₦airaland Forum

yungmill:
Very true bro, when i was quite younger i do get frustrated with people misunderstanding me but later after some got to know me they changed their opinion of me, and i also worked on myself to be a lil outspoken, still a work in progress though the aspect i still struggle with the most is outing id rather burn tru series of movies and games lol God help us.


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IHate9ja1:
No mind her,I have been celibate and single for more than 3years now!
I have been there,it ain't worth it and lastly am not so much into 9ja babes!
I prefer german or russian babe!

JeffreyJamez:
Eido!!!!

PushMusic:
Germans girls are nice.
Russians are mothers of dating scams. Don't go there, they'll betray you in a heartbeat.

EMEKA1MILLION:
Just like me.. . Small circle of friends, mostly alone..... Lots of books and video games.. Outing is 0%. Reason why 1 full tank of fuel last me the whole month...

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

onstelly:
Lemme be the first female to comment nah,
Am coming back sha

Cavenchy:
True, and the generator 25 liters fuel lasts you 5 hours.

CzarChris:
so that's why I can't keep a steady relationship for more than 3 months?

Really guilty of all 5, especially 4&5

bestdeals0:
Yea. Encourage that ur gf well if she is really telling u d truth. And don't cheat on her please. Sex is really worth waiting for.

IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

EMEKA1MILLION:
Hahahahaha . And sometimes I have to borrow small from the car sef.
But the good thing about it is that it makes u avoid bad associates and finding urself in the wrong place.
I prefer to stay locked up in my house, lie to my g
Friends that am out of town, then read, read and sleep.

EMEKA1MILLION:
Hahahahaha . And sometimes I have to borrow small from the car sef.
But the good thing about it is that it makes u avoid bad associates and finding urself in the wrong place.
I prefer to stay locked up in my house, lie to my g
Friends that am out of town, then read, read and sleep.

Mrbllymer:
OP , u're so on point. . Couldn't agree less!
Now every male nairalanders are introverts, like the merits outweighs the disadvantages? Mostly silent readers, keeps to emselves alot, receives calls, texts than they send, avoid social gathering to d bearest minimum due to shyness and fear of crowd, hardly wil u see em display public nuisance even on faceless forum.

JimiCoker:
They overcompensate by being overly boisterous (especially online) and acting tough (macho), meanwhile they're really nice guys deep inside.

Side Note: They think 'nice guy' sounds nice

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

EMEKA1MILLION:
Yea it happens. I surf the Web so much.... Chatting for me is zero so I quietly deactivated my Facebook, Instagram and d rest. The drama sef dey irritate me.

NewSheriff:
I couldn't agree more.

Cavenchy:
Lol, Introvert to the bone!

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

IHate9ja1:
This facebook thing,I was still thinking about deactivating it yesterday!
I only have 3 contacts on my bbm and we don't chat and my folks would be complaining that am pinging I just laugh.

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!