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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by NosaHenry(m): 1:50pm On Nov 30, 2014
You don't have any course to worry, cos we are almost at the nu.de stage of societal development. By next year nudity will no longer be in vogue. You can confirm from Kim and co.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by emmanuel7542: 4:32pm On Nov 30, 2014
I would do the same if I were the one in his shoes..... don't worry, it's nothing compared to that of Kim K.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by xenten: 6:09pm On Nov 30, 2014
Les:
This story is still trending even on sunday, the very holy day?? Some1 said the op should pick up her dignity, i beg to differ, she has no dignity. Theplanmaker, if na u be the so called ex, anytime you upload the video, my moniker no too hard to mention, just send me link abeg, me too wan follow watch. IF she go kill herself, i go help u distribute am self.
You definitely not a lady. I pray your own nude pix will be made public for us alll to see.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Les: 6:47pm On Nov 30, 2014
xenten:
You definitely not a lady. I pray your own nude pix will be made public for us alll to see.
no one is above mistakes but op made no mistakes, she carried out an act of wickedness. Wicked ppl everywhere but that's not my problem, my problem with the op is her senselessness and her untactical approach to critical matters of emotional turbulence and she should face the consequences. Well, if u pray for my nude to leak, same way i pray for ur pocket, bank account and all ur source of ur meagre income to leak for us all to pick and do awoof!!!
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by femikay149(m):
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Ceedarlin(f): 4:24am On Dec 01, 2014
Etetejake:
Sweety, I was just joking. can't descend so low. Am a virgin boy, ok
if i heAr
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by xenten: 4:59am On Dec 01, 2014
Les:
no one is above mistakes but op made no mistakes, she carried out an act of wickedness. Wicked ppl everywhere but that's not my problem, my problem with the op is her senselessness and her untactical approach to critical matters of emotional turbulence and she should face the consequences. Well, if u pray for my nude to leak, same way i pray for ur pocket, bank account and all ur source of ur meagre income to leak for us all to pick and do awoof!!!
Na that awoof go make your boobies and bombay leak for all of us to see.Amen
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by LadyX(f): 7:04am On Dec 01, 2014
You're wicked o! cheesy One man's meat is another man's poison.

wordbank:
Ur bf never upload am for net?
Which kain delay b dis na Mtchew angry
In case e show, abeg post d link grin
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Les:
xenten:
Na that awoof go make your boobies and bombay leak for all of us to see.Amen
i said no
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 01, 2014
xenten:
Na that awoof go make your boobies and bombay leak for all of us to see.Amen
Les:
i said no one is above mistakes, never knew i made a great mistake quoting you and giving you the grace to mastob8 urself to stupendous stupidit. Go, you perverted lil brat!
I love d both of u! i go just dey laugh everyday, if i marry 2 of una put for house cheesy grin
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by leofab(f): 9:01am On Dec 01, 2014
theplanmaker:
When you hurt some so much, it's only fair they take a bite from you too. He ll just blackmail u 4 more sex, being d biitch u r, I'm sure u won't av a problem wit dat
guy man up and delete the pictures and videos ; this life Kä a competitive world; everyone requires the best; you are doing your job well: she wouldn't have cheated on you....
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by leofab(f): 9:04am On Dec 01, 2014
Op; arrange boys go carry the boy; make dem naked am and film am too; if he releases yours; you release his....
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by xenten: 9:16am On Dec 01, 2014
Les:
i said no one is above mistakes, never knew i made a great mistake quoting you and giving you the grace to mastob8 urself to stupendous stupidit. Go, you perverted lil brat!
dear Les(bian)? pls. be civil with your choice of vocab.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Les:
xenten:
dear Les(bian)? pls. be civil with your choice of vocab.
so
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by DICKtator:
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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by tpia2005: 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2014
Peaceemerald:
I dated my ex for about 2 years, somewhere along the line i started cheating on him. It's not like i didn't love him then, i just don't know what came over me. Somehow he found out when he saw a conversation between me and the guy i was cheating with. I begged him, he forgave me. It kinda happened again, and the guilt was too much to bear, so i broke up with him despite his pleas cos i felt he deserved better. He invited me over, and begged me to have sex with him one last time,. I didn't know he recorded the whole thing. He later showed me the video, and some nude pictures of me on his bed. He didn't say why he did it, or what he was going to do with the pictures and videos. But I'm terrified, i can't sleep at night knowing that a guy that now hates me that much has my nude pictures and a sex video. Please i need help, what do i do? What if he starts to blackmail me? I have begged and begged, he refused to delete them. i know i am a bad person, and i regret everything i did please forgive me, i know you are on nairaland plssss
the person is on nairaland?
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2014
If u no one be civil be solder, be police or naval because them dey follow u talk u dey do like say u feel fight boko-haram.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by DaBullIT(m): 5:15am On Dec 30, 2014
SeverusSnape:
Your first post, I see you registered just to get solutions to your problem.

Report to the police, simple!...Let them confiscate all the footages. You can't do it on your own.
On what grounds should she inform the police ? If I were the guy , I would have a backup on Google cloud just in case some pretend armed robbers or police try to steal / confiscate my electronics

That being said , while I do not like what the guy did , the lady didn't exactly behave in a rightful manner .


Advise , pack your load and move in with the guy while you covertly search for your movie

If he hasn't uploaded it to the worldwide web already , then he's a caring forgiving and kind guy , maybe he'll change his mind . Never done it , but if I love you , care about you and trust you only for you to betray me like this ? I'll even get paid for the videos as little as $2000 as much as $20000
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 5:43am On Dec 30, 2014
taryour:
@ op. Honestly I don't want to believe this your story is for real, but if its real then you are not smart at all. Hold on a minute,how old are you? Where are your parents? Do you have elder sisters,brothers,uncles and aunties? Cause really if you were to be a relative of mine I would give a very dirty hot slap first for not being wise.

How long are you going to beg forhuh Is he your godhuh Is he married to you or obligated to you in any wayhuh

YES you dint wrong by cheating on in while you where dating which is VERY VERY WRONG,you apologised to him and he forgave you. You said yourself that he deserved a better person than you are which means you totally know your flaws,so you left it cause your conscience wouldn't let you rest.

Now isn't it better you left than stay and he being a second fiddlehuh You going back to him to have s3x with him makes you even less smarter than I thought.

Now the deed is done and he has your nUde pictures and a video of you having s3x. Wake up girl and take the bull by the horn. What the hell is all that? That guy must be so stup1d and a weakling, he is a big F00L.

Get up girl and regain your dignity!!! That is to personal,he has no right whatsoever on this earth to have such in his hands no matter what you have done wrong either you are married to him or not.

Stop begging him abeg, you making him feel what he did is right. Here is what to do.

Bear the shame and report the incidence to your parents, go with soldiers to his parents house and give then strict warning,if possible HE or his PARENTS to should write an understatement, For no reason whatsoever should your nude pictures and videos bee seen anywhere, not only on social media but also any other phone except his. If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.

Not just that alone o, if anything as liitle as an insect bite comes your way as vengance from his side,either he double crosses you or send friends or touts to hit you then he is in a deep sh11t.

You need to be very serious about this o, this souldnt be a treat but a strict warning cause this can tarnish your future and your image. GO with soldiers. Nothing should happen to you, not even a mosquito bite.

Quit the begging abeg, you cheated on him so!! He isn't your hubby yet oo,and do you know what he has also donehuh

WTH that guy must be so silly in his brain and you are so DuMb to have go meet him to have sEx again after breaking up.

Arrant nonsense.
blah blah blah... If na you dey her shoes, you go humble... BY FORCE stop the rubbis "COMMANDOISM".

Didn't you that she cheated TWICE?
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by tpia1982: 5:48am On Dec 30, 2014
If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.
seriously.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by moneytalks86(m): 8:06am On Dec 30, 2014
@op ntooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrr tongue
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Moz22: 9:34am On Dec 30, 2014
OohMpa:
[color=#808000]How does we belief without ploof? angry


Pinksures of ex and the other boy or adonbilivit
Pinksures of the conversing with the other boy or adonbilivit
Pinksures of him on knees begged for sex or adonbilivit
Pinksures of him shows you the video or awilneverbilivit
Pinksures of you in bed tlying to sreep and no come or adonbilivit
Pinksures of the Pinksures and videos of video of the kpansh or adonbilivit
and finally.....
Pinksures of you typing this by 11:25pm or we won't bilivit.


Reply ASAP angry[/color]
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Moz22: 10:03am On Dec 30, 2014
and where will u get the money to pay backhuh possibly sleep with another guyhuh? U are so ungrateful, u could still cheat on someone who did all these for u.
Peaceemerald:
He was helping me out with skool fees and stuff 4 a while after my dad died. i can pay him back d money if dats d issue
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by solodox(m): 9:49pm On Jul 15, 2015
Diffdeef:
Nonsense! What your ex did was wrong!
recording the whole sex scene??
Infact,I personally want to see that video........!!




What nonsense! Guys can be so heartless.
& you wanna see the video!
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by daben1(m): 10:42pm On Jul 15, 2015
Peaceemerald:
I have been begging, i have cried, av knelt down, he just doesn't say anything. It's like he is tormenting me on purpose
mtcheeew, when you were cheating nko?... You b.itches ain't just loyal...



Well, tell him to send the video to me, did you give him B.J?



I'll like to see how you guys did it


Kudos to that guy, he did the right thing.


If i were him, i'll just upload it to youtube


unloyal coquette!
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by cronsberg: 11:34pm On Jul 15, 2015
Op, here is a short term solution to your problem. Though it might a bit expensive but atleast you will get a break to breath for a while.
1. Get a nose surgery to make your nose slimmer and possibly some injections to narrow your face to align with your new nose (it can be done here in naija)
2. Change your hair style by shortining it and maybe change the color too, or leave it long but change the color
3. Start using vaseline on your skin to deliberately darken your skin a little bit

Now the above steps are drastic last resort options to entirely change how you look. And mind you, you got to maintain your new look for a long time in order create a new image of how you look like in peoples minds so that when and if the guy decides to release those damming pics in the future, you can totally deny its you since by then you would look so different. You can take those steps if you are absolutely certain that the release of those images will do more harm to you in the future than good and if you can't live with the fact that those images will be out there.
I hate cheaters to the bone, but the op seems to have gone through a lot of torment to make me feel an ounce of compasion
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by alagba333(m): 10:25am On Aug 03, 2017
since u broke up wit him and he invited u for last sex u ought nt to av gone for it. its unfortunate. informing the police will blow d whole issue cos dey will request for the video and watch it. u know wat dat means... just thread softly wit him
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by doskie(m): 12:25pm On Aug 03, 2017
Peaceemerald:
I have been begging, i have cried, av knelt down, he just doesn't say anything. It's like he is tormenting me on purpose
arrest him suddenly. he will delete it and sign an undertaking that if that video gets to a third party, he will be sued to court. he had no right to record you. by nigeria law, you are not to record a sex act on any camera. thats why cctv cannot be installed in toilets
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by doskie(m): 12:29pm On Aug 03, 2017
blah blah blah... If na you dey her shoes, you go humble... BY FORCE stop the rubbis "COMMANDOISM".

Didn't you that she cheated TWICE?
i tire oh. see the long thing wey the guy post sef
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Lewaluv(f): 12:48pm On Aug 03, 2017
Sleep wit him again. Before u leave delete the pics from phone.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by ghettochild(m): 12:59pm On Aug 03, 2017
all d idiots telling 2go to d police.... dem go ffw u go? and secondly u cant even prove 2d police he has d video on his. my sis u wd only look stupid at d station abi u wont tel dem u cheated on hm n then u had brk up sex n bla bla bla .dnt b surprise seargeant gan go wan Bleep u knwing ur ordeal. better let it b. plus u say hes nt 1 police can arrest. either e b cultist or hm papa na dpo
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