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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by IceSplash(f): 9:28pm On Feb 02, 2015
Regiment:

Thumbs up! Way to go girl
grin
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by watchman111: 9:31pm On Feb 02, 2015
VickyRotex:




Thanks... God Bless you both for this... Some people just believe in misquoting/restructuring the scripture to suit them. Well, am glad cos God has said he will not bring down his standards to suit any man...
me self don' tire
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by linusbnn(m): 9:34pm On Feb 02, 2015
drehdinho:


Sir, this is not to convince you to sin. But in my own little knowledge of the bible especially the book of Romans. As a child of God, you need to pray for God's grace, you do not need live everyday on self consciousness. You should live in the spirit and if you do that, every of your actions shall not annoy God. As a Christian you don't need to struggle with sin. What makes you to see an action a sin is because you have not started working in trhe spirit with God. It's not that as a born again Christian that you can sin. But your ability to be sober and ask for forgiveness sincerely afterwards makes you a real born again. Don't act like the hypocrites. If there's a need for you to test-drive your future partner ,do it.
Marriage is a life long thing, don't get yourself into what may make you sad forever. To everyone on earth, God has appointed him/her to a special someone that they will be compatible in all ways...as Christians we need use our discretions sometimes.


Thnx bro, just want to add one point....These girls of today, 95% of dem are no longer virgins, they are considered as a used item,so wen buying used items,be very careful so you dnt cry later..The level of their usage depends of who was there b4 you, and how much he valued and respected that lady.Many guys rough ooooo

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by ehis05(m): 9:36pm On Feb 02, 2015
VickyRotex:


Damaged Padlock... sad that any key can open....


Tank u..u've spoken wisely

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by linusbnn(m): 9:41pm On Feb 02, 2015
IceSplash:
Test driving is a sin.... Keep urself till d d-day


If you are a virgin,then kudos to you...Else, girls of now are used items,so been very watchful in buying 4th hand item is not bad,it's just wisdom to avoid everlasting tears...Who was there b4 me?how did he treated that place?how much did you safe guide it for yur future man?...That we will test b4 union
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 02, 2015
oke soda its been ages since i have come home sha embarassed
Kedam:
its gud to know. Which town?
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by profb: 9:48pm On Feb 02, 2015
THOU SHALL NOT TEST-DRIVE
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by wablex(m): 9:51pm On Feb 02, 2015
xtervaganza:
One thing is 100% certain to me, I'll never marry a lady I haven't had sex with


mmm i see u station wagon
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by VickyRotex(f): 9:55pm On Feb 02, 2015
watchman111:
me self don' tire

Hmmmmm... Just keep up the good Faith
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by VickyRotex(f): 9:55pm On Feb 02, 2015
smiley
ehis05:



Tank u..u've spoken wisely
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Regiment(m): 10:10pm On Feb 02, 2015
repogirl:
All these people saying it is a sin! It is a sin! So all those that test drove before marriage are going to hell? Abegi!!

Ahn ahn, fear don dey catch you?
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Regiment(m): 10:16pm On Feb 02, 2015
nickydof:


Are you a virgin?
My guy, you are not telling God anything. You are only being a human! People should stop making others look bad. How many people marry today without having sex before? Too many hypocrites around!

I am not saying pre-marital sex is good!!!

Sin is sin! You way lie and another person way involve 4 premarital sex na thesame thg
So if I hear you condemn Shekau & his boko boys again ehn!!? So you and them are the same? Or is their sin bigger?
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Olufemiolaolu(m): 10:20pm On Feb 02, 2015
IceSplash:
i hate sacarsm
Hmmmmmm what an irony grin
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Regiment(m): 10:24pm On Feb 02, 2015
Funny comments grin
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by merzybenedict(m): 10:29pm On Feb 02, 2015
zick19:

I won buy car, u talk say make i no test the engine and other parts That's how it is when it comes to relationship choosing a partner also
My guy.. Relationship ain't like that. Have you ever wondered why God makes Faith the currency of heaven .
Where we all got it wrong is that we make choices for ourselves and not God making for us regarding relationships and other spheres of life. Do you think if you wait on God for a good relationship, you still need a test-drive . Or, should I conclude that most of us who test-drive don't really have a deep encounter and absolute trust in God ?. The Bible makes it known that " we walk by faith and not by sight". But here we are today, walking by sight and not by faith.
Conclusion ; If we really wanna grow and experience more of God's goodness, abstain from any sort of sin regarding the flesh. Thank you. Good people, great nation, it all lies with our character !!!

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2015
tiwo31:
This probably needs a new thread of its own.

Women absorb and carry living DNA and cells from every male they have sexual intercouse with

In this study they provide a description of male Mc in the female human brain and specific brain regions. The study was originally trying to determine if women who have been pregnant with a son might be more predisposed to certain neurological diseases since these certain diseases occur more frequently in males.

"Collectively with data showing the presence of male DNA in the cerebrospinal fluid [32], our results indicate that fetal DNA and likely cells can cross the human blood-brain barrier (BBB) and reside in the brain. Changes in BBB permeability occur during pregnancy [33] and may therefore provide a unique opportunity for the establishment of Mc in the brain. Also unique to our study are the findings that male Mc in the human female brain is relatively frequent (positive in 63% of subjects) and distributed in multiple brain regions, and is potentially persistent across the human lifespan (the oldest female in whom male DNA was detected in the brain was 94 years)."

Through the study they blindly and politically assume that all male Mc DNA found hosting in the female brain was from a male pregnancy. Funny how even our brightest scientists can live in denial.

BUT, when they autopsied the brains of women who had never even been pregnant they STILL found male DNA prevalent in the female brain.

They did their best to hide the evidence. They buried it in numerous sub studies but I sifted through it all and found the damning statement, the one they tried to avoid. The statement that every single article written about this extremely important study completely censored and left out.

What are they so afraid of??

"CONCLUSIONS: Male microchimerism was not infrequent in women without sons. Besides known pregnancies, other possible sources of male microchimerism include unrecognized spontaneous abortion, vanished male twin, an older brother transferred by the maternal circulation, or SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. Male microchimerism was significantly more frequent and levels were higher in women with induced abortion than in women with other pregnancy histories. Further studies are needed to determine specific origins of male microchimerism in women."

Its so convenient how they flat out ignore the MOST OBVIOUS source of microchimerism male DNA hosting inside the female body. And the periodicals just deleted it alltogether. The scum bags.

This has very important ramifications for women. Especially promiscuous women who practice unprotected sexual intercourse. Every male you absorb spermatazoa from becomes a living part of you FOR LIFE. The women autopsied in this study were elderly. Some had carried the living male DNA for well over 50 years!

This will certainly piss the feminists off. But it explains so much about women, life, and relationships.

Sperm is alive. It is living cells. When it is injected into you it swims and attaches and burrows into your flesh. If its in your mouth it swims and climbs into your nasal passages, inner ear, and behind your eyes. Then digs in. It enters your blood stream and collects in your brain and spine. Like something out of a scifi movie.

I love how the agenda has convinced young ladies to be promiscuous. They knowingly are sabotaging generations of young women. Of COURSE they are.

The male DNA can also pass into and become part of a fetus from an entirely different male. So if your woman has a long track record, then your kids are likely carrying DNA from her past hookups.

Is this why the ancient Sumerian Gods specifically said to not have premarital sex? Is this why they forbid homosexuality?

We have only begun to understand the power and ramifications of this.

http://www.godlikeproductions.com/forum1/message2299543/pg1

prove the validity of this study for me please. what scientific methods were used in this research. because i can read such "legit" studies everyday for rest of my life and take it as truth!

Nigerian men need to read this.


Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:45pm On Feb 02, 2015
IceSplash:
sin na sin.....no first class or second class sin

so why u r doing it? cheesy am sure u lied in your life and not once smiley
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:50pm On Feb 02, 2015
VickyRotex:


Damaged Padlock... sad that any key can open....

nobody asked no one to be a master key
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 02, 2015
IceSplash:
i hate sacarsm

usually people who hate sarcasm - don't get it smiley there are few reasons they don't get it wink
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Stmiceel(m): 10:58pm On Feb 02, 2015
Test drive korh - Test slow nii.








We can't imbibe the culture of those ppl, they ar doing it doesn't make it the right thing. grin
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 11:08pm On Feb 02, 2015
Cutehector4u:
Dat means ur teling God he doesn't knw anythn since he commands dat thou shall not sin against thy own body
tell your god to go Bleep himself.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 11:22pm On Feb 02, 2015
One thing is for certain for me, I won't contemplate marriage with a woman whose Sexual drive I don't know. I can't even be in a relationship where sex is seen as a sin, obviously, I am going to be bored with such a little minded fellow. To begin with, when it comes to marriage and relationships, the bible or any religious book is the last place to go for any serious practical advice. Everything about the Bible is anti-woman, women are described as acquired properties of the male folks.

In today's Nigeria, only a fool will contemplate marrying a woman whose sexuality and sexual conduct is a mystery. The last thing I want to be doing every day is describing to a surprised face how i would have wanted us to have sex or want her to act during sex. Sex is not a subject for Holy Spirit and spiritual mumbo-jumbo, if I feel it, I want to have it and I need you to see it as a normal human phenomenon. If I had to wait until marriage then God shouldn't have made me sexually active until marriage. That talk about God when it comes to sex with a partner is bullshyte to me...... We are talking biology and somebody is talking about the some unseen deity whose proof of existence I can't verify as an excuse for withholding sex, what a selfish talk.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by VickyRotex(f): 11:24pm On Feb 02, 2015
voodoo85:


nobody asked no one to be a master key
I dont get you...
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Kedam(m): 11:47pm On Feb 02, 2015
nikpet2:
oke soda its been ages since i have come home sha embarassed
ok, I live in Ilesa.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 11:49pm On Feb 02, 2015
vheMa:
Test drive shocked no wonder, tosyn2much didn't propose to me 4 d past 5yrs now... I sha said it sad that day wen he said

Tested and trusted no key to drive. I don't understand him back then,hmm.... *sighs*

*takes okada,rushes to tosyne2much's house*
hiaan !!!! Takes okada to my house ?

I just hope what I'm thinking is not what is about to happen wink
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Edigrows: 11:59pm On Feb 02, 2015
rhymz:
One thing is for certain for me, I won't contemplate marriage with a woman whose Sexual drive I don't know. I can't even be in a relationship where sex is seen as a sin, obviously, I am going to be bored with such a little minded fellow. To begin with, when it comes to marriage and relationships, the bible or any religious book is the last place to go for any serious practical advice. Everything about the Bible is anti-woman, women are described as acquired properties of the male folks.

In today's Nigeria, only a fool will contemplate marrying a woman whose sexuality and sexual conduct is a mystery. The last thing I want to be doing every day is describing to a surprised face how i would have wanted us to have sex or want her to act during sex. Sex is not a subject for Holy Spirit and spiritual mumbo-jumbo, if I feel it, I want to have it and I need you to see it as a normal human phenomenon. If I had to wait until marriage then God shouldn't have made me sexually active until marriage. That talk about God when it comes to sex with a partner is bullshyte to me...... We are talking biology and somebody is talking about the some unseen deity whose proof of existence I can't verify as an excuse for withholding sex, what a selfish talk.

LOL.... see civilised preach. we can say whatever, Bible or no bibl, Sex or No sex, in the End, Only God can save us.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by DePrynCe: 2:59am On Feb 03, 2015
While I'm fully warming-up to enter into it therein without test-driving. All is God's not Man. #my take on this#
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by opsynea2j(m): 3:11am On Feb 03, 2015
Lol , lemme tell y'all about my sweet Jesus cheesy
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rman: 3:38am On Feb 03, 2015
I just realised everyone on nairaland is a born again Christian that doesn't sin.

Interesting!
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:02am On Feb 03, 2015
Kedam:
ok, I live in Ilesa.
. Aiit bro
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 5:47am On Feb 03, 2015
Edigrows:


LOL.... see civilised preach. we can say whatever, Bible or no bibl, Sex or No sex, in the End, Only God can save us.
I don't do the Christian-judo God any way..... His contradictions are enough to make you want to put that book down and start using your goddamm head...... But then again, these books are rife with errors because after all they were written by mere mortals who claim divine revelation, most of them largely unknown, probably church pseudo-writers with their own twisted belief system.

My point is this; sex is a natural human phenomenon and is not meant for marriage, that is a fact most religious people seem to get all wrong. The primary reason for sex is procreation and pleasure, the idea of it being all divine and for marital purpose is all man made and has little to do with natural science. The concept of marriage in itself is man made, animals for in stance do not marry but they have sex for the primary reasons of satisfying body hormonal changes (i.e pleasure) and the need to procreate, and this is phenomenon that is known to exist in adults, meaning sex is for two consenting male and female adults and not married people, simple. And being married cam never override the fact that sex is an adult thing as too unripe man and woman can be married since it is a human concept and still not ready for sex.

So keep all that God God God talk for Sunday sermon and the religious folks that want to feel alright about his religious pursuit, sex is science not God engineering.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:03am On Feb 03, 2015
You are articulate, nice write up

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