iamsolomon:
op...lemme tell u my mind.....u don Bleep up.....and d worst part is dat u came to nairaland to announce it, now all dese babes dey look u like better person...
your friend called u...cos he thinks u'd understand... so as a fellow guy-man...why did u turn him down?

clevvermind:
and what if his real girlfriend discovers that the cheating took place in my house? nothing can be hidden for long u know.

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key. I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well funished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later. Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

Sweetmarriage:




Helo. Your question should be examined by married people also. I want to post your question to our facebook community page where you'll get more responses. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key. I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well funished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later. Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

clevvermind:
ok. I was thinking i did the wrong thing.

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

acidtalk:
OP, you did absolutely nothing wrong. DO NOT GO AND APOLOGIZE TO HIM.

Friendship is not all about getting a yes to all your request. It is being able to refuse to support when your friend is wrong but rather point it to them.


Your house is not a brothel so let him go if he no longer wants to associate with you.


such guys will rather go and drink beer worth N20,000 with the "boys" rather than giving you same amount to complete your rent if you ever find yourself needing assistance from him.

sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni?

Nutase:
summary, chicks go say u do well and guys go say u f up.
Next topic.

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

MzQueen: