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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by gurunlocker: 11:52pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
to avoid unnecessary heartache, I don't bother checking my partner phone. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:53pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
naijaboiy:gbam....e be Lik u really read and understand the post itself.. one can't just wake up and start checking...something leads to something.. For some it's a lesson and learnt and they will forever be happy they do while for some reason it's a no go area |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Slimzybaby(m): 11:53pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry:. Dem no know oo ... Sometimes if e reach the one wey she no understand again, she go ask me wetin she go reply am. Life has been fun ever since i started dating that girl over a year ago. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:54pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
YourMain:And what breeds insecurity ma'am?? wanna learn |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by suwalee(f): 11:54pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry:I can't try it so many peeps told me to but it just not my style I don't even touch my sis fones too I hate to invade ppls privacy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Odunharry: Lol you don't trust them. But what will checking their phone solve ? 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:56pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
suwalee:good one... I I only touch with permission aside that, I'm out.. Dont pick people's call or read messages too |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 11:58pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
YourMain:lol. na You keep getting me wrong...like I said, I'm not the typ that snoop and so much give people their respect Nd privacy. I read a story on Nairaland how a man caught his cheating wife when he checked her Facebook acct and discovered the wife was not only a cheat but has bn lieing and deceiving him . I have heard and seen lots of similar stories too Do you think the man made the wrong move?? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by McTobe(m): 11:58pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
misspicy:Miss Spicy Biko dethrone that Ndukwu pishure wey dey ya frofile abeg b4 u give person heart attack... umuaka game egbukwanu mmadu one day here o. abeg hurry |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Slimzybaby(m): 11:59pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
RealTreas... |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:00am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: Yes. But you're making yourself that person. And there's honestly no need. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:01am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:Neither. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Bollinger(m): 12:01am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:If married, it should not be an issue. Unless one has something to hide. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Oh. So why would one be making periodic checks so ? 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:02am On Dec 17, 2015 |
outstandingsyll:she dey share money?? 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by suwalee(f): 12:04am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:yea touch with permission bf won't nd can't touch my fone till he asks me no secrets to hide tho |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:04am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:na... I'm very neutral though. Wanted to hear opinion |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:04am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:i'm not bothered about what I will find out. I feel i'm strong enough to handle whatever it is. It will save me the stress of wasting my time. Once I notice something off I always ask and I also tell my girl to do same. That's how we always roll. It's not insecurity to me. 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry: I just think there's no room for insecurity in a relationship. If you don't feel secure in your relationship then why are you in it. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:06am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Slimzybaby:lol.. you sef dey vex o. Why you dey cut show na.. And d gal mk sense for ur life o |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:07am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:agree with this... it saves one from alot lies, deception ,Std who knows etc |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:07am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:When there is a need to. There can never be a relationship or marriage where everything goes smoothly. At a point this trust issue comes up. It may be subtle,it may be pronounced. It depends on the partners. Suspecting something wrong and still keeping quiet simply because you don't want to sound insecure and discover the worst is self deceit to me. 7 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:08am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain:insecurity dont just develop like that... there are causes I think. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Originalsly: 12:09am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I still can't wrap my head around the idea of someone going through another's phone! Cell phones are personal... like bank accounts. .. like mail... and in developed countries for sure it is illegal to access unless given permission. You shouldn't even be answering someone's phone unless they ask you to. Why on earth would you be going through your partner's phone? That is in itself a sign of mistrust and any good relationship is built on trust. My partner going through my phone?... the relationship start going downhill immediately....the beginning of the end. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Cutehector(m): 12:09am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:hence the need for confrontation instead of things like snooping. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Slimzybaby(m): 12:10am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Lols... Just flirting with them. I no dey cut show again oo. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:11am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:Depends on what you see as confrontation. You can confront and yet the truth wouldn't come out. What will you do in that case? 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by McTobe(m): 12:11am On Dec 17, 2015 |
misspicy:u are relating... talk on. its good to spy once in a while helps to make d love stronger self & satisfy intellectual curiosity too. which kind of love wey no get jealousy Na foreign love o....wora amai doing sef . I actually violated my standing order not to comment on Lomance thread...#Vanishes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Cutehector(m): 12:14am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:well if i knw she has this flirting character, i wouldnt mind resorting to check her phone for leads. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:14am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: But you're not speaking up when you go through their stuff ? You're not showing much trust either. Part of the things that come with every relationship or marriage is security. It's the security that allows you to know that he or she isn't cheating or what not. And the only reason you're choosing to look through their phone is cause you don't think the security is there. Basically, There's insecurity. A relationship should never lack communication. Even body language and all that. You can tell your partner how you feel. You are in a commitment with this person. No need to spy on them. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:15am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:The main reason why most people don't like checking is not even because they are supposedly intruding on their partner's privacy but simply because they don't want to be called insecure or find out something really bad. With that i've come to realize that many people prefer to live in self-deceit and pretend to themselves that everything is okay. Maybe if you had checked his phone you would have been able to find out about that side chick he was keeping that later got pregnant for him. But you didn't and then 5 years after your marriage you find out and then you come and open a thread on Nairaland about how your husband was keeping a side chick from you for five years. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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