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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Apr 16, 2015
bellychiz:



Shaaaaarap same way you don't know me from Adam I too don't know you and I don't give a damn. Yeah fish brain right? Cool and yours what do you have in there? If you had any brains left in that thing you call head you won't spew rubbish from that gutter of yours.

Talking about mindset? Yeah you should start by changing yours first. Scallywag!



Fish brain
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Adaeze003(f): 8:00pm On Apr 16, 2015
Midehi:

fallacy...

well if thats your opinion, you have to wake up from your megamicro brain...cos i see no human wishing he/herself poor.

have you ever heard of little beginning?

all you said is vacuity(emptiness), keep it to your world alone...dont discourage people from sticking to their man in time of difficulties.

Megamicro what now? Brain? grin lol uhm... ok.


Well then, I guess you have a working brain? And you can read? If yes, kindly read my post again... you might learn a thing or two cheesy
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 16, 2015
Toks2008:


you ladies keep mixing issues up.

will you say a guy that makes say 50k a month is rich? hell no but he sure can manage a family.

Do you need millions to get married? hell no

if ladies can learn to plan life with their men with available funds i guess the issue of desperation wont come to play because most ladies will settle down fat.

today ladies are quick to conclude that a man is not ready for marriage wheras the guy is over ready just that he has no money enough for huge wedding cere?omy which i bliv can still be done latter in life when the funds are available.
okay,rush into a poor marraige quickly and rush out back,pls stop quoting me
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:



I know your type.


You dey look for trouble.


Shall I no get your time
mtcheew
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by LazyGod(m): 8:17pm On Apr 16, 2015
The author of this thread thinks and answers roughly because he is from a wealthy family and has not tasted nor experienced the low lives beneath the grassroots of Africa. So you talk vulgarly and see self con as too low to live in as couple.

Or maybe you are just pretending...


What is the problem with one room if affordability wasn't available
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 16, 2015
Adaeze003:


Megamicro what now? Brain? grin lol uhm... ok.


Well then, I guess you have a working brain? And you can read? If yes, kindly read my post again... you might learn a thing or two cheesy

am done with you... grin
Adaeze003:


Megamicro what now? Brain? grin lol uhm... ok.


Well then, I guess you have a working brain? And you can read? If yes, kindly read my post again... you might learn a thing or two cheesy

am done with you...
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by omotalkie(f): 8:21pm On Apr 16, 2015
Bola4mi:
Abeg all this men they dont worth it jor,u go suffer with them now for self contain,when they make it they will show u pepper.
My dear, not all men are d same ooh. Its better u build ur family from d scratch with ur huby and gain respect from him tomorrow, becos u were there when he started and u are part of his success story. Even if he misbehaves, u can have a way of talking sense into him as his wife. And I tell u, no matter d pepper he shows u, he'll always remember how u stood by him during d rough times, and he'll always come back to u provided u keep ur calm and still give him d respect he deserves no matter wot-not ranting.Wot if u marry an already made man and u dont have peace of mind?? U break plate today and he'll tell u how he suffered to buy it, u break cup tomorrow and he'll tell u dat u were still in ur mother's womb when he bought it grin. Lyf is not a bed of roses because roses too have its own thorns. Dat it is not well today doest mean it wont be well tomorow. #JUST FOCUS cool#
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 16, 2015
MojAyo:
mtcheew

angry
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by okotv(m): 8:24pm On Apr 16, 2015
Herzumpther:
Lol. Me too.
you have grown up now
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by baralatie(m): 8:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
self contain come in various designs!I have a guy and a lady start in a self contain that was too small but when had a little change he invited us to help him with a proper design.the concept given an architect was a large living room,dinning,visitor WC,bedroom and ensuite ,kitchen and store with laundry room.it was an owe some design
summarily it depends on your plans!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
Bola4mi:
Abeg all this men they dont worth it jor,u go suffer with them now for self contain,when they make it they will show u pepper.

Market woman
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nickymezor(f): 8:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
Yeah I can, but it had berra be a decent one tho smiley
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by baralatie(m): 8:32pm On Apr 16, 2015
LazyGod:
The author of this thread thinks and answers roughly because he is from a wealthy family and has not tasted nor experienced the low lives beneath the grassroots of Africa. So you talk vulgarly and see self con as too low to live in as couple.

Or maybe you are just pretending...


What is the problem with one room if affordability wasn't available
one room with its own convenience is a bit okay but 20 people from 10 rooms sharing one toilet and bathroom with one kitchen!
hmmmmmmm!you as a guy might not see anything but sometimes what your woman will see.she will not be able to bear!
the stealing of her private clothes,,gossip,fights as a result of jealousy,sex dual harassment etc
name was!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by elomepee: 9:15pm On Apr 16, 2015
What is wrong with selfcontain?

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by sleekman(m): 9:19pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store
you don't even know what a self contain is. Its just a room that is ensuite with a kitchen. That is a room, kitchen and bathroom.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 16, 2015
okotv:
you have grown up now
You too tongue
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mirexxx(f): 9:21pm On Apr 16, 2015
sleekman:
you don't even know what a self contain is. Its just a room that is ensuite with a kitchen. That is a room, kitchen and bathroom.
it was a mistake. bye!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by samsonbazy(m): 9:43pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
Lol why acting stupiid? tongue
but u knw am not lying
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by braindamage(m): 9:44pm On Apr 16, 2015
Our parents had humble beginning. Some comments here scare me.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Toks2008(m): 9:46pm On Apr 16, 2015
MojAyo:
okay,rush into a poor marraige quickly and rush out back,pls stop quoting me

Are u for real? i should stop quoting you when any intelligent lady will rather see this as an avenue to articulate her notion as well as broaden her intellect.

with due respect im so disappointed but let me leave you with this parting words of advice...

no one can decipher a poor marriage or a rich one. That rich dude can get so poor and the seeminmgly hopelessly poor marriage can bcome super wealthy by a stroke of fate.

ladies should learn to be with a man for the right reasons and should make materialism a secondary factor.

please dont bother quoting this and please develop the act of productive and intelligent communication.. gd day
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by baralatie(m): 9:49pm On Apr 16, 2015
sleekman:
you don't even know what a self contain is. Its just a room that is ensuite with a kitchen. That is a room, kitchen and bathroom.
hmmmmm!there is one room self containtwo room self contain and there is one bedroom flat self contain.it is was not specified by the op!guess the ladies will go for the better!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by jayedu108: 9:54pm On Apr 16, 2015
To my fellow guys, please dnt allow any woman push u into robbery cut ur coat according to ur size,all dis girls shoutin I can't stay or start life with a guy living in a self contain,80 percent of these girls dnt realy knw wat life is,most of dem still live wit their parents,some av neva taste the orda side of life,pls guys if ur budget can be able to get u a single room or a self contain pls do,dnt try to please any woman oh.if she loves u she will assist and also contribute to the future of the both of you.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by okotv(m): 9:56pm On Apr 16, 2015
Herzumpther:
You too tongue
am still a small boy compared to you now
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Toks2008(m): 9:58pm On Apr 16, 2015
braindamage:
Our parents had humble beginning. Some comments here scare me.

Very very scary and that is why there will always be increase in the number of overage unmarried ladies.

if you check the statistics you will realize that most ladies above the age of 27 will not mind starting with a guy from a room apartment after spending their younger years having a contrary notion.

i pity some ladies. if you read the story of jonathan and patience you will undstand y he cant joke with her but most young ladies today are busy wasting their lives with the hope of meeting a rich dude to marry yet the struggling guys are busy screwing the shit outta them..

How dumb.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Toks2008(m): 10:02pm On Apr 16, 2015
jayedu108:
To my fellow guys, please dnt allow any woman push u into robbery cut ur coat according to ur size,all dis girls shoutin I can't stay or start life with a guy living in a self contain,80 percent of these girls dnt realy knw wat life is,most of dem still live wit their parents,some av neva taste the orda side of life,pls guys if ur budget can be able to get u a single room or a self contain pls do,dnt try to please any woman oh.if she loves u she will assist and also contribute to the future of the both of you.

Very true.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by braindamage(m): 10:25pm On Apr 16, 2015
Toks2008:


Very very scary and that is why there will always be increase in the number of overage unmarried ladies.

if you check the statistics you will realize that most ladies above the age of 27 will not mind starting with a guy from a room apartment after spending their younger years having a contrary notion.

i pity some ladies. if you read the story of jonathan and patience you will undstand y he cant joke with her but most young ladies today are busy wasting their lives with the hope of meeting a rich dude to marry yet the struggling guys are busy screwing the shit outta them..

How dumb.
Really scary bro. I don't even need to go as far as our president's story, my parents are clear examples. Started from Mushin, lived under an high tension cable. My mum tells us about this lady she 'shared' a kitchen with who pours salt, maggi wrappers on the floor, my mum is that type that even breadcrumbs on the kitchen top could make her flip. We even have good laughs when she pops up the story of how she and her husband's pushed his 504, even after 10 years of their marriage. In summary, most of our parents had that humble beginnings. The man just needs to be hardworking and focused, the same thing for the lady and when both acknowledge the true meaning of for better or worst, things would add up. Personally, when marriage comes(which is not far), it won't be judged by that pretty face and the curves

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by braindamage(m): 10:26pm On Apr 16, 2015
jayedu108:
To my fellow guys, please dnt allow any woman push u into robbery cut ur coat according to ur size,all dis girls shoutin I can't stay or start life with a guy living in a self contain,80 percent of these girls dnt realy knw wat life is,most of dem still live wit their parents,some av neva taste the orda side of life,pls guys if ur budget can be able to get u a single room or a self contain pls do,dnt try to please any woman oh.if she loves u she will assist and also contribute to the future of the both of you.
Well said
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by tunnary(m): 10:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
Substandard wive materials r nt difficult to detect these days, if they misbehave by their demands; send dem back 2 their parents. Gold diggers
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 16, 2015
MzzTega:
Self contain gat levels. Yes,I can.
Starting from there and ending in a duplex aint bad. smiley

Is that where your family currently lives ?
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Apr 16, 2015
Slimzjoe:


I can't trust a woman that didn't go through the Rough times with me wink

Yes.

Very simple.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by haryomikun(m): 11:13pm On Apr 16, 2015
Fairgodwin:

Expatiate.
I usually made d same mistake before too
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Apr 16, 2015
no I cant

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