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Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 11:53am On Apr 09, 2015
Ladycloud:
...yh... tho m at home Cox of easter holz


OK
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 09, 2015
Whynotthetruth:




hehehehe...Keep it going mehn...nice job


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Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Whynotthetruth(m): 12:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:



sad


plz stop boss...Don't do this biko
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by RomanceLander(f): 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:

What's Nwa afo?

means something like "bona fide member, child of the womb or correct indigene"
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by dbestuncle: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
dovelike:

Yeah. I've had that kinda feelings alot. It's just tiring.
eyah ! So ladies how do pass this 'green light". Pls help the guys to c this green light because a friend once saw this "green light" but ended up receiving d worst insult of his life.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
sauceny:


Em no born you well,you don't have the mind/liver grin
Lol grin
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by InZA: 12:11pm On Apr 09, 2015
Funny comments.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Apr 09, 2015
jnrbayano:


So true about what someone said to me.

....but on that particular occasion nothing transferred to me.
Lol. Tell me, when a lady suddenly walk up to you and tells you that she likes you alot, what are you going to do? Won't you be scared, or crazy?
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 09, 2015
dbestuncle:

eyah ! So ladies how do pass this 'green light". Pls help the guys to c this green light because a friend once saw this "green light" but ended up receiving d worst insult of his life.
Simple. Too much eye contact.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 09, 2015
Whynotthetruth:



plz stop boss...Don't do this biko

OK. I've tried right?
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Whynotthetruth(m): 12:21pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:


OK. I've tried right?


Thanks so much...You have tried more than required biko
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 09, 2015
RomanceLander:


means something like "bona fide member, child is the womb or correct indigene"


Correct pikin ... But you dey naija now abi?
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2015
Whynotthetruth:



Thanks so much...You have tried more than required biko


Lols
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by jnrbayano(m): 12:24pm On Apr 09, 2015
dovelike:

Lol. Tell me, when a lady suddenly walk up to you and tells you that she likes you alot, what are you going to do? Won't you be scared, or crazy?

I will act no differently. I normally will give her audience but when I learn the direction she is headed, I will relieve her of that burden and talk her talk for her.

That's if I like what I see about her and I am a free agent.

But if I don't like her, I wont deny her audience but subsequently she will get my message from the events that will unfold.

I can't be afraid when a lady approaches me. I haven't been afraid at all concerning this.

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Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by InZA: 12:25pm On Apr 09, 2015
AlphaDray:
To all my folks pls when a lady shows u a green light, be sure its really a green light cos some girl just enjoy fooling guys alot


Very true.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by lordmayor4(m): 12:29pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:


No physical attachment, just friends?

Friendship that is worth more than everything,for the single ones maybe once in a while we can get physical lol if am not in any relationship then
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Lovexme(m): 12:30pm On Apr 09, 2015
Whoever said it is unacceptable?
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Apr 09, 2015
francizy:


I admitted because am here on NL and this is a faceless forum like they always say. In real life, I'll be too shy to admit I wanna fūck..
Gimme your house address.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by francizy(m): 12:38pm On Apr 09, 2015
softysparky:

Gimme your house address.

12, Lateef Rufai Way, Satellite Town, Lagos.

You like it raw or not? wink
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by lordmayor4(m): 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2015
RomanceLander:


People say I don't look like an Igbo. lol You just confirmed I am Nwa afo

How does igbo girls look like lol
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2015
Whynotthetruth:
emusmith

thanks for making my day with this thread...Just helped me relax my mood...

Is there really any solution to this malaise; shyness?

I am an adult who's used to public speech but unfortunately, I lose my thought process when with a crush face to face...I can easily flow on phone or online chat but not when confronted live...I can't be myself at that moment...

Silently I always pray that all these sweet babes will ask me out...


BTW I am very touchy...
CC
Francizy
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Apr 09, 2015
softysparky:

CC
Francizy


#yawns#
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 09, 2015
lordmayor4:


Friendship that is worth more than everything,for the single ones maybe once in a while we can get physical lol if am not in any relationship then


Hahaha...you must be a good boy. cheesy just like me of course smiley
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by InZA: 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truth of the matter is, or better put the truth of the matter from my perspective is, There's really no point asking a guy out, it's not right, it's not proper under any heading, whether in Nigeria or abroad, whether your love for him is so intense that your eyes want to pop out of their sockets any time you see him.


The best a girl should do is give him subliminally textured advances or like we would say "greenlight".... Ofcourse many guys are colour blind, but most of us are not, a guy knows when you're interested especially if both of you have been friends for a while, if he's interested in you in the way you're interested in him, he would definitely ask you out.... If he doesn't ask you out just leave him be. There's no forcing of this thing.

The flip side to this again is that some girls can be so stupiiid, or maybe deliberately manipulative, they appear to give brightly toned greens but truly they are just being emotional predators (there are many girls like this). So the onus is on the guy to just be discerning and sensitive.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by francizy(m): 12:49pm On Apr 09, 2015
softysparky:

CC
Francizy

Whynotthetruth:
emusmith

thanks for making my day with this thread...Just helped me relax my mood...

Is there really any solution to this malaise; shyness?

I am an adult who's used to public speech but unfortunately, I lose my thought process when with a crush face to face...I can easily flow on phone or online chat but not when confronted live...I can't be myself at that moment...

Silently I always pray that all these sweet babes will ask me out...


BTW I am very touchy...

Hmmm, we're together in this one bro.. But, I believe shyness is something one can get over. I'll advise you to get too close to ladies and then chat naughty or talk dirty with them, but make sure they are comfortable with that tho. Sometimes when you're with a lady and you lack words, just think up something, there are really many things to discuss you know. You can also include a third party when necessary.
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by freecocoa(f): 12:50pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:


I like your spirit... Have I said that before?

You're so relaxed and that is uncommon. smiley
Lol, thank you.

I guess it comes with understanding that life is ephemeral, so I just have to relax and enjoy it while I can.smiley
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 09, 2015
emusmith:


#yawns#
Fvck you shy guy.
Emusmith Fvck you!!!cheesy
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Odunharry(m): 12:50pm On Apr 09, 2015
dovelike:
I wish it were but I don't think I would. I'll wait for the feelings to die.

But if am really really sure, am going to tell him.

I'll be like" hey man, Listen, I like you a lot, what are we going to do about it?"
Then my sleepless nights will be transferred to him. Hehehehe
confirm. a bottle of wine for you..
I like ladies who speak their mind.... it doesn't hurt

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Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Apr 09, 2015
francizy:




Hmmm, we're together in this one bro.. But, I believe shyness is something one can get over. I'll advise you to get too close to ladies and then chat naughty or talk dirty with them, but make sure they are comfortable with that tho. Sometimes when you're with a lady and you lack words, just think up something, there are really many things to discuss you know. You can also include a third party when necessary.


Yea good one. Third party?
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Apr 09, 2015
softysparky:

Fvck you shy guy.
Emusmith Fvck you!!!cheesy


Is that how much you like it?

undecided
Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 09, 2015
freecocoa:
Lol, thank you.

I guess it comes with understanding that life is ephemeral, so I just have to relax and enjoy it while I can.smiley


I had to quickly visit your profile...smiley

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