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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 4:24pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
crackhaus:I'm very far from agitated, I just have too much passion and I guess it sometimes send the wrong message. I never mentioned religion in my post, I only talked about MARRIAGE all over which comes with clear instructions. Have you seen any marriage where cheating is allowed? Again, it has nothing to do with Religion. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by BABE3: 4:25pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
edwife: why do you guys always think I'm fighting a gender battle? This topic is about side chics, and I'm on track. When I see a topic on side guys, I'll speak on the subject. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by edwife(f): 4:35pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
BABE3: Okay dear,you know that i get you -i am the last person to even think that you are fighting a gender battle. Even if you think it is hard to resist those side chics,don't you think it's a little bit weak because we all as humans at one point of our lives dealt with situations that are out of control,but somehow resisted.We just need self-control. My point is,for a girl to decide to sleep with a married man simply means she is not morally upright so does a man. Promises are broken everyday,for better for worst for some is just a formality,hence we have women who leave their broke ass husbands.....even when they are not violent. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 4:38pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
BABE3:While nothing is really absolute, I believe one can achieve whatever he/she sets his mind to do in this context, cheating is not that simple, that's why it's sensitive. Cheating is not a reflex so the issue of self control depending on another in this case, I don't agree with. A man can be surrounded by all the hot ladies in the world and decide not to cheat. I can understand that the urge to do it can be influenced but actually doing it, is a choice. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Ewuro4: 4:40pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
crackhaus: EPIC When I followed my friend to her hubbys side chicks' apartment and waited in the car (engine was running) for her while she beats her to stupor & take all the expensive stuff he got her (yes in the west) , all NL women went for my head and called me all sorts. Single girls throwing themselves to married men because they can is resulted from sense of irresponsibility and lack of morals, and guess what ? Married women are now wiser and ready to Physically beat that into them and indict them for stealing. Yes call them wandering dîcks , AGREED , but YOU won't be cut loose but also get what's coming to you in LARGE QUANTITY. "B'th Better have my Money" 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 4:45pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ewuro4: LMAO. I don laff tire.. hell hath no fury.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by crackhaus: 4:45pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
aflyingbird:A single woman is also responsible not just to herself, but to her body and future...not to mention, her dignity also. I wholeheartedly agree with the bit in bold...that was the premise of my disagreement with Cocoa. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Ewuro4: 4:53pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
yorubadelta: I hate that generic ' face your hubby' rubbish I see here, so she's free? NAH not a chance |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by crackhaus: 4:58pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
freecocoa:You never mentioned religion, but you did mention vows... and I believe marriage vows to be inherently Biblical, are they not? But since you say it has nothing to do with religion, I guess it has to do with morality then...which still begs the question: Why is the onus on the cheating married man to have more morality than his side-chic? The side-chic doesn't care what you and I think about morality...isn't this supposed to be the same criteria by which we judge the married man as not caring about morality as well? Is he supposed to be more moral because he's a man? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
crackhaus:Well, it's arguable because they weren't tempted same time. Bottom line: Both succumbed at the first attempt even though it took Eve long unlike Adam who fell easily. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by edwife(f): 4:59pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol you and your ganster friend.Y'all lucky,the police was not called on you. That's how caroline gave her husband mistress a resounding slap in a salon and guess what? All the social media went on fire with many people commending her-some went to the side chic instagram page and showered her with curses. Guess who is back on social media flaunting her new single boo ,when she was known flaunting a married man? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by crackhaus: 5:07pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Lmao... that your friend is just insane (in a good I-cant-take-sh1t way) Why did NL women want to have your head na? For just accompanying her? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:08pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Nobody is going after the men. They are going after the girls themselves. The way some married men deny their marital status, take off their rings and pursue young girls is alarming sometimes. If I didn't experience it, i'd have thought it was a lie. As usual blame the west Western men respect their wives. You don't mess with your wife like a fool around here or you will have grave consequences if she wants to drag your ass to court. Pls blame who's to blame. From blaming the girls, you've turned to blame the west. African men are no longer polygamous? Will it hurt you for once to apportion blame where it belongs? Ugh! Jeez! 5minsmadness: 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by edwife(f): 5:12pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
. A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when[size=16pt] a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard. [/size] Can't believe it got 15 likes.... Wow wow wow So a man is a head and for- runner? So when it comes to a woman happiness,a man must be responsible? Where is the equality here? @BABE3 and crackhaus... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by crackhaus: 5:16pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
FrancisTony:What are you going on about now? What is arguable, and what has who succumbed easily got to do with the blunder you made? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
cococandy:I wanted to quote that hypocritical comment but no time for his back and forth. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 5:16pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Take this peck for your sensible post muaaaahhh cococandy: 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
There's moral blame for a single man or woman cheating with a married person but as far the marriage is concerned, the person who's married bears all the blame for breaking their vows. No sugarcoating. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
crackhaus:Na wa o crackhaus, are you deliberately turning us round and round? Vows are not inherently biblical as many other religions/ facets of life take vows. The point is, the man took a vow to be faithful, therefore he should abide by it. Unless you are arguing that, there's nothing wrong with breaking a vow. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 5:18pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
FrancisTony:that makes the two of us so I'll rather enjoy the ride 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by babygirlfl: 5:18pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
yorubadelta: To answer your question, The man, the side chic and the society is to be blamed. The man because he is married and has to live with the decision he made to spend the rest of his life with his wife. The side chic because you should do unto others as you wish to be done to you. The society for tolerating both a cheating man and a side chic. However, blame never solves any problem. The part I know most people are always interested in is how to solve this problem that is fast becoming a menace to society. All the parties blamed have to be addressed but in my opinion, the man has a much higher percentage of work to do. Self control is very important. It is much easier for a man to make a decision not to cheat than for us to change the minds of all the side chics or society. The man is the single most powerful and effective person that can break the circle. You fight a side chic and another one rears her ugly head tomorrow. How many can you fight? Do side chics deserve to be punished? Absolutely yes but the person who should get the biggest punishment is the man. It is absolutely stupid for the wife to fight the side chic and then come home to play the dutiful and loving wife to the husband. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
FrancisTony: It's no longer our culture. It's the west now. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
mredwifeosband:if these people catch with their pictures ehn 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 5:23pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
cococandy: |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 5:23pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
cococandy: |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
mredwifeosband:there was a day you posted my friend's picture . I told you ba? I know you didn't believe me. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by crackhaus: 5:27pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
freecocoa:It's okay if you think I'm arguing in support of cheating and breaking vows. What other marriage vows do you know? Please share the words with us as it is said. The point is, the man took a vow and should abide by it...same way a single woman needs to be responsible to herself and not have a relationship with a married man. Morality is not gender-specific. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 5:29pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
cococandy:Thank You, I don't talk about the single ladies because I can't tell a person how to be moral. What you consider immoral might be moral to someone else. The only reason why the married man is being blamed, is because he took the vows. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
cococandy:ya friend no get name make i hook you guys up 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by BABE3: 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
edwife: I don tire for that kind argument. Everybody is confused in this family section. Even me sef don confuse cococandy: You mean western men don't cheat on their wives? What planet that west dey, abeg? I'm tired of these cheating fùckboys. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:33pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
freecocoa: Well I don't know how others see things but if I cheat on my husband, the fault is all on me in my opinion. No blaming the society or the guy who got the permission from me to come between us. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 5:36pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
BABE3: Of course people cheat everywhere in the world. See question o . But by default (law) you can do something about it if you want to. At least that keeps some of them in check. Imagine a state governor PUBLICLY keeping a mistress and beating his wife for questioning him. You know the difference. No fear of consequences. 2 Likes |
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