₦airaland Forum

groundnutoil:
nice I support u full stop

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

OrangeDream:
Aboda brutally frank minded babe!!! Pls marry me??

XBLadez:
Smh! You didn't have to insult. Plus you might need a carpenter to construct ur English. You was, you was, you was. . .what was?

Defcon1:
l guess you are perfect then,having never done anything you are ashamed of
Judging people for their mistakes,no matter how silly,reeks of self -righteousness
He has acknowledged his transgression, and is looking for help through advice
The least anybody could do is help -or move on - not judgment.
Didn't you see Kashybaby's comment?
Oh,l forgot she is not African.
l rest my case

UnimkeAk:
Stop being petty

Nigga I never said I was GOD, Everybodys destiny is in their hands, surely with GOD and a little luck here and there.

That baby could turn out to be a great or gunned down by a firing squad.
Nobody knows.

Life isn't all about being a president or a cabinet minister.

But I bet cha, if any 20 sumtin year old was to be nominated, that will be me

Finally, if u wr brought into the world by error, me I wasn't , I can boldly say my parents we're so ready, infact over preparedness was their case.

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

InestamablJewel:
ITS NOT WHERE I CAME FROM OR HOW I CAME ABOUT THAT MATTERS, ITS WHERE I AM GOING TO THAT COUNTS OK? SO LET THIS SINK.

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

InestamablJewel:
MY DEAR YOU DIDNT HAVE TO BE INSULTIVE OK, the point i was making is, this has happened, do you now throw away the bad water with the baby? get solution then come back later to spank whoever you wish to spank, spanking him now will not solve the problem, he isnt a kid and knows fully well both he and the lady the effect of unprotected sex,man may be stupid and all, but God works in mysterious ways, he uses situations we dont think fit to glorify Himself whether we like or yes. i am not saying anyone should even indulge in it before marriage, i believe in marriage before sex, but we cant rule out the fact that the norm in our society or "modernisation" as some will call it has commonise everything and thrown morality to the dustbin, tell someone dont have sex until you are maried and all you get is scorn and a hard laugh at your expense. BESIDES: HE WHO KNOWS HE HAS NO SIN SHOULD FIRST CAST THE FIRST STONE ON HIM........SWEAR TO YOUR GOD THAT YOU ARE INNOCENT OF THIS SAME ACCUSATIION YOU ACCUSE THIS PERSON OF? OYA........

InestamablJewel:
MY DEAR YOU DIDNT HAVE TO BE INSULTIVE OK, the point i was making is, this has happened, do you now throw away the bad water with the baby? get solution then come back later to spank whoever you wish to spank, spanking him now will not solve the problem, he isnt a kid and knows fully well both he and the lady the effect of unprotected sex,man may be stupid and all, but God works in mysterious ways, he uses situations we dont think fit to glorify Himself whether we like or yes. i am not saying anyone should even indulge in it before marriage, i believe in marriage before sex, but we cant rule out the fact that the norm in our society or "modernisation" as some will call it has commonise everything and thrown morality to the dustbin, tell someone dont have sex until you are maried and all you get is scorn and a hard laugh at your expense. BESIDES: HE WHO KNOWS HE HAS NO SIN SHOULD FIRST CAST THE FIRST STONE ON HIM........SWEAR TO YOUR GOD THAT YOU ARE INNOCENT OF THIS SAME ACCUSATIION YOU ACCUSE THIS PERSON OF? OYA........

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Justfollowit:
I am sorry

I maintain my stand though. This is not about God it is about being stupid. He could have prevented it if he really wanted to.

Ishilove:
Gold Circle Condom is 40 naira.

meniyke:
Guy, were u employed when ur waist was moving up and down on top of her? Don't try do anything stupid on that baby. Next time tell ur “JOHN-THOMUS” that u are unemployed.

casualobserver1:
The girl could also have prevented it. So why blame the guy. Or did he force the girl? The girl could have bought postinor 2 of 200 or put herself on contraceptives but she did not.

luluosas:
First, you have no right to have sexual affairs when you are not legally pronounced married, as sex is the preserved of the married couples ONLY. Secondly you have no right killing souls you can never give life to.
Now that your manhood refused to learn sense and you've gone again to have unlawful sex with a woman, you must bear the pregnancy and ensure that the baby is delivered safe and sound after nine months of the pregnancy. As for your joblessness, it is no excuse for you to be used by the devil to commit abortion again after you survived the previous ones you committed. Whatever that you are eating and surviving on today will also sustain the child when he is finally delivered.
If you need further counsel especially in the area of your joblessness, reach me on 08144845524 and let's discuss. Who knows, something good might come out of it. Thank you and GOD bless.

Justfollowit:
Yep


That was why I called her st.upid. Besides that was not the guy's first abortion. If anyone should know better, it should be him.

casualobserver1:
I don't want to be an asshole but the guy never underwent the process of abortion. That is something that women have to endure. I place the blame squarely at the feet of women who don't protect themselves from unplanned pregnancies. They have far more to lose, especially in Nigeria where there is no institutionalized child support or welfare for single mothers.

Justfollowit:
That's right

But it takes two to tango

Truckpusher:
It takes two to tango but one person bears the brunt in a more severe way than the other .

I'd say common sense should be applied more by the ladies because if it backfires they'll always be at the receiving end.

Truckpusher:
It takes two to tango but one person bears the brunt in a more severe way than the other .

I'd say common sense should be applied more by the ladies because if it backfires they'll always be at the receiving end.

grad2012:
kariman trust u are well and hope u have made d rit decision on dis issue.wish u well say hi to ur baby and ur baby mama

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!