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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 4:20pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
AheadMarket:seconded 1 Like |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:24pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
niggi4life: Lol, when men cheat , its ok and normal even during marriage but when women moves on after the demise of their husbands,...then " women ain't loyal , abi"??..smhhh.. Op, so sorry for the demise of your dad, may his soul rest in peace ... But dear, only dad and mum knows what they've been covering up all these years about being loyal, loving and caring.. At least your mum appeared as a loyal wife , when dad is alive...so pls don't judge her actions yet.. Possibly talk about her actions with her and see where she's coming from. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Acidosis(m): 4:24pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder: It is disgusting, unheard of, and shameless. Only a woman without a SOUL will make love to another man on her late husband's bed. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 4:29pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
So d mum cudnt evn mourn ur dad for atleast five years nd her pussy has started itchin her nd hungry for dick dis early.nawa oohhh,hornestly ur mother is a disgrace to womanhood |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Captainswag225(m): 4:29pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:lol so what kinda of love is dat? .....its like she wants erase her husband's memory from her mind |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by kaylight12(m): 4:29pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
It's not new to me,because I have sm1 beside my house doing exactly dsame thing.I guess she is not d1 u are talking abt....No her kids are still young. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:31pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
edwife:on that! I didn't read the full story. The mother is wrong in that aspect. On the bolded line. Her daughter won't pay for the sins of her mother unless she want to follow that line. You have the will to be want you want to be, not to pay for another's person mistake 5 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by toprealman: 4:33pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar:BEDMATES AND BOYFRIENDS ACCORDING TO THE STORY. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by CORRECTMAN78(m): 4:33pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Nawao! I bow for your kind of advice. "She should face her front and mind her business"? What else could be her business aside her mum's welbeing which of course affects her's and that of her siblings? You would want her to leave her mum unchecked in the face of this terrible twist, so that if her mum dies 2moro she and her siblings will become orphans? No nah. I rather sugest she advice her to remarry asap. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by macho44(m): 4:33pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
iwaeda:Your Mothers "CONJI" sack juice af full, she has to offload some ooo |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Certifiedboss: That was for her sha But me, people that know me well know that I won't even flinch. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by missyadorable(f): 4:37pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
iwaeda:why should she? how many days men dey hold body? 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by edwife(f): 4:42pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sonofananimal: In the society we live today,yes she will pay for it and you know how? Do you know the stigma many kids from single parenthood go through? kids from divorced home go through? Gossips can destroy a person's life faster than a disease.A man interested in her can easily lose interest when he hears rumours on how her mother killed her father and started bringing men around the house in the presence of her kids.That girl will have a hard time trying to prove that she isn't like her mother. It is the world we live in and in as much we have the liberty to live our life the way we please,we also don't because it may in one way or another affect the people we love.I can choose to be an arm-robber if i want to,but will my action do my family and friends any good? We live by example in life,you can't just think of doing anything you want just because you can. Sanusi married an 18 years old,why was it a problem with most Nigerians? |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by AikayDaWrapper(m): 4:44pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
let the dead not disrupt the life of the living. The man has died and 6 months is more than enough. I even think it's too much. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by edwife(f): 4:47pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
When she contracts any infectious disease,she should also mind her business and not expect her children to help her in any way! After all she is an adult and she can take care of herself. I can't believe women are even defending promiscuity,tufiakwa! [size=14pt] he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order[/size] |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by NobleAngell(f): 4:51pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Raymondenyi:Explain this allegation in 2 pages. (20 marks) |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:52pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar: Easy there Sherlock... Very weighty allegation. Did you miss the part where the poster said: "Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back." 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by JuanDeDios: 4:52pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar:Hahahahahahahaha |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Paulonice(m): 4:53pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
iwaeda:call her to order! |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:53pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
edwife:like I said. If you are in a location were many hypocrites are! Your chance of success will be less, so you change your location and your chance of success will be very HIGH. The society you are talking about determine the factor of the environment. Different environment have different societal view. If you want the society to affect you, them stay in that environment and if you don't want it to affect you, leave that environment. She won't pay for it. Unless she chooses to pay willingly. 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by JuanDeDios: 4:54pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
edwife:Not most Nigerians. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by edwife(f): 4:57pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sonofananimal: So changing environment will automatically erase her mum promiscuity? Your past hunts you like a wind,you can't escape from it If you don't know,in Nigeria men ask questions around before marrying a woman(most) and where else to get vital information if not where she grew up. You are talking book,i am talking REALITY.Seen it so many times,nothing new. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by edwife(f): 4:59pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
JuanDeDios: It was a problem otherwise he wouldn't bother writing an epistle explaining himself.Even if it's one million people,it's a lot. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by teamchocolate: 5:05pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Ode! It's not an affair if your dad is late |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Akhere1: 5:12pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
The truth matter is that your mother has being cheating your daddy before he dead that is wickedness of the highest other |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
edwife:lozz! I'm not talking book, but rather from experience and what I have seen with my two n@ked eyes. If you don't know, in Nigeria. I have seen a PROSTITUTE who got married to a man that many woman will dream of having, and it do happen on many occasions just because she leave her environment to another. Your past can't hunt you. Unless you choose to dwell in the past . At least the sun do SHINE on both the good and the bad 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by niggi4life(m): 5:16pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Amelian:did you read the story well at all? The OP said she brings in numerous men into the house and you think that's not what she has been used to doing? Always try and read well before you comment. I didn't just jump into conclusion, i read the story well |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Herapal(m): 5:16pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar:Your signature tells that you know Canibus and Webb. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
toshmann:It all depends my brother. I know that personally for someone I loved, a few years won't be enough to mourn them. I even say that as young as I am now, if something were to happen to my DH, I won't marry again. Doesn't mean I won't move on eventually. But I won't judge people based on my own standards. OP said they didn't have a good marriage. Who knows if they are even his real parents abi the story is copy and paste. We dey here dey tear our dross. Anyway a Bad marriage could mean a whole lot of things. Cheating, beatings, etc etc. In light of that, I think 6 months is a befitting respect period. If I was in a bad marriage and Couldn't leave because of reasons best known to me, the man dies, I would mourn like two weeks and moved on to the next bobo. (make dem sue me) Talking about tradition, I've seen men marry 6 months after their wives died. When did they court the lady? Yet people come to their weddings and rejoice, wish them well and pray for them. Now mommy is dating and the heavens want to fall. Somehow she must have killed the man according to majority of posters here. I wonder why I never hear that when a man's wife dies and he decides to move on so soon. That's one skewed tradition. As are most anyway. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Elhabeeb1(m): 5:22pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
She has turned |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Certifiedboss:Yea but if your brother lost his wife you wouldn't mind him moving on 6months later. 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 5:27pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
CORRECTMAN78:because his mother's a kid who doesn't know what she's doing or what she wants.me sef I juru for you. nawaya 1 Like |
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