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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Jsaviour(f): 4:18pm On Feb 25, 2015
those of u saying there r no virgins again just speak for urself n not for everyone, i know many virgins n not because they just want to keep it's for their husbands but because they don't want to disobey God n loose their glory. who u mingle with determines ur mindset, that u mingle with promiscuous people will only make u think there r no virtuous women around but those that mingle with people with fear of God will agree with me that there r still virgins around

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by hamilton62(m): 4:29pm On Feb 25, 2015
taiocol:


You vexed? same way I don't care about Yours


The word ‘virgin’ did not originally mean a woman whose vagina was untouched by any penis, but a free woman, one not betrothed, not
bound to, not possessed by any man. It meant a female who is sexually and hence socially her own person. In any version of patriarchy, there are no Virgins in this sense.








When you get the right Word we continue.
Sincerely, you don't know what it is or you've decided to leave in denial, a lady without the presence of hymen (which is the tissue in the vaginal that reduces the size to the uretha...) Please learn and is this what you will tell your daughters as a father? As a man, there's an affinity when it comes to daughters with their papa...
Virgins are unique... Why was Jesus born of a virgin if you think otherwise and why did the bible advise against fornication that we should flee because it defiles the temple, which is our body?
If you are a virgin, be confident in yourself because it's a virtue so, you should pride on it but please don't advertise it and if you are not a virgin, you can still give yourself some pride by restraining from sex and self discipline with the study of the holy bible which will help if you are a christian with prayers.
Ask for forgiveness if you have sexed before, ask specially for His mercy on your life, it sets things right. Please, the virgins need to be applauded because it's not as easy as you say though most say it because they envy them... You might not be a virgin but you can still give your life some worth by fleeing from sex please. I love you all

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by owolawitola(f): 4:33pm On Feb 25, 2015
Lmao!! Ma worry.
Emmafe:
#yinu dy dciv ursef o
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nicklaus(m): 4:34pm On Feb 25, 2015
joseph1832:
Well I don't! Last I checked you don't speak for all male folks!. So please learn to keep your opinions to yourself!.
And you are Well next time u be decent enough to tell us where you checked angry no one cares about your loss tho you can add it to your list of regrets. I speak for all but gays, quote me if you are one or keep your childish opinions to yourself.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by owolawitola(f): 4:34pm On Feb 25, 2015
Ooh okay. I'll check
BrainBoulevard:

Hey,I just sent you a mail.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by treasuregr8(f): 4:40pm On Feb 25, 2015
Lol, i lack words for this ish! francistony you go fear bashing today. moreover, i commend your standing out to speak for the virgins even as a guy cus the rate at which ppl bash virgins, one could even commit succide for attempting to be one.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by taiocol: 4:50pm On Feb 25, 2015
hamilton62:

Sincerely, you don't know what it is or you've decided to leave in denial, a lady without the presence of hymen (which is the tissue in the vaginal that reduces the size to the uretha...) Please learn and is this what you will tell your daughters as a father? As a man, there's an affinity when it comes to daughters with their papa...
Virgins are unique... Why was Jesus born of a virgin if you think otherwise and why did the bible advise against fornication that we should flee because it defiles the temple, which is our body?
If you are a virgin, be confident in yourself because it's a virtue so, you should pride on it but please don't advertise it and if you are not a virgin, you can still give yourself some pride by restraining from sex and self discipline with the study of the holy bible which will help if you are a christian with prayers.
Ask for forgiveness if you have sexed before, ask specially for His mercy on your life, it sets things right. Please, the virgins need to be applauded because it's not as easy as you say though most say it because they envy them... You might not be a virgin but you can still give your life some worth by fleeing from sex please. I love you all
Jesus was Born of a Virgin doesn't make them unique cause there's no clear evidence that the A Virgin will be able to conceive a baby (am in no way doubting your believe or the Bible )Sure The Bible advised against fornication but let's not also Forget the Same Bible(God) asked Hosea to marry a prostitute. Does that make prostitutes Unique?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 4:55pm On Feb 25, 2015
owolawitola:
Lmao!! Ma worry.
Mo worry o, I wud lyk 2 knw why u agreed wif d guy's comment..
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 5:03pm On Feb 25, 2015
treasuregr8:
Lol, i lack words for this ish! francistony you go fear bashing today. moreover, i commend your standing out to speak for the virgins even as a guy cus the rate at which ppl bash virgins, one could even commit succide for attempting to be one.
Will cont. to adour virgins(ladies), cox even as a guy I knw wot t takes takless of ladies bin pressured by guys...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by taiocol: 5:03pm On Feb 25, 2015
FrancisTony liking and sharing every post that Quotes TAIOCOL
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Elevation(m): 5:15pm On Feb 25, 2015
If the girl partakes in the forbidden act and realises her erotic error then she forsakes and become a good lady the anatomical feature (hollow) will regain its structural character although not sealed, but if she continues to enjoy the sensual gratification and decides to continue that is wickedness and it is foolish,banal and super absurd.So zip up!!! I want u good when i wanna feel your warmth, keep it i know it is hard gurl but don't worry you have a reward.I promise cross my lungs.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 5:17pm On Feb 25, 2015
And this made front page o,
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 5:32pm On Feb 25, 2015
Oh you are not a virgin? Sorry...next please... cheesy
pashaun:
Idiot.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 5:33pm On Feb 25, 2015
ThankGod for chi ooo she is a virgin... cheesy


But i don't listen to such gist. A girl can be a virgin but lie a lot and can't make a good wife why a nonvirgin can be faithful if she wants to and make a good home. Character is what matters, not viginity.... But that doesn't give you the right to continue fu**king john... embarassed
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Haryoryhemie(f): 5:35pm On Feb 25, 2015
buygala:
Op's drugs are in transit embarassed


Please don't take him too seriously... We are working very hard to get to the bottom of his matter cry


OP, HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TOLD YOU NOT TO COME OUTSIDE BEFORE 11am? ... why are you so bent on embarassing your family with this mumu thread? embarassed .......


So the op means that if a dude comes to ask for his non-virgin aka 'tokunbo' sister's hand in marriage, he will discourage the dude and point him in the direction of some virgin? Op is really very nice undecided


chaiiiii, u wicked ooh. I don laff fart inside my roomie food
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 5:39pm On Feb 25, 2015
You laugh because you are not a virgin u allow mechanic disvirgin you...y? kiss
Haryoryhemie:



chaiiiii, u wicked ooh. I don laff fart inside my roomie food
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by owolawitola(f): 5:47pm On Feb 25, 2015
Ah cause i do nah. Most of the pple that are still virgins is caus of lack of opportunity. Pls dont eat me raw
Emmafe:
Mo worry o, I wud lyk 2 knw why u agreed wif d guy's comment..
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Haryoryhemie(f): 5:49pm On Feb 25, 2015
pastorKosiso:
You laugh because you are not a virgin u allow mechanic disvirgin you...y? kiss


oponu ni e, u better respect ur old age before I devalue u like naira
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Juicysam(m): 6:08pm On Feb 25, 2015
Would love to marry a virgin though.but getting a classy,sociable lady who would be a virgin i feel is gonna be very difficult..
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by swagdopey: 6:14pm On Feb 25, 2015
This op student of yaba left*** na who hold em chain?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by joseph1832(m): 6:15pm On Feb 25, 2015
Nicklaus:
And you are Well next time u be decent enough to tell us where you checked angry no one cares about your loss tho you can add it to your list of regrets. I speak for all but gays, quote me if you are one or keep your childish opinions to yourself.
Keep mute and deceive yourself at your own expense!.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 6:15pm On Feb 25, 2015
Thumbs up FrancisTony

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 6:41pm On Feb 25, 2015
owolawitola:
Ah cause i do nah. Most of the pple that are still virgins is caus of lack of opportunity. Pls dont eat me raw
*Eyes turning red* Lack of Wetin? Do u knw ao many opp. I c everyday? Beta delete dat mentality and refresh ya mind.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nicklaus(m): 7:02pm On Feb 25, 2015
joseph1832:
Keep mute and deceive yourself at your own expense!.
I love assholes wink

Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by joywendy(f): 7:07pm On Feb 25, 2015
cao:

My sister, everything is now GEJ this and GMB that, I keep wondering if they're getting paid for this or it's one weird virtual version of Tourette's...

Very annoying indeed angry

Definitely both grin grin
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Trypa(f): 7:24pm On Feb 25, 2015
shineeye:
u dont need to take it personal,i want to marry a virgin is the best marriage it makes the marriage complete because pureness in marriage is too pure in the eyes of God, why are you abusing me is it my fault that you lost your virginity?i have seen many broken marriages due to their wives are not pure am not the one to be blame for all this.. undecided




Shut up ur mouth do u knw mi? Did u knw if am a virgin or not?

Lemmi tell u something I ave an aunty who was a virgin b4 she got married, luckily her husband has d money n anytin needed, when they had prblm d man insults her dat she only came to eat money dat she lack manner n so, he don't respect her one bit, becus she aLways feel dat he married her virgin so she is all in all leta after everytin they marriage is notin to write home about for 23 year in marriage with sorrow n u call dat a pure marriage?

Now am in a relationship with ma guy thou I was raped while young at 13 by a frd, my guy respect mi to d last, his family, his sis, everybody y? Becus of ma character am not trying to b proud bt wat am tryna say is dat, u don't knw where love will lead u tomorrow, u mit end up marring a virgin n leta regret u might end up marrying non virgin n u will b d most happiest man on earth, do u knw y I love maself? Even as much as I envy virgins I alway advise ma younger to keep them self

4 for mi I knw I can't cheat on ma man cus he has everytin I want in a man. So dear don't say u must marry a virgin becus u don't knw wat God have set for u, d character of a lady matters n not her virginity speaking for maself thou

Love ya!!!

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Melakuchikala(f): 7:38pm On Feb 25, 2015
IVORY2009:


One man's meat is another's poison, in otherwords the OP has been able to pass his message across, and those who wanna here him out has taken it into consideration, similairly, who made you an English professor?

Inconclusion, believe it or not, the first blood of a virgin lady is a covenant with whoever had sex @ first with her, this is the more reason while many do no progress beyond a particular level in life or going up the ladder and coming down thesame ladder.
. The point of going up and down the ladder and not making progress in life due to not being a virgin is the biggest lie I have ever read in my whole life on earth. Popular wealthy pastors who were virgins I think before getting married had to go through hardship before progress comes. Whether one is a virgin or not what God has destined u will be u will be as long as u live a holy life. U can't measure a man's progress due that because u are not his CHI.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 25, 2015
cr7lomo:
Westerners are destroying the morality of this world and some foolish people like Nigerians will only copy stupid things . Countries like Saudi still maintain morality even with their great wealth and civilization .

Those saying they prefer non virgins are just livin in self denial because its hard to find a virgin as a wife these days

The truth about a man's mentality is that he can't stand or imaging his woman's previous sexual encounters and that's the truth .

The moment a man knows his woman f..uckd some men in the past b4 she met him will make him loose respect for the woman but he will just only pretend .

Men prefer virgins period , who no like brand new
ONLY a foolish idio.t will not prefer a Virgin....Virgin girls ROCK
God bless you Francistony....I'll rather remain unmarried than marry a girl dt av been severally bleeped by different dicks, some foolish boiz wud av realised dere nonsense semens into dem several tyms, fondled dere breast nd suck it dry, me wey kon keep myself go kon settle for less, God forbid bad thing...the thought alone sef dey vex me.
How wud someone who hasnt bleeped b4, now prefer tokunbo to brand new cha-cha.....relating this to cars sef, some girls av been seriously mishandled nd Bleep.ed by different sizes, shapes of dicks dt u cant even classify them as tokunbo, they are Grade C Nigerian used cars....d pussy has turned into public toilets....general use....yet dey'll package demselves nd be shaking dere messed up asses up nd down.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by IVORY2009(m): 8:22pm On Feb 25, 2015
Melakuchikala:
. The point of going up and down the ladder and not making progress in life due to not being a virgin is the biggest lie I have ever read in my whole life on earth. Popular wealthy pastors who were virgins I think before getting married had to go through hardship before progress comes. Whether one is a virgin or not what God has destined u will be u will be as long as u live a holy life. U can't measure a man's progress due that because u are not his CHI.

Re-read what I wrote as reply, what I simply meant is this, when a guy have sex with a virgin [lady] you know there is a blood flow, the blood flow is wat I meant as a convenant b/w both parties, this is why most guys will refuse having sex with a virgin, rather they prefer non virgin.

Inconclusion, date back, in those days, while do parents insist that their son must marry a virgin, and that their first sexual intercourse should be done on a white bed sheet, and @ the end of the day, the proof of the lady been a virgin as a way of blood stain on the bed sheet should be brought to show den.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by chibarbie(f): 8:25pm On Feb 25, 2015
OP re u a virgin Coal calling kettle black
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Beamborla(f): 8:46pm On Feb 25, 2015
Trypa:





Shut up ur mouth do u knw mi? Did u knw if am a virgin or not?

Lemmi tell u something I ave an aunty who was a virgin b4 she got married, luckily her husband has d money n anytin needed, when they had prblm d man insults her dat she only came to eat money dat she lack manner n so, he don't respect her one bit, becus she aLways feel dat he married her virgin so she is all in all leta after everytin they marriage is notin to write home about for 23 year in marriage with sorrow n u call dat a pure marriage?

Now am in a relationship with ma guy thou I was raped while young at 13 by a frd, my guy respect mi to d last, his family, his sis, everybody y? Becus of ma character am not trying to b proud bt wat am tryna say is dat, u don't knw where love will lead u tomorrow, u mit end up marring a virgin n leta regret u might end up marrying non virgin n u will b d most happiest man on earth, do u knw y I love maself? Even as much as I envy virgins I alway advise ma younger to keep them self

4 for mi I knw I can't cheat on ma man cus he has everytin I want in a man. So dear don't say u must marry a virgin becus u don't knw wat God have set for u, d character of a lady matters n not her virginity speaking for maself thou

Love ya!!!
My dear, you just have to ignore him. Even from his grammatical construction and his way of reasoning, it's obvious he is not worth your stress.

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