My girlfriend during my service year actually asked me out. She was a corper too, and she was like "ID I like u oo, can we run tinz while we serve?"
It was kind of weird, bt I enjoyed d escapade while it lasted.

ahsekeena:
I don't wish it was acceptable....not in nigeria tho

Will u stop condemning nigeria..

In the western world yes,but in nigeria,you'll be seen as a slut.

Fabulousb36:
Sincerely I wish we can here in Naija becoz for me if I crush on a guy for up to a week and he doesnt pick on it early enuff I get fed up. So if he eventually askes me out later I'd b delirious for a while (say 1 day) den I'd friend zone him. I just dont know why but I feel like that hunger has been queched and I'm too full n wud throw up.
P.S- I need to update my greenlights, pls Ladies help a sis out

Hmm...Sisters, please help her out.

You're not looking bad, why aren't they noticing you? Do you really wanna settle down?

# idle curiousity #

I am a man and i appreciate ladies who go for what they want ,it's no big deal telling a guy i like you and this is how i want it

emusmith:
Be sincere...

Sometimes, you come across this guy and you wish you could get him to your circle of friends- you just want him around you.

I dunno if I'm hitting the nail...Do you sometimes feel that way even if you swing your face the other way when you catch sight of him heading your direction?

Again Be sincere...

Thank You.

Hmmmmm.....in my own opinion ...I don't think it's a gud idea at all. because we guys take such opportunity for granted. We pay less attention to such girl. I am guilty of that but I am trying soooo hard to respect the feelings of girls because it's not easy to approach a guy and express ur feelings to him

Missmossy:
Lol No, i don't wish so. Its just okay the way it is. Girls are way softer than guys and as such some girls may die of heart break if turned down! To avoid stories that touch in the long run.

Have you tried it before? Heart break? Hmm

spellingcheck:


That is why i have taken it upon my self to correct most of the errors.

And you get luxury of time at hand o


Kudos sha

boma95:
Yeah...I really wish ...
But all I can do is show him the green light

What's the shade of your green light?

EggovinMma:
I don't have problems telling a guy I like him.The problem I have is they usually don't believe me.

It's because you usually say it playfully..... I guess!!!!





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fhranciz:


Why do you girls always have this impression. Ok now go ahead and deny urself what u like.

My 2 cents : if a guy wants to take you for granted or use you as a sex object, whether you approach him or not he will but when he loves u regardless who makes the approach first.

Exactly!!!

emusmith:


How's your place over there? Hope you're good?

Mr.LoverBoy

In my world it is acceptable. I go for what I want.

I dnt ask men out, I show a man Im interested by flirting and if he likes me too then He Will ask me out. If not I've met a handsome man so it's a win situation for me.

Na who u wan dey whin ,as u be Miss. Robotic nobody today ,I no say tomorrow if matter 4 sweet u make u turn to man sharperly u go turn again to Master Nobody mtcheew.

ghetto101:
I am a man and i appreciate ladies who go for what they want ,it's no big deal telling a guy i like you and this is how i want it

I'm with you bro.

KingTom:

Hope no one died?

njays24:
In the western world yes,but in nigeria,you'll be seen as a slut.

no u'll not be seen as a slut because guys are more mature now

emusmith:


I like the way you called me by that name

Well, "some".

She should observe him lil, then come plain.

Exactly my point, as for me too, I don't just chyke any lady if I don't know anything about her

DonaldGenes:


Mr.LoverBoy

Nah.....she is my friend.

emusmith:


Have you tried it before? Heart break? Hmm

I don't have time.

lordmayor4:


Exactly my point, as for me too, I don't just chyke any lady if I don't know anything about her

But our girls na, you chat them up and they start giving the attitude or they start playing hard to get

Missmossy:

I don't have time.

kk

emusmith:


Asking a guy out is not equal to taking the responsibility of the bride price.

I believe, different strokes for different folks. Our beliefs can either make or mar us.
I see nothing wrong.

It's only a wish.
Just like the way guys can go after any lady they desire, woman can do same without it looking awkward.

Imagine a girl approached you, asked for your name,address and phone number and then told you she would like to come and see your parents emusmith. Hahahahahahhaha It's gonna be fun,I can't wait for something like that to start happening.

asdfjklhaha:
Yes but the highest I would do is 2 give him d green light. If u ask a nigerian guy out, he wuld see u as d desperate type and take u 4 granted, he would contribute very little to the relation and turn u to a sex object. No girl would want that for herself.

I know those were just based on speculations, why not ask a guy out and find out if all those are really true

Nairalander01:
Qwerty

mine says Qwertz... Dunno why Y and Z where exchanged....

emusmith:


Hmm...Sisters, please help her out.

You're not looking bad, why aren't they noticing you? Do you really wanna settle down?

# idle curiousity #

lmao... God that must have sounded pathetic rit?
I get a lot of chykers and I date from dat my list. But I think it wud b more rewarding if I make d list myself.
As for settling down.... Dat is not on my menu for now and wont b for atleast 5 more yrs

Missmossy:

Hope no one died?

Oronto Douglas! He was supposed to accompany me to your father's house.

asdfjklhaha:
Yes but the highest I would do is 2 give him d green light. If u ask a nigerian guy out, he wuld see u as d desperate type and take u 4 granted, he would contribute very little to the relation and turn u to a sex object. No girl would want that for herself.

It breaks my heart to see Ladies acting like they know each and every man's character by knowing just 10 men.... Dont forget our finger and tongue prints are'nt thesame and so also do our characters differ.... If you want to argue this, then say ALL NIGERIAN MEN BUT INDUSTRIALFAN.... PULEASE....

emusmith:


But our girls na, you chat them up and they start giving the attitude or they start playing hard to get

All na approach o, sometimes I don't really even get to talk to them... we just flow and hit it up lol.... get the mind and the body will follow

Enegod:
There is nothing sexier than a woman that can tell what she wants, how she wants it and how bad she wants it too

thank God u said sexy or sexier but will these ladies be taken seriously and cherished? The truth remains that most of us will take that as an avenue to satisfy our orgies.

AndreRose:
Honestly, yeah. But I can't do it. The least I can do is to give you green light, nothing more. I once had a crush on a guy but couldn't bring myself to ask him out,luckily for me the guy likes me too.
Guys can be funny a times, once they sense you like them would they start misbehaving and would take you for granted.

asdfjklhaha:
Yes but the highest I would do is 2 give him d green light. If u ask a nigerian guy out, he wuld see u as d desperate type and take u 4 granted, he would contribute very little to the relation and turn u to a sex object. No girl would want that for herself.

So you girls too don't like to be taken for granted. Honestly you will agree it is annoying to be taken for granted but that's what we guys go through in your hands and we still manage to keep our cool.

So next time you start toying with that guys emotions remember how and what it will feel like if it were you in his shoes.