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Ask for a week casual leave in your office. Fake a sack letter and hand over to her. Lament on how tough life is for a week. Let's see her reaction.


I hope you are not a bad financial manager though.

Always plan ahead. Don't let yourself get broke. Stop sponsoring your friends bad habits eg drinking, smoking, womanising.

If she doesn't work make her learn a vocation.


An idle mind is karishika's workshop.

richommie:
Obviously she's a gold digger.
The only way to know a good and trustworthy woman is by appearin poor When the money comes beetch gets closer
#Yolo

what is #yolo pls?

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear

Aight!

We already see you as that kinda man.

Seriously, why are you crying now? I read your post from the first alphabet to the last and saw a man that swallowed a rat.

Oh oh!

Let us rest, bikonu.

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

my best advice, 1st did you maried her legaly? If baby are not yet involved, flee the marriage without compromise, forget whtever any pastor is saying or so called motivational talkers! They will never share ur predicament wit you! Ur wife surpose to be your defence and som1 to encourage you in time of trouble. Contrary to that can jeopadise ur orientation/destiny.

I peep to read comments from ladies, some ladies here are very reasonable Lady F gave a good advice n a Lady that said not all matters concerns your home you bring here. Nagging because u are broke then she did not marry u for better for worse but guy talk to her n save little from your income you never get pikin sef it's either she is pregnant or she inherited that act from her family. you can change her with good advice, prayers and living up on to expectations.


in my house I never experience nagging. I keep thanking my wife, I know she is reading this but she don't know my moniker but I know hers

The problem is typical! Always plan ahead!

Ginaz:
hmmmm, that's some kinda bad character she has. its obvious she doesn't knows what she's doing in her marriage, and things like this isn't good.

I think you should let her know the effect her nagging is having on you, you shouldn't just sit there and bottle your feelings inside.

its obvious that her personality is to satisfy her needs, you shouldn't blame her. people have different personality traits and they get afraid if their needs are not met. you should understand her rather than taking it to heart. she wants comfort and she get satisfaction from it, its like her life necessities, and when not met she panics.

she won't stop it, she'll keep nagging. you can help by taking her to see a councillor or talk sense to her. I mean a mature heart to heart kind of conversation, she will feel bad by putting you through emotional turmoil and might stop.

also, let her know condition of things on time so that she can cope when times money isn't available,by so doing, she won't nag much.

I understand your plight, its not a good feeling when you do everything to please someone but they take them for granted.

whenever she starts nagging, you can go out and cool down. dont sit there with her nagging her head off at you, if you ain't there, the nagging will stop.

For how long will he be going out whenever she starts nagging? He should leave house for her, haba fah.

Op what role is your wife playing in finances? Is she working?

EggovinMma:
Just 10 months and she is already nagging??
Which kind wife be that? You mean to tell us that 10 months after , she is already frustrating the home? Chai!! This one was quick! The ogbanje wey vanish before you marry her don resurface.


My advice, when she starts nagging, leave the house for her.Na her mate dey fry akara for junction.

Ogbanje kwa?? This babe eh!

The bolded is actually the best thing to do..

yanabasee:
Op.... I wouldn't say much... As you've clearly put it.. She's not happy with the marriage... If you dig deep.. You'll noticed that, the man she would've married is still communicating with her, perhaps, telling her how he's doing too well and how he's sitting untop of money and how she's missing out.
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You have to study your wife.. And you have to scold her if need be... You have to keep love aside and scold her severely to know that you're the man of the house... These kind of wives will leave you or even divorce you, if you lose your job...
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Just play a prank on her... Design a Sack/Termination letter and show her.. And she will leave u with few months.
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You actually married a woman dat will not be able to stick with you when things get rough... And what is she even doing at home? Can't she work?

Design a sack letter pls make the plan look real

Tell her to get a job!!! And be serious about it!!!

I dont have anything to contribute again sef, so many people have said my mind.......OP i just feel sorry for u, u don enta one chance.........Your wife will soon start playing away match to support her ministry

Bro you have married a BAD WIFE

A good woman supports her hubby even in hard times

This is a lesson for those who are not married, if your girlfriend doesnt know how to plan with u and all she does is ask for money for materials things etc, pls run away.


OGA pls tell your wife money isn't forthcoming anymore that you don't know how both of u can survive , make sure she doesn't get any dime for about two months. then watch and see if she will pack out or not.
She is obviously a wicked gold digger with no atom of love for u

My wife makes waaaay more than I do, that's a key reason why I married her in the first place and I take every opportunity to let her know that if she misbehaves am walking out...she knows what the deal is, am selling my freedom to her at a premium and she had better be grateful for it. Silly men don't know their value and let women walk all over them...mtcheww don't care what any poosi ahse NLder thinks; I work, make my own money but I made sure my partner is also capable...marriage is a contract, it is not love or whatever fantasy the white woman has put in your head..when you contract with a broke baytch, you get nagged down

christinie:
Ask for a week casual leave in your office. Fake a sack letter and hand over to her. Lament on how tough life is for a week. Let's see her reaction.


I hope you are not a bad financial manager though.

Always plan ahead. Don't let yourself get broke. Stop sponsoring your friends bad habits eg drinking, smoking, womanising.

If she doesn't work make her learn a vocation.


An idle mind is karishika's workshop.

Christ!

Imagine that! Just 10months old marriage and she's nagging already.. What if she gives birth to a child/children and you went broke what will she be doing then, fighting you or encouraging you?
Ma bro, I don't know what to say to you now cos I might say something and my Oga at the top will say another thing..

Wetin kwa?

phabulux:
Christ!

yea

hunn

See why i no wan marry!



Encourage her to work! Find her a job

.barest girl rverv loh

îWomsh 89

christinie:
Wetin kwa?

Nothing!

All the 'quirks' and 'do's' will be all right in your man too, will they not?

'Sponsoring'!

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

A nagging woman is worst than a cheating one,I won't pray for the two though,only 10month in marriage and she's already nagging,the important thing these days is most woman don't know the meaning of marriage,they think is all bed of roses,I always advice man,add some flavor when courting,don't always be a moronn clouded with love,cos when the chips are down,love will not be enough bros,I will advice you keep working hard and making more money,your wife will leave you or cheat on you if you lost your job,10month old,things are getting real weirder now

theplushist:
A billion likes. A lot of such naggings and even exorbitant demands by wives will be averted if only men open up about their incomes. Women are not evil. Most of them think you earn more hence they begin to think you are being wicked or stingy.
Open up and you'd be surprised by how she would even manage your money for you

Why can't women make money on their own to support their husband?? What they thinking when they graduated with a pass in sociology

1. No love from day 1. 2. Pls set her up in business. 3. Caution her when ever she do that again. (To be a man is not a beans)

Nagging babes are very irritating. And once started, its difficult she stops.

I do not know what to advice this poster shaa. I guess he did be feeling like running out of home.

Woman hate discomfort. I will advice guys to keep weekly allowances for their wives according to their pocket sizes. Maybe N5k for food and N5k for her upkeep. On monday you give her the upkeep money, weekend give her the food money.

Make her feel in control so that if she runs down the money, she wont have a stand to nag. I have found out that money keeps women loyal..

People judging based on one side of story.

[b][/b][i][/i]Its rather a pity for a man of your caliber to be suffering unnecessarily. To be able to define who a person is: the solution to that is money and power. These two re lethal combination. People like yourself are meant to brace themselves up by ruminating and pondering over the affairs of your home because since your wife nag each time you re broke, your reaction and what you do shapes you as a matured man. One common characteristics of women is they re the complaining type. Your reaction to her complains is highly paramount because you re not responsible for what she says but your reaction to such situation determines the retrogression or progression of such marriage.................David on the beat Its rather a pity for a man of your caliber to be suffering unnecessarily. To be able to define who a person is: the solution to that is money and power. These two re lethal combination. People like yourself are meant to brace themselves up by ruminating and pondering over the affairs of your home because since your wife nag each time you re broke, your reaction and what you do shapes you as a matured man. One common characteristics of women is they re the complaining type. Your reaction to her complains is highly paramount because you re not responsible for what she says but your reaction to such situation determines the retrogression or progression of such marriage.................David on the beat Its rather a pity for a man of your caliber to be suffering unnecessarily. To be able to define who a person is: the solution to that is money and power. These two re lethal combination. People like yourself are meant to brace themselves up by ruminating and pondering over the affairs of your home because since your wife nag each time you re broke, your reaction and what you do shapes you as a matured man. One common characteristics of women is they re the complaining type. Your reaction to her complains is highly paramount because you re not responsible for what she says but your reaction to such situation determines the retrogression or progression of such marriage.................David on the beat

My guy you need to be on top of your game by working harder

My advice might hurt u, bt u married a gf material nt a wife. #vegatalks

@ OP ,ignore those advising. You to divorce. Her; all women nag, even men do!

Those people advising u, their wives do also; forget this online pretense.

My Advice to u is, get her a job, or give her little cash to start a small business. In as much as she is doesn't depend on you for every thing, the nagging will stop, or reduce.