try sha to marry such. Its my choice n nt for all sha.

AmNotDrunk:


One of my fav from coldplay lol.
But I think its "won't" not "will"

Am a fan but its been quite a while since I read and heard the song. So I will go wll go with 'won't'

andyallor:


Am a fan but its been quite a while since I read and heard the song. So I will go wll go with 'won't'

ok.
am a fan too, a very good band.
My all time top 5 from them
1.Fix you
2. Viva la vida
3. Speed of sound
4.Hurts like heaven
5. Paradise/ Charlie Brown can't decide the one I like most lol.

the op won't like this, we are derailing his thread lol.

My one kobo advice.
My factors come into play.
1. Don't envy those lads cos u dont knw wat they r experiencin in dier relationships.
2. Work on being wat you want. You can"t eat your cake and still have it. Attitude is the ultimate.
3. Dont allow the system turn u into sometin else in a bid to achieve ur target.
4. Make you life humorous-- all work and no play makes Jack..........
5. Dont live beyond your means cos pple(guys) are watching and are scared that you might drain dem.
6. Be creative n proctive cos the bankin sector is volatile.
7. Attend to God and He'll take you to places.
8. Don't live a double life inside and outside the bank. Respect every Tom, Dick and Harry cos u don"t know ur favoured one among them.
9. Learn not to be rigid to people and put on smile from within you.
10. Be an asset

Before you know it, He'll come calling.

FLYGERIAN91:
which country you dey? In almost all d banks I go to in all the states I visit, I always see bank cleaners doin their job.....so long as customers walk in and out of the banks and bring in dirt or litter d place with paper, the cleaners have to keep doin their job when people are there else the bank will look like a trash can...... Or do you think the bank floor cleans itself after about 50-100 customers troop in from the sandy floors outside? You arrange ur brain.....

Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

beeevan:



I have never been to access bank without seeing a cleaner or more.

Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

majekdom2:
I guess you are not in Nigeria.

Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

AmNotDrunk:

ok.
am a fan too, a very good band.
My all time top 5 from them
1.Fix you
2. Viva la vida
3. Speed of sound
4.Hurts like heaven
5. Paradise/ Charlie Brown can't decide the one I like most lol.

the op won't like this, we are derailing his thread lol.

Oh great!
Mines shiver
2 - god put a smile upon your face
3 - violet hill
4 - atlas
5 -strawberry swing
6 - square one
There are many.
Anyway this was fun

Op no vex abeg o.

playboy19:


Dude, i think i need to have you as my spoke-man cos we seem to share the same state of mind. I have nothing else to add to your comment. You nailed the whole discussion.

no wahala , you are my boss Already ... Just become Nigerian President and i'm gonna speak for you !!

NobleG1:


Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

owk.... Understood.....wen i said arrange ur brain, twas just a joke..... Sorry if u felt offended by that statement

skyladon22:
Most of these female bankers are very rude to some certain customers. They only welcome and become friendly with male customers that they know have fat or moderate accounts.

They mostly dress to attract rich customers and not their male colleagues and since their male counterparts are always busy and not time to go out to meet girls, they decide to date the cleaners and nice customers

You know almost everything..I have worked in a bank before and I can say that what she said is the truth.....I love your stories

NobleG1:


Well, I guess I was wrong about that. I made that comment with the little experience I had few times I visited banks in Nigeria when I visited Nigeria.

That's ok

pweetixandy:
u copied me

double idiots,overzealous fools

emptyhead:



@bolded those guys are making money ooo.. To even marry one hardworking bricklayer beta oo

those guys are making money ooo......tnk God 4 dem,i pray God blass evry man's hustle,or beta still giv him a beta means of livelyhood...#click like if u claim so#

FLYGERIAN91:
hahaha..... You must be a banker or a career woman in some other profession..... The attitude speaks..... But anyways, I love your hardware..... Sign of a strong woman...... Anyways, sorry If i offended you.... I truely am.....

Apology accepted,how ws ur day?

andyallor:


Oh great!
Mines shiver
2 - god put a smile upon your face
3 - violet hill
4 - atlas
5 -strawberry swing
6 - square one
There are many.
Anyway this was fun

Op no vex abeg o.

shiver and violet hill are great too. I think they'll make my top 10.

Kimmo:
Bloody unfair. But I don't suppose they'll be interested in the type of men who would go after a cleaner. I don't mean that as an insult, to either profession, but these are two different kinds of women.

she say marry nd nt go after aha

deanery:
double idiots,overzealous fools

ur father is an idiot,ur mother is an overzealous fool...do I know u? U just felt like displaying ur empty-headedness and my moniker was d first u sighted ba? Ur simply a waste of oxygen..anuofia nwuranwu!

AmNotDrunk:

shiver and violet hill are great too. I think they'll make my top 10.

*thumbs up* cool

She should be stoned, no whipped.

1. Clocks
2. God put A smile on my face
3. Speed of Sound
4. Strawberry Swing
5. Yellow

AmNotDrunk:

ok.
am a fan too, a very good band.
My all time top 5 from them
1.Fix you
2. Viva la vida
3. Speed of sound
4.Hurts like heaven
5. Paradise/ Charlie Brown can't decide the one I like most lol.

the op won't like this, we are derailing his thread lol.

NobleG1:


You either fabricated this story or the lady in question is lying.

Bank customers don't even see bank cleaners because cleaners do their jobs before banks open for business.

Do Nigerian banks have messengers? If any has, do they interact with customers?

Nigerian banks do have guards but they're mostly men.

If you want to fabricate a plausible story, do better next time.

You don't have to insult someone to make a point!!

have you ever stepped into a dirty banking hall, with sand & paper all over the place?

If No, do you mean to tell me that with all the influx of customers, that it is the cleaning that was done before business hours that sustains that clean look?

Cleaners are seen in banking halls either cleaning, they sometimes run errands for the cashiers & co

Yes I have seen female security guards

Cutehector4u:
Eya.... Mayb she can quit her job nd apply for d security job....or cleaner job

No sense...

pickabeau1:
1. Clocks
2. God put A smile on my face
3. Speed of Sound
4. Strawberry Swing
5. Yellow

Nice list bro. clocks is good but I don't know why I don't like yellow that much. Pls try "Fix you" you might change ur no1 if you do haha.

AmNotDrunk:

Nice list bro. clocks is good but I don't know why I don't like yellow that much. Pls try "Fix you" you might change ur no1 if you do haha.

Fix you is cool too...


Kingdom come...also

eeya

[quote author=Kimmo post=27958434]
*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning

I agree with you

uwa1:
Some men feels dat some bankers r too busy and too career driven to make a good house wife.

humilitypays:
What majority of serious guys seek for in a lady they want to settle down with are: humility, availability and simplicity, not status or career, and unfortunately, many female bankers and some working class ladies lack those qualities cos ladies get easily carried away by little career achievement

Men who are ready to marry and have a stable source of income don't care what a lady does for a living...all they want is the things I mentioned above, ladies take note

guy which kind beer u dey drink make i put am for fridge for u?

charcoal:
One insulted me cos I was jus trying to borrow her pen while she was attending to me,,For that I support the motion #MarryACleaner not a banker

stop being wickid bro.

kaima1984:
Apology accepted,how ws ur day?

my day was good..... Hope I didnt spoil yours with my ranty comment tho.....