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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by LadyX(f): 2:37pm On Feb 03, 2015
Benoxvals:


I can't say that I know how or what you feel but I still maintain my stance that leaving him is a bad idea cuz many people are going through worst problems but yours is still solvable.Talk seriously with him on the issue and respect his opinion as well,only then can a solution be carved out.what you want might not be as difficult as you you think,it's just the way you are going about it.

Leaving him is a good idea. The guy has given his stand on the issue. At 38 he's already made up his mind. The 2 of them have different views about marrige. I think if he ended up marrying her (which he won't do), she would be miserable.
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 2:40pm On Feb 03, 2015
Tashaamania:

must you specify?
Okay, since you have decided to specify, may I also remind you that men are the worst cheat you would ever encounter which explains why we have higher rates of married men with kids these days still go after single young ladies.
Men are born cheats, I hate that shiit! angry
Tell me something I don't know - How many married men have you been running after? cheesy


Don't hate the player hate the game. cheesy
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 2:49pm On Feb 03, 2015
Truckpusher:
Tell me something I don't know - How many married men have you been running after? cheesy


Don't hate the player hate the game. cheesy

mtshewwwwwwww!! undecided


I'd rather remain single than run after a man who wants my fresh blood tongue

Do you run after married women? I hear its fun for single guys cheesy tell me about it.. tongue

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by LadyX(f): 2:49pm On Feb 03, 2015
OP, Your man is married. His wife is probably in another city or abroad. The fact that his family knows you doesn't mean he can't get "some" when his wife is away.

He's threatening you because he knows if you leave, he will not be gettting regular s*x, and maybe the thought of you doing it with another man is killing him.

If he really loved you, as you say, he'd at least find a way of pleasing you. He could even tell you to do a court marriage, where you just sign papers.

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by chibarbie(f): 3:00pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:



I said that 7years ago
my bad,didn't check...I guess u both re married nw?
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 3:07pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:


Our heart doesn't ask who we want to fall inlove with. Love is not something we can control else I wld have left him years back. I'm ready to leave him now but my body is willing but my heart Is weak. I know I can do without him but I can't help it when he comes around begging. I really need a relocation where I will never set my eyes on him again but that is totally out of the question.
The fact here remains that if u're determined to let him go,ur heart can never hold u back.And what the hell are u doing with an unfaithful man who's bent on tying u down for life unofficially?. The fact that he cheats is enough reason to lose trust & love for him,cos a cheating man is a disaster to happen,coupled with the prevalent deadly STDs. Have u made background findings about him to discover why he does'nt want to marry? Who knows if he has a secret dark life known by him alone to warrant such a stand against marriage. If u love ur life & really want to settle down,simply leave the relatnshp & focus,it'll hurt u at first,but time is the healer of all wounds.His threats are just empty & ur consistent forgiveness of his excesses is what's even spurring him on the more to believe u're on the same page with him. Wondering what a sane lady will be doing with a man for 10 yrs in a mere relationshp.

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Revolva(m): 3:16pm On Feb 03, 2015
10yrs ok na well but wetin go pain me naif the guy never nakher...I call d guy heavy mugun
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by sexymoma(f): 3:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
donpeey22:
My sisters can't be so blindly in 'love' like the op. In fact, their own love dey wear better lenses cool
For your mind angry talking as if you know your sisters better.. angry
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by mrkay101(m): 3:27pm On Feb 03, 2015
op..10 years!!! 10 f*uken years!!!!!! angry

if ur relationship was a human being it would have grown up.. finish nursery school and now in secondary school angry

come to think of it.. I was still in sec school then.. now am a graduate of the Uni!!!!
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by peedeeasobie(m): 3:29pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:



He is not abusive in any way. Infact he has been very nice to me, listens to me, he has always been there for me, gives me whatever I want. He Is 100% mentally stable. He is a medical doctor.


You are not ready to leave him,
you are not ready to move on,
you are enjoying and eulogising a man that kept you single for 10 years and said he doesn't want to marry..

your eyes will soon open when he marries another person!

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by buoye1(m): 3:36pm On Feb 03, 2015
flyca:


You must have thought everyone lives in your backyard undecided
Bro,No vex!!! wanted joking anyway!
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Lepetitechic(f): 3:43pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:



For the first 6years, I was busy with school. I schooled in a separate state from where we reside. It was when I finally came back from service that I started hinting him about marriage.

That notwithstanding, you should have known. after all you both were still dating throughout that time, you had holidays and weekends you must have talked on the phone as well distance isn't much of an excuse for not knowing, really, we'll it's done now, just don't do the same thing next time else mama "meno" might meet you at the door then. I wish you all the best stay safe, protect yourself do NOT be lurred into going back unless there's a new space in the check box(and it's official) right after single, married, widowed, love-is-blind. :p grin
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Coldfeet(f): 3:49pm On Feb 03, 2015
MrKontrovErsy:
are u sure his JOHN THOMAS is active?
I bet you his JT is over active! that and money are usually the reasons women stay with such people, which is why most of the times you will hear them say the mind is willing but the flesh is weakangry
@ faceless04

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by soulglo: 3:56pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:



I guess you are not aware that there are a thousand and one people who don't believe in marriage.


Cool. Update us in another 10 years

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Charlieabc(m): 4:04pm On Feb 03, 2015
What shal it profit a man..........
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by olivegirl(f): 4:11pm On Feb 03, 2015
faceless04:


Our heart doesn't ask who we want to fall inlove with. Love is not something we can control else I wld have left him years back. I'm ready to leave him now but my body is willing but my heart Is weak. I know I can do without him but I can't help it when he comes around begging. I really need a relocation where I will never set my eyes on him again but that is totally out of the question.
. My sister rule ur life. Don't be wandering in de decade u spent. God cares more. Unless u enter hell.

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Dklef(m): 4:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
Darkrebel666:


all these knacking talks sef.. Are hammers distributed here ?
What is Knacking sef ? tongue

lmao. . . .You too like woman sef :-
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
Moana:
the wicked people of nairaland
moana na way for this ur moniker sha. Hw I take wicked na? U sef think am. Ten good yrs. Na me b her boyfrnd wey u go say I wiked? No try am o.
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 4:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
But honestly, how wil u be with a guy for 8 years and not know his views on marriage?! Wt were u pple doin 4 8 years? Nawa!

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Veggies: 4:18pm On Feb 03, 2015
Op, He's carefully waiting for the right girl that will sweep him off his feet then he will leave you totally heartbroken.

Leave him now before he send you his wedding card. Go look for the right man for you. His out there waiting... And I guessed that you have been taking a lot from him for this past year.

Open relationship can't work in this part of the world.

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by bomasek(m): 4:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
Ten good years of constant fuc.king,babe make I get ya no pls. I just need ten months of knacking
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tobiustobius: 4:34pm On Feb 03, 2015
bomasek:
Ten good years of constant fuc.king,babe make I get ya no pls. I just need ten months of knacking

Mumu.
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 4:35pm On Feb 03, 2015
Midehi:

den dwell in ur own low sef esteem

Point taken Mrs high esteem..your response says so much about you.
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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by passionate88: 5:04pm On Feb 03, 2015
bayulll01:
madam stop ranting it is scientifically proven that you people loose your brain when you are in love,so don't blame the OP,but the guy wicked shaaa,knacking a punna for 10good yrs and now engaging her not to talk of marrying her,so watin go remain for ur husband wey go marrry you,sometimes I pity we young guys that want to marry,most of these babes are apere ajase
What does it mean? @bolded
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Thermythorpe(f): 5:07pm On Feb 03, 2015
See ehn Op, i juz dey vex for here.. How can u claim he even loves u at all and u still luv him. Hw da hell wil u even date sm1 for 10yrs. Not sorry to say oh, Op ur MUMUness no be here o. Its high tym pple start defining dr relationships. Not dat am desperate to get married o, but within a year i know where my relatnshp is heading to. And Op is still here claiming lovey dovey with sm1 dat doesn't even worths it. My advice is to DUMP HIS TWISTED BOTTOM, and be FAST abt it

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 03, 2015
sexymoma:
For your mind angry talking as if you know your sisters better.. angry
I know them sweetie.
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 5:44pm On Feb 03, 2015
pickabeau1:
All i see is comments saying the guy is wasting her time marriage wise
Where are the ladies who are not obsessed about marriage

Cant we have ladies who just wanna go with the flow

cc 3cycle
3cycle has finally been convinced and now wants to settledown.
He found me already smiley
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by pickabeau1: 5:51pm On Feb 03, 2015
3cycle:

3cycle has finally been convinced and now wants to settledown.
He found me already smiley


Cool.... Congratulations smiley


But frankly why do ladies obsess over marriage where they give up their family name, surrender their figures, career , do chores l, cook etc

This op has a chance for a relationship she can decide how she wants it to go..

What's d issue
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Brush1: 5:52pm On Feb 03, 2015
Hmmmmm, as a matter of fact, he had better wed you.After 10 years of sleeping with you?.I don't want to hear that pls and pls.
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 03, 2015
pickabeau1:



Cool.... Congratulations smiley


But frankly why do ladies obsess over marriage where they give up their family name, surrender their figures, career , do chores l, cook etc

This op has a chance for a relationship she can decide how she wants it to go..

What's d issue
When you find your soulmate, all these questions won't be necessary. All you want to do is sleep and wake up beside each other.

When you fall inlove, you won't see all you listed above as an issue, you would gladly do them. Have you ever been inlove?

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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by pickabeau1: 6:01pm On Feb 03, 2015
3cycle:

When you find your soulmate, all these questions won't be necessary. All you want to do is sleep and wake up beside each other.

When you fall inlove, you won't see all you listed above as an issue, you would gladly do them. Have you ever been inlove?


Cool....

Are u saying that most of the people who complain about changing their name are not in love.. grin


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