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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by cleanclean(m): 12:34pm On Feb 25, 2015
The truth is that if you can find a virgin girl it is very good as they tends to last longer in a relationship and even in marriage because its only a man she knows coupled with the fact that they are afraid of loosing their first love. They hardly cheat too in a relationship and marriage.
For the already deflowered ladies, some are really good and can have all the above attributes but if you are dating one or married to one always be aware that anything is also possible were she is...
This is the simple truth I have gathered out of experience.
Thanks

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by nora544: 12:38pm On Feb 25, 2015
cr7lomo:
Westerners are destroying the morality of this world and some foolish people like Nigerians will only copy stupid things . Countries like Saudi still maintain morality even with their great wealth and civilization .

Those saying they prefer non virgins are just livin in self denial because its hard to find a virgin as a wife these days

The truth about a man's mentality is that he can't stand or imaging his woman's previous sexual encounters and that's the truth .

The moment a man knows his woman f..uckd some men in the past b4 she met him will make him loose respect for the woman but he will just only pretend .

Men prefer virgins period , who no like brand new

please don't mention saudi arabia because this people have a double standart i can give yo uthe names of many housemaids who got rape there and they are so affraid to got to the police because they have to go to jail so this is okay.
Do you know that young girls from poor country gets rape every day from their master, from the son of the house.
When a girl go to the police and what to tell what happen to her she had to bring 4 and i write it again 4 people who see it that is happen and that she was not the one who start it .

so please let the moral fromn saudi arabis out of this

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by simplisity(m): 12:49pm On Feb 25, 2015
all i know is that, virginity is a virtue if u can keep it, period.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Ceegra: 12:52pm On Feb 25, 2015
What a funny thread. Do u really know who a virgin is? Some who hasn't engaged in sexual intercourse and d word d bible refers to as pornie which invovles kissing,romance and MouthAction. Hw many girls or ladies can boast dat they haven't engaged in such act.95percent of so-called virgin can't deny dat they avnt had MouthAction. Its even d order of d day. If dat is 2 be judge from God's standpoint, they are not virgin. However, am not aginst those ladies who have truthfully not engaged in d aforementioned points.kudos to them. But if uas a man desire such men, she may not meet all ur criteria. But for some non- virgin ladies who will then marry them? Do u know y we av d word mistake, sin and forgiveness in d bible n dictionary? Surely God knoWs dat there will be some who would make mistake hence if truly repenteant they can be shown mercy. To correct u, its wrong to say non-virgins will still run afta men afta they are married due to size of their hubbies dick which may be small in comparison to their dick is baseless/meaningless. Many virgin afta marriage still like to explore. To everyone, either a man or a woman, keeping virginity is for God and not ur spouse. Its only God dat can pay u back 4 being obedient to him. Dat u wait for u hubby to love u for dat is a BIG lie. Dat doest guarantee dat u av d best of marriage d only thing is dat u hold a clean conscience. Ur hubby may repect/ may not respect for dat or luv deeply. Hence, let's just pray dat we marryy d bone of our bone n flesh of our flesh rather than focusing on virginity.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 12:54pm On Feb 25, 2015
Ishilove:

Franci, no offence intended, but how old are you? My guess is you are a teenager. It shows in this post.

You are not exactly in a position to give sound advice and opinions about love, intimacy and marriage. You still have a very long way to go, my good young man.

Once again, no offence.
Hmm
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 25, 2015
MarieSucre:
You call the one's who were raped 'misandrist' while your thread reeks of misogyny. I used to respect you.
I said "Most" not all.

This thread is a counter-thread for non-virgins that has been bashing virgins.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by teeastute(m): 1:01pm On Feb 25, 2015
buygala:
Op's drugs are in transit embarassed


Please don't take him too seriously... We are working very hard to get to the bottom of his matter cry


OP, HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TOLD YOU NOT TO COME OUTSIDE BEFORE 11am? ... why are you so bent on embarassing your family with this mumu thread? embarassed .......


So the op means that if a dude comes to ask for his non-virgin aka 'tokunbo' sister's hand in marriage, he will discourage the dude and point him in the direction of some virgin? Op's madness must be on a whole new dimension undecided
Too much,y nw? No abuse pls
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Sammiejokes(m): 1:03pm On Feb 25, 2015
joseph1832:
I read the above half baked bullshit and laugh. Dude, who on Earth do you know non virgins are highly promiscuous and insatiable? Have you had sexual intercourse with all the non virgins?

Your second point about ex boyfriends releasing a "hit wonder' about how they hammered 'her' first. Dude, do you think all guys have loose mouth like Femi Fani Kayode? Not all guys tell stories about the girls they've shagged!.

And saying non virgins will cheat on you because they've experienced bigger dicks is like saying a man who is rich who then marries a poor woman that the woman will go back to poverty because she has experienced it for son long.

All in all, OP, your thread is baseless, devoid of facts and heavily laden with all sort of fallacy!.
Since you need education let me lecture you, you can never fault the following unless you wanna live in deceit

Hypothesis 1 If your woman had loads of sex especially with multiple guyz before you marry her.
End result
1 you have no problem if you are well endowed down. I mean you got it good
2 Not every guy is endowed so pray your wife is a confirmed born again or strong muslim or else O.Y.O

Hypothesis 2 If your woman is a Virgin before Marriage
End Result
1 If you are endowed and playful she will always think you the best and never think otherwise
2 If you aint too endowed: she doesn't need to be Godly to stay faithful because unless you are uncaring and leaves the chance for her to be tempted by another Man and she eventually got better experience then naa O.Y.O you dey.

Test
In my little experiences I can say non virgin women will continue to cheat on guyz with small d**k, I remember back then in University my dude was f**cking this lady who was engaged, the Fiance even got her a Car while on Campus, she was fond of my friendz d**k because her hubby's pistol is small, claiming that ma nigga got this curvy adequate pistol lolzzzz. EVEN AFTER SHE MARRIED THE FIANCE, MA NIGGA, SHE STILL COMES AROUND.

LAW
For guyz that are not too endowed and strong by nature please go for Virgins or else your woman will cheat unless she is a confirmed AS A Godly Woman.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by saasala(m): 1:14pm On Feb 25, 2015
FrancisTony:
I was compelled to write this, with rate at which anti-virgin bashing threads are cropping out of every nook and crannies of Nairaland romance section.

Meanwhile, i'm not trying to judge anybody but with the rate they bash Virgins, Newton third law of motion which states that to every action there is always and opposite reaction, and it's high time they started tasting the cup of their own bitter medicine. We didn't tell them to be promiscuous....

People over-rate non-virgins when it comes to experience ish as if they were born that way, not forgetting they were once a virgin and it took them numerous number of sex to adapt and have experience.

Guys should don't marry a non-virgin because they are highly promiscous and insatiable on bed.

Non virgins believe sex is their birth right, and if you end up marrying them, their EX-boyfriends would release a hit wonder on how they hammered her first just like Femi Fani Kayode and Bianca Onoh Ojukwu(Mind you, i'm not saying it happened grin )

Considering the fact that they have tasted all kinds of dick, when you marry them they would cheat on you even if your dick is big since they have seen a bigger ones.... They will cheat if you can't pound like their Ex-lovers.

Well, There Are Some Categories Of Non-Virgins;

*Ones that were raped at young age and has never had sex afterward -


This ones are mostly misandrist and you should run away from them because they hate men so much. Anyway, don't mistake feminism with misandry because they are two different things. undecided


*Ones that were raped at a young age and continued having sex -

They are mostly sex maniacs with loose vagina and are insatiable--fear them because they breed all sorts of STDs.


*Ones that tasted once and stopped and Ones that tasted willingly and continued non-stop -

The former is still okay and they're a bit synonymus to virgins, but the latter are no go area.

Omotola Jalade Ekeinde husband married her as a virgin and they live happily while many actress that chop dick at a young age are still single. lipsrsealed

***So, my brothers and sisters, virgins all the way and don't settle for less*** cheesy

You should be nailed to the cross

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by IVORY2009(m): 1:22pm On Feb 25, 2015
blink182:
The sort of English you write tells a lot of your personality and thought pattern, it leaves very little to be desired. Your prejudice towards non-virgins is also very distasteful-good thing it is only your opinion.

Personally, I prefer girls with sex experience and love the so called bad girls that have entered deep into the world, to me, they are just a wonderful experience.

You can pursue your virgin dream while I enjoy babes who know what makes the world go round.

One man's meat is another's poison, in otherwords the OP has been able to pass his message across, and those who wanna here him out has taken it into consideration, similairly, who made you an English professor?

Inconclusion, believe it or not, the first blood of a virgin lady is a covenant with whoever had sex @ first with her, this is the more reason while many do no progress beyond a particular level in life or going up the ladder and coming down thesame ladder.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by vega84(m): 1:27pm On Feb 25, 2015
Is al abt choice men.example if I see V I will take, I dnt no wahala sha, as far as she's nt a SLUT. To be frank a NON V is okay wit me cos I might nt even like a novice. #VEGATALKSA
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by cao(f): 1:31pm On Feb 25, 2015
joywendy:


guy you miss road? undecided
My sister, everything is now GEJ this and GMB that, I keep wondering if they're getting paid for this or it's one weird virtual version of Tourette's...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 1:32pm On Feb 25, 2015
Virgin till I die,no more no less. With what I saw on my recent visit to Nigeria,thunder fire anyone that oppose to me marrying and fucking my virgino. If my parents oppose to that, I will head to Tehran for the Vieeaag.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by jerrymej(m): 1:33pm On Feb 25, 2015
OP! Whay na?

Abeg go with your reasons, I don't accept them.

What about that babe that you've messed with? What do you think of the person that 'll marry her?
Or you know mean that she shouldn't be married at any cause because of this reasons?.
Chai!
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 1:34pm On Feb 25, 2015
Threads like this will make so many rape victims cry so much and even feel like committing suicide...francistony you fu**cked up big time......creating this thread to bash the non virgins just because someone else created a thread to bash virgins is wrong,just like the elders would say....

"A person is mad does not mean everyone must become mad"-chinua achebe........


Instead you should have created a thread talking basically about the advantages of marrying virgins and use good point to back it up...creating a thread to bash the non-virgins is not the right way to go....well anyways this is "leavestory"long time bro...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 1:44pm On Feb 25, 2015
IVORY2009:


One man's meat is another's poison, in otherwords the OP has been able to pass his message across, and those who wanna here him out has taken it into consideration, similairly, who made you an English professor?

Inconclusion, believe it or not, the first blood of a virgin lady is a covenant with whoever had sex @ first with her, this is the more reason while many do no progress beyond a particular level in life or going up the ladder and coming down thesame ladder.
Story for the gods, you are bonded to any girl you sleep with spiritually blood notwithstanding.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by bestshinner: 1:47pm On Feb 25, 2015
to be truthful vigins are the best option.but i stil admit dat our circumstances varies ,some are nonvigins not by choice.but if viginity is not important,why did GOD sent his son through a vigin? viginity is an aspect of holiness,an unbeatable truth.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by EzePromoe: 1:49pm On Feb 25, 2015
FrancisTony:

I can only swallow your point if I've seen a girl that hasn't gotten sexual advances from guys.
To what magnitude is the male pressure? You know that most times men are just casual in their approach.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Trypa(f): 2:08pm On Feb 25, 2015
Beamborla:
I'm not against you writing whatever you want to write, it's your opinion and everyone is entitled to one. But, Pls, leave rape victims out of this... being raped is painful enough then you would have to watch someone use that against you or use it as a silly means of getting back at someone.

You need to think twice before punching on your keypads.



Just leave d fool, he thinks been raped is sweet it really painful wouldn't want dat in ma nex life to cum
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by MayowaOke(m): 2:11pm On Feb 25, 2015
This man is sick!

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by jerrymej(m): 2:14pm On Feb 25, 2015
So tell me!
Who'll marry the one that you've messed up?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Trypa(f): 2:14pm On Feb 25, 2015
shineeye:
he still a virgin which is nice me too i will marry a virgin is the best love and the bible told us to marry virgins only

N one day u will marry dat virgin n ur virgin will give birth to a virgin daughter which in turn will get dis virgin one way or d oda n remain in ur house forever becus all men wanna marry a virgin
FOOL OF LIFE
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Nobody: 2:24pm On Feb 25, 2015
searching4love:




You be virgin? undecided
hell no! grin but i like virgin guys grin
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by shineeye: 2:47pm On Feb 25, 2015
Trypa:


N one day u will marry dat virgin n ur virgin will give birth to a virgin daughter which in turn will get dis virgin one way or d oda n remain in ur house forever becus all men wanna marry a virgin
FOOL OF LIFE
u dont need to take it personal,i want to marry a virgin is the best marriage it makes the marriage complete because pureness in marriage is too pure in the eyes of God, why are you abusing me is it my fault that you lost your virginity?i have seen many broken marriages due to their wives are not pure am not the one to be blame for all this.. undecided

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by BrainBoulevard: 2:52pm On Feb 25, 2015
owolawitola:
I totally TOTALLY agree with u.
Hey,I just sent you a mail.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by gramillion(f): 3:10pm On Feb 25, 2015
Being a non virgin dsnt mean one is irresponsible and cheap...there are situations which mite lead to dat...being a virgin equally dsnt guarantee free pass to heavens gate or mk one responsible...most of then are lesbians or engage in odr forms of sex...this thread is superficial...is ur current girlfrnd a v
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by gramillion(f): 3:13pm On Feb 25, 2015
shineeye:
u dont need to take it personal,i want to marry a virgin is the best marriage it makes the marriage complete because pureness in marriage is too pure in the eyes of God, why are you abusing me is it my fault that you lost your virginity?i have seen many broken marriages due to their wives are not pure am not the one to be blame for all this.. undecided
shut up ur mouth..u nid to grow up abeg...hw mani girls hv u disvirgned...pure man
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by gilmaro(m): 3:30pm On Feb 25, 2015
to every saint theres a past n to every sinner a future,,,,,, some goods should be tested b4 purchase.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 4:04pm On Feb 25, 2015
It's like the ratio of Virgin guys to galz on NL is 20:1, most of the ladies dy hide der face under d table *laughing in tongues*
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 4:08pm On Feb 25, 2015
gramillion:
Being a non virgin dsnt mean one is irresponsible and cheap...there are situations which mite lead to dat...being a virgin equally dsnt guarantee free pass to heavens gate or mk one responsible...most of then are lesbians or engage in odr forms of sex...this thread is superficial...is ur current girlfrnd a v
Virginity doesn't guarantee purity but it z a factor. #TeamVirgin
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by Emmafe(m): 4:12pm On Feb 25, 2015
owolawitola:
I totally TOTALLY agree with u.
#yinu dy dciv ursef o
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry Non-Virgins by zyzxx(m): 4:18pm On Feb 25, 2015
Op u don't av to include those who are raped .


Dis childish thou

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