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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Mrlekan07034617: 6:00pm On Dec 16, 2015

ishiamu:
Search no more... am right here...am the man for you, if you want you can turn me down and still fall the wrong one.. end this search with me now and see happiness from onwards now..

Guy u no serious oooo!!

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by queenfav(f): 6:01pm On Dec 16, 2015

OutOnBail:
Men are like shadows. The more you run after them, the more they move away from you and the more you move away from them, the more they run after you. Work on your emotions, you aren't strong emotionally.

You have said it all.if a man even loves a woman,there is a point where she pampers him to he starts taking her for granted.So its always necessary not to overdo things to avoid 'see finish'.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Nobody: 6:01pm On Dec 16, 2015

Just relax, don't be too emotional, be yourself, and be prayerful, am not saying you should move from one church or temple to another o.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Afam1103(m): 6:02pm On Dec 16, 2015

Sorry about what you are going through. I know it must have taken alot of courage to share your plight on this forum.
Have faith though that things will get better. I dont have an exact formula for how that will be but I do know that for every woman, there is a man.
There is nothing wrong in wanting to love or showing your emotions. They are the things that make you who you are. Don't let any unpleasant circumstance make you want to change who you are and what makes you unique.
I believe the most you can do when you come across a guy that doesn't love you back is make the hard choice and move on. Because one day, you will find that one guy that will never get tired of that huge heart of yours that contains Limitless love and emotions.
I do have one advice though, when you start a new relationship, give the guy a chance to love you back. Because most people take things for granted if they are not given the chance to show appreciation. So when you show love, give him a chance to show the love back. Eg: if you call today, give him a chance to call back tomorrow, etc.
I wish you all the best dear. The Year is almost over. A miracle might come your way this Christmas but 2016 is most definitely going to be your year.

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Irewo: 6:02pm On Dec 16, 2015

Seek divine intervention!

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by JayJustus(m): 6:02pm On Dec 16, 2015

we don't settle down these days...we CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH...#DasukiStyle

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by fajani(m): 6:03pm On Dec 16, 2015

I am in my early thirty, I think if both of us can put garri inside hot water we can make Eba... I pm you, kindly reply.. I am really serious....

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Affegott(m): 6:04pm On Dec 16, 2015

I like to meet you, my story might interest you too.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by queenfav(f): 6:04pm On Dec 16, 2015

schumastic:
feminist

no bro,realist!She doesn't need angel gabriel to appear to her in a halo to tell her "my child,the Lord says this man does not love you,stop stalking and obsessing over him".Its crystal clear for all to see from his actions;I was just helping her realise that ,and to ensure she does better next time.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by ishiamu(m): 6:04pm On Dec 16, 2015

Mrlekan07034617:
Guy u no serious oooo!!

Lol... how else do you see mr right if not this way?? you go turn good men down and accept bad ones.. hmmm

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by DKOKO3(m): 6:05pm On Dec 16, 2015

If you don't see my suggestion as been mean, I will advice you to go and read this book "Girls How To Spot A Dangerous Man Before You Get involved". By Sandra L. Brown.

Having gone through the hurdles you passed through in previous relationships, I can confidently tell you that you've been falling in love with dangerous men.

Note: the word 'Dangerous is used to describe any man who causes damage to the partner's emotional, physical, financial, sexual or spiritual health.

Try and get the book and apply the suggestions made to your situation.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Nobody: 6:06pm On Dec 16, 2015

move on and learn from your mistake.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by fajani(m): 6:06pm On Dec 16, 2015

Amen

Afam1103:
Sorry about what you are going through. I know it must have taken alot of courage to share your plight on this forum.
Have faith though that things will get better. I dont have an exact formula for how that will be but I do know that for every woman, there is a man.
There is nothing wrong in wanting to love or showing your emotions. They are the things that make you who you are. Don't let any unpleasant circumstance make you want to change who you are and what makes you unique.
I believe the most you can do when you come across a guy that doesn't love you back is make the hard choice and move on. Because one day, you will find that one guy that will never get tired of that huge heart of yours that contains Limitless love and emotions.
I do have one advice though, when you start a new relationship, give the guy a chance to love you back. Because most people take things for granted if they are not given the chance to show appreciation. So when you show love, give him a chance to show the love back. Eg: if you call today, give him a chance to call back tomorrow, etc.
I wish you all the best dear. The Year is almost over. A miracle might come your way this Christmas but 2016 is most definitely going to be your year.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Acebar(m): 6:07pm On Dec 16, 2015

my sister to be Frank with you, you are dating the wrongs guys because you always wanted the wrong ones. I believed goods ones came across but u turned them down. you choose to date already made guys grin

and you kip getting disappointed. it's high time you look at personality not cash,ride nor wealth. tho they are good oo but do wat I just told you and it shall be well with you. amen thank me later

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by 99foxxy(f): 6:07pm On Dec 16, 2015

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

work on urslf, like dnt be carried away by de luv uav for those guyz... I no ur painz n I no hw it feelz wen u luv a guy n he turns out to be a hard guy... Girl dnt worry ur tru luv will cum n he will luv u like mad... Give urslf sum tym kk? Be strong...

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by musicwriter(m): 6:08pm On Dec 16, 2015*

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

Very funny how everybody always think they're pretty.

Well, men will leave you if you're pretty and that's all you have. Being pretty will only attract a man, but will not make him keep you.

It's like buying a glass cup in the market. The beauty of the cup attracts you first, then you have to decide; am I buying this cup for Christmas or for longer everyday use?.

Then, you make a decision. If you need the cup just for Christmas you can buy it because it's beautiful and because you don't have any plan of using it for long. But, if you want to use it for long, you can go for a less beautiful glass cup that's stronger. This's the sort of calculation men do.

So...

If you're pretty, that one. You must also possess other qualities a man want, else he's ready to leave you for someone less pretty but who have the qualities he want in a woman. Heard of bed-matics, for example?.

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by IBBG(m): 6:08pm On Dec 16, 2015*

all I can say is that ur suffering from low self esteem that is now translating into desperation seeking for relevance and approval.
u have to first of all work on ur self esteem by believing that no one is better, smarter, more intelligent or even more prettier than you. They are merely more previledged and opportuned than you. And if given the same circumstances they have ,u'll do as good as they in their endeavours. Also have it at the back of your mind that u don't need anyone's approval or endorsement to feel good or proud of yourself cos u're unique and special in ur own unique way.
When u start seeing and treating ur self as a VIP by not accepting and settling for less, by not letting people treat u any how or take u for granted, they'll have no option than to u treat as a VIP.
here is one secret u shuld always move with, people will mostly look at u the way u look at urself, people will majorly deal with or negotiate with you based on your terms. And "Nobody can make u feel inferior without your consent"--(Elleanor Roosevelt)

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Trapnews: 6:08pm On Dec 16, 2015

Another frustrated gold digger on the loose! always looking for ready made men. Vulcanizers dey for road, una eye no go go there. If I hear.... its a vicious cycle, na your type wey don marry go suffer am because I sure say na one of their married men you go snatch at last grin

Confused species undecided

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Mrlekan07034617: 6:09pm On Dec 16, 2015

IzonOwei:
It's funny how this world works..Whilst some good guys are looking for girls that he would mean everything to others are running from girls who really love them and want to be around them all the time..

That's just what life actually is!!!

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by damwise(f): 6:09pm On Dec 16, 2015

You love a guy that loves someone else... Nothing can be done... Manage the dirty situation.. Move on with your career.. Your man will come soon.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 16, 2015

OP the following points are your problems
You are desperately in need of a hubby
You hate the odd looking guys with big nose like me without cash which you call “cool”
You like them very handsome/cool/classy and rich
You go after guys with high class when you are nothing but a low life with no self-esteem.
You have nothing to offer to the commitment you’re trying to force on them (Marriage)
You think these guys only wants to chop your honey pot, so you padlock your honey pot but yet still gum and gum yourself on them as if you want them to do the thing.

Advice

Go look for your type and stop looking for cheap gold to dig.
Stop giving guys the impression that you are so cheap but yet you no gree open
Stop going after guys you can’t have; cos you don’t have what it takes to keep them.

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 16, 2015

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE and yet they want to sleep with me!!!(contradicting in a way)...on a more serious note,the Gods of your village have used labebe to wash your face over night!we would have to appease the gods of Biafra o!!!meet me @ yahoo busstop tonight.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by DKOKO3(m): 6:11pm On Dec 16, 2015

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by cotzywitzy(m): 6:12pm On Dec 16, 2015

Ma'am ...Your spirit Husband at work... run to MFM for deliverance... don't take this as a joke... Thank me later....

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by kiddoiLL(m): 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2015

Give it a break..You are better off rediscovering yourself than crying over a guy who doesnt want you..the guy heartless she,he apologized for leading you on,was he ignorant of the fact that he has a girlfriend bfr making you fall so bad? leave the chap alone,
and you gan xev stop stimulatin d pantz learn to stimulate d mind...
honestly even tho we guys like s3x we love n re more attached to ladies who knws hw to work our minds not pants.
understand me, getting attracted to u might b easy,in other words no feelings,they just like what they see n want to eat it n leave.
but getting attached to u,hahan d guy wont b after ur body alone nau. All am sayin is, stop showing guys u re emotional,stop being an easy to get babe most of all if any a**hole is after u fr s3z u can just make ur mind clear ur nt ready fr it,d one attached to u wont leave cus of dat,he'll stay cus he knws its nt just s3x u can give him.. bottom line : never let any guy treat u like u dnt deserve what u want.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by excel101(m): 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2015

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

. Its like u want a guy dats doing well( cos he can afford to travel out ), my reason is cos u did not tell us about those dat wooed u but u rejected. They might be the right dude u need in ur life. You dnt luv a guy cos of material things, if not how d luv is not mutual, he even told u outrightly dat he has a date. He never took u serious. For d fact dat all dat glitters is not gold, is the more reason u give dat oda guy (dat wooed, nd u rejected severally but u knw he is responsible but hasn't yet arrived) a chance in ur life, he might be d Mr right u wanted.

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by debo07(m): 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2015

Funny enough as a guy I'm going through all these tins too.I show commitment to girls and @ d end of the day they just go their way.I'm a very emotional guy.I've bin hurt lots of times.I feel ur pain cos I'm also going through the same thing as a guy.But I wish I could know you beleza.If you won't mind

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by schumastic(m): 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2015

queenfav:
no bro,realist!She doesn't need angel gabriel to appear to her in a halo to tell her "my child,the Lord says this man does not love you,stop stalking and obsessing over him".Its crystal clear for all to see from his actions;I was just helping her realise that ,and to ensure she does better next time.

The truth is i understand her very well but the problem sometimes is the person attitude towards the opposite sex or people around her.had a friend in uni back then, truth be told that girl have anger issues sometimes my cousin n i always say this, we would love to meet the guy that will settle down with her cus of her anger issues and she refue to see her mistakes or wrong doing and if you try correcting her, she will beef you and then reconcile later on... most of her relationship always come to and end cus she fails to take correction and gets angry easily..she fought with all diff roommates she had from yr 1 to final yr grin

...so it goes beyond giving advice cus we don't know what personality she have that's chasing away the opposite sex and same goes to guys as well

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Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by Richy4(m): 6:14pm On Dec 16, 2015

ishiamu:
Search no more... am right here...am the man for you, if you want you can turn me down and still fall the wrong one.. end this search with me now and see happiness from onwards now..

If you are serious bro, then we will give you forms to fill. cheesy

and we will collectively interview you in family section of this forum....

We have to look after a damsel in distress to avoid repetitions.......

Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by macfish101(m): 6:15pm On Dec 16, 2015

Baby gal, we can come out here and talk about love issues frm now till 2mao but the truth is, wen matters of the heart is involved, nothing stays thesame. We start seeing white as black and if anyone tries to correct us, we ll feel offended. People say u shud manage ur emotions but do you actually know that is the highest form of inflicting emotional pain and torture to urself (locking up ur feelings inside)......am happy u r working and independent, there is nothing wrong with you, just keep loving and wen it turns sour, Remember that TIME heals all wounds....give it time, u ll be fine.....and wen you love again, its just gonna be like its the 1st time.
The only problem I think u've got is dat "You don't evaluate ur relationships before jumping in" If you had asked the guy wat he wanted out of this relationship at the begining, a lot of these wouldn't have happened. You would be better able to match his ambitions wit ur's......Does he have a gal friend? Is he married? Wat kind of personality does he potray? All this are important questions dat need answers to but you ignore them and swam into the pool of love like you were in a dream.....Swty, this is reality "EVALUATE UR RELATIONSHIP" what do you hope to get from it? Love ain't enuf.......wish you happiness

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