Abbykem:
It's obsession that is affecting this sugar belly. She was in love big tym but can't get over him uptill now. She should stop embarrassing herself so that she can still find a good guy(if she has not already spoil her name)

maybe she can get a good oyinbo guy to marry but i doubt any naija guy will want to end up with her. except hes only after his own share

idupaul:

Na wa ooo U be romance writer?

No, retired Poet.

Wallade:
Latonna's mum and guardians did a terrible job raising her, they weren't firm and disciplined with her upbringing.
Hence the loose Latonna or sugabelly we have today. It is not late for her to work on herself. She can reorientate and renew herself. Renewal starts with the mind.
Ti a ba bi omo, omo na NI anfani lati tun araebi.

Best wishes Latonna

What do you expect from a mum that allowed her 17 year old daughter upto 12 midnight to com back home every day. The curfew was 12 midnight.

You are quite right.
Many of these judgmental people here act like they didn't do silly things when they felt they were in love.

OigaonOjay:

Exactly

Obviously she was obsessed and he knew it but rather than tell her he did not love her he made a mess of her like most spoilt rich kid do to girls that they have crush on or that have crush on them. SHE WAS IN BLIND LOVE...haba? A guy that did not love you even from your chats one could see? You are even an Igbo girl and may be a Christian; you kept hanging on to some1 who did not love you. Well, you were only a child....it happens.

How I wish your mom or dad was there for you to guide you at your teenage age? Most parents should learn to there for their wards emotionally especially at their adolescent teenage age...

Please move on dear. Except you have real evidences. His evidences are even more real than yours. You were too in love to know a time like this would come? You kept hoping your love would win over? Men do not love like women. Most men prefer to do the chase; you were obsessed. Eeeyaa.

I wonder why you chose the name sugabelly

it is a pity but I think there is a element of truth in her story..i believe this girl has a chance of winning.50/50.

Shame On All Of Them! Shame! http://www.bummyla.com

TonyeBarcanista:

maybe she can get a good oyinbo guy to marry but i doubt any naija guy will want to end up with her. except hes only after his own share

lol. You are right thou

After reading her story from yesterday to today,this is my verdict, This girl wasn't raped rather she was out rightly obsessed about him and she did many crazy stuffs to please him,Audu knowing all these took advantage of her,besides much blame should go to her mother for not keeping a close eye on her teenage daughter. Her mother failed to bring her up in the right way otherwise what would a 17yrs old be doing outside at night after 6pm? why can't her mum drop her off to work and pick her up knowing fully well that her daughter is still underaged? well the did has already been done she should live with it and leave Audu to enjoy his marriage.

Darkchocolate:
Y'all should remember this was a teenager writing this (at the time). An infatuated teenager....nonetheless


I see some form of 'Stockholm syndrome' where the victim feels almost on the side of the abuser/attacker. Prolonged Abuse victims are often able to be abused due to the love or supposed love the have for their abuser. They often remain attached to the abuser emotionally even after having gone through unthinkable horrors...why else would a woman battered blue and black keep going back to her abusive husband.

Think about it!

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Besides. Even if she is lying about the rape (which I highly doubt), wasn't she 17years when they slept together (which he has admitted)...is that not illegal here...or at least in 2008? (Unless of course you are married to Sanusi or Senator Yerima!) ...It becomes rape by default for him regardless of whether she consented or not.

The emails are obviously selective. She made reference to him accusing her of lying and being unfaithful and flirting with his friends. He obviously hasn't posted those emails.

He behaviour in the emails he posted are also classic abuser bevaiour where he has clearly lost his physical 'control' over the girl (as she was in the US) and he resorted to psycohological control (by constantly refusing to respond to her or being 'cold')....and making her admit all faults. He better get great lawyers sha.

Logic !

10x 4 dat.

This girl wahala too much. Too possessive and overbearing jare

enieme:
All afternoon I've been goingbthroigh pages and pages on her blog.
I've reachedvthe conclusion that she wasn't raped. No it was an obsession she had for the guy but he used her.
He took advanradvantage of the fact that she couldn't do without him and ththis made her do things sexually amusing to him even if it involved third parties.
Gradually it became violent, but she sill stuck cos she was scared of looking him.
She was a 17 year old iidiot but he was a 25 year old hasshole that knew better but just decided to use her anyway as he pleased.
I feel for her cos I can very much relate to her stor. My own person all experience. I was 15 going on 16 and he was 26 or 27 there about.
there's a lessonin her story for every teenager.
But I still think she screaming rape now is wrong, after all on her blog she wrote that she called him after he announced to her he was getting married. And she stated that she loved him and still don't hate him and that she had foeforgiven him

For me, it's more like she was obsessed with his affluence, status, & wealth. I haven't seen true love turned do bitter.

With all this lack of responsibility on behalf of Mr Audu exploiting an underage, I wonder at the justification of the fraction of APC that even suggest him as suitable option for the deceased.

Not yet in power just imagine the mess he is into, then imagine when the beast ascends the throne, that is if , then all minors will be in serious trouble.

both of them are crazy....but we need the real mail...not the SELECTED or EDITED one

Pidggin:
She called this love

Mustapha is an Azzwhole and pervert, if this happened abroad he will be jailed for having sex with a minor, between NL is not a porn site what's with the vivid sexapades of these two on FP

Naah.

Tyga started dating Kylie when she was 17, and I'm sure sex was part of the relationship.

Neeson:


For me, it's more like she was obsessed with his affluence, status, & wealth. I haven't seen true love turned do bitter.

it wasn't the wealth. Maybe fame.
Cos the girl herself isn't naija baseD. Andbnowhere in d story does she say he paid her or was financially responsible for her. No

what got me upset is the untitled of this movie






#added- the poor&confused teenage girl

Goldencollins:
After reading her story from yesterday to today,this is my verdict, This girl wasn't raped rather she was out rightly obsessed about him and she did many crazy stuffs to please him,Audu knowing all these took advantage of her,besides much blame should go to her mother for not keeping a close eye on her teenage daughter. Her mother failed to bring her up in the right way otherwise what would a 17yrs old be doing outside at night after 6pm? why can't her mum drop her off to work and pick her up knowing fully well that her daughter is still underaged? well the did has already been done she should live with it and leave Audu to enjoy his marriage.

I don't think d mom was here in Nigeria with her. But still I really blame her parents.

After all i've been reading concerning Sugarbelly and Audu, this suddenly falls in my laps.
Hmmmn! Shit happens.

Lotanna, where were your parents back then? Midnight curfew for a teenager in Naija?
I don't blame lotanna the naive obsessed girl, I don't even blame Audu, the animal and rich monster, I blame lotanna's mother/father for letting her run loose.
I guess the mum knew Lotanna was dating a govenors son and was proud of her, hence leaving her open to all that crap.

TonyeBarcanista:

maybe she can get a good oyinbo guy to marry but i doubt any naija guy will want to end up with her except hes only after his own share

You think too high of yourselves. A Naija man took advantage of a naive 17year old teen and despite all her faults, he could have taken a decision not to abuse a minor, but he did not.
So pls, if a Naija man choose not to marry her, the better for her. There are better and more sensible men who respect women all over the world.

enieme:
All afternoon I've been goingbthroigh pages and pages on her blog.
I've reachedvthe conclusion that she wasn't raped. No it was an obsession she had for the guy but he used her.
He took advanradvantage of the fact that she couldn't do without him and ththis made her do things sexually amusing to him even if it involved third parties.
Gradually it became violent, but she sill stuck cos she was scared of looking him.
She was a 17 year old iidiot but he was a 25 year old hasshole that knew better but just decided to use her anyway as he pleased.
I feel for her cos I can very much relate to her stor. My own person all experience. I was 15 going on 16 and he was 26 or 27 there about.
there's a lessonin her story for every teenager.
But I still think she screaming rape now is wrong, after all on her blog she wrote that she called him after he announced to her he was getting married. And she stated that she loved him and still don't hate him and that she had foeforgiven him

It is rape

Just an infatuated girl whose affections were not reciprocated.

enieme:

How have I contradicted myself? It's not rape so long as it's consensual. Everything that was done to get was with her consent even when he and his friends went violent. She had d option to walk out but she chose not to.

You are very wrong.

One can consent to have sex and still get raped along the line.
The moment she says she has had enough and you keep going it becomes rape even if she consented initially.

And that seems to be what played out here.

If you are saying she enjoyed the violence then I don't get it perhaps you are saying she is a masochist.

In any case all these are accusations and all I stand for is further investigation as we cannot dismiss or affirm her case.

This is definitely not rape but an obsession with an ex.

The girl is just angry because he left and she missed the fun they use to have. She was even the one disturbing this young man. Bloody fool, ashawo!

"I will never hate you" Lol!

DickDastardly:
Embarrassing to say the least. And that's the kind of mess Oby ezekwesili love to immerse her self wholly in. *spits on all the shameless parties*

No time for bullshit, gat me kids to feed

Na, I hardly saw the chats of Mustapha... so many edits, how are we sure there isn't more to it. At least, the guy must have given her responses and it's not a one or two liners that I saw.

Let's see the whole transcript before concluding....

Darkchocolate:


He behaviour in the emails he posted are also classic abuser bevaiour where he has clearly lost his physical 'control' over the girl (as she was in the US) and he resorted to psycohological control (by constantly refusing to respond to her or being 'cold')....and making her admit all faults. He better get great lawyers sha.

Jesu!

So what are the signs that someone is not interested in you?

Ignoring you I'd suppose.

This sort of thing always go this way, lots of dirty linen spread out...sugabelly couldn't have imagined how things have gone out of proportion lately. In the end, I fear she'll never get reprieve and she'll end up the loser.


"She wasn't raped, she just despise the way she was treated"...well,I think

eaglechild:

You are very wrong.

One can consent to have sex and still get raped along the line.
The moment she says she has had enough and you keep going it becomes rape even if she consented initially.

And that seems to be what played out here.

If you are saying she enjoyed the violence then I don't get it perhaps you are saying she is a masochist.

In any case all these are accusations and all I stand for is further investigation as we cannot dismiss or affirm her case.

It is important that you note the timeline of these current messages.

They were all AFTER the supposed rape and 'abuse'.

Joblessness,dats all