ronald4lif:
What does your girlfriend do; studying or working?

ronald4lif:
What does your girlfriend do; studying or working?

KashyBaby:
Have tat baby see the world coz u never know, one day this baby cud b a scientist, artist or even a president...they r the most amazing creatures in the world...so no matter wat, even if ur broke now, never pull this baby out...instead u stand up,find a job and raise ur family...
Goood luck to u.

Lobolintin:
Don't ever terminate......
Stand up and do something dude...I hate it when men says unemployed..
Dude create a jab for ya self..
And raise that fetus angel

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

menix:
Giving u a hard Knock wuld b well deserved buh who am i to judge..

U ve said 101% y u should not think odawise cous u might not scale through wiv this.

U re not d 1st man neither d last unemployed youth who is going to b an emmergency Dad.

Do u know that dis baby is going to b ur open door in life, blive mii u will forced to move out of ur comfort zone nd get something doing.

Since u ve got parents, dey wont let u down.
U ve still got tym to rise nd surely u will rise, Amen..

Karlman:

She does a little job little pay just enough to cover her Trans and food

ronald4lif:


Depending on the income of her job and if she intends resuming her studies in the next 0-3years, in which time she'll be required to nurse a baby. That's if she isn't a graduate already though.

You're unemployed, with uncertainties on when you could secure a job. I really don't know the exact circumstance you are and your plans in the next few years, especially the plans of your girlfriend. However, if the odds are strongly against keeping the pregnancy and with difficulties of putting up with the outcome of it, I will advise you consider the D&C option. But this is me, follow your convictions.

ronald4lif:

I take it that she's just keeping body and soul together. A job that can only take care of one's tfare and food is not well enough to see her through the struggles of a mom. Anyways, I dropped my two cent advise earlier. Good luck with whatever decisions you take

ronald4lif:


Depending on the income of her job and if she intends resuming her studies in the next 0-3years, in which time she'll be required to nurse a baby. That's if she isn't a graduate already though.

You're unemployed, with uncertainties on when you could secure a job. I really don't know the exact circumstance you are and your plans in the next few years, especially the plans of your girlfriend. However, if the odds are strongly against keeping the pregnancy and with difficulties of putting up with the outcome of it, I will advise you consider the D&C option. But this is me, follow your convictions.

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

Allwility:
You have to keep the baby not because you're feeling connected or whatsoever but because it's the right thing to do.

You can pick odd jobs- teaching in a high school, security, etc to enable you foot the bills. Please whatever you do, don't snuff out a life.

Goodluck, I'm sure you'll be needing it!!

Badgers14:
@Op, she's three weeks along, congrats. You still gat more than 8 months to get ya $hit together.

Good luck sir.

williamspaul22:
Y bring a child in dis world wen u cant take care of d child? U dnt knw wot is condom? Broke ass guys always hav a low mentality. If am d child I go teach u lesson if I grow up