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Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by jedyjedy(m): 6:06pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Moral lesson: nack any babe u date. Lobatan |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:09pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
passionate88: Lol, I think you guys were made for each other, actually You just fit. Not all of course, just the geeky guys & the manipulative girls. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Haywhymido(m): 6:13pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
quiinnBee:thank u, 4 saying the true. They wont let us hear word o. But the guy mumu sha. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Jaydotcom(m): 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
So sorry you fell victim too. The same thing happened to me in my school days in the late 90s, precisely 1999. She was my course mate and claimed she was a virgin and no sex until after marriage. I agreed because of the love i had for her, although with much discipline and restriction and pain i survived until after graduation in 2006 (We met in our diploma days) when i told her to intimate her parents as we are not from the same tribe, She returned to tell me that her mother is not in support because we are not of their tribe as she is an igbo and i am a yoruba guy. I felt devastated and pained not solely because of the impossibility of the marriage but for the fact that "i felt i have been fooled". That happening signaled a very big lesson to me. After the sudden news and all efforts to make her convince her parents seemed unsuccessful, i decided to move on though difficult as she was the only lady in my life for the period of 6-7 years. I suddenly decided to woe another girl to help me forget about her. In fact, the first lady i woed was invited to my house and i refused until we had sex that same day. this trend continues until i had about 4 different girls at the same time and never loved any. When i finally met my wife, even before marriage i told her, Maddam, "Any after marriage thing will not work with me o" and we continued and finally wedded even before the lady i dated for 6 to 7 years. I am enjoying my marriage and bless God for whom He gave me as a wife. Who knows i might have been a slave instead of a husband with the former lady. She called to apologize and to register her mistake but it was too late to cry when the head is cut off. 4 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by bonechamberlain(m): 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
macroscopic:when I saw imo, I know say na one chance. when I saw got a job in an oil company, then I no say ur story na lamba. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Taiwo20(m): 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
macroscopic: Visit her and you guys should agree on a 48hours no holds barred sendforth sex... Thank me later... 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Icekyng: 6:17pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
niggi4life:Lool hahahahaha hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha oboy I loose bet today bt ur comment just make me cheer up aswear Lol real sleeping tablet indeed my broda 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by passionate88: 6:18pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:Not me. I don't think I'm made for any Nigerian girl. There mentality frightens me. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Dinocarex(m): 6:28pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
adedayourt:Sleep induced SMS. God save us from Karishika!!!! |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by passionate88: 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:I tell you. Nigerian girls are just something else. In a relationship, they want the guy to think only about her while they only think about them self's |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
passionate88: Lol, I meant the guys that are dorks. I'm sure the right person is out there for you. She could even be Nigerian so don't totally shut them out. Just use good judgment & don't be a tool. Anyway, we don't know what the future holds, so good luck finding ms right. SideNote: most girls out there fear Nigerian men, so whachu gonna do? |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by noobsaibot2(m): 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
You see @OP, Don't ever date or even fall in love with any girl wey be "MODEL". That na ashe............. But, God dey. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Dinocarex: can imagine denying ursef dos urge to visit d honeypot just to kip to promise nd mke her happy, den dis happens dats d height of it |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:34pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
macroscopic:3yrs frm 2013 is 2016 |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by passionate88: 6:34pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:They fear Nigerian men yet they fast and pray to get married to the same Nigerian men. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
passionate88: Awww, come on now. You're being too harsh & one sided in your judgement. The guys are to blame too. Nobody can make you do anything unless you also want to do it. In this case, the OP is foolish & he met someone that played him like an accordion. It takes two. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:37pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
ojuu4u:baba u jst yarn balls now, u say avin sexx wth a girl makes her love u more, if dats tru y do girls cheat? even after bangin her several tyms she still leaves for anoda guy. yet u say sexx makes her love more, are u kidding me?? |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
passionate88: LMFAO. If you say so. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by macminista(m): 6:43pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
U re a disappointment. ..how can u been counting on a teenager to be faithful to u?..if am correct she is 21st now? |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by ojuu4u(m): 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
[quote author=prettyboi1989 post=38437896] baba u jst yarn balls now, u say avin sexx wth a girl makes her love u more, if dats tru y do girls cheat? even after bangin her several tyms she still leaves for anoda guy. yet u say sexx makes her love more, are u kidding me?? Read gently and decode wht i wrt, I SAID IT MAKE IT LOVE MORE and NOT MAKE HER STICK WT U ALONE. d isue of a lady stickin wt u alone is anoda topic entirely. I wrt my post on experiences personal nd frm people around me |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by LegalIcon: 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Bro, don't ever see the idea of sleeping with a girl as a good compensation for investing heavily on that lady, so that God can reward you accordingly. Just painfully move on with Jesus. It only means that she's not good for you n not even God's plan for ur life. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by NwaliE01: 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
adedayourt:you wicked oh!!! |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by adedayourt(m): 6:45pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
NwaliE01: dat part got ma ribs cracking really |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by bawz012(m): 6:46pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
I could do the "ROMANCE and No SEX thing" but definately NOT even "1% of my ALLOWEE" for her before marriage... Cos shes not your responsibility yet. U r not her husband yet. She s got a FATHER. I know say some of ur paddies dem go don warn u but u no hear... #LOBATAN |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by COOLDK(m): 6:52pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
adedayourt: The ladies want more than that your "else". For the matured minded. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by torqque7(m): 6:55pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Had similar experience so I won't exactly say u are a mumu but am sure now uv learned not to take that am a virgin story seriously next time..trust me bin a gentle man is overrated..good guys always loose.. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by crackhouse(m): 6:59pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Just wish her Goodluck and move ahead. Pls don't take ur mind back to the love life u used to play with her, always try to take it off ur mind so u too can progress. Emotions can hurt ur future endeavours. |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by jerome263: 6:59pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
avasweet:I SABI CONTROL DEGREE DURING ROMANCE WELL WELL O, MK WE START OUR OWN NA, ABI HOW U C AM? |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Boyooosa(m): 7:00pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
I had a similar experience. buh i think u r 'too' much matured for such assertion(WTF r u alarming @?). Use ur maturity mind na, afterall, u did not see her wen she was having s*x(dat nearly happened to me n I did nt kill my self instead i went to a bar and took '33', i almost drilled ashana not out of desperation buh jus felt lyk after downing some bottles bt wasnt my way so i chilled out). My dear brother, save this post! d girl will still come back to u either after wedlock or within her marital life, its left to u whether to av a compensation or not . My own came and I scatter the ground . That is dat for the 'PONMO' things... but for reality, try as much as possible to 4get about the relationship, she is not meant for u even if she comes back to u, dont struggle with the situation and never expect her back. Thank your God dat u got a new n good job, explore all ur chances out there n u will see dat she's the ugliest as.s u ever met. I thenk God (for u) on your new job, focus on it and bring d best out of urself! Life is sweet...... u can join me in the club 2nite so dat we can rock it beta buh owe u bill o, na eyibo life i de live o! |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Nobody: 7:01pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:Hi |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by midasbliss(f): 7:01pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
[quote author=macroscopic post=38429434][/quote]
ouch... so sorry...
you just weren't lucky and she, self centered |
Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by Anointedoj(m): 7:06pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Your Success ahead is de best reverge 4 her.u shld knw dat,most beautiful are stil yet 2be born,beta is not enough,best is yet 2come.she is not a good 2 u,she is a jezebel on her own's time.so ignore her n 4ger ahead. macroscopic: |
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