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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by InZA: 5:23pm On Apr 16, 2015
hormordunneey:
A room andd parlour wt kitchen, bathroom andd Toilet. Yes, very big Yes. I can do dt. As long as he doesn't sleep at home evryday, he works andd has plans. We wl get there

So if he doesn't sleep at home everyday, he should spend some nights sleeping in the office?....While some other nights he should spend it sleeping at home...care to crystallize your statement further?
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Daresh(f): 5:24pm On Apr 16, 2015
InZA:



Would you mind expatiating on the bolded?...When did it become wrong to enjoy lounging in my singlet and boxes? should I be lounging in a six piece suit?

What I mean is, does he work hard, or does he spend his days lounging in boxers and singlet? Because I'm going to be working hard and I expect the same from him.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:


No disturb me jor
go and sit down
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by InZA: 5:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
emusmith:


I'm seriously expecting that thread cheesy

Now that you mentioned thread...I'm having a whole new idea grin

I wanted to make the list and put it here in your thread o, no need to open a new thread now abi? grin
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
EggovinMma:
Self contain is not bad! As long as I no go tie towel comot from house, no problem. Never liked duplex anyway. Hate houses with staircase and bathtub. Too impatient to count steps, always fall down!
grin funny u

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by InZA: 5:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
Daresh:


What I mean is, does he work hard, or does he spend his days lounging in boxers and singlet? Because I'm going to be working hard and I expect the same from him.

Hmm okay, that's better put....but what if he's lounging in the singlet and boxers that you bought for him on his birthday? Would that still be okay? undecided
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
wristwatch:


Becos of d way u explained your point. I understand your ideology of not living d same life ur parents do. Even we guys don't pray 4 such or perhaps better if he is from an affluent home.

The issue is most girls wants a ready made man in massion and such category of men are married.

So my point is as long as the guy have no low esteem, thinks big and with d little he has is comfortable and satisfactory, u can marry such. 4 eg u can't compare a self con in VGC to d one @ ajegunle.
yeah,dats true sha,bt I can't marry a guy below my level,lai lai
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
InZA:


Now that you mentioned thread...I'm having a whole new idea grin

I wanted to make the list and put it here in your thread o, no need to open a new thread now abi? grin


Open a new thread grin
The title? Lemmie think smiley
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mrdino(m): 5:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
No i won't smiley
wot if he gets broke & decides to move to a cheaper apartment( a self contain) with u, would u leave him?
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mirexxx(f): 5:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
creamynuela88:


That is a one bedroom flat. A self contain is a room with mini kitchen n bathroom. Pls don't b biased oh.
whatever mehn!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Daresh(f): 5:30pm On Apr 16, 2015
InZA:


Hmm okay, that's better put....but what if he's lounging in the[b] singlet and boxers [/b]that you bought for him on his birthday? Would that still be okay? undecided

As long as it's not during work hours then its cool cool!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Apr 16, 2015
okotv:
I admire you too. I want to be like you when I grow up.
Lol. Me too.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mirexxx(f): 5:31pm On Apr 16, 2015
mrdino:

wot if he gets broke & decides to move to a cheaper apartment( a self contain) with u, would u leave him?
I would! thanks 4 understanding smiley
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 16, 2015
cutepaul:
So lemme guess you're [b]and [/b]un-erring self -conceited goofy nerd.......who points his sticky fingers at the slightest sign of an "err"......gringringrin

I said "such" errors. I also added, "There are errors and there are errors". Mr. Paul sir, certain errors are tolerable, such as the one highlighted above. You see? But some are just not! Yes is not equal to "years", not when that error is made twice. grin

And yes, you could call me a self-conceited goofy nerd tongue
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:



You dey inside poverty, you dey send am back to me

You well so?


No you are the sick one like seriously am sure you where born into poverty and will die in it else it wont pepper you that I said I won't live with a guy in a self contain.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Apr 16, 2015
[quote author=InZA post=32791885]
Sowiiiiiiiii. Its direct translatn frm yoruba. It means he iss working.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Apr 16, 2015
MojAyo:
go and sit down


I know your type.


You dey look for trouble.


Shall I no get your time
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Apr 16, 2015
bellychiz:



No you are the sick one like seriously am sure you where born into poverty and will die in it else it wont pepper you that I said I won't live with a guy in a self contain.

Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by nkemjacob2(m): 5:50pm On Apr 16, 2015
not just self con... A lady dat cannot stay with u face me i face u house do not worth ur mansion
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by christyjoe2(f): 5:52pm On Apr 16, 2015
y not if not .... a thousand miles begins wit a step
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by InZA: 5:52pm On Apr 16, 2015
emusmith:


Open a new thread grin
The title? Lemmie think smiley


You wan find trouble abigrin

Okay....I would open a new thread, but I would open it with my other moniker(1one). InZA is a more civilized moniker, while 1one is the area boyish moniker that spits fire, because I know some yeye girls would want to come on that thread to be saying shiiit.

Mention me with the name of the thread.I think it should have something like "Cumulative data from Emusmith's thread something something" grin


The list is already set oo so do sharperly

Honestly If my boss knew that I've been on nairaland compiling list for the last 45mins ehnnn.....gringrin

Abegiiii...afterall all work and no play makes.....grin
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Apr 16, 2015
InZA:



You wan find trouble abigrin

Okay....I would open a new thread, but I would open it with my other moniker(1one). InZA is a more civilized moniker, while 1one is the area boyish moniker that spits fire, because I know some yeye girls would want to come on that thread to be saying shiiit.

Mention me with the name of the thread.I think it should have something like "Cumulative data from Emusmith's thread something something" grin


The list is already set oo so do sharperly

Honestly If my boss knew that I've been on nairaland compiling list for the last 45mins ehnnn.....gringrin

Abegiiii...afterall all work and no play makes.....grin


Okk cheesy

Nairaland Ladies That Are Ready To Start Small

Lol

Some Wife Materials Who Can Start Life With You In A Self.Con.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by InZA: 6:20pm On Apr 16, 2015
emusmith:


Okk cheesy

Nairaland Ladies That Are Ready To Start Small

Lol

Some Wife Materials Who Can Start Life With You In A Self.Con.


Lets get it rolling grin
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Helpfromabove(m): 6:22pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store
Wrong we have a room self contain (a room,small kitchen and toilet with bathroom ) or room and palour (that is wat u describe) the later is better
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Toks2008(m): 6:31pm On Apr 16, 2015
MojAyo:
what re u saying,can settling down work out without no money

you ladies keep mixing issues up.

will you say a guy that makes say 50k a month is rich? hell no but he sure can manage a family.

Do you need millions to get married? hell no

if ladies can learn to plan life with their men with available funds i guess the issue of desperation wont come to play because most ladies will settle down fat.

today ladies are quick to conclude that a man is not ready for marriage wheras the guy is over ready just that he has no money enough for huge wedding cere?omy which i bliv can still be done latter in life when the funds are available.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Toks2008(m): 6:40pm On Apr 16, 2015
Adaeze003:
U

And any girl who minds is not a homemaker? That's just a fallacy coz even those who don't mind might just be desperate to get married and give you a headache in your self con grin

So that assumption is a lil bit myopic. No offense...

this has nada to do with desperation.

Any reasonable lady would advice a struggling guy to rather get a room and a parlour wth seperate kitchen,toilet n bathroom then go look for a land to buy n strt building his house rather than ask him to pay insane ammount for a duplex or bigger apartment.

Its common sense dearie and this initiative is so lacking in many ladies who allow luxurous lifestyle cloud their sense of reasoning.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by sweettease(f): 6:43pm On Apr 16, 2015
Really? Self contain is supposed to be the worst? Lmao
I have my private bathroom, toilet and a my sitting room is different from my bedroom and this is supposed to be a big challenge? tongue
I'll just pray something better comes when we start having kids.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 16, 2015
[quote author=Viciyus post=32792670][/quote]


Aha! Now your talking you are probably living a self contain that's why it peppered you abi? Sorry o!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by udoomama(f): 6:52pm On Apr 16, 2015
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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by onyebuchiii(m): 6:57pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
No i won't smiley
noted. ...u want an already made...
pls lets be mindful wat girls say here o.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Apr 16, 2015
bellychiz:



Aha! Now your talking you are probably living a self contain that's why it peppered you abi? Sorry o!

Women and their fish brain.

Sorry, I don't brag about materials thins.

If only you knew who I am,

Maybe you are right. I leave in a self contain or flat or mansion.

Anyone your fish brain can carry.







But with this your poverty mentality, trust me! You won't go anywhere. So I advise you change your mindset
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:


Women and their fish brain.

Sorry, I don't brag about materials thins.

If only you knew who I am,

Maybe you are right. I leave in a self contain or flat or mansion.

Anyone your fish brain can carry.







But with this your poverty mentality, trust me! You won't go anywhere. So I advise you change your mindset


Shaaaaarap same way you don't know me from Adam I too don't know you and I don't give a damn. Yeah fish brain right? Cool and yours what do you have in there? If you had any brains left in that thing you call head you won't spew rubbish from that gutter of yours.

Talking about mindset? Yeah you should start by changing yours first. Scallywag!

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