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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by okenikpoto(m): 7:49pm On Mar 02, 2015
Better tell her now, two of you should call your ex and tell her to stay clear otherwise it will happen again.[quote author=gunnerman post=31231426][/quote]

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 02, 2015
Minet16:
Op Na you cheat on your wife or you de yarn dust? I assure you no F.P for you
Sorry. He made it grin grin.
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 02, 2015
Minet16:
Op Na you cheat on your wife or you de yarn dust? I assure you no F.P for you
shame on u!!! its now on front page. destiny can b delayed but it can never be change.
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
I don't believe this story. If its true then lipsrsealed
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
[quote author=gunnerman post=31231426][/quote]...you're not serious...
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by afolwalex20(m): 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
Minet16:
Op Na you cheat on your wife or you de yarn dust? I assure you no F.P for you

He made fp.. blaaaaaahh!! tongue
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by mascot87(m): 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
The only way out is for u to confess to your wife & face s consequences. She might just surprise you by forgiving u if she is assured that you will not go back to that again.

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by arimahoseloka(m): 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
kilokeys:
kissed and pronounced healing

u are truly a miracle man..

u hv cured her from konji
hahahahaha lwkmd. no be small miracle

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by firstgirl: 7:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
Tell it to God in prayers
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by tajay12(m): 7:51pm On Mar 02, 2015
I feel you should inform your pastor first depending on how clos you are to him,that way he'll knw how to present it to her better and help u beg her.
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by anwo247: 7:51pm On Mar 02, 2015
Confess to both and see me after service
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Mar 02, 2015
story for the gods!!!!!!!
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by KnightsTemplar(m): 7:52pm On Mar 02, 2015
Weather is damn hot, these people are here asking silly questions.

When you wan bleep you no come ask us.

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Dreal1247: 7:52pm On Mar 02, 2015
Tell ur pst but not ur wife. Ur pst will pray for u but, dont commit the sin again
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by nickxtra(m): 7:53pm On Mar 02, 2015
kilokeys:
kissed and pronounced healing

u are truly a miracle man..

u hv cured her from konji
Bad mouth
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by uzolexis(f): 7:53pm On Mar 02, 2015
Are u married 2 ur pastor?? Nigerians amaze me with all this holier than thou attitude. It's ur wife u cheated on not ur pastor...tell her,apologise 2 her, try n make it up 2 her n never to that rubbish again.

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by dammiedot(m): 7:53pm On Mar 02, 2015
Confess to your pastor, confess your sins to God too , the good part is you feel guilty... A lot of pple do this without any guilt like its a way of life.... But ild also advise you do not tell your wife atm .... If you want peace at home smiley
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by CodeineJunkiee(m): 7:53pm On Mar 02, 2015
He should not confess. Some things re best kept secret but he should feel remorse and not let it happen again #CodeineJunkiee
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Jarus(m): 7:55pm On Mar 02, 2015
1 You didn't sound born-again
2, You didn't sound remorseful
3, You didn't sound you're telling the truth. Looks made-up

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by uzolexis(f): 7:56pm On Mar 02, 2015
CodeineJunkiee:
He should not confess. Some things re best kept secret but he should feel remorse and not let it happen again #CodeineJunkiee

My dear,he can't hide it forever...one day the truth will come out. It's better she hears it from him that from someone else.

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Mar 02, 2015
op i smell lies hw can a man with his right sence kiss anda woman in a sensitive area just lyk dat once again i sence lies

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 02, 2015
[b]This is nothing but blue film... grin grin grin. OP, shame on you. God will be laughing at you in 3D right now. Just imagine this part;

"She didn't hesitate showing me the particular area of her body where she had gone under the knife about three months ago though,a little of the "george bush"were also revealled in the process.In an attempt to show how simpathetic I was,I knelt before her and kissed the affected part and pronounced healing on it.She looked at me,eyes wide opened,jacked me up,locked her lips on mine and before I knew it, we were undressing each other."

I will simply advise you to confess your sins to God only, make a genuine repentance of your sins and then seek professional advise from a counselor. If you love your family and marriage, never tell your wife and pastor. I repeat, NEVER TELL YOUR WIFE AND PASTOR! My reason is this; Satan has a tricky way of doing things. If you tell your wife now and even though she forgives, the memory may linger on. One day, Satan may activate her own ex in her way as he did to you cheesy cheesy cheesy. Her ex will tell her of how he has been undergoing Konjinjytis in his pelvic area and then show your wife. This time around, its no longer a "George bush that will be revealed but a Rockefeller tower". Your wife will kneel down to proclaim healing into the area by kissing the affected part as you did grin grin grin. Naso story begin oo. Even if the voice of God in her tells her to back off, Satan will use the memory of what you did to her to haunt her down. And there it goes.. Gbam! [/b]

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by tafabaloo(m): 7:58pm On Mar 02, 2015
The truth is that, this is a made up story. You are not a good story teller my bros.
Well, for the sake of those who truly need an advice on this......this is a sin against yourself. Firstly, u shld hav a genuine repentance and forgive yourself, then you info your pastor, who wld then take you before your wife.
God bless you!
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by UnknownT: 7:58pm On Mar 02, 2015
Confess to ur pastor and ur penance will be to tell ur wife. Or u just confess to ur wife and leave d pastor, if she reports u to d pastor, no wahala.
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 7:59pm On Mar 02, 2015
[quote author=gunnerman post=31231426][/quote]


Hey man, this is between you and God.... Dnt for the Sake of hurting your wife tell her anything about what happened and don't speak to no one about it... .... Pray to God, and he will FORGIVE YOU.....Never feel bad, it was a mistake and dnt allow the guilt to consume you for any reason......

Afteral we are all flawed creatures so why would you destroy your home in the process of trying to be "truthful".... even if you end up telling her years to come, the damage will not be as bad as it is, if you do so now, and you can tell her in parables.... without being too direct or mentioning names... !!!

Satan can hijack the situation and wreck your home if you let this secret out to humans...


This is a SECRET and it must remain between You and God....

As a brother in Christ this is my advice...!!!!.... the fact that you felt bad, shows you have a repentant heart. I pray God gives you the strength to continue to love your wife more faithfully....


REMAIN BLESSED...!!!!!
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 02, 2015
.LMAO!!!! u pronounced healing is that some form of vodoo or what? ahahah u funny man. btw how was the fucking?

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Akinz0126(m): 8:00pm On Mar 02, 2015
What makes you kiss her judge bush at the first place?Anyway the deal has been done and whether you like it or not,what you did'll sooner or latter haunt you because you don't expect to get away with that ugly scenario.But to avoid further disaster or to ammeliorate the implication and punishment of what you did,tell it to your wife the earlier the better.And you should have it at the back of your mind that,she would definitely get upset and rebuke you for the atrocities you've committed and you should be ready to face the penalty of what you've done.Lobatan

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by fairygeh(f): 8:00pm On Mar 02, 2015
Poster you are so despicable, a very wicked man,what an hypocrite you are,.you went to another woman's house,"prophesied" healing by kissing the affected part close to her "George Bush" or what did u call it,,you slept with another woman.Now you are here asking us what to do.were we there when you were f****ing the woman? Sort ur issues out yourself. Mtchewwwww
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by freecocoa(f): 8:01pm On Mar 02, 2015
Smh, she had pain and you both still had $ex, you kissed the part to pronounce healing, mschew.

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by bolivnnaija: 8:02pm On Mar 02, 2015
ayusco85:
Thunder will fire any lady or man who is still in touch with his or her ex. Ex's are evil, stay away from them. U ve no business been friends or in communication with an ex.

Yeah! I agree totally.
But something tells me, this is Super Story!
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Blitz888(m): 8:03pm On Mar 02, 2015
MizMyColi:
OP!
*drawing my ears with both hands*

Gunnerman!

Forget Pastor O.
Forgeti

Pastor is human too o
He will use you an preach tomorrow (anonymously)smiley

If you feel your wife isn't prepared.
Then no else is prepared to hear your story.

Deal with it.
Deal with your self-righteousness and pride.
Embrace inner humility.
I think you're more bothered at the fact a righteousness preacher like you could commit the same wrong you've unwittingly condemned people to hell forsmileygrinsmileygrin


Go on your knees, look up within, severe all ties, if possible, make a recording of this trying time.
It might come in handy someday.

Be your own pastor
We familylanders are your audience.
Now that you have told us.
Uka'agbasa go

Go in peace and sin no more!
This is so so apt.
If you have my kinda Pastor be sure your matter will be the crux of his sermon next Sunday.
I know you know this verse of the scripture but it has helped me;
"If you confess your sins He is faithful and just to forgive you and to cleans you from all unrighteousness" 1Jh1:9

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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 8:05pm On Mar 02, 2015
dammiedot:
Confess to your pastor, confess your sins to God too , the good part is you feel guilty... A lot of pple do this without any guilt like its a way of life.... But ild also advise you do not tell your wife atm .... If you want peace at home smiley

why should he confess to the pastor, when he could confess to God....

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