Gaidenk:

Yes she shouldn't be shagging on her late husband bed with grown kids in the house,in this case she is a bad and foolish "heart thinking" woman,and if you say it sentiment ok na,I sense feminism in you so I fit gettit. Uphold una movement.

Late as in dead. He is not coming back. He is gone forever. What was his is no longer his, it is going to pass to someone else.

Attaching importance to something that is irreversible and you cannot do anything about means that you are emotional and sentimental.
The bed used to be their bed but he is dead. It is now HER bed.

Call me a feminist, na you sabi. Call me a misogynist, na you sabi.

Saao:
we must not fight before u give up, so do have a blissful weekend ma'am. Bye

Are we fighting?

Bye!

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I  knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was  in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he  was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back.  Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

Let her enjoy her life ni, has she scolded you for all the men uv been sleeping with.?

fortune1968:
so the mum wayward behaviour is not part of his issues ?

no it's not .his problem is getting a house and getting a life of his mom

kaeforum:



Let her enjoy her life ni, has she scolded you for all the men uv been sleeping with.?

I taya o

daretodiffer:


Late as in dead. He is not coming back. He is gone forever. What was his is no longer his, it is going to pass to someone else.

Attaching importance to something that is irreversible and you cannot do anything about means that you are emotional and sentimental.
The bed used to be their bed but he is dead. It is now HER bed.

Call me a feminist, na you sabi. Call me a misogynist, na you sabi.

K

coogar:


so adultery is morally correct?



just because you are an adult does not always mean you would make the right decisions every time . stop assuming that all adults have a functional brain.

adultery?? When the husband is a dead man already rotting? The only thing that gives a woman legal right to sleep with whatever man she deems fit is death.she's under no obligation legally or religiously to be faithful to him because he's a dead man.the dead and the living have nothing in common again

daretodiffer:


Bla bla bla

A woman has a right to bring home another guy into her home. It is her home as much as the husbands. It used to be the marital home until the death of the other partner. Therefore It does not belong to the two of them like it used to, it belongs to the surviving partner.

If the dead is so pissed, he can come from the grave to seek vengeance

Who is the fvcking son? What right does he have over his mother? If he start acting like Hulk Hogan, the woman can throw him out of her house. She is fvckibg mother not his sister.

Margret Thatcher. Softly softly oo.

sukkot:
Well thats how you have to live your life all across the board. dont pick and choose what aspect you want to be ' we are born free to do whatever we want '. if your daughter decides she wants to be a porn star you just have to go with it cuz its her life. well thats your cross that you have to carry bro. its a heavy cross to carry and i hope you have a strong back cuz complete freedom and hedonism has been the downfall of many.

I have no problem with that

SAMBARRY:
adultery?? When the husband is a dead man already rotting? The only thing that gives a woman legal right to sleep with whatever man she deems fit is death.she's under no obligation legally or religiously to be faithful to him because he's a dead man.the dead and the living have nothing in common again

its morally wrong. Unless she lost affection for her man before his death.....coz no one will easily move on like that after the death of a person he or she loves dearly.

Captainswag225:
its morally wrong. Unless she lost affection for her man before his death.....coz no one will easily move on like that after the death of a person he or she loves dearly.

don't you understand the meaning of death? He's dead physically hence all ties with him too are dead.wasting emotions on a dead man e.g visiting tombs of dead husband like we see in nollythrash is like pouring water Inside basket. He cannot hear feel see think understand love eat.everything human about him is DEAD

Ur mum is a sex maniac..datz all

coogar:
your mom & her bedmate probably plotted your dad's death. she couldn't wait to get rid of your dad so she can have free access to her boyfriend.

Huuummm mister, easy on ur idea of what happened oo you wan spark trouble for that house oo

Acidosis:


A woman has no right to bring home another guy into her late husband's house. That can only happen if she has no grown up son.

it's also her home!! Haba!! what if it's co-owned or it's hers? Na wa oo. She is an adult and she is a widow. Death has parted her and her late husband. She can continue life as she wishes as a single person again. It's just morality and anti-women culture that make it feel she is doing anything bad. Same culture that will praise a man that start another affair 3months (that is if it's up to that) after the death of a spouse.she is an adult! She is not committing adultery! The children should mind their business! Smh!

MarieEyre:
It's a Yoruba thing. I'm 100 percent sure the OP is Yoruba. Promiscuity, It's a way of life of the people. lol

you want attention from the yorubas so badly... you know u will cease to exist without getting your needed affirmation of ur pathetic existence from the Yorubas. Seen. You can continue in your silliness...

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I  knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was  in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he  was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back.  Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

She's a H-O-E... Bringing the man home shows she had no respect for your dad both when he was aloive and now he's dead .

daretodiffer:


Bla bla bla

A woman has a right to bring home another guy into her home. It is her home as much as the husbands. It used to be the marital home until the death of the other partner. Therefore It does not belong to the two of them like it used to, it belongs to the surviving partner.

If the dead is so pissed, he can come from the grave to seek vengeance

Who is the fvcking son? What right does he have over his mother? If he start acting like Hulk Hogan, the woman can throw him out of her house. She is fvckibg mother not his sister.

as in... she might even own the house!! Haba! Even in death oo, men can't stand a woman finding happiness in another man. The son/daughter even agreed that she wasn't happy in the marriage maybe domestic violence and you expect her to mourn forever. Smh! In her mind, she could have been single for yrs sef. Pulzzz..

coogar:


the woman is a disgrace.....
she must be a nymphö! where's the decorum? if she must shäg, it should have been in the man's crib not in the same bed her late husband once slept.

the OP should go to his dad's grave & invoke his spirit. if his spirit is irked, the new boyfriend could get his ass whöoped by a spiritual horsewhip in the next sex session.

Invoke his spirit? Abeg let the dead man rest jooor, she lost her husband yes and she has every legal right to have someone else but the only error is bringing a strange man into her matrimonial home

cococandy:
Six months later,
It's not an affair.

The only issue is that there are many of them as the poster said. If it was only one person, then it's not a problem.
Till death do them part.

Bringing him to the house and spending night on their bed tells a different story even if irts just one man . you won't understand something until it happens to someone close to you . God forbid, if the late husband was your brother I'm sure you won't be happy to hear that his wife has already moved on with life just 6months after and she's even bringing the man to the home she once shared with your brother . Before you comment ........ THINK

SAMBARRY:
don't you understand the meaning of death? He's dead physically hence all ties with him too are dead.wasting emotions on a dead man e.g visiting tombs of dead husband like we see in nollythrash is like pouring water Inside basket. He cannot hear feel see think understand love eat.everything human about him is DEAD

he is dead we all know that but if she really loved him,,, am sure she would have waited longer than 6 months

sonofananimal:
that's normal. She is now a free WOMAN and can remarried anytime she want to.
Your job now is to encourage her at all means.

When you get there! You will understand

nothing to add... wish I could like this a million time over. Hypocrites everywhere. Abegi!! It's her choice to choose either to mourn forever or for 2weeks. That will definitely depend on the memories and bonds they shared. What if there was no bond and the memories are traumatic? Abegi... date on mama

this is where i need my very good friend #teamforeigngirls. Naija bitches ain't loyal.

ibisko04:

Margret Thatcher. Softly softly oo.

Adolf Hitler, don't be selfish now

sukkot:
shut your ho ass up woman. park well make i see front. so you dont see whats wrong in a woman living with kids bringing some man to their dads bed after he died ? you must be some demonic infested woman. you need holy ghost fire, holy water, koboko and an exorcism

don't personalise this issue and start throwing insults and tantrums. The woman has not committed any offence! She may not be religious, and even religion states "... till death do you part" which is the case. There is no specific time-frame culturally (that I know of) for a woman to mourn. It's all a personal decision and discretion! If she truly enjoyed her marriage she won't move on easily. Even moving on after a very good courtship that can't just hold is difficult. She doesn't feel she needs to mourn more than she has mourned, she has every right to move on! You pple should spare the woman! Arghhh!!

Na she kill d man

MsGlobalwonder:
nothing to add... wish I could like this a million time over. Hypocrites everywhere. Abegi!! It's her choice to choose either to mourn forever or for 2weeks. That will definitely depend on the memories and bonds they shared. What if there was no bond and the memories are traumatic? Abegi... date on mama

thank you.

As you said. Hypocrites. If it is men! Before you knew it he has remarried,

nobeku:
Sorry to put it this way but your mum was GRACEFULLY cheating on your dad.. She seems like a woman of easy virtue.. You can torment her verbally back into her senses..

.... because you were her partner so you are so sure. I see

MsGlobalwonder:
as in... she might even own the house!! Haba! Even in death oo, men can't stand a woman finding happiness in another man. The son/daughter even agreed that she wasn't happy in the marriage maybe domestic violence and you expect her to mourn forever. Smh! In her mind, she could have been single for yrs sef. Pulzzz..

Those are very probable.

Don't you read the part of the bible that says 'untill death do us part'? If I'm ur mum and u disturb me, ill disown you. Nonsense!!!

Captainswag225:
he is dead we all know that but if she really loved him,,, am sure she would have waited longer than 6 months

lol.Lord have mercy

Is it the duration of the months or years that she used in mourning that Will show or prove how much she loved her husband?

sonofananimal:
thank you.

As you said. Hypocrites. If it is men! Before you knew it he has remarried,

NOBODY said she should not remarry,the problem is she is sleeping,sharing her body with multiple men in the presence of her children.

What is that?will you marry a woman you know very well sleeps around?do you know the impact of this careless lifestyle can do to her daughters?
I have seen girls languishing in their parents house because of their parents promiscuity.We live in a world that like talking and it is very necessary to live a discrete life especially as a woman.The sins of men are forgiven easily but not for women.You can call it all you want but know that one day,her daughter will pay for that.