₦airaland Forum

ebosse:
Yes I've heard and SEEN too but when a lady sleeps with a guy not because she wanted to but because he threatened to dump her she needs to see a psychologist to help her work on her self-esteem.. U must have heard the saying "They are many fishes in the river " it actually work both ways. Y will a girl allow herself to be manipulated by a guy when all she needs to do is as little as paste her BB pin on nairaland n watch guys drop over themselves just to say "Hi".there must be a guy somewhere among them with a good intention. Trust me , all guys r not the same.

Heeeeellll Yes!!! Guys r allowed to ask just the way girls r allowed to ask for recharge cards n stuffs.. Its left for the girl to say no just the way I'll tell any girl asking for recharge card n stuff "NO"

Na my right to ask, Na your right to say No <<<< Artiste " Lagbaja" song title "Gra Gra"


This kind of remind me of being young. Driving with dad , always seeing something I like , always begging him to buy it for me , always getting the same answer "No" (99% of the time). Even when I know the reply will most likely be No I never stopped asking and hoping. Its Human Nature!!


Meanwhile, this marriage of a thing don dey cause too much wahala sef oh... I wan marry I wan marry.. U rush in U rush out. Divorce everywhere... Most ladies go as far as turning a blind eye to a violent man, get married to him n expect him to change after marriage. OYO

My advice to both guys n girls alike is "Be yourself, Don't let anybody manipulate you." The more U stand Your ground,love yourself n believe in Yourself the more respect n love He/She develops for U<<< This too is human nature.

And if all the guys in her bbm or nairaland all want s.ex in the relationship nko? what will she do? Look lets be real here cos ure not been real. very few guys will date a lady without s.ex or even date a virgin till marriage. Im sorry o. but i still dnt agree with you o. My own is: You want virgins as a man? then stop asking for s.ex. Simple!! You cannot keep asking different girls for s.ex expecting all to say No. Some will say yes depending on high/low they rate their moral values and it would be st.upid to blame her after sleeping with her. Its f00lishness to do so. If you dnt ask for something you wont get it. Its blatant hypocrisy when you keep sleeping with girls and then you come to nairaland and start preaching. practise what you preach.

EOD.

Sophyrocks:
And if all the guys in her bbm or nairaland all want s.ex in the relationship nko? what will she do? Look lets be real here cos ure not been real. very few guys will date a lady without s.ex or even date a virgin till marriage. Im sorry o. but i still dnt agree with you o. My own is: You want virgins as a man? then stop asking for s.ex. Simple!! You cannot keep asking different girls for s.ex expecting all to say No. Some will say yes depending on high/low they rate their moral values and it would be st.upid to blame her after sleeping with her. Its f00lishness to do so. If you dnt ask for something you wont get it. Its blatant hypocrisy when you keep sleeping with girls and then you come to nairaland and start preaching. practise what you preach.

EOD.

1st of, my point was never about virginity n U know .. The problem I have with this thread was ppl trying to "blame the other man" for their inability to say NO. A word even my 5yr old nephew don't have problem saying.


2ndly, U've Obviously made up your mind about guys being evil. I honestly hope u don't hate guys. For u to talk about being realistic n then saying "and if all the guys want sex nko" seriously?.... I know that not all the girls in a strip joint are whores and that's being real.. Not every1 who goes to church is righteous , that's being real... Not every1 who contest for a position in a community care about his kinsmen, that's being real.... So for u to come here n talk about every guy want sex just shows u belong to the " Every Guy is the same" School of thought.. I can type from now till next year but it wouldn't matter you've made up your mind.. If a wife cheats then the husband must have done something wrong, if a woman castrate her husband then the husband must be cheating, if a wife stabs her husband then the husband must have been maltreating her n she couldn't take it no more.. That's how u think... Well, Good luck with that.


A friend of mine back in school never had sex then ( @least that was what he told me) because according to him he could lead to distraction... N I know of a dude who just turned 30 , who's scared of sex in a relationship because of the "unwanted pregnancy" situation n who's always talking of marriage... If In the mix of all the excitement around me I still find ppl like this then I'm sure anywhere in the world u could get a person with these same traits... like I said earlier , u already have a thing against guys... ManUtd match done start.... Well, have fun



EOD

Jennydoris:
Who are they selling it to?



Those people or the person that they sell it to are they not virgins?


Is virginity meant for only the women?


How many have you bought coke, meat pie and some other stuffs for, just to lure them in your net?





I need answers please......

no or litu importance z atached to men virginity and it is rearly noticeable. Bt women when ur hymen is broken by an unkind stick that breaks into the compound of ur thing their wil b outflow of blood which cn nt b regain again. Den u ar derailed. #insecurityofv**na

Microflux:
no or litu importance z atached to men virginity and it is rearly noticeable. Bt women when ur hymen is broken by an unkind stick that breaks into the compound of ur thing their wil b outflow of blood which cn nt b regain again. Den u ar derailed. #insecurityofv**na

Na u sabi.

Jennydoris:
Na u sabi.

nt only me o! Ur husband wil also sabi. So kip it if u hav nt 'traded' it

Nna men... Seriously u all are beginning to annoy me... Virgin here no Virgin there... Until u guys stop asking for sex nd girls determined to say no.. There will be no Virgin o.. Unless the ones who have padlock their vagina and dick nd thrown the key into the ocean..

Sophyrocks:
You dnt criticise non -virgins so why did u make it a gender thing? You may have a permissive view on things and think everyone should act anyhow they like not minding if others are afffected but not everyone is like you. The Op is condemning the ladies and the person you quoted is saying it takes two to tango which is absolutely true so you clearly do not understand the person you quoted. That was why i expatiated on what she said. Boko haram will continue to be criticised as long as what they are doing is wrong. You will continue to criticise cheating because its wrong. Therefore we cannot live with them simply because they are the reality. So lets be frank with ourselves; ladies dnt get disvirgned by ghosts.

Ur sense to mussshhhh. Mwaah for u. Lol
You can c ow our leaders of tmao reason. Responsibility shld b for ladies alone! N guyz can b irresponsible...with dogs or goats I guess. Nansense