petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

johnson232:

yeah u right.
they hardly forgive, but don't forget they hardly get angry, but when they do

MuyiRano:


One more thing... You won't believe us when we come online! we are bold

just2endowed:
Most chess players are introvert. I play chess a lot on my phone. How can one get out of introvert?

Rapmoney:
Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys!

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very
hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went
out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when
i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends
coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading
and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

olagbemi118:
thanks so much for this but being an introvert myself, I dislike it when people see us as a case study. Introvert here, introvert there... Oginni

bestdeals0:
Tnx

aim5:
Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

Rapmoney:
Says who na?

RobinHez:


One of those shiit bro..

Just don't let it make u into something u're not ok?

I've learnt that... To stop being nice, is like to stop living! Its one of those things that makes us unique.

Mrbllymer:
OP , u're so on point. . Couldn't agree less!
Now every male nairalanders are introverts, like the merits outweighs the disadvantages? Mostly silent readers, keeps to emselves alot, receives calls, texts than they send, avoid social gathering to d bearest minimum due to shyness and fear of crowd, hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.

onstelly:
Lemme be the first female to comment nah, Am coming back sha

Ioannes:


where are you going to nah?

*drags her back#

oya comment.

and so I've embraced my quirks. who cares about what others think of me, right?

and I'm totally happy being nice to girls. sure, all of them will friend zone me anyway. but it's cool anyways. books can't friend zone me.

Richiy:
They hardly say I love you

aim5:
Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

Zceesneh:
buh if u are too nice, u know how people behave, looking for the slightest opportunity to condemn us if u are too nice, they say he is too easy, he is not tough, i stop being nice last yr when i realised that people are hard to please, even my friends complain that am too nice, so i stop being nice, buh nice is still part of me

Smooyis:
Most Chelsea fans are extroverts. They are boisterous, proud and........ Lol