1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with un serious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant s*x, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more unattractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

culled from Information Nigeria.

https://zebira./9-reasons-most-nigerian-women-dont-get-married/

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

kallmemrB:
keep telling urself that until u are Rita Dominic's age by then ur eyes go clear

brito:





Lolzz, it's better to be single than been stuck in marriage with a man that refuses to grow up.

kallmemrB:
that's why u ladies are advised to go for other values in man than just money...

kevinberry:
See them ladies them
Bashing the op
Truth is always bitter

Una Go old like my grandma
No man will marry you
Especially those looking for rich men
Already made wealth
All in the name of beauty
Men will preefer to go for the ugly ones with brains and Good character





#PEACE

NickiRoman:
Many African Ladies Indeed,How many ladies have you met for you to come up with this conclusion?You attract what you are.

The moment people realise Nairaland is absolutely different from the real world life would much easier. How many African countries have you been to? People who bash women on Nairaland don't have the balls to do so in real life,If you hate women that much why not try Men.

Assumptions is the mother of all F*ck Ups.By the way many Beautiful African Ladies are getting married every Saturday.

brito:





Why? will they eat sand in the marriage? I was telling myself this lie but now I've realized I was wrong. Marry the rich guy if he comes to u

NickiRoman:
Many African Ladies Indeed,How many ladies have you met for you to come up with this conclusion?You attract what you are.

The moment people realise Nairaland is absolutely different from the real world life would much easier. How many African countries have you been to? People who bash women on Nairaland don't have the balls to do so in real life,If you hate women that much why not try Men.

Assumptions is the mother of all F*ck Ups. By the way many Beautiful African Ladies are getting married every Saturday.

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

kallmemrB:

Like ur type..ur honest and straightforward...theres nothing wrong in marrying a rich guy if u know u can cope with the consequences....at the end of it all its a personal choice and decision...wish u the best

brito:






I am speaking from experience

ABEngine:


Sorry, kindly remain single. You aren't ready if you can't mould your desired man from the unrefined baby he is.

kevinberry:
sorry did I quote you..
I was only speaking my mind





#PEACE

brito:





oh pls! you don't have to be sorry. ok I'm sorry too

NickiRoman:
Many African Ladies Indeed,How many ladies have you met for you to come up with this conclusion?You attract what you are.

The moment people realise Nairaland is absolutely different from the real world life would much easier. How many African countries have you been to? People who bash women on Nairaland don't have the balls to do so in real life,If you hate women that much why not try Men.

Assumptions is the mother of all F*ck Ups.

softysparky:
Rubbish thread.

The issue of single ladies will end if it's possible for ladies to just walk up and propose to any man they like just the way men do, but our society and nature did not make it that way.
You guys think it's easy to sit and wait for that guy you feel you can spend the rest of your life with? It's easier for a man to marry whenever and whoever he likes but its not same for a woman.


Imagine paying a "groom price"
There won't be any single ladies anymore

Sparksfly:
The sooner you drop this mentality, the better.
Marriage isn't the ultimate achievement for Us.

Enegod:
But if you're a '100yards' wife material, you won't wait for long