The world has gone beyond this.

Sounds like a teenage romance


Only teens reason like this if you ask me.

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

No! She isn't. She only feel sorry 4u... Lol!!!

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

It takes a lot for a single lady to say NO. She didnt even say the usual "let me think about it". She is just making sure your friendship doesn't end after the rejection. Trust me you have been friend zoned.

Until she retracts the rejection with a good explanation I will advise you to get her off your head. Ignore all her actions that may lead you on. There are many fishes in the ocean and its better when a woman loves you from the start. Wish you the best

trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

I fink u're right....

Missmossy:
Sounds like a teenage romance
Only teens reason like this if you ask me.

Obviously!

Because you don get money now Abi!

Oliviaarims:
I fink u're right....

op for your mind she dey trip for u shey? my bro, ur daydreaming, shes just bored or may not be in good terms with her boifriend, pls chill

malton:
Yes! She digs you. Thing is, her turning you down at first might have been due to shock as she possibly never thought about the possibility of you two dating before. It must have taken her some time to adjust to the reality.
As for her initiating chats and stuff, that's the green light, seeing as she never use to do those before. A lady who doesn't send you wouldn't even bother.

That's not true...wrong premises... wrong conclusion!...These people used to be good friends, according to the OP...she's probably trying to get things bk to the way they used to be...











#Philosopher Quëën#

Who told you?

Fvck her and let her go.

Not at all bro, she isn't tripping for you, she's steadfast.

My brother, "assumption is d mother of all Bleep ups".. Do not assume...

I smell the friendzone

I played this game back then but now am a changed person.

Don't assume she is tripping for.I think what she is trying to do is to prove she values your friendship. She doesn't want her turning you down to mean the end of your frienship with her.She is just being matured.

she has been disappointed and wants you as a backup

trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

No you're not wrong.

I need to ask my pastor first.

I will be back with revelation

She is not tripping for you, she is giving you a smooth landing.

You don get money? If you never get money and you think she's tripping for you,My broda you need make them use HYPO wash your brain,She's just bored man,and need someone to talk too. Na wa ooo

lampardizik:
I smell the friendzone

Not at all.If he plays this game very well he might make some cool cash from it and freebies that comes with the package

make no mistake bro, she wasn't tripping for you. she's just trying to be cool and making sure that her rejection doesn't destroy your friendship. let her know you aren't mad towards her. if she really loves you, she might keep you waiting for some times but her outright rejection means she's not into you

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

who told you she's tripping for you?..

either she wants to feel reassured that you are still single or someone she chose over you has used & dumped her..

omo boy o je wise up...

trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

Lol... I love your comment. You said it nicely.

hehehehehe what goes around hehehehe


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trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

While true but not absolute. There are some girls who'd never give a positive response when making advances regardless if they're head over heels the guy or not. They'd be dragging it reason being that they don't want to appear cheap and depreciate their perceived value. And would start losen up and give subtle signs once they realize the guy has moved on.