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Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by AnnieBeyonce(f): 11:36pm On Feb 01, 2015
akpanikpe:

pack well abeg undecided
clear off den, cuz d space is not enuf for me to pack my cars well.. tongue tongue
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by guyX(m): 11:38pm On Feb 01, 2015
Coffee is better

Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by illicit(m): 11:40pm On Feb 01, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
clear off den, cuz d space is not enuf for me to pack my cars well.. tongue tongue
did u say u r a guy?
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Kayceenaz(m): 11:41pm On Feb 01, 2015
Annie, I understand how you feel. It is heart-breaking that our society has deteriorated so much to the extent that virtue is wrongly perceived as vice and vice-versa.
My dear, YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK. Being a virgin is something to be proud of. This fact is validated by God's choice of Mary, a virgin, among many women to give birth to the saviour of the world--our Lord Jesus Christ. It shows how highly God regards a virgin. Don't mind those your friends who call you all sort of names and make jest of you; the bible says in Matthew 5:10 that we should rejoice in such situations. They think you a fool, but you're really wise. Hold on and stand for God. Do not defile yourself. My sister, "Do not envy sinners, but always continue to fear the Lord. You will be rewarded for this; your hope will not be disappointed'' (Proverbs 23:17-18).

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Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Candybob(m): 11:56pm On Feb 01, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
wat do i look like then?

Just a cute babe cheesy
but virginity is not in the face oh, its inbetween the leg!
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by AnnieBeyonce(f): 11:58pm On Feb 01, 2015
illicit:

did u say u r a guy?
no..am not a guy...
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by illicit(m): 12:04am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
no..am not a guy...
is dat ur real pix on ur profile?
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Stallione(m): 12:08am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Hahaha..NairaLand is really a place to ease my school/exam stress....i tink am lovin it hia..hehe wink
ua not a virgin jor,see how the two ears for ur waist dey like two side mirrows of 504 peugoat car undecided undecided
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:09am On Feb 02, 2015
Mubbyleey:
Ashamed Sweet heart pls, DonT bE... EveRy Sane Man wanTs aN uNtoucheD Lady. I urGe You Not tO dO sUmtn U're GonnA rEgrEt LatEr.

So me dat has zero value for virginity I no be sane man abi?
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by martinsblinks(m): 12:11am On Feb 02, 2015
Gone are those days virginity are seen as sacred..... Dear if u are ashamed, then do the needful :DGone are those days virginity are seen as sacred..... Dear if u are ashamed, then do the needful
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:12am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Its kinda annoying wen u hear oda gals talk about dia first time.....

Baby if u wanna marry a virgin which wd be like in 10yrs time, oh pls do.

But if u wanna start fuccking, oh pls do. Just make sure its sth u rily wanna do and not becos all ur friends are doing it or becos som1 asked u to. U nid to have a mind of ur own.

Lastly, if ur virginity is all u have to offer a guy, am afraid u rily have nothing to offer.

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Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by clovislouis(m): 12:17am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Its kinda annoying wen u hear oda gals talk about dia first time.....
scam alert
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by olafunmbi(m): 12:17am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Its kinda annoying wen u hear oda gals talk about dia first time.....
Its a shame that in this day and age people are ashamed of whats right, buh more comfortable with wrong.
our world suffers greatly today not bcoz of the dominance of bad people buh bcoz of the silence of good people.
Being a VIRGIN is 100% right, and also sth to be proud of. In maintenance of ur virginity u av showed ten times more restraint and self control than the average youth. That makes u beta nd thats nothin to be ashamed of.
hang tight, happy and are those that keep God's law.
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:17am On Feb 02, 2015
wildikeman:
are u a Virgin?

Question for the gods!! grin cheesy tongue
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:20am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
aint seeking for ur own attention ok? Cuz i'm not gana pay u.

Be quiet there and stop seeking cheap attention. We have noticed you. Now, can we see front angry
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Mubbyleey(m): 12:22am On Feb 02, 2015
obongproff:


So me dat has zero value for virginity I no be sane man abi?
sHe mIGht Not Be vIrGin buh I MeAn UnToucHeD... (sHe MiGht'Ve LosT iT ThRouGh OthEr ThInGs BuH Nt THrouGH A Man) oR DoN't You Want aN uNtouChEd lAdy To MarrY
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 02, 2015
craziebone:


can't you see she doesn't like it being virgin or whatever you call it? If you value hymen, then that's ok! You cannot force anyone to value it. Whatever happens to choice?

Wat is dis one saying?? undecided, who says virginity is all abt the hymen alone....virginity is sexual purity all round out, being sexually pure, u don't indulge in any form of sexually flirthiness, lyk masturabation, mouth gigs, same sex sex and all odas and refrain frm frm penetration in other to attempt deceit, u cn deceive man but not urself or God, so am actually telling to keep herself pure for marital honour "marriage is honourable bed undefied"I didn't mention hymen dude okkk??....

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Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by soldierdollar(m): 12:28am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
tok..thank you
smiley
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:32am On Feb 02, 2015
Mubbyleey:
sHe mIGht Not Be vIrGin buh I MeAn UnToucHeD... (sHe MiGht'Ve LosT iT ThRouGh OthEr ThInGs BuH Nt THrouGH A Man) oR DoN't You Want aN uNtouChEd lAdy To MarrY

No sir! I dont want to marry a virgin cos in my dictionary d word 'virgin' and d words 'reasonable, teachable, valuable and reliable' are not synonyms. No sir! I cannot marry a woman simply becos she is a virgin.

Marrying a virgin is no guarantee u wd have a happy marriage. Bros, go and ask marriage counsellors and day will tell u dat being a virgin is not a requisite for a successful marriage.

Secondly, I wd like to have an experienced woman as wife. Who has time to day teach babe abc for bed. When u want enta, she go say 'Ai! Its painful! Ta! Abeg come day go ya house! No come dirty my bedsheet for me jare:@

Finally, ppl want different tins in a wife. One man's tozo is anoda man's bonga fish.

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Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:34am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
you know nothing.....
ôya nah! go fyiok yourself gaychild
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Mubbyleey(m): 12:38am On Feb 02, 2015
obongproff:


No sir! I dont want to marry a virgin cos in my dictionary d word 'virgin' and d words 'reasonable, teachable, valuable and reliable' are not synonyms. No sir! I cannot marry a woman simply becos she is a virgin.

Marrying a virgin is no guarantee u wd have a happy marriage. Bros, go and ask marriage counsellors and day will tell u dat being a virgin is not a requisite for a successful marriage.

Secondly, I wd like to have an experienced woman as wife. Who has time to day teach babe abc for bed. When u want enta, she go say 'Ai! Its painful! Ta! Abeg come day go ya house! No come dirty my bedsheet for me jare:@

Finally, ppl want different tins in a wife. One man's tozo is anoda man's bonga fish.
Lol... OK DUde i GeT YoUr PoiNt.
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:52am On Feb 02, 2015
wildikeman:
my dear if you want to lose it why not talk to ur boyfriend. Don't mind what this holier than thou people are saying o. Let ur first time be beautiful o. U r pretty so u must have a good looking and sweet guy. Just chill

Brother no vex, before u tell her to go ahead and hav sex with her bf, do u bother to see her reasons??...she wants to hav sex in order in to feel among, because of peer pressure I mean dats wat every decent lady go through on daily basis in dere life??... most esp in puberty age dey want to force u to be lyk dem because dey re jealous u re different and better off, Dats the motive...and she is falling for that prey. She wanna hav sex because ur friends keep ringing wonderful first time who says it ll b same for her, where a man go to dance and receive money is where another goes to dance and receive a slap,wat suits the goose might not suit the gander, u encourage her to hav sex because of peer pressure now dats not a good advice

Secondly, hw well did should knw sex, she is aware of the advantage and consequences 1% percent pleasure in exchange for an 100% problem!!...protections nko lyk condom? is she aware of the mental effect of first sex if the relatnship doesn't go well with the guy who disvirgin her, wat do u think ll happen to her emotionally, mentally? the breaks down frm break up involving sex!!

The spiritual effect nko?? Ofcos u don't need a philosopher to tell u that sex is more spiritual dan physical ofcos u knw sex is a covenant!! A secondary covenant dat deals with the inside blood and sweat (not to talk of the one involve direct blood) u get spiritually bound to a guy u don't knw his foundational or spiritual set up??

Thridly, How prepare is she for sex?? Did u ask?? Wat if she is not really prepared, she jst want to please friends and feel among, and out of peer pressure she jst hook up wit the wrong guy who give her the wrong result...

Lastly, how old is she is it wise to advice a 15year of gal to indulge in sex abroad it's 16, Nigeria is 18

So wat do u advice.... undecided undecided
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:54am On Feb 02, 2015
obongproff:


No sir! I dont want to marry a virgin cos in my dictionary d word 'virgin' and d words 'reasonable, teachable, valuable and reliable' are not synonyms. No sir! I cannot marry a woman simply becos she is a virgin.

Marrying a virgin is no guarantee u wd have a happy marriage. Bros, go and ask marriage counsellors and day will tell u dat being a virgin is not a requisite for a successful marriage.

Secondly, I wd like to have an experienced woman as wife. Who has time to day teach babe abc for bed. When u want enta, she go say 'Ai! Its painful! Ta! Abeg come day go ya house! No come dirty my bedsheet for me jare:@

Finally, ppl want different tins in a wife. One man's tozo is anoda man's bonga fish.

Calabar meeeeennn.....wat was I expecting undecided undecided
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by OGeeKush(m): 12:56am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Its kinda annoying wen u hear oda gals talk about dia first time.....

Smh! God gave you Lamborghini but ur rejecting it for Peugeot 504.. *in Kendrick Lamar's voice* Heaven help you...
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 12:58am On Feb 02, 2015
obongproff:


So me dat has zero value for virginity I no be sane man abi?

Exactly u got it right u re not sane grin
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 1:09am On Feb 02, 2015
Mehn....if u re dat gal on that dp??... den u re not worth my time...as everyone is wasting his time on a dead thread angry angry
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by illicit(m): 1:18am On Feb 02, 2015
zaragal:
Mehn....if u re dat gal on that dp??... den u re not worth my time...as everyone is wasting his time on a dead thread angry angry
appearance can be deceptive tho
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Nobody: 1:56am On Feb 02, 2015
illicit:

appearance can be deceptive tho

A virgin??... and all dat picture post??... I don't mean hymen virgin oooo..lyk the other guy was saying....lol...I mean real virgins in d sense...oga na lie jhor
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by illicit(m): 2:14am On Feb 02, 2015
zaragal:


A virgin??... and all dat picture post??... I don't mean hymen virgin oooo..lyk the other guy was saying....lol...I mean real virgins in d sense...oga na lie jhor
hmmmm
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by b0rn2fuck(m): 4:18am On Feb 02, 2015
mobuch:


B0rn2fuck will faint, if given this golden opportunity; send him a pm and thank me lata grin
apart from your madness, your head dey there!
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by mcprince32(m): 7:44am On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Its kinda annoying wen u hear oda gals talk about dia first time.....
If truly u are, there is nothing to be tired of. Be one with the fear of God. Else you are just staying chaste, some even mastu*bate' all other s*x & immoral sins and still claim v. Just be real
Re: Ashamed And Tired Of Being A Virgin... by Abdullateeflawal(m): 8:08am On Feb 02, 2015
If u ar tired and ashamed of been a virgin, then go to hell..

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