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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:15pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Gaidenk: Late as in dead. He is not coming back. He is gone forever. What was his is no longer his, it is going to pass to someone else. Attaching importance to something that is irreversible and you cannot do anything about means that you are emotional and sentimental. The bed used to be their bed but he is dead. It is now HER bed. Call me a feminist, na you sabi. Call me a misogynist, na you sabi. 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Saao: Are we fighting? Bye! |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:17pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
iwaeda: Let her enjoy her life ni, has she scolded you for all the men uv been sleeping with.? |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 3:17pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
fortune1968:no it's not .his problem is getting a house and getting a life of his mom |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 3:18pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
kaeforum:I taya o |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:20pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
daretodiffer:K |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 3:23pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar:adultery?? When the husband is a dead man already rotting? The only thing that gives a woman legal right to sleep with whatever man she deems fit is death.she's under no obligation legally or religiously to be faithful to him because he's a dead man.the dead and the living have nothing in common again 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by ibisko04: 3:24pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
daretodiffer:Margret Thatcher. Softly softly oo. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 3:25pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sukkot:I have no problem with that |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Captainswag225(m): 3:30pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:its morally wrong. Unless she lost affection for her man before his death.....coz no one will easily move on like that after the death of a person he or she loves dearly. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 3:34pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Captainswag225:don't you understand the meaning of death? He's dead physically hence all ties with him too are dead.wasting emotions on a dead man e.g visiting tombs of dead husband like we see in nollythrash is like pouring water Inside basket. He cannot hear feel see think understand love eat.everything human about him is DEAD 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by nattty(m): 3:38pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Ur mum is a sex maniac..datz all |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:41pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar: Huuummm mister, easy on ur idea of what happened oo you wan spark trouble for that house oo |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:48pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Acidosis:it's also her home!! Haba!! what if it's co-owned or it's hers? Na wa oo. She is an adult and she is a widow. Death has parted her and her late husband. She can continue life as she wishes as a single person again. It's just morality and anti-women culture that make it feel she is doing anything bad. Same culture that will praise a man that start another affair 3months (that is if it's up to that) after the death of a spouse.she is an adult! She is not committing adultery! The children should mind their business! Smh! 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:52pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
MarieEyre:you want attention from the yorubas so badly... you know u will cease to exist without getting your needed affirmation of ur pathetic existence from the Yorubas. Seen. You can continue in your silliness... |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Certifiedboss: 3:56pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
iwaeda: She's a H-O-E... Bringing the man home shows she had no respect for your dad both when he was aloive and now he's dead . |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:56pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
daretodiffer:as in... she might even own the house!! Haba! Even in death oo, men can't stand a woman finding happiness in another man. The son/daughter even agreed that she wasn't happy in the marriage maybe domestic violence and you expect her to mourn forever. Smh! In her mind, she could have been single for yrs sef. Pulzzz.. 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:56pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
coogar: Invoke his spirit? Abeg let the dead man rest jooor, she lost her husband yes and she has every legal right to have someone else but the only error is bringing a strange man into her matrimonial home |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Certifiedboss: 4:00pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
cococandy: Bringing him to the house and spending night on their bed tells a different story even if irts just one man . you won't understand something until it happens to someone close to you . God forbid, if the late husband was your brother I'm sure you won't be happy to hear that his wife has already moved on with life just 6months after and she's even bringing the man to the home she once shared with your brother . Before you comment ........ THINK |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Captainswag225(m): 4:01pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:he is dead we all know that but if she really loved him,,, am sure she would have waited longer than 6 months |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 4:01pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sonofananimal:nothing to add... wish I could like this a million time over. Hypocrites everywhere. Abegi!! It's her choice to choose either to mourn forever or for 2weeks. That will definitely depend on the memories and bonds they shared. What if there was no bond and the memories are traumatic? Abegi... date on mama 1 Like |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by chokovirus: 4:02pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
this is where i need my very good friend #teamforeigngirls. Naija bitches ain't loyal. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
ibisko04: Adolf Hitler, don't be selfish now 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 4:09pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sukkot:don't personalise this issue and start throwing insults and tantrums. The woman has not committed any offence! She may not be religious, and even religion states "... till death do you part" which is the case. There is no specific time-frame culturally (that I know of) for a woman to mourn. It's all a personal decision and discretion! If she truly enjoyed her marriage she won't move on easily. Even moving on after a very good courtship that can't just hold is difficult. She doesn't feel she needs to mourn more than she has mourned, she has every right to move on! You pple should spare the woman! Arghhh!! 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by onunwa21(m): 4:09pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Na she kill d man |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:thank you. As you said. Hypocrites. If it is men! Before you knew it he has remarried, 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 4:11pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
nobeku:.... because you were her partner so you are so sure. I see |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder: Those are very probable. |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 4:16pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Don't you read the part of the bible that says 'untill death do us part'? If I'm ur mum and u disturb me, ill disown you. Nonsense!!! 1 Like |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 4:19pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Captainswag225:lol.Lord have mercy Is it the duration of the months or years that she used in mourning that Will show or prove how much she loved her husband? |
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by edwife(f): 4:20pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
sonofananimal: NOBODY said she should not remarry,the problem is she is sleeping,sharing her body with multiple men in the presence of her children. What is that?will you marry a woman you know very well sleeps around?do you know the impact of this careless lifestyle can do to her daughters? I have seen girls languishing in their parents house because of their parents promiscuity.We live in a world that like talking and it is very necessary to live a discrete life especially as a woman.The sins of men are forgiven easily but not for women.You can call it all you want but know that one day,her daughter will pay for that. 1 Like |
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