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tonychristopher:
Ada OMA


This is exactly the reason why Igbo rarely look other tribes for marraige ..you have proved that Igbo finesse

Your a good girk and will make a good wife

Joy1706:
You might just end up losing a good girl with this mentality.

cyprus000:
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I find this conversation a kind of tiring and soul draining.
I aint gifted with energy to go concentric on same matter that justifies hogwash and still emanate vapid shitt.

The embolded: if you have 3years experience. Sorry to burst your bubble. I'm not only inebriated by it. I'm ineffably witted in that field

If I am to give a sincere advice. I'd say you should hyper-aesthetically exercise
macography, upon the situs, which you tenant,cos if you propell ourself to
the toposphere of my lexical echolon.

The land would be magnamiously conflugrated for a repose.

I was having a civil discuss with you and you went all emotional. I'm not gifted with patience to tolerate that kind of outburst. So I advice you pass[/size]

fairygeh:
I pray you don't contact HIV and it's likes.e go do you like film trick.

Orikinla:
My mother of blessed memory, Mrs. Gladys Eke told me a great thing in our mother tongue, Igbo, but translated to English meaning: "A young man saw a beautiful maiden on the way, but he had no money to pay her bride price and just stood there enraptured by her beauty until another man came and paid her bride price and married her. The poor admirer lost her to the suitor who could afford her bride price". Then my mother said the poor man should not have stood there just admiring the beautiful maiden and day dreaming on loving her. He should have gone to work to get the money to pay her bride price and he would not have lost her. No bride price, no bride. Any man without money asking a woman out is only asking for trouble, because he cannot provide for her. Even every dummy knows the popular saying; NO ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE. It is even a popular hit song. Even rich girls don't like broke or poor boys. And following the moral of the story. I never asked any girl out when I was still struggling to make ends meet. Several girls liked and loved me, even beautiful Caucasian babes from America and Europe, but I never asked them out. One love crazy one, Mosumola brought money for me to take her out, but I rejected her offer and she left me alone. Peter Okoye found Lola when he went to collect a fat cheque for his performance at the company where she worked and she fell in love at first sight of the cash flow before she even saw his six packs later. When Peter was still poor and struggling, you could see his girlfried in that old picture was not looking happy. Where is she today? She must have cheated on poor Peter and left him. TuFace Idibia lost one beauty queen years ago, because of his poverty. He was so poor that she even gave him some money and left him for one rich older man. God help you when your girlfriend tells you that she is hungry and you cannot afford to feed her or when she needs sanitary pad and you cannot afford one. She wil leave. Finis.

fairygeh:
I pray you don't contact HIV and it's likes.e go do you like film trick.

Krystalxxx:
Ok. All these guys that are always talking shit. I have been with my bf for quite a long while now. Since we met, I have been funding him with money and foodstuff as he always claimed that he is broke or hungry. Being my first but longest relationship, I adhered to this advice of 'be a helper not a golddigger' but in return he has mocked me by using this money to buy credit for other women and other such goodies. In our long time of sticking through thick and thin, he has never taken me out,. And now that he has graduated before me, I see no 'reward' in sight. Instead, it's as though he's saying 'shebi u thought you had enough to give me right? ' mocking me. Some fellow girls have blamed me for the outcome, saying all this happened because a woman is never meant to help a man out.

In this case you guys should absolutely shut up. You know why? You claim you want helpmates but if you find such a woman you mistreat her. Then you will go for a gold digger with curves all the same.
Obasonjo had wives before he became president. Women who stood by him in his tough times, but he went for Bleached and beautiful Stella who just came to sit on the throne other women worked for. How many stories do we hear of guys who marry a woman with nothing and when the going gets good they discard this woman to bring in a younger one ? I have seen these stories all around me ! In real life! When a woman sticks by you una take her to be a fool, so everyone , all d guys here should stop making needless noise. It's either men don't know what they want or they just love to complain. Abeg park well cuz we know the ending of all these rants even if a woman should stand by you, it's not as if you will appreciate it. We all know that in reality the girl who stands close or spends for his sake is seen as the fool.
#drops phone.

Adanna28:
Amen...I appreciate that dear, you touch my heart with such sentiments.

I will always do my duty, as a strong family orientated woman.

Krystalxxx:
Ok. All these guys that are always talking shit. I have been with my bf for quite a long while now. Since we met, I have been funding him with money and foodstuff as he always claimed that he is broke or hungry. Being my first but longest relationship, I adhered to this advice of 'be a helper not a golddigger' but in return he has mocked me by using this money to buy credit for other women and other such goodies. In our long time of sticking through thick and thin, he has never taken me out,. And now that he has graduated before me, I see no 'reward' in sight. Instead, it's as though he's saying 'shebi u thought you had enough to give me right? ' mocking me. Some fellow girls have blamed me for the outcome, saying all this happened because a woman is never meant to help a man out.

In this case you guys should absolutely shut up. You know why? You claim you want helpmates but if you find such a woman you mistreat her. Then you will go for a gold digger with curves all the same.
Obasonjo had wives before he became president. Women who stood by him in his tough times, but he went for Bleached and beautiful Stella who just came to sit on the throne other women worked for. How many stories do we hear of guys who marry a woman with nothing and when the going gets good they discard this woman to bring in a younger one ? I have seen these stories all around me ! In real life! When a woman sticks by you una take her to be a fool, so everyone , all d guys here should stop making needless noise. It's either men don't know what they want or they just love to complain. Abeg park well cuz we know the ending of all these rants even if a woman should stand by you, it's not as if you will appreciate it. We all know that in reality the girl who stands close or spends for his sake is seen as the fool.
#drops phone.

Krystalxxx:
Ok. All these guys that are always talking shit. I have been with my bf for quite a long while now. Since we met, I have been funding him with money and foodstuff as he always claimed that he is broke or hungry. Being my first but longest relationship, I adhered to this advice of 'be a helper not a golddigger' but in return he has mocked me by using this money to buy credit for other women and other such goodies. In our long time of sticking through thick and thin, he has never taken me out,. And now that he has graduated before me, I see no 'reward' in sight. Instead, it's as though he's saying 'shebi u thought you had enough to give me right? ' mocking me. Some fellow girls have blamed me for the outcome, saying all this happened because a woman is never meant to help a man out.

In this case you guys should absolutely shut up. You know why? You claim you want helpmates but if you find such a woman you mistreat her. Then you will go for a gold digger with curves all the same.
Obasonjo had wives before he became president. Women who stood by him in his tough times, but he went for Bleached and beautiful Stella who just came to sit on the throne other women worked for. How many stories do we hear of guys who marry a woman with nothing and when the going gets good they discard this woman to bring in a younger one ? I have seen these stories all around me ! In real life! When a woman sticks by you una take her to be a fool, so everyone , all d guys here should stop making needless noise. It's either men don't know what they want or they just love to complain. Abeg park well cuz we know the ending of all these rants even if a woman should stand by you, it's not as if you will appreciate it. We all know that in reality the girl who stands close or spends for his sake is seen as the fool.
#drops phone.

Joy1706:
So u want to be a leech?

humilitypays:
I am very aware that what I am about to write will not go down well with many readers on this forum, but then, the truth must be told.

In as much as I do not support single ladies being too forward about money and material things, I do not support a single guy going into a relationship when he has not found his direction in life; more especially nowadays that increase in population has made it very difficult for young people to find job after school.

I will be making reference to the Holy Bible to back up my stand, but before then, let's take a look at some of the disadvantages of a guy going into a committed relationship when he is still struggling:

1. He gets distracted: women are emotional creatures that require lots of emotional attention to satisfy, so for a guy who's still struggling financially, keeping a committed relationship will most likely distract him from chasing his life dreams.

2. Financial waste: no matter what you think or say, keeping a girlfriend cost money, especially nowadays that technology has taken over the world.

Buying call cards to say hi to her, buying gifts for her on special occasions, taking her out for dates, and other frivolous spending cost money which the guy can invest on himself to acquire ICT skill/certification, etc.

I won't bore you guys with too many points, so let me jump straight to the Bible backing.

During the process of creation as narrated in the book of Genesis, the world was without form, nothing existed and God created heaven and earth, sea, oceans, forests, trees, animals and every other thing on earth.

And God looked at the earth and saw its beauty, and decided to create the first human.

Please I want you guys to pay close attention to the preceding paragraphs of this write-up.

When God decided to create human being, God didn't create man and woman the same day, instead God first created man- Adam.

Adam lived alone for long, moving around the earth (Garden of Eden), taking care of the animals, trees, fishes, etc and God saw that He was lonely and needed company and helper, and God decided to create Eve to keep Adam company and to also be his helper.

The moment Adam woke up and saw Eve, he fell in love with Eve without waiting for many years to develop love, and Eve also fell in love with him without having to screen him to know how much he's worth and what he has to offer her.

Note 1: there's true love at first sight, don't doubt it or condemn it, its real!

My point:

God first created Adam, and Adam had virtually everything he needed to survive- shelter (whether under tree or whatever), food, etc before God brought him a wife!

So to the single guys reading this, please pray to God to bless your daily life activities so that you can succeed first before getting a woman, and you know why?

1. Woman is not the most important thing to a man, his work (goal in life) is.

Give a poor man the most beautiful woman who truly loves him, I bet you guys the man will run abandon the woman lol

2. A man feels more good in a relationship when he is financially stable than when he is financially broke!

3. No matter how rich a man's girlfriend/wife is, the man will never feel satisfied with the woman until he himself is financially stable too.

4. The true behaviour of a man can only be known when he is financially okay, and not when he is broke!

5. Naturally, by default, every woman desires to be with a man who is more financially capable than her.

This is one major reason Oprah Winfrey never married. Same reason Linda Ikeji, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, Agbani Darego, Rihanna, etc are all single secretly searching for that guy that has more money and fame to come make their dream come true.

Don't ever think guys aren't proposing to the aforementioned ladies because I can bet my nairaland username that thousands of suitors who may not be as rich and popular as them are asking them out on daily basis.

So guys stop nagging and attacking the ladies; ladies aren't the problem, our common enemies are the past and present politicians who ruined our national economy, leaving the youths helpless and jobless!

It is the politicians that we youths should hate and attack for embezzling our common national wealth for their personal use.

We need to pray for a better Nigeria with many great job opportunities for the youths, and we must also condemn giving better jobs to females who do not qualify to the detriment of guys with better qualification.

Lastly, ladies please I am not encouraging going after already made guys only, please give all guys equal chance of friendship because that broke guy today maybe the next Forbe's billionaire tomorrow, so always pray for God's direction and do use your wisdom!

noblegrex:
for where,where was the good girl when I was hustling to survive or make ends meet.so she sudenly became a good girl when everything is rosy forgoten that by that time,there will b so many good girls and even more beautiful.

IBROHIM:
my guy you too much! You deserve 10 kg of Sallah ram meat!

Joy1706:
Ur funny sha. Where was she eh? Maybe u were just focused on the flashy gals. Maybe u were focusing on beauty and good sex alone. Maybe u weren't destined to meet her while still struggling. The fact that a girl likes you when ur already made does not make her a gold digger.quote author=tonychristopher po
You had a good training and pls transfer this to your mentality
No man sees such a woman like you and looks the other
We know the wife materials and you are one
Anya ka eji ama oka kala aka
It is well with you. Life is all about support
No man loves a woman that brings nothing to the table
A woman should be a helper and nowbtge bread winner
You are a decent young woman
Pls keep it up
Ada malu mma

Joy1706:
Ur funny sha. Where was she eh? Maybe u were just focused on the flashy gals. Maybe u were focusing on beauty and good sex alone. Maybe u weren't destined to meet her while still struggling. The fact that a girl likes you when ur already made does not make her a gold digger.quote author=tonychristopher po
You had a good training and pls transfer this to your mentality
No man sees such a woman like you and looks the other
We know the wife materials and you are one
Anya ka eji ama oka kala aka
It is well with you. Life is all about support
No man loves a woman that brings nothing to the table
A woman should be a helper and nowbtge bread winner
You are a decent young woman
Pls keep it up
Ada malu mma

lacicrips:
This is just an opinion, not facts. Infact any man who waits to be financially made before pursuing a woman might not like the outcome.

The successes of the successful men I know took off as soon as they found and settled with a suitable partner.

Don't underestimate the power that comes with the love of a woman. It will spur you to achieve things you never thought possible - unimaginable success. Nothing motivates a man more than the thought of having a woman to feed and fend for at home.

Most people who wait to be financially capable before finding love always end up unhappy. This applies to women as it does to men.

mikolo80:
'bet ' wetin I talk Wey wrong na
Konji de
woman de
she no complain
and time is going

kaboninc:
Not every guy is like your ex

Krystalxxx:
Lolz alright

Teempakguy:
I have to add something.


I still don't understand why guys are allowed to go after pretty and curvaceous girls in peace, while girls are criticized for going after rich men. It's basically the same.

And as if that is not enough, they criticize ladies that go after

1. Looks.
2. Intelligence.
3. Fame.


In short, if they had their way, they would want every lady to date, poor, ugly, dumb guys . . . just because . . .

I know how much cream costs, powder, lipstick, clothes, I've often been forced to go shopping with these girls, and I have been shocked at how expensive it is to be beautiful. Yet, men go after them . . . with nothing. How do you expect her to keep up the ruse?

But wait, you expect her to use her money, right? But then, why would a lady that is rich enough to take care of herself, settle for a poor dude? Love isn't THAT blind. And the worst part, this doesn't stop with money alone, if a lady says she would love to marry a handsome man, guys will quote her and insult her. Saying that she will have to settle for anybody when her time runs out.
If she insists on dating someone with a good command of English, they will criticize her as well. If she says she prefers dating doctors, or a certain flavour of engineers, they will gather around to call her a gold digger of sorts.
If she says she wants a tall man, they will insult, if she says she wants a confident man, they will insult. They will insult if she friendzones. WTF?!!!!!

Guys, this . . . is not that fair oh. . . . we need to give these guys a break and let them choose for themselves. Being broke doesn't make you special. It makes you . . . broke and undesirable to women. I have seen many of you claiming that one day, you will be rich, but in reality, the odds are against you. It is very likely for her to regret staying with you however.

Let the women choose what is best for them without insults and criticism. They have rights too.


That's all.

kaboninc:
Yeah...and don't compare your next with your ex.

Guys need to hustle but even the world is irregular.

Krystalxxx:
Ok. All these guys that are always talking shit. I have been with my bf for quite a long while now. Since we met, I have been funding him with money and foodstuff as he always claimed that he is broke or hungry. Being my first but longest relationship, I adhered to this advice of 'be a helper not a golddigger' but in return he has mocked me by using this money to buy credit for other women and other such goodies. In our long time of sticking through thick and thin, he has never taken me out,. And now that he has graduated before me, I see no 'reward' in sight. Instead, it's as though he's saying 'shebi u thought you had enough to give me right? ' mocking me. Some fellow girls have blamed me for the outcome, saying all this happened because a woman is never meant to help a man out.

In this case you guys should absolutely shut up. You know why? Then you will go for a gold digger with curves all the same.
Obasonjo had wives before he became president. Women who stood by him in his tough times, but he went for Bleached and beautiful Stella who just came to sit on the throne other women worked for. How many stories do we hear of guys who marry a woman with nothing and when the going gets good they discard this woman to bring in a younger one ? I have seen these stories all around me ! In real life! When a woman sticks by you una take her to be a fool, so everyone , all d guys here should stop making needless noise. It's either men don't know what they want or they just love to complain. Abeg park well cuz we know the ending of all these rants even if a woman should stand by you, it's not as if you will appreciate it. We all know that in reality the girl who stands close or spends for his sake is seen as the fool.
#drops phone.