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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 11:18pm On Dec 11, 2015
yungmill:
Very true bro, when i was quite younger i do get frustrated with people misunderstanding me but later after some got to know me they changed their opinion of me, and i also worked on myself to be a lil outspoken, still a work in progress though the aspect i still struggle with the most is outing id rather burn tru series of movies and games lol God help us.


Thumbs up
cheesy It is natural.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:18pm On Dec 11, 2015
IHate9ja1:

No mind her,I have been celibate and single for more than 3years now!
I have been there,it ain't worth it and lastly am not so much into 9ja babes!
I prefer german or russian babe!

German girls are nice.
Russians are mothers of dating scams. Don't go there, they'll betray you in a heartbeat.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:19pm On Dec 11, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Eido!!!! grin
sir.. . We introverts are silent readers Na. We no dey too make noise cos our level of thinking most times is above average

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:20pm On Dec 11, 2015
PushMusic:


Germans girls are nice.
Russians are mothers of dating scams. Don't go there, they'll betray you in a heartbeat.
Very well then,the hunt is on!
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Cavenchy(m): 11:21pm On Dec 11, 2015
EMEKA1MILLION:
Just like me.. . Small circle of friends, mostly alone..... Lots of books and video games.. Outing is 0%. Reason why 1 full tank of fuel last me the whole month... grin

True, and the generator 25 liters fuel lasts you 5 hours.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by CzarChris(m): 11:23pm On Dec 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character! wink

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do wink:

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! grin grin Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! wink He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema grin

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places cheesy

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! wink A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest cool

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them! cool
so that's why I can't keep a steady relationship for more than 3 months?

Really guilty of all 5, especially 4&5
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Horlawale1(m): 11:24pm On Dec 11, 2015
onstelly:
Lemme be the first female to comment nah,
Am coming back sha

Cool, but at ur signature......
U should see wat am seeing and make the correction.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:25pm On Dec 11, 2015
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:25pm On Dec 11, 2015
Cavenchy:

True, and the generator 25 liters fuel lasts you 5 hours.
Hahahahaha grin grin. And sometimes I have to borrow small from the car sef.
But the good thing about it is that it makes u avoid bad associates and finding urself in the wrong place.
I prefer to stay locked up in my house, lie to my g
Friends that am out of town, then read, read and sleep. grin

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by iamhorlufemi: 11:26pm On Dec 11, 2015
I'm the worst. I dread beautiful girls
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:27pm On Dec 11, 2015
CzarChris:
so that's why I can't keep a steady relationship for more than 3 months?

Really guilty of all 5, especially 4&5
Me too,I experienced this also thus I took a break until the right person shows up.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by sage2(m): 11:27pm On Dec 11, 2015
bestdeals0:
Yea. Encourage that ur gf well if she is really telling u d truth. And don't cheat on her please. Sex is really worth waiting for. smiley

I am ready to wait for you.
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Mrbllymer: 11:27pm On Dec 11, 2015
OP , u're so on point. . Couldn't agree more!
Now every male nairalanders are introverts, like the merits outweighs the disadvantages? Mostly silent readers, keeps to emselves alot, receives calls, texts than they send, avoid social gathering to d bearest minimum due to shyness and fear of crowd, hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:28pm On Dec 11, 2015
IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!
Yea it happens. I surf the Web so much.... Chatting for me is zero so I quietly deactivated my Facebook, Instagram and d rest. The drama sef dey irritate me.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:29pm On Dec 11, 2015
EMEKA1MILLION:
Hahahahaha grin grin. And sometimes I have to borrow small from the car sef.
But the good thing about it is that it makes u avoid bad associates and finding urself in the wrong place.
I prefer to stay locked up in my house, lie to my g
Friends that am out of town, then read, read and sleep. grin
Most times I just feel like sailing across the world,you know the solitude in the hands of nature!

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Cavenchy(m): 11:29pm On Dec 11, 2015
EMEKA1MILLION:
Hahahahaha grin grin. And sometimes I have to borrow small from the car sef.
But the good thing about it is that it makes u avoid bad associates and finding urself in the wrong place.
I prefer to stay locked up in my house, lie to my g
Friends that am out of town, then read, read and sleep
. grin

Lol, Introvert to the bone!
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:30pm On Dec 11, 2015
Mrbllymer:
OP , u're so on point. . Couldn't agree less!
Now every male nairalanders are introverts, like the merits outweighs the disadvantages? Mostly silent readers, keeps to emselves alot, receives calls, texts than they send, avoid social gathering to d bearest minimum due to shyness and fear of crowd, hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.
introverts have a very high self esteem and we guard it jealously. Any dent on it and the rest of the day will be a total mess... Trust me, u don't want to see us embarrassed. grin

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:31pm On Dec 11, 2015
I'm introverted at first but when I'm comfortable around women I morph into a freak,lord help me

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Boomark(m): 11:31pm On Dec 11, 2015
JimiCoker:
They overcompensate by being overly boisterous (especially online) and acting tough (macho), meanwhile they're really nice guys deep inside. grin

Side Note: They think 'nice guy' sounds nice angry

My own 'machochest' for here no get part 2. grin

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by MDDang1(m): 11:32pm On Dec 11, 2015
I just dey observe...chilling with bottles of origin
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by JudgementHammer: 11:32pm On Dec 11, 2015
petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.
Lol. How long will u remain childish. U like to eat meat alone without the bone. Life is not like that. Well its not ur fault, u did not have a brutal childhood that leaves a permanent effect on ur mind forever so u may not understand what yields intoversion let alone complementing it.

Like I always say, life has 2 sides. It is the side life shows to u that u'll know and think others too would know forgetting that when life shows its front to u, its d back its showing to someone else who has an entirely different view and personality from urs.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:33pm On Dec 11, 2015
EMEKA1MILLION:
Yea it happens. I surf the Web so much.... Chatting for me is zero so I quietly deactivated my Facebook, Instagram and d rest. The drama sef dey irritate me.
This facebook thing,I was still thinking about deactivating it yesterday!
I only have 3 contacts on my bbm and we don't chat and my folks would be complaining that am pinging I just laugh.

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by nikkiking(m): 11:36pm On Dec 11, 2015
NewSheriff:
I couldn't agree more.
I completely agree.

I'm all one.
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by crosbyted(f): 11:36pm On Dec 11, 2015
Too lengthy
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:36pm On Dec 11, 2015
Cavenchy:


Lol, Introvert to the bone!
it's how we are. Its better to be quiet than misunderstood. The bad thing about being introverts is, we look at people as "not operating in the same level of thinking."

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:39pm On Dec 11, 2015
petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.
cheesy
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 11:40pm On Dec 11, 2015
IHate9ja1:

This facebook thing,I was still thinking about deactivating it yesterday!
I only have 3 contacts on my bbm and we don't chat and my folks would be complaining that am pinging I just laugh.
Lol... JeffreyJamez go tell u my history for bbm. grin I deleted mine 8 months ago. The only messenger I have is whatsapp. But book grin i can't count how many

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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Thanks2G: 11:40pm On Dec 11, 2015
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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by emmyw(m): 11:42pm On Dec 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character! wink

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do wink:

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! grin grin Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! wink He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema grin

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places cheesy

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! wink A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest cool

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them! cool
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 11:43pm On Dec 11, 2015
waiting for part 2 (counter thread)
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by eddiesaint(m): 11:43pm On Dec 11, 2015
I have been accused of being an introvert so i am here to make friends and chase the spirit away HELP! For real tho
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by yungmill(m): 11:43pm On Dec 11, 2015
IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!


Spot on they see you on your phone reading educational and research articles and they are like "master pinger see the world for yourself than ping abt it" very frustrating

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