Pls,pardon me for this- you are the greatest fool alive. I don't know why you wake up from your slumber. You don't spend 75% of your allowance for a lady,not even your spouse. You come spoil matter by now even "test run" the lady. Anyway, that's your cross, carry it.

Pick up the damn phone dude.she's calling you to tell you she was only joking.

Anyway, I don't believe your story. I am just not in the mood to pick out your errors.

How can you just fastforward to three years after,"you got a job".Didn't you guys communicate within this time frame?

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Are you suggesting that because it was a "no sex" relationship she should marry you? Or of what importance is the "no sex" part to your current predicament? The earlier you move on the better for you. God may have something better waiting for you.

Holuwakemmy16:
She's d type of lady that do makes guys think we ladies are the same

How? Its not like he has proposed or anything. They were just dating. Dating does not automatically mean marriage. He might not even be the type to settle down with.

What doesn't kill a man makes him stronger, she wasn't meant for you and you tried your best to make her happy but like some stupid girls she took your love for nothing...focus on your job definitely you will meet someone who will appreciate you...Itz_Hoe_kay bro move on

munchfani:
NO NO DATS NOT ME...U DON LEARN UR LESSON, MAKE SURE U NACK YOUR NEXT TARGET AFTER SECOND DATE.

dats a bad mindset

How u doing bro?
After u woke up from sleep, let me ask u one question..

What doesn't kill a man makes him stronger, she wasn't meant for you and you tried your best to make her happy but like some stupid girls she took your love for nothing...focus on your job definitely you will meet someone who will appreciate you...Itz_Hoe_kay bro move on...but u might find it hard to love again mind you..from experience though I might be wrong

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

So many useless stories nowadays.What is the usefulness/benefit of relationship without intimacy.You should have dated her for 100yrs before getting married to her.You did not touch a lady for 3yrs and you still calling her your girlfriend ?You be mumu .Abeg stop posting dis nonsense again.

But she shld v told her instead of wasting that guy time*smh*

I Have said it before and i will continue to say it..I no fit mumu reach make i dey do no sex relationship

After waking up from sleep, let me ask you one question..

macroscopic:
Can I ever trust a woman again?Oh my goodness!

I hate this mentality on my mind now

So immature. Did you propose? Have you done the rightful thing by her parents? Did you send her to school? So because you send recharge cards once in awhile, didn't have sex and bought her petty gifts you think you own her? Its good she didn't marry you. Sore looser

My brother I know exactly how you feel. Delete her contact from your phone & from your heart, you'll find a better person. You two were just not meant to be.

Forget about those calling you names, you are a gentleman and you'll be rewarded by the law of nature & nothing can stop that.

This is So sad,but I don't understand d story, is it dat u left ur gf for 3 yrs without no communication or what?

:oo. After the spending spree?? Op u messed up

Cc pcguru

adedayourt:
HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING

the news of her wedding made him slept. That's so funny I can't stop laughing

Young man take heart, cry your heart out for a moment, wipe your face and move on and pray for Gods direction in your future relationship. You are a real man, women never forget men who respected their wishes as she will be the one to regret her actions in future not you.
You are not a 'MUMU' as someone stated in the first page, you are rather a man of HONOUR!

me sef go use dis guy story get sense. my own mumuish attitude is still at the elemtary stage . I think I suppose get sense now. Girls are evil ooo

PunkyVeer:


Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.

Smart answer

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Remain steadfast.

If this story is true, keep to chastity. If you change because of this, then you are weak.

I believe in chastity.

mustiiz:


Abi d guy no too well.. On top ladies of now adays..

And you believe that BS about spending 75% of his allawee as Corper? So how did he survive biko nu? How much is allawee sef.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

my brother God just saved ur life.move on with ur life and let another woman enjoy ur new job.I don't know y IBO gals do such always. my cuz got same treatment from an IBO gal.I fear em with my whole being.

Stanleyafam:
Bro the good part is, she'll forever respect you, but it's sad, I mean she left som1 who respects her for another she barely knows..

God has seen ur kind act and he will bring to u som1 that will head in the same direction as u, be patient, that's how life is..

God bless you for this Comment...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
the news of her wedding made him slept. That's so funny I can't stop laughing

i just dey imagine.

dude jus saw som1 else reapin d benefit of his investmnt, wat can he do. . . ..

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Hehehehe move on g

Girls are something else.

4get abt the no sex isssh not a big deal ( if I hear; kidding o; calaba boi lyk me)

Ok ; means she has been cheating on u ever since.

bt how can u be traveling from Lagos to owerri everymonth by bus to see a girl..

u need to see tb Joshua 4 deliverance

IyawoDoctor:

And you believe that BS about spending 75% of his allawee as Corper? So how did he survive biko nu? How much is allawee sef.

Abi faa.. U dey mind am.. Him eye don c wetin him wan see... Iyawo doctor how u doing today

Ymuller:
me sef go use dis guy story get sense. my own mumuish attitude is still at the elemtary stage . I think I suppose get sense now. Girls are evil ooo

Because i like u & i dnt want u 2 b magarized. Receive sense IJN, Amen!

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013.

After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I

Fictional stories always share this contradictory similarities @bolded

mustiiz:


Abi faa.. U dey mind am.. Him eye don c wetin him wan see... Iyawo doctor how u doing today

I'm fine

Your stoopeedity is epic

bad investment guy the babe just do you strooooooooooooooooong thing. abeg take heart