sonofananimal:
come take a hug

My oga

Virgindove:
Introversion is a sign of WEAKNESS never be excited by it. When noticed strive for solutions. Our world today needs people of great boldness and social skills. An intelligent extrovert would always have a greater chance of success than intelligent introvert.

I didn't agree with you. Introvert talk when it is necessary to talk, the spend a lot more time observing new grounds and environment than jumping into people the newly met. Introverts talk when they comfortable and when the do talk people will be wow. The only advantage extrovert have is they win more women compared to introvert who value think observe before making a move. In times of success the are very much success and envied by others. Look my friends always say if the have half of what I have and know in this world that the will date any girl in this world but the lest of my problem is using my time to think about how to win a woman. Hope you get it.

JimiCoker:

That actually means you oppose the OP's points to such a degree that your disagreement is absolute. Maybe you meant I couldn't agree more.

Nah, that's not true. Introverts actually crave platforms they can use to express themselves, thus the artistic ones express themselves via their works of art (e.g painting/singing) while others jump at the opportunity to express themselves on social media.

Of course, there are no hard and fast rules governing the behavioral traits of introverts, merely established similarities. So what holds true for one, may not for the other.

Ps. Many guys are 'claiming' to be introverts because they exhibit some or most of these traits, just to varying degrees.

My bad.
Never said they dnt show adroitness on social forum, since its always an avenue to air views/expresses emselves coz of the fear/'shyness' in nature , public show of ignominy is what i pinpointed. Hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.

This write-up is really cool, I must confess.

onstelly:
Hehehehe I have oh

Lol. good morning. have a great weekend.

Mrbllymer:

My bad.
Never said they dnt show adroitness on social forum, since its always an avenue to air views/expresses emselves coz of the fear/'shyness' in nature , public show of ignominy is what i pinpointed. Hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.

Alright, I get you. Its probably because most introverts have high self-esteem and their egos are easily bruised. They shy away from actions that may make them susceptible to insults or ridicule. They don't handle embarrassment so well

This is the truest post ever, it spells me to an extent... Introverts are generally nice, but once people start to play games because they will.. We stop, retract from them and they feel we hating

it is the fear of saying it and not to get respond in return

Richiy:


I know it is individual differences, but why don't you just say it as you feel it Especially if you are certain the other party feels same

no 2...introvert simply means a shy person

Being able to read others, think through before doing anything - being extra careful in life, being kind and having a heart that can't harm or hurt are parts of my introverted life I cherish alot. I don't easily get angry and I easily forgive too. Infact, I don't know how to keep malice or bear grudges against another. On the women aspect, I hate double dating and I'm not an expert in lying like some guys that I know. I'm very selective and only few girls can catch my attention, but very rare. This has made two female family friends of mine to say that I am a waste to women folks. They said this because of my looks. Concerning privacy, it's sancrosanct; I need quiet time to think and imagine (i take alot of pleasure in this). As quiet as I am, when I'm found in my comfortzone, you'll hardly recognize that I'm the one, especially interms of speaking. People often misunderstand me because of my quietness. Sometimes I feel bad and wish if they could understand and appreciate how rare I am. However, few people, mostly my few selected close friend do understand me. In all, I take solace in the fact that I am creative and that cannot be taken away from me. Reading is my number one hubby (it's fun). Op, I really appreciate this. It has given me wider understanding of myself.

Rapmoney:
Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys!

Bro how would u describe me a certified introvert that got social skills?

I never knew I was an introvert, until I did an elective course during my university days on Social Psychology... I learnt to live and interact with people of different personality trait.

OP u just wrote everything about me.

YOU SABI !!!

youmour:


Wallahi,the matter tire me sef all the women I get interest on wan end up being just friends ,I dey rebel against women now sha, if I can't date you then buzz off.I go cut every communication I get with you ,delete every deletable,dem no born me come world to siddon for bench while other homeboys dey play for field ....no time ,I rather remain single make I know my path.

OkeEsibe:
i join sha
cant luk at a girl's eyeballs

Bro u are just SHY. May or may NOT be introverted. There is a difference.

aim5:
Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

I was like that before but when I got married I overcome my shyness with women.Now I have confidence to speak to any lady if the necessity is there

IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

I can ao

Orkpekyandega:
My oga

....at the top.
merry Christmas in advance ohh!
how is everything sir!

IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

I totally understand this.
I dont get angry easily, in fact big issues dont get me angry but small issues.
I dislike people that control too much and abusive.
I think deeply, maybe too much as i get lost in thoughts at times
I talk less.
I do not like noise at all.

AdeniyiA:


Part of our strengths is also being straightforward, we don't beat about the bush/we hit the nail on the head when we see a lady we like ,that's, where we're heading in the relationship. Unfortunately, many of the girls turn you down for straight talks... do they all want lies??

Though this may not be true for young introverts...

God bless you brother. I can't even imagine myself going round and round indirectly trying to make a girl like me. I just tell them point-blank, I like u and I want to be with u. No sugar coating!
There was one sometime ago that I got talking with. We were chatting and talking and it felt good. I already told her I liked her. And then she startd misbehaving: atimes I call her and she won't pick. I ping her on bbm but she won't reply. And later when she feels like it, she will now send me a msg like "wats up".
After some time I got tired of her BS and ignored her completely. Both online and offline.
I thot she was comfortable with it until yesterday. She pinged me and was like "I know we will end our fight in january 2016" I just laffed and said to myself "what a child!"

I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!!


I have a dream; one day Kano pillars will be more popular and have more fans, money and reputation than Manchester City.

acevic:


I totally understand this.
1).I dont get angry easily, in fact big issues dont get me angry but small issues.
2).I dislike people that control too much and abusive.
3).I think deeply, maybe too much as i get lost in thoughts at times
4).I talk less.
5).I do not like noise at all.

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I quite agree with point 1 100%
For number 3, 80%...

I posess ya 5 listed points

Rapmoney...nice write up. Very vivid

You just divulge all my secret here and most time girl thought we are snubbish but an introvert guy knows what he want and always goes for it no matter how long.The guy under me will say it all...

You are right

Teempakguy:
dude, chill.

if you read my diary, you'll find that I often act similarly. I tried for sometime to change my character, but I didn't succeed, so . . . i thought, what the hell, I don't give a damn.


and so I've embraced my quirks. who cares about what others think of me, right?

and I'm totally happy being nice to girls. sure, all of them will friend zone me anyway. but it's cool anyways. books can't friend zone me.

Your last statement is as true as the article. I resort to books from which I derive unmatched joy and pleasure. My personal library (my catalog) is large and keeps growing and I hope I'll study all. It's funny seeing how elliptic some females behave. They'll obviously ignore you and go for the bad guys but will come to you when the ride isn't as enjoyable as they expected. Talk about the friendzone. If you can't get them high on lies and ecstasy, then you can expect the friends-only treatment.

Tnx dear. U re a barca fan like me. We go drill Deportivo LA coruna today .. One of f 3 wise men ain't playing but the other 2 are enough

MuyiRano:

Nice dp dier

IceDude:
Bro how would u describe me a certified introvert that got social skills?

Simple: U have mastered your introversion!

Rapmoney:
Lol! It is lalasticlala bro

who cares

incurable introvert....here.....proud of it tho...but most times peeps think I'm acting like a wise guy..snubbing them...na that part dey pain me

Ioannes:


Lol. good morning. have a great weekend.

You too hon!