The way some guys act clearly indicate that they
will end up as chronic headache for their wives in
the nearest future if care is not taken.
I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the
act of humiliating ladies in public and online
because these ladies in question must have
torment their heart but going to the extent of
destroying their intrinsic values is the major
concern here.
Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate
a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy
Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they
can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a
day. The only time they call for long period is
during free night calls or bonus awarded from
telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will
hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM
that it was network failure.

2. Highly promiscuous
This issue is common to perverts who has never
zipped up for once in their life by chasing every
tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that
will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing
ladies who are young enough to be their daughter
in future.

3. Very lazy
Some guys are so idle to the extent that they
have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are
just too lazy to seize opportunities around them
as they are only seen in betting shops like
nairabet, etc. to make money.

4. Ridicule ladies
I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend
in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I
consider this as a dysfunctional act because a
man in making will not stoop so low to involve
himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland
some consider all ladies as whores of which we
still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel,
prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi,
adeh39 and others.

5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking
For a guy that consume too much alcohol and
smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is
not a man. Such guys cannot become
responsible husbands to their wives because they
can use children’s school fee and other budgetary
money to drink and smoke.

6. Wrong lifestyle
Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer
groups who have influence them to have
shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation,
rape gangs and area touts.

7. Careless attitude
The way some guys behave can be likened to a
voracious animal. They dump and change ladies
like sanitary pads as they care less about their
emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex
journey that becomes foetus.

8. Poor financial planning
Some guys blow money like trumpet without
thinking about future investment. They spend
their money on vague things like phones,
prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become
an irresponsible husband.

9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit
and it results in ineffective communication, which
usually have an adverse impact on the
productivity of the individual and their
relationships. Poor listening definitely make a
huge, negative impact on team morale and
productivity. This situation usually results in
conflicts and misunderstandings among partners ,
and it creates a negative environment.

10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the
ability to control their emotions, behavior, and
desires. Guys should constantly be striving
towards self-control and discipline, because these
are foundations of integrity. One thing they need
to understand about self-control is that it is not
as much about saying no to certain fleshly
desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant
life free from addiction regret and shame.

11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at
Interrupting a conversation with improper body
language or inappropriate words and this has a
negative impact on their relationships. My bf does
this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him
severally yet, he can’t stop it.

12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they
should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able
to breathe for hours and most of them term it
sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go
and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love
guys that are neat, guys that organizes their
home.
13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I
have no problem with a guy having money.
However, I do have a problem when you decide to
treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are
bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes,
we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t
mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn
off for me

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i finally said it,
i mentioned earlier in a thread, why just 10 every day , why not 13
it has finally come to pass
let every one follow the trend now.

back to topic, your list are not complete.
i fall under category 1,no time for grammar. am an igbo Guy, yes i am so stingy even though i have the money, that doesnt justify the fact i wont be a responsible husband.
but the fact is, it dont apply to all men, ladies are just the problem, when they call, she will receive another call. . but who are those always calling her a day. . Ladies hardly call their boyfriends, am too busy on a project, my mind is not there at least you ladies should give us space , these days we dont Date again, how can we call you when you dont give us your attention like we are begging you, if you like i no call you , make you brush off.

Op all i am saying is Dont talk what you don’t know
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ok

No1 is wack!

The guy that doesn't call during the day is busy.

You should be proud he even stays up at night just to have a nice talk wd you instead of sleeping.

Women and nagging sha .. Who will cure dz disease


All the rest are cool with me anyway

Ladies & their double standards sha

Sabrwahaqqo:
No1 is wack!

The guy that doesn't call during the day is busy.

You should be proud he even stays up at night just to have a nice talk wd you instead of sleeping.

Women and nagging sha .. Who will cure dz disease


All the rest are cool with me anyway

hahaha whatever my dear.some are stingy accept it or not.it isn't only a matter of calls.I once dated a guy.if he bought #25noreos biscuit.he would t buy mine.if I slept over in his place he d buy only his food n say "Coman join me" like tf??!little impressions like that matter

Mzdivacious:
hahaha whatever my dear.some are stingy accept it or not.it isn't only a matter of calls.I once dated a guy.if he bought #25noreos biscuit.he would t buy mine.if I slept over in his place he d buy only his food n say "Coman join me" like tf??!little impressions like that matter

Why date broke niggas when you know you can't cope wt little/ no doe ?

Its you fault, not theirs

Sabrwahaqqo:
No1 is wack!

The guy that doesn't call during the day is busy.

You should be proud he even stays up at night just to have a nice talk wd you instead of sleeping.

Women and nagging sha .. Who will cure dz disease


All the rest are cool with me anyway

am telling ya mehn, they nag alot like monkeys, the rest na common trait of us men but am excluded doesnt mean they will make an irresponsible husband, Women are always a problem if not Adam would not have eaten the forbidden fruit with her
i wish it happens, only the men would be naked

broxymall:

am telling ya mehn, they nag alot like monkeys, the rest na common trait of us men but am excluded doesnt mean they will make an irresponsible husband, Women are always a problem if not Adam would not have eaten the forbidden fruit with her
i wish it happens, only the men would be naked

calm down.u just exhibited trait number4.most common trait of nl guys.boy FCK outta here ...women a problem??including ur mum?u need to change

Mzdivacious:
calm down.u just exhibited trait number4.most common trait of nl guys.boy FCK outta here ...women a problem??including ur mum?u need to change

can you kindly tell me the traits?

waiting for a counter thread

broxymall:

am telling ya mehn, they nag alot like monkeys, the rest na common trait of us men but am excluded doesnt mean they will make an irresponsible husband, Women are always a problem if not Adam would not have eaten the forbidden fruit with her
i wish it happens, only the men would be naked

The Greek mythology was the best!

Has it that ; 'women were sent to men as punishment'

One sage (forgotten his name) like that said something like ; ' If you're looking for trouble and devil combined, just go and marry'


My defense strategy so far on woman matter so far is just to stay mute and totally Ignore her and her wahala. Sooner or later , she go come back , kneel down and say 'no vex nah' ... The Confused , insatiable goats that they are

Sabrwahaqqo:


The Greek mythology was the best!

Has it that ; 'women were sent to men as punishment'

One sage (forgotten his name) like that said something like ; ' If you're looking for trouble and devil combined, just go and marry'


My defense strategy so far on woman matter so far is just to stay mute and totally Ignore her and her wahala. Sooner or later , she go come back , kneel down and say 'no vex nah' ... The Confused , insatiable goats that they are

Lwkmd, you just spoke my mind

sighs# this hatred no get part2 .sabrwahaqqo n broxymall don't get married at all...aa to yin ti

Mzdivacious:
sighs# this hatred no get part2 .sabrwahaqqo n broxymall don't get married at all...aa to yin ti

i dont have a problem with that

Mzdivacious:
hahaha whatever my dear.some are stingy accept it or not.it isn't only a matter of calls.I once dated a guy.if he bought #25noreos biscuit.he would t buy mine.if I slept over in his place he d buy only his food n say "Coman join me" like tf??!little impressions like that matter

By doing that he was preparing you for marriage, sharing everything as one.

Mzdivacious:
sighs# this hatred no get part2 .sabrwahaqqo n broxymall don't get married at all...aa to yin ti

LoLz. Shebi u will marry me?

At least u already know I won't call you in d day for more than one minute

They say a known devil is better than an unknown angel

KingTom:


By doing that he was preparing you for marriage, sharing everything as one.

lol shoroniyen I fit slap u thru this screen

broxymall:

i dont have a problem with that

udont have a problem with never marrying??wow wow!boy who broke ur heart...sorry tho #okbye

naijaboiy:
Mzdivacious thanks for the points,,we guys are still learning. One day we'll get there.

But I have a little problem...how can I stop changing girls like sanitary pads?

errm errm its ur life you r single..u are free to change as much as u want as long as you are not seriously dating some girl u know really likes u.that d just make u a bastard
u can stop however by finding a girl u really care for and she needs u just as much .keyword on care n need

Mzdivacious:

lol shoroniyen I fit slap u thru this screen

I will slap you back so you know that we are one, we'll share the pain of the slaps

vizkiz:


chai! Women yaf suffer from this guy hand

professional Heartbreakers them .life s not fair

KingTom:

I will slap you back so you know that we are one, we'll share the pain of the slaps

I just laffed out loud trait num4.see them

naijaboiy:

But why are you insulting me na? I only asked you a question o.

Anyway,,are you sure if I find a girl that needs me just as much as I need her then I won't change her like a sanitary pad?

lmao I didn't insult u na.*kiss kiss*...yes I am sure.sha make sure u have feelings for d girl.real feelings no be this yamayama lust or infatuation feelings o