That's how the other day, one was just acting all rude and egoistic because..... because.... she is a cashier...

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

How that one take consign us? Make she swap her job with one cleaner now....hw una see am my people?
Vote naijaboiy for mr nairaland.

evegran:




Hmm and you're a prophet or a love doctor?

None of d above baby. I am d love every babe yearns for.

Odilafta:
Tell her to stop carrying her shoulder higher than her head.

She should stop envying those cleaners rather she should learn humility from them.

And like they say,"the ugly girls are getting married every saturday while the beautiful ones are busy,buying the aso-ebi"
I'm sure she didn't tell you of the humble,hardworking bricklayer she has been turning down,simply because she's a banker..

shoe get size! that people are getting married every Saturday doesn't mean a lady should settle for any man in trousers

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

there is a sayn dat SEW UR COAT ACCORDN 2 ur CLOTH. Most female banka's av 2much pride dats y

tolustx:
None of d above baby. I am d love every babe yearns for.

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Oh! And that conclusion is a result of a recent survey or a result of your assumptions and wishes?

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

Ehya, I saw one recently who told me, " There is no husband ".

I wanted dating her after her sorry comment but I lost interest after date one.

With all the big salary, I pity them...

Bankers live in a BOX..

These single lady bankers and others are too pompous. They always feel they have got some material things. If you marry them, they become the husbands while the men become the wives in the house. This is real, I have seen some cases like that. So let marry their material things and leave marriage for the homely girls.

I used to like one female banker until I summoned courage to say hi to her @ one first bank branch. See the way she look @ me like I had feaces (poo poo) on my body. I still cannot say what really transpired but with my small cash to pay and my hi and everything, she just say next and redirected me to another teller. See shame, but I just bone like bone thug and harmony, deposit for the guy place waka jeje disappear. Next time I went dia she was the only teller and when it got to my turn.. I just look @ her, sigh one big mtchewwww come waka commot for the bank.. Shege.. See my step as them dey call me back.. I hear they have moved her from the bank to one local branch.. Na her own loss.

all these bankers need is humility, availability and politeness...rudeness, looking down on people because of their dressing or size, pride will not take you anywhere rather do you more harm than good.
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pweetixandy:
who are u to judge? btw I will vote for u

Ojuju calabar

humilitypays:
What majority of serious guys seek for in a lady they want to settle down with are: humility, availability and simplicity, not status or career, and unfortunately, many female bankers and some working class ladies lack those qualities cos ladies get easily carried away by little career achievement

Men who are ready to marry and have a stable source of income don't care what a lady does for a living...all they want is the things I mentioned above, ladies take note

GBAM.. !

That is bcuz God resist the pride, and exalt the humble.bcUz she be banker na she no wan carry her shoulder down.for her mind if no be person wey wear suit come my office I no go give attension, nt knwing that time is against her.

dis cleaners are probably as well educated as d female bankers but js found themselves being a cleaner and are submissive so y won't male customers be attracted to them?

evegran:
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Oh! And that conclusion is a result of a recent survey or a result of your assumptions and wishes?

lol. U may call it what u wish but I knw myself, and I knw what I'm capable of. Test,survey,assumption,wish,whatever, cannot change dat!

Kimmo:
Bloody unfair. But I don't suppose they'll be interested in the type of men who would go after a cleaner. I don't mean that as an insult, but these are two different kinds of women.

jst listen to urself and see ur mentality "BLOODY UNFAIR" so d bankers are d ones dat r supposed to marry husbands..."GUD HUSBANDS" abi,and den d cleaners shud marry any man simply cos dey r cleaners....its nt so my dear,God no d luk face b4 He blesses someone,jst as d rain falls 4 both d gud,bad and ugly,so also does God bless evry1.....abi u neva see whr oga pikin d marry housegirl despite all d gals he met in sch in america.......i tink all u av to do is pray to God to giv u ur own husband and nt being jealous of d cleaners.......or else u'll end up in ur papa house,or marry a bricklayer in ur old age.

Zedric:



Well, I know cleaners with better approach to life.

#no_offense

I'm with you on this one!

aristocrazzy:
Cleaners no dey rub make up pass female banker. Infact na female bankers pack make up (including breast pad, nyash enhancer) pass so men no trust them. True or false.

Na true joor...and na them no fine pass. Na so one dey eye me **in psquares voice** for one bank wey dey adjacent to emeka offor plaza for main mkt...i no go call the bank name sha. Hehehehe, i dey do yanga for am like presido pikin...if i go bank i no dey gree follow queue for her side.
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Vote naijaboiy the proud son of the soil(naija) for mr nairaland.

pweetixandy:
lol..I know. But I will still say,u copied me!!

Cutehector4u:
wait first......wait wait wait.... I just checked the thread and i found out that u commentd two minutes after i did so i shuld b askn u dat...lol.... Or maybe, u hav a very slow connection....

what are you two dragging here

100Cents:


Most female bankers appear rude to outsiders. They can't try that inside the bank anyway because of the office policy..

I am an ex banker. But there was this new female banker in my area, who I once greeted, she just snubbed me.

I didn't blame her. It was later she found out that where she is working, I was once there. She dey look for my face, I no send her again..

I am so sorry, I looked down on some ladies too as a banker.. It is a mentality thing..

Nice one bro. Thumbs up

Kimmo:


*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning outfit.

Your approach to life is wrong. I am a medical doctor yet I know God did not create doctors, cleaners, or bankers, He created human beings. What we are is beyond the profession or position we profess. There are cleaners who's ideology about life is more plausible than yours. In advanced countries marriage is not about the proffession, but in the third world its all about status. That why we are third world though. I'd rather marry a progressive cleaner than a retarded banker. God bless.

Cutehector4u:
serious, i ddnt tho... Maybe we think alike...

PROBABLY YOU HOOK TOGETHER!

fpeter:


shoe get size! that people are getting married every Saturday doesn't mean a lady should settle for any man in trousers

you girls have been saying this and still single and buying aso ebi for other people.


ok let me get this.You women wey get size are waiting for men in skirts from mars.
Make una await o

pweetixandy:
u copied me

You get time oooooo

Kimmo:


*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning outfit.

You should re-read your comment again cos it's amusing. If a teaching job offers 10k and a cleaning job offers 40k, I guess you would go for the teaching, because the certain standards you crave for, also brings food to your table.
There are commercial drivers who are graduates. Do you think they can't teach? Some of them prefer to be danfo drivers than work for peanuts in one lousy private school.
But what do you know? You're probably still living with your parents, downloading free food while the rest of us dey inside jungle dey hustle.

cegxie:
I used to like one female banker until I summoned courage to say hi to her @ one first bank branch. See the way she look @ me like I had feaces (poo poo) on my body. I still cannot say what really transpired but with my small cash to pay and my hi and everything, she just say next and redirected me to another teller. See shame, but I just bone like bone thug and harmony, deposit for the guy place waka jeje disappear. Next time I went dia she was the only teller and when it got to my turn.. I just look @ her, sigh one big mtchewwww come waka commot for the bank.. Shege.. See my step as them dey call me back.. I hear they have moved her from the bank to one local branch.. Na her own loss.

lol da was mean

chai...see how people dey view this topic!!!

The truth is bitter and you have already said the truth...hard to maintain and the serious man doesn't know which abusive English he is expected to meet if he express his feeling....dem no sabi ni jare....gime the branch and bank address make men enter lol..

tolustx:

lol. U may call it what u wish but I knw myself, and I knw what I'm capable of. Test,survey,assumption,wish,whatever, cannot change dat!

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Hmm. Okay.
For the record, I enjoy straight answers. Un-straight ones are a convo killer for me. However, you sound so confident- cool I guess.

I guess she has has insecurities issues, is she the type that always frown during office hours? majority of female bankers are snob not friendly one bit to customers

Ahmeduana:

PROBABLY YOU HOOK TOGETHER!

nooo.... I dnt want to