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I was having a feeling that my girlfriend was cheating on me. I tried asking her on different occasions but she maintained she wasn't. I thought she might wanna open up to me but I thought wrong.

I've been telling her to go for an HIV test long before all these, of which she promises to go for it but she ends up giving me so many excuses why she couldn't, like being busy and all that.

So this particular night she came over to my place and we started talking, I asked her again if she was having an affair with someone else but she denied again. I needed to know because I didn't want to waste my time with anyone, I wanted to know so that I could know where to place her.

So I told her I'd gone for my own HIV test, and she needed to go for hers as well. She wanted to know the result of my test but I told her never to mind cos I won't and if she's lucky enough, hers might just be different from mine, knowing we've had it raw too many times.

I think she got struck by the cord, so she started pestering me and begging me in fear to show her my result, but I refused blatantly. I stylishly told her she's really done so much in my life by changing me to whom I am and preparing me for what I wasn't ever prepared for.

She thought I was HIV positive, I was putting her on her toes cos I didn't come out clear, then I asked her who she's been sleeping with apart from me. I begged her for the truth this time, that telling me the truth is the only thing that will make me show her my result. That was when she started crying, telling me how she got pushed by friends to dating this guy, not only that, she's been having unprotected sex with this same guy and at the same time with me.

I didn't see the writing on the wall at all so all these was so surprising to me. After telling me all that, I told her I'd not done any test, and I'm grateful I know the truth now and the truth has set me free.

I dumped her sorry ass cos no amount of pleas could change my heart. A couple of weeks after, I did my HIV test, with my heart buried in my lungs, but thank God I'm negative and I'm not gonna screw this second chance I've got.

So pls readers, no girl is worth the raw no matter how much you feel you trust her. And also, checking your HIV status is the only way to know you are positive cos before then I thought I was cos of so many symptoms I used to have but surprisingly, after knowing I am negative, all the symptoms stopped.
Thanks for taking your time to read. Have a nice day.

why do some girls cheat? please i have never cheated on my bf. believe it or leave it

Lol....don't kill me with mentions na.

Watz the reason behind s*x b4 marriage in the first place.


Aving it raw or cooked... That ur wahala.


Meanwhile... I don't still get the moral lesson

No be lie you talk oh,thanks for the advice.

The Best cure for HIV is abstinence. If you've got an uncontrollable conj box, then use condom

But meanwhile, conjy is a bastard
YES!

Harbosede02:
So watz the moral lesson of ur story

The moral lesson is there staring at you and you can't even see it.

The symptoms were only in your mind.
Never risk your life next time.

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

I honestly don't know why people cheat on each other.

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

the only man tha know where his wife or girl is at any time is a widower

emmboy:
The moral lesson is there staring at you and you can't even see it.

dah my bf should test me pretending to av done HIV test to knw if am cheating on him??

Harbosede02:
So watz the moral lesson of ur story

count d number of rods terrorizing your p*ssy,boldly the moral of the story will appear on your TV screen.

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

did you really say some girls? Make it more emphatic by saying "most girls" thanks.

I av norhing to say but from my experience so far dos hoes aint loyal @all.. Trust no one even d S.U.

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

Same reason why some men cheat.

Nobody is worth dying for apart from ur mother who God used to brought u out, yet pple commit suicide coz of one yeye love. Pls guys don't trust any girl or woman.

emmboy:
The moral lesson is there staring at you and you can't even see it.

Some people are intellectually blind. You dont have to waste your time on that type.

Harbosede02:
So watz the moral lesson of ur story

So u never learn 4rm dis? Moreover I guess u cheat on ur bf bcuz I see no reason why you place ur tiny fingers on phone and type such wrongly words

Nice trick...

ENGRJCJ:
Nobody is worth dying for apart from ur mother who God used to brought u out, yet pple commit suicide coz of one yeye love. Pls guys don't trust any girl or woman.

Na so o my brother

No girlfriend ,No PROBLEM

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

If u ask me, na who I go ask?

Infact 90% of girls cheat (don't ask me how I got it)
I think the ratio is in proportion to guys (so what d fuss)

The best advice is just pretend not to know.

So girls shaa....i wonder why a girl will ever cheat on her partner.

We hv some dignity to protect

Everyone cheats at some point

Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?

why 'do' some girls cheat? should have been the right thing in place of 'does' a cheating woman is more terrible than a cobra

pls no relationship is worth raw sex whether u a guy or a gal

Snowangel4:
So girls shaa....i wonder why a girl will ever cheat on her partner.

We hv some dignity to protect

is really terrible...the fact is that some women and men actually cheat on both partners but a woman cheating, is way far upside down

esosa993:
pls no relationship is worth raw sex whether u a guy or a gal

i concur with u

murphyibiam15:
is really terrible...the fact is that some women and men actually cheat on both partners but a woman cheating, is way far upside down

True talk..

But if my guy ever cheat on me,I will simply take a walk.

Tapout:
hmm....my dear, some don't give a fu"ck about the so called dignity anymore

Na dia own cup of tea