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Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by herald9: 10:37am On Dec 31, 2014

SkinnyDude:
dj khaled ft jay z, meek mill, rick ross and french motana- "they dont love you no more"

I said good hip hop music tongue

Since Jayz is there... izzorait... others are commercial wackos..

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Ladybluecash(f): 10:39am On Dec 31, 2014

No5 soo on point.... Am glad my finance possess 90% he is a bigboy *dancin woju by kissdaniel*

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by adedayourt(m): 10:40am On Dec 31, 2014

So av been a Big boy all des while...

No wonder chicks dey crush on me grin

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by fireforfire: 10:42am On Dec 31, 2014

henryobinna:
how did you cocome about these 'qualities'

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Equiano: 10:52am On Dec 31, 2014

tosyne2much:
8. He humbles himself & does not make other people feel less of themselves

Some self acclaimed BIG BOYS can be so silly. Probably because they were privileged to get a degree from a reputable university, they keep raising shoulders making every other person look like they have a slim chance of making it in life. A BIG BOY understands the principles of life and he knows fully well that life sometimes favours the illiterates ever more than the educated 'cos he understands the dynamism of life, therefore he does not pride himself

9. His Finances does not becloud his right sense of reasoning

Some dudes stop holding conversation with their neighbours or friends the moment they climb onto the ladder of success. They find it difficult to mingle with other people because of ego boasting. A BIG BOY is well behaved and does not allow his success becloud his right sense of reasoning

10. He doesn't belittle other people's entity

A BIG BOY appreciates the good work of others rather than those who derive pleasure in bad-mouthing it. Some. Self acclaimed working class dudes are quick to condemned and rubbish my threads (e.g Pls get a job) yet this same people will copy my thread and paste it on their forum (plagiarism). A BIG BOY praises and encourages you even if you are not so doing well

10 He humbly corrects people's mistakes

A BIG BOY does not do I TOO KNOW Therefore, when a BIG BOY reads a post and finds grammatical blunders in it, he sieves the blunders and picks the sense out of it or humbly corrects the mistakes where correction needs to be made, rather than those who will outrightly mock you and make fun out of it

you are not only a BIG BOYn you are the BOSS! RESPECT!!!

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Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Ike1(m): 10:53am On Dec 31, 2014

nice point though....

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 10:58am On Dec 31, 2014

adedayourt:
So av been a Big boy all des while...

No wonder chicks dey crush on me

This got me cracking! lol

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by ewizard1: 10:58am On Dec 31, 2014

kibo:
- I cant seem to figure out your point. Maybe you should clarify further. When i said a woman is a helper, i didn't mean the man should totally depend on the woman ( of cos that would be silly), i meant a woman should play the role of assisting her man, rather than being a liability. Things should be done with moderation, rather than demanding everything for things as minute as transport fare cconsistently.

- Mind you, lets not stray away from the point here, OP referred to "girlfriends" not "wives". There is a whole lot of difference there. They are different stages and different levels of commitments involved. I made my assertions on the basis that the lady is a "girlfriend" and not a "wife".

Yes.. heres my point... Remember you said... "- I am glad you said POTENTIAL WIFE. A potential wife is not a liability but a helper. i dont think any potential wife or wife material should always demand for transport fare and co."
You taking some of her resposibility doesnt make her a Liability... It only portrays you being a good BF that would make a RESPONSIBLE Husband/Father!

And, by the word Girlfriends... not just FEMALE FRIENDS! I mean Girlfriends we are in a Relationship with. They are our WIFE to be. Thats the reason why we date. To see if they're worth taken home, if they would be a good WIFE. At least, at a stage, you both should have decided on the compatibility. Henceforth, i dont think you should think twice on taking Responsibilities for such woman. You dont have to wait till she becomes a wife. Let her folks be sure, that their Daughter has found a caring person. You would be honoured when you visit them.

Hope you get my point now sir?

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by adedayourt(m): 11:05am On Dec 31, 2014

emusmith:
This got me cracking! lol

Dats bcus u meetin a certified Big boi cool

Wish ya a graceful 2015

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by tosyne2much(m): 11:05am On Dec 31, 2014

Equiano:
you are not only a BIG BOYn you are the BOSS! RESPECT!!!

Thnks boss grin

I feel flattered [/i]

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 31, 2014

adedayourt:
Dats bcus u meetin a certified Big boi

Wish ya a graceful 2015

Same to you, bro!

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 31, 2014

herald9:
hehehe
Olamide and hip hop are two parallel lines...

This is not poetry

Lol.
Poetry is not the only thing that can be enjoyed in life.
Music and women work too for me tongue

Ayamlaykorn

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:09am On Dec 31, 2014

hlp us 2 tel dm o,expecially dah apologising part,i 8 a guy proving he's too big 2 apologise,,i av sum1 lyk dat,,try 2 undastnd me nt dah m feeling lyk a princess nd wnt im 2 do d apologising,buh i just lyk simplicity nd dah wil makes me respct u d more! shikenah.

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by pressplay55: 11:11am On Dec 31, 2014

okzcorp:
I liked this post and later unliked when I read how you banged.... because of your iphone. You are sure the iphone seduced them? Do you think you are a BIG BOY then?

yeap, he nailed it, not until he mentioned his iphone shit! Guy, must you show up?

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by killjoy(m): 11:27am On Dec 31, 2014

emusmith:
You see...

Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.

What's the use?

Many call themselves BIG BOYS according to their own standards but things have changed.

What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big Boy?

1. He doesn't show off before ladies.

Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like "junkies", No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that's why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and start playing compulsory Candy Crush and Temple Run Oz that you haven't played for a long time.
There is God ooo!

2. He doesn't "pursue" Ladies on the streets.

To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they're still disturbing the girl's life with "oh baby, wait na, I have something to tell you" lol...You wan preach the Word of God?
I'm not saying you can't stop a girl NICELY to share your affection.
Make sure you're just not pursuing her. Be mild in your "desperation"/ pursuit.

3. He doesn't do things to attract unnecessary attention.

I believe, only kid-boys do this. They shout and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open "CONTROVERSIAL" threads, so to speak, just to attract "CHEAP" attention. NO! That's not the way!
A big boy is himself but his best self.
He strives hard to be better.
In NL, for example, if you don't always make FP, find out the skills and don't try to think that being "Controversial" will get you FP. That's a MIRAGE!
(If you don't make FP, keep trying, don't give up, lol)

4. He has his own money

It may not be in millions yet but at least he has a stable influx of income. This ish led tallesty 1 to open a thread regarding why BROKE GUYS SHOULD NOT DATE!
I buy his reasons.
No Big boy lives on friends or others!
He may ask but he doesn't depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them airtime. #I Laff in Japanese #

5. He is Financially responsible for the upkeep of his girl.

If you're "privileged" to have a girl who loves you, buying her things will just be natural.
Small boys are the reasons we'll be seeing threads like "DO I GIVE MY GIRLFRIEND TRANSPORT FARE EACH TIME SHE COMES?"
You may bash me but I don't care! If she is not just a sexxx doll to you but a potential wife, transport fare isn't a topic!
hmmmm...

6. He doesn't ALWAYS involve in argument with his girl.

Your lady might wrong you and still expect an apology. Stupid right?
A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels stupid after that!
She'll find a way to apologize...

Some will be involving in e-war with girls on NL. If I find myself arguing with her, I quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After that, I noticed all of them saying same things like: " I'm more sorry, take a hug" etc.
Big Boys Apologize.
Small Boys Don't Apologize.

7. He tries hard to fulfil his promise.

If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you'll make it up to her and really do make it up.
It says a lot about your personality.

Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is.
It's not about "Low waist" and Having Seven Girlfriends oo...
It's about being responsible to One girl.
As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.

Don't be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee...No!

Aim higher.
Subscribe to TEAM BIG BOYS TODAY FOR FREE, LOL!

See the Secretary, Tosyne2much to put down your moniker!

Good Evening! lol

In ur analysis of a "big boy" u kept painting a scenerio of d "big boy" and a "girl". Y must a guys spot lyt always fall on a strange girl. U never mentioned extending his "big boyism" to his family.... Hmmmmmm. Pay for ur gals bill, apologize to ur gal, crap crap girl, bullshit bullshit girl. Haba! Can't u be a big boy by ensuring ur family lacks nothing? Must it always have to be about a fvckin strange girl? God! Leme stop here before nl'ers start calling me killjoy

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Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Sunnex4life(m): 11:29am On Dec 31, 2014

True talk

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by herald9: 11:34am On Dec 31, 2014

laykorn:
Lol.
Poetry is not the only thing that can be enjoyed in life.
Music and women work too for me
Ayamlaykorn

Music and women?

weird combination... Mine is music and more music...

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 31, 2014

Big boy is the same thing as fat boy. The top 7 qualities are:

1) Laziness. Due to the fat nature he is not strong enough to be active physically like the slim boy or small boy.

2) Smell bad. In many cases he can't have his bath for being fat and sweats a lot.

3) Greedy. He is often greedy and want to eat all the food available to keep his body mass.

4) Intimidating. Always looking old than his age and would want to oppress small ones in his class. He usually takes the back seat.

5) Health problems. The huge body mass put pressure on organs in his body leading to different health complications.

6) Walk like Tortoise. Having heavy weight on his trunk and both thighs touching when walking obstruct his rapid movement.

7) Occupy more space. He takes more space when he seats on a chair at home, on the metro train, bus and cab. His bed has to be oversized to fit his body mass.

Those are big boy problems for you.

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by zabilon(m): 11:36am On Dec 31, 2014

mesoade:
Like,if you're following me

if that's you, then I'll rather quit Liverpool and walk alone

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 31, 2014

killjoy:
In ur analysis of a "big boy" u kept painting a scenerio of d "big boy" and a "girl". Y must a guys spot lyt always fall on a strange girl. U never mentioned extending his "big boyism" to his family.... Hmmmmmm. Pay for ur gals bill, apologize to ur gal, crap crap girl, bullshit bullshit girl. Haba! Can't u be a big boy by ensuring ur family lacks nothing? Must it always have to be about a fvckin strange girl? God! Leme stop here before nl'ers start calling me killjoy

I did that because we are in sexuality section and not in family section.

I know what I'm doing. #smiles#

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by kibo: 11:48am On Dec 31, 2014

ewizard1:
Yes.. heres my point... Remember you said... "- I am glad you said POTENTIAL WIFE. A potential wife is not a liability but a helper. i dont think any potential wife or wife material should always demand for transport fare and co."
You taking some of her resposibility doesnt make her a Liability... It only portrays you being a good BF that would make a RESPONSIBLE Husband/Father!

And, by the word Girlfriends... not just FEMALE FRIENDS! I mean Girlfriends we are in a Relationship with. They are our WIFE to be. Thats the reason why we date. To see if they're worth taken home, if they would be a good WIFE. At least, at a stage, you both should have decided on the compatibility.

O Yes, i do get your point, but i think there is clearly a misunderstanding of what i said. Refer to the bolded below containing my comments and on my previous post and a reply to your comments.

POINT 1

You said:

You taking some of her responsibility doesnt make her a Liability... It only portrays you being a good BF that would make a RESPONSIBLE Husband/Father!

I said in my previous post:

A potential wife is not a liability but a helper. i dont think any potential wife or wife material should always demand for transport fare and co. on every visit. I mean, the guys that complain about these issues are folks who have EXPERIENCED RAMPANT DEMANDS from their "potential wives"

I explained that rampant demands is not good especially when the motive behind those demands are not genuine. You are saying some of her responsibilities, i am saying rampant demands from her. There is a difference.

There is nothing wrong in helping out with funds as long as the reasoning is genuine. Moreover buying her I-Phone 6 doesnt make you a potential husband. You can buy here everything in the world and turn her into a punching bag at home.

POINT 2

You said:
Henceforth, i dont think you should think twice on taking Responsibilities for such woman. You dont have to wait till she becomes a wife.

I said in my previous post:

The keyword here is "MOTIVE" and not money. A guy can always assist a girlfriend with anything as long as the motive is right.

I never said that it is wrong to take responsibilities in a relationship. I said the reason why men complain is because of the motive behind asking for money. So dont get me wrong.

POINT 3

Let her folks be sure, that their Daughter has found a caring person. You would be honoured when you visit them.

Taking care of your wife to be is not a bad thing. But mind you, you are not taking care of her because you want her folks to approve of it, you are taking care of her becasue you want to build a future with her. Marriage is not a family affair, you are not marrying her folks, it is between two people.

PEACE !!!

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 31, 2014

sophieabou:
hlp us 2 tel dm o,expecially dah apologising part,i 8 a guy proving he's too big 2 apologise,,i av sum1 lyk dat,,try 2 undastnd me nt dah m feeling lyk a princess nd wnt im 2 do d apologising,buh i just lyk simplicity nd dah wil makes me respct u d more! shikenah.

I will dearie.

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:51am On Dec 31, 2014

Sunnex4life:
True talk

LOLLEST! Boys nor get joy at all!

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 11:56am On Dec 31, 2014

emusmith:
You see...

Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.

What's the use?

Many call themselves BIG BOYS according to their own standards but things have changed.

What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big Boy?

1. He doesn't show off before ladies.

Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like "junkies", No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that's why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and start playing compulsory Candy Crush and Temple Run Oz that you haven't played for a long time.
There is God ooo!

2. He doesn't "pursue" Ladies on the streets.

To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they're still disturbing the girl's life with "oh baby, wait na, I have something to tell you" lol...You wan preach the Word of God?
I'm not saying you can't stop a girl NICELY to share your affection.
Make sure you're just not pursuing her. Be mild in your "desperation"/ pursuit.

3. He doesn't do things to attract unnecessary attention.

I believe, only kid-boys do this. They shout and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open "CONTROVERSIAL" threads, so to speak, just to attract "CHEAP" attention. NO! That's not the way!
A big boy is himself but his best self.
He strives hard to be better.
In NL, for example, if you don't always make FP, find out the skills and don't try to think that being "Controversial" will get you FP. That's a MIRAGE!
(If you don't make FP, keep trying, don't give up, lol)

4. He has his own money

It may not be in millions yet but at least he has a stable influx of income. This ish led tallesty 1 to open a thread regarding why BROKE GUYS SHOULD NOT DATE!
I buy his reasons.
No Big boy lives on friends or others!
He may ask but he doesn't depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them airtime. #I Laff in Japanese #

5. He is Financially responsible for the upkeep of his girl.

If you're "privileged" to have a girl who loves you, buying her things will just be natural.
Small boys are the reasons we'll be seeing threads like "DO I GIVE MY GIRLFRIEND TRANSPORT FARE EACH TIME SHE COMES?"
You may bash me but I don't care! If she is not just a sexxx doll to you but a potential wife, transport fare isn't a topic!
hmmmm...

6. He doesn't ALWAYS involve in argument with his girl.

Your lady might wrong you and still expect an apology. Stupid right?
A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels stupid after that!
She'll find a way to apologize...

Some will be involving in e-war with girls on NL. If I find myself arguing with her, I quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After that, I noticed all of them saying same things like: " I'm more sorry, take a hug" etc.
Big Boys Apologize.
Small Boys Don't Apologize.

7. He tries hard to fulfil his promise.

If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you'll make it up to her and really do make it up.
It says a lot about your personality.

Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is.
It's not about "Low waist" and Having Seven Girlfriends oo...
It's about being responsible to One girl.
As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.

Don't be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee...No!

Aim higher.
Subscribe to TEAM BIG BOYS TODAY FOR FREE, LOL!

See the Secretary, Tosyne2much to put down your moniker!

Good Evening! lol

Why taking care of girl friend is a criteria for big boy in Nigeria? Girls should look for job and stop looking for big boy maga.
In my opinion, Big Boy is he that can take care of his parents, siblings and can afford to take care of his personal bills.

The big foolzs pay their girl friend school fee + bills but his siblings r riding okada and doing dirty jobs to survive. His Parents live in a hot in the village.

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by phiszo(m): 12:07pm On Dec 31, 2014

Monicasque:
Nice one op. Most ladies do love a humble somebody who does nt show off, and dnt even need the person to take care of dem financialy actualy, coz dey r nt peralised. Got 2 feet and 2 hands, dnt need no nigga to take care of me, bt if he insists, den y nt ;

story for the gods

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Rapzino: 12:20pm On Dec 31, 2014

AfricanApple:
rapzino!!!
how is you

i'm fine and you?

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by fejikudz(m): 12:31pm On Dec 31, 2014

BARMAN

give the op 1bottle of Orijin

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by mechanics(m): 12:40pm On Dec 31, 2014

Ilovenigeria:
I am a big girl.

reali?

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 31, 2014

mechanics:
reali?

.
Seconded!

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Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 31, 2014

fejikudz:
BARMAN

give the op 1bottle of Orijin

I'm sorry I don't alcoholic drinks... wink

Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by synoble(m): 1:23pm On Dec 31, 2014

sophieabou:
hlp us 2 tel dm o,expecially dah apologising part,i 8 a guy proving he's too big 2 apologise,,i av sum1 lyk dat,,try 2 undastnd me nt dah m feeling lyk a princess nd wnt im 2 do d apologising,buh i just lyk simplicity nd dah wil makes me respct u d more! shikenah.

assuming say u even fyn.....u must be UGLI...
U b like tomatoes.....make guy dey apologise giv u
..i no blame u na ur mouth i blame and ur pman wey buy fone giv u.

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Re: 7 TOP Qualities Of A BIG Boy! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 31, 2014

adedayourt:
So av been a Big boy all des while...

No wonder chicks dey crush on me

As in enh...

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