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Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 11:52am On Apr 21, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 11:55am On Apr 21, 2015 |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 11:55am On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Oya na, wetin be your pin code? |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 11:56am On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom: If I tell you,id have to kill you |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 11:58am On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Oh! You are a dominatrix? |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 12:00pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:If Love is a crime, then I want to be hunted? If love is crime then I'm prepared to be wanted! |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 12:01pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Cutedwag:We are not even talking about relationships,that is a different topic. This is about the manner of approach which describes your personality. If a girl ignores you today,try again someother day. You don't have to intimate her to listen to you. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 12:03pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
sinizia:Ah! I can't o. And it's risky esp if you are in a lonely environment. 1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 12:05pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom: You bad o. What took your mind there One time,a thief pointed a gun at me n said "give me your phone or I shoot you" I ignored and started running very foolish thing to do but it shows am very strong. Will however never try that stunt again |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 12:11pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Mumu! You get luck say dem no carry bullet finish your face, anyway that was a brave thing to do, poverty na bastard sha, you run because if to say dem thief that your tecno broken screen phone, you for cry o 1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 12:11pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom:So tuface is your mentor How many women and kids will you have then |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 12:14pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:How many do you want? |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 12:22pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom: Hehe in ma defense, I knew it was plastic and the security men in school were few meters away. All na foolishness and naivety sha I won't play with ma life again I promise |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 12:25pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom:I'd put it in prayers and let you knw |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Anytime i see this 'Lielie247' girl with oversized lips and unequally sized bum on any thread...i just feel like puking. Sorry i had to say this on your thread ivyy. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 12:46pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
PaulCI: That's a very mean to say Why attack her for no reason |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 2:09pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:A whole Erelu Aje? Who you dey promise? Abeg next time, seize the gun carry am run, you hear! Robbery incidents are very traumatising, it is best you cooperate with them in The absence of help, in cases of rape, make sure you always keep a pepper spray close. 1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 2:10pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Ok, my akamu awaits |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
I'm sorry OP, you could have patiently heard him out and collect his contact if possible just to get him off your back. Both of you were very immature about it. #My2Cents 1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 4:08pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Brandnew2:Ok. But when i stopped to hear him out he was just ranting of how he is my husband and wouldn't break my heart. He never went straight to the point. I agree i should have collected his number but i was so furious at that point. Am talking about someone that wanted to trace my house even if i collected his number,just a man having fun and looking for some cheap girl on a hot afternoon. Besides,it's not compulsory that i respond to every dick and harry that stops me on the street. I have the right to answer or ignore any stranger. One thing i noticed in this situation,is that people will say you should have listened to him. What if you choose to ignore him? That is your perogative. I guess it's a man's world,they can be crazy and get away with it. A girl has the right to say no if she is not interested to hear you out. 2 Likes |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 4:50pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom: No fermentation please |
Re: Aggressive Men. by ivyy(f): 4:53pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
KingTom: so you can be nice. Thanks for the advice |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:Long and short of it is that you could have been more civil rather that put yourself in such an embarrassing situation. A more matured girl would have handled the situation without causing a scene. What you wrote above there doesn't speak well of you. Responding to a man appropriately doesn't necessarily mean you agreed to his advances. At the end of the day, he still poked into your bag to leave his contact. You could have told him you would get in touch with him the first. Time he stopped you. Just be more reasonable when a guy approaches you so you can save yourself from causing a scene. 1 Like |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 6:51pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Yeye Aje! So you bad reach like this? |
Re: Aggressive Men. by KingTom(m): 6:52pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
ivyy:Somebody hacked my account |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 7:48pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Brandnew2:It caused a scene,yes. But the society tends to blame a woman when things go wrong. Is it out of place to understand when a girl simply doesn't want to respond to man. I get advances and proposals on daily basis and they were all conducted in decent manner. I have not had one chasing me up and down the street when he is fully aware that am not gonna listen to him. All am saying is that his manner of approach was wrong,there is no sugar coating it by saying i should be more mature. There is a difference between street calling a girl and approaching a girl. Men should learn that approaching women aggressively is a huge turn off and shouldn't be condoned. Probably he felt i was a little girl he could just call and she will come running to his car or he wasn't used to being snubbed by girls. If this was a developed country,i would have filed for assault. But anything can happen here,it's high time Nigerian girls start demanding respect from male counterparts. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:But you still caused a scene and that is so unladylike. You don't get to choose how a man approaches you but you have control over how you respond. That is all I'm saying. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 9:26pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Brandnew2:I don hear,somethings are best experienced. No need speaking up for a creep who feels that he can approach a girl anyhow. Even when i mentioned that am married,he totally refused to listen to that. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:I know. And I'm not blaming you. All I'm saying is, you could have avoided causing a scene. It's not like as if he wants to take you away at that spot or even kidnap you. Let him just talk and move on. It's not that difficult. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Ihuomadinihu: 9:43pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Brandnew2:Thanks, correction taken. Wonder how am going to face my church people after this silly incident. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu: That's exactly what I'm thinking. |
Re: Aggressive Men. by YUNGLURD(m): 9:54pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
PaulCI:*falls from mango tree* 1 Like |
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