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Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by sokera: 4:51am On May 21, 2015
Im a yoruba guy, the simple truth is that Igbo gilrls are the best for Yoruba guys because yoruba guys compliment Igbo girls more than Igbo guys, every typical Igbo girl want to taste a yoruba guy, they say yoruba guys are more calm and romantic ...
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by MrsChima(f): 5:03am On May 21, 2015
sokera:
Im a yoruba guy, the simple truth is that Igbo gilrls are the best for Yoruba guys because yoruba guys compliment Igbo girls more than Igbo guys, every typical Igbo girl want to taste a yoruba guy, they say yoruba guys are more calm and romantic ...
Although, there are some Igbo guys that are romantic but, many Yoruba guys are cassinova of words!

Some Yoruba guys romance girls with words and gestures while Igbo guys romance girls with money and showmance.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by adazinnie(f): 5:18am On May 21, 2015
yoruba boiz....I luv dem like kilode...my 1st boyfrnd was Yoruba we lived each oda bt he still goes bk to his Yoruba babies wen am not around...wat do u expect if I get married to him..it is certain he would still want someone from his tribe...it deir way....
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by mightycrown1(m): 5:26am On May 21, 2015
tonychristopher:
WHY THE INSULT ..JUST ASKED A QUESTION


U HAVE SHOWN ONE OF THE REASONS ...LOL
[size=18pt] because your question is always stupid question

op marry her if you love her
after all their women are no man's women [/size]
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by mildflame: 5:37am On May 21, 2015
jemimaa01:
shocked shocked how did this happen!!! wow,Nigeria is indeed advancing..
NYSC things n as 4me na northern CHICK I go marry MUSLIM/CHRISTIAN ...DAMN dem 2humble n respectful
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Pheals(f): 5:40am On May 21, 2015
wisdomguy4u:
I can smell jealousy frm ur post dear. You must be a yoruba lady grin so it's understandable
we all know dey require for a lot of things
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Pheals(f): 5:43am On May 21, 2015
midolian:
cheesy

And why did you turn your pix upside down? undecided don't u know you are stressing the viewer? undecided undecided angry
do u need to be among the viewers
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Nobody: 5:45am On May 21, 2015
My brother please do no not marry an Igbo woman .The tribe is the worst in Nigeria the Hausas the Yorubas detest them .Think of the breed your children will be .I hope it doesn't count against them in future .Think we'll bros they are greedy people wicked and will use religion to bamboozle you even though they are the devils incarnate
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by italo: 6:02am On May 21, 2015
FrancisTony:
Is the man a muslim or christian?
I haven't seen a christian yoruba man marrying a second wife and most times, the muslim ones don't venture into polygamy when they marry a Christian woman.

My advice; they should follow their heart not people's own.
Obasanjo, Ebenezer Obey and countless other Yoruba Christians are polygamous.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by midolian(m): 6:03am On May 21, 2015
Pheals:
do u need to be among the viewers
why not? undecided
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by kernel504(m): 6:12am On May 21, 2015
CaptainOjemba:
Enyi ga zuo ike, ina akowa na imaghi na ndi ahu kporo anyi ashi?
Ojemba, obughi mgbe nile ka dike n'anu ogu. Ha anaghi acho anyi okwu ugbua.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Gguy4real: 6:13am On May 21, 2015
My guy likewise me i'm having the same problem as you but i thank GOd for my life everything is under control all you have to do is. Convince her that you really love her and she's meant to be with you just go ahead with the traditional then i believe that things we be ok but first pray hard igbo people can be mad at times oooooo just believe in God
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by italo: 6:14am On May 21, 2015
balotelli:
My brother please do no not marry an Igbo woman .The tribe is the worst in Nigeria the Hausas the Yorubas detest them .
That is why the Hausas and Yorubas don't want them to secede from Nigeria and have their own country.
balotelli:
Think of the breed your children will be .I hope it doesn't count against them in future .
Like it counted against Emeka Anyaoku, Chinua Achebe, Chimamanda Adichie etc.

balotelli:
Think we'll bros they are greedy people
E.g Tinubu

balotelli:
wicked
E.g Obasanjo

balotelli:
and will use religion to bamboozle you even though they are the devils incarnate
E.g TB Joshua, Oyedepo etc.

All I see is envy of Igbos in display.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by italo: 6:18am On May 21, 2015
sokera:
Im a yoruba guy, the simple truth is that Igbo gilrls are the best for Yoruba guys because yoruba guys compliment Igbo girls more than Igbo guys, every typical Igbo girl want to taste a yoruba guy, they say yoruba guys are more calm and romantic ...
You have told us why you think Igbo girls want to taste Yoruba guys.

Tell us also, why Yoruba guys want igbo girls.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Nobody: 6:19am On May 21, 2015
Don't marry an ibo woman because the guy will forever be slave to the Ibo woman. I warn you.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by MrBasketball:
tonychristopher:
BUT WHY DON'T YORUBA MEN MARRY THEIR WOMEN


SOMETHING IS AMISS
Your tribalism is totally outstanding.

You are just behaving like a fool_ for asking dumb question.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by tunde1200(m): 6:30am On May 21, 2015
You don't see any good lady in your tribes to have?
Check your self.

OP my advice please igbos generally hates yoruba too much.
But if you think you can cope with the situation you find youself in later go ahead and pray hard.
Forget about love mostly ladies pretend to have for you.

godoluwa:
yoruba women are desirable but i prefer just one igbo woman to ten yoruba women. am a yoruba man bt I LOVE IGBO GALS LIKE KILODE. IGBO GALS HAS ALL WHAT MAKES A WOMAN, GOOD WIFE. sweet names like Chioma, Ada, Ugochi, Amaka etc I LOVE IGBO GALS, OLORUN NGBO, WALAHI
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Blackfire(m): 6:37am On May 21, 2015
CSTR2:
It's always one randy yoruba man looking to marry an igbo woman.
You hardly see igbo men showing this much enthusiasm towards yoruba women.
Anyway i hope these igbo women marrying these yoruba men are ready to answer the polygamy question.
paul okoye married a yoruba lady...
So all yorubas are polygamus, even the muslims sometimes marry one
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by incrediblestev: 6:45am On May 21, 2015
As much as I want to advise you to follow your heart, many igbo families oppose their daughters marrying a Yoruba man because they believe that they don't take marriages seriously like igbo men, many married Yoruba men still act as if they are unmarried, they keep multiple girlfriends and even bring them home some times with family support. If there is one thing most igbo women can not stand it is the thought of their husbands bringing another woman home or learning about a love child from another woman upon the man's death. Igbo women don't know how to share their husbands, most of them grew up in a Nuclear family structure.

My point is this, if you are going to marry a Yoruba man as an Igbo woman, look at his family members, his own parents, are they together or divorced, his elder brothers or sisters are they married and very close to their wives. How do they take care of their wives and kids, do they just make money available to them but spend very little time with them even though they are always available. Stuff like that. Trust me, any Yoruba man from a polygamous family is likely to take a second wife or at least keep a relationship outside, the same goes for a Muslim Yoruba family.

Unless the Yoruba guy is a serious Christian from a Christian family that takes family values seriously, I won't advise any Igbo woman to marry any other Yoruba man.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Obijulius: 6:46am On May 21, 2015
This your experience is typical of the average Yoruba.

I wish Yorubas could rise far and above this tribalism. It's even worse when the other party is from the SS or SE.

Tribalism can be self-limiting. The only culturally diverse part of Yoruba land is Lagos-most likely because of its former status as a former capital. Most Nigerians will tend to avoid the other Yoruba states because of their extremist tribal views .

Also, Yorubas are the only tribe with the least investments outside their region. Even the Lebanese have more businesses in Nigeria than Yorubas have outside Yoruba land.

Anyone who has worked with these people can confirm their awkward way of thinking when other tribes are involved.

@OP: Follow your heart. If you eventually marry her then treat her the way you would love your mum to be treated.




Stolen:
The answer you seek is in the first word, Igbo not the person or girl, just the tribe. I was out with a yoruba friend wen we saw this girl that was really pretty. We together stopped for a chat with her.

As soon as I asked for her name and tribe. She said something that sounded like Igbo, u need to be there to see the reflex reaction from the yoruba guy that had already started to walk away. He came back with a big smile and said Igbo as if he was repeating wat she had just said and she repeated Ibibio. He just walked away and i carried on the conversation.

Yorubas are tribalist and delibrately seek out igbo girls for some kind of tribal sexual gratification. It is sickening and primitive behavior.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by incrediblestev: 6:52am On May 21, 2015
Gguy4real:
My guy likewise me i'm having the same problem as you but i thank GOd for my life everything is under control all you have to do is. Convince her that you really love her and she's meant to be with you just go ahead with the traditional then i believe that things we be ok but first pray hard igbo people can be mad at times oooooo just believe in God
hahahahaha.... I can understand the igbo people can be mad aspect, I am igbo and I know what you are talking about but the fact remains that most igbo parents refuse their daughters marrying a Yoruba man because they fear he might still take a second wife or have multiple girlfriends after their daughters. Outside of that no worries.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by incrediblestev: 6:56am On May 21, 2015
Obijulius:
This your experience is typical of the average Yoruba.

I wish Yorubas could rise far and above this tribalism. It's even worse when the other party is from the SS or SE.

Tribalism can be self-limiting. The only culturally diverse part of Yoruba land is Lagos-most likely because of its former status as a former capital. Most Nigerians will tend to avoid the other Yoruba states because of their extremist tribal views .

Also, Yorubas are the only tribe with the least investments outside their region. Even the Lebanese have more businesses in Nigeria than Yorubas have outside Yoruba land.

Anyone who has worked with these people can confirm their awkward way of thinking when other tribes are involved.

@OP: Follow your heart. If you eventually marry her then treat her the way you would love your mum to be treated.
I don't believe this aspect of your argument, I am igbo, have worked and still working with Yoruba men and women, I don't feel intimidated or out of place amongst Yoruba...... For sure they like to speak their language no doubt but they are not as tribalistic as you are trying to put it. You have to understand people's idiosyncrasies before jumping to conclude that they are tribalistic, when it comes to relationships I think they are more open than even igbo people especially igbo men.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by sorom4: 6:57am On May 21, 2015
theenii:
I can see through you fool,your tribal comments are all over culture and politics section,you are the least person to give advice in this situation,you hate Yorubas with passion but who cares anyway,i wonder what they see in your hairy sisters anyway undecided
they saw what they cant see in their girls with streatched mark small breast and rainbow colour body
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by ayokellany: 6:57am On May 21, 2015
CSTR2:
smh.
And how do you expect your yoruba sisters to feel?
You guys are something else.
Beta not waste your time on those comic relief Igbos claiming to be Yoruba. Imagine claiming he likes names like Chioma when you Kemi Bola n co. Just read btw their comments they easily give themselves away.
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by JayJustus(m): 6:59am On May 21, 2015
if you love her put a ring on the damn finger smash the punnay, mix the babies thank me later

*rows kayak away from thread*
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by joelyusuf(m): 7:00am On May 21, 2015
Bro,dnt let the society to decide fr u,backup d love wt action nd allow God to tak contrl.
Have seen a frnd who is Yoruba,marryin an Igbo girl and they ar havin a colourful marriage life.
Dont allow your fwnds,neighbour,family and society decide fr you bt allow ur hrt to.Always back ur relationshp wt prayers nd Gods directiv.God bless you!
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by incrediblestev: 7:02am On May 21, 2015
MrsChima:
Although, there are some Igbo guys that are romantic but, many Yoruba guys are cassinova of words!

Some Yoruba guys romance girls with words and gestures while Igbo guys romance girls with money and showmance.
hahahahaha..... This is serious, Yoruba guyz are more romantic than igbo guyz..... Lol.... Prolly because they buy igbo girls stuff and try to impress them but igbo guyz just show you as it it and tell you Nne, take it or leave it.... Lol
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Nobody: 7:12am On May 21, 2015
mildflame:
NYSC things n as 4me na northern CHICK I go marry MUSLIM/CHRISTIAN ...DAMN dem 2humble n respectful
that makes alot of sense...you're the only sensible man on this thread,the rest are strongly misled...northern ladies are truly humble,most of them are not hungry runs girls and stuff (IMO)..
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by ireneony(f): 7:12am On May 21, 2015
yuio33:
cool
!d?ot! who told u osazee is from western Nigeria. .
leader mum is Russian while his dad is from Benin city..
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by Nobody: 7:18am On May 21, 2015
wristwatch:
Aunty them dey oo. The hausas nko.

Though not rampant like before because the economic situation is doing the needful to curb polygamy cheesy
Lols.
Truetalk though. I can't say for the Northerners, I have never had the opportunity to be close to them.
I think we are evolving, men wanna live longer. One man_ one woman it is now. grin


ferdimako:
plenty...one is at home, others are outside.
Experience? shocked
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by incrediblestev: 7:19am On May 21, 2015
jemimaa01:
that makes alot of sense...you're the only sensible man on this thread,the rest are strongly misled...northern ladies are truly humble,most of them are not hungry runs girls and stuff (IMO)..
hahahahaha.... You are joking right... Unless you are Muslim and Hausa culture and language, you are in for a big shock.....
Re: He Is Yoruba But Wants To Marry An Igbo Lady: Please Advise Him by ireneony(f): 7:22am On May 21, 2015
proudlyhandsome:
I wouldn't want to use normal Yorubas on our streets to drive home my point cos it might be difficult for us to get the real statistics. However, i ll use Yoruba celebrities and politicians to drive home my point.

Can you tell me how many Yoruba politicians and celebrities are married to Igbo wives? None. Do you now see how stupidd you sound?

Read and read for your own good, Yoruba parents hate to see their children getting married to Igbos but the children of 21st century have changed the whole game now. They choose whom they want to spend the rest of their lives with either their parents like or not.

I have dated many Igbo girls right from my secondary school days and i didnt even know they were Igbos until we started dating. 98% of Yoruba guys u see with Igbo girls were not probably aware that these Igbo girls were Igbos until they started dating.

There are thousand Igbo girls out there in South West who were born and raised in South West; these girls can speak Yorubas better than bonafide Yoruba ladies/guys. And you won't even suspect they were Igbos until you start dating them. These Igbo girls could even speak Yoruba dialect of their place of birth in South west.

I dated an Igbo girl for 4 years before i met my wife and within 7 months i got married to my Yoruba wife for the sake of my children but she refused to see reason wt me. The Igbo girl nearly went mad and I never knew there was a love like that. I have read and heard about real love but never believe in it until I jilted this lady. She but poison and threatened to kill herself if I dished my Yoruba girlfriend................... Long story.

My point is that there are so many Igbo immigrants in south west with their daughters who could speak Yoruba language fluently and attend Schools with Yoruba guys without us knowing that they Igbos until we stated dating these Igbo girls
guy u are tribalist n a heartbreakerundecided
u dated someone for four yrs n u didn't marry her....but u dated ur own tribe for 7months then u wife her up.
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