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Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:49am On Dec 17, 2015 |
AJaylee:The earlier you take a decision, tell better for you. Act like the man guy.. those tears are deceptive.. Give her space |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Cpumping(m): 12:49am On Dec 17, 2015 |
me I v trust issues, I wd always check.
I dnt v a problem u checking mine.
infact I wd tell u lets exchange phones n check together. its not my fault I was born this way. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by DedeNkem: 12:50am On Dec 17, 2015 |
If you suspect your spouse, check his/her phone. If your spouse locks his/her phone with password and doesn't give you the password, then he/she is hiding something. My wife and I know each other's passwords, including banks accounts, laptops, phones, all online accounts, in fact, anything we use that requires password. That's how open and transperant a couple should be. If you've nothing to hide from your spouse, then you've absolutely no genuine reason to hide anything from him/her. When one of you starts hiding something from the other, then there's a trust or infidelity problem. 7 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:50am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Nubian113:You look for the best and ignore the worst. And then when the worst comes out you don't know how to handle it. Keeping quiet and ignoring certain things that will cause bigger problems later on will only guarantee temporary happiness and long term heart break. The moment you notice,act on it once and for all and stop ignoring it so you don't come crying later on. 2 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by AJaylee(m): 12:55am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:U are ryt bro, but on my babes side, nothing wil be suspicious but she is still flirtin wit someone, she goes to work, from work to somewhere from somewhere to. Somewhere. Nd one day I'll feel like checking d messages nd I'll find something suspicious. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:55am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:It seems to me that those who are not in support of snooping are those who may be the ones guilty of hiding stuff from their partners in relationships. This thing is very easy. If your mind and heart is clean you shouldn't even complain when your partner is with your phone on a normal day,talk less of snooping on it. It's only those who are guilty of shady deals that don't support it because they believe that as they don't check their partner's phone he/she shouldn't check theirs too and from there they too can hide anything they want to. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:55am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Style007:funny but true |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:55am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Staying on topic: I have never gone through someone's phone (male or female) because it's rude and antisocial behaviour. It was done to me and innocent banter, flirting was taken as me cheating and the relationship sunk before it even started. Talk, and ask questions don't do your own math. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 12:57am On Dec 17, 2015 |
sonofananimal:confirm talk bro... People flirt alot and Cheat wella. If you didn't check that na long thing she go put you o |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by AJaylee(m): 12:57am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Yap I will, after we stop living together |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 12:58am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Nubian113:Rude and antisocial? In a relationship where you were allegedly flirting? Flirting that can lead to something else. You can see how you shot your own self in the foot. Lol...okay bye. 4 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:02am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Cutehector:lol.. take everything dey say here too serious at ur own peril |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by tunex22(m): 1:05am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Thunderlicious:U'er such a foolish idiot for posting those words |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:07am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lol... Nubian doesn't see anything wrong in flirting with guys but I can bet she will be angry if she sees a gal walking together with her guy.. mhen she's funny ...cause she's flirting that's why she's strongly against it. Buhahahaahahahah 3 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 1:13am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Lool...I told you na! They also have shady things to hide too. If not they will be the first to snoop. In fact once your girl does not give a hoot about your private stuff then start suspecting her too. The logic is this. I won't check your phone and you won't check mine. Therefore,you can do whatever you want to do and I do mine. But none of us should find out. So most times it's about who found out first that's the victim. Even though he/she is guilty too. 5 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:19am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lol.. she's made some funny comments too like, LIKES ATTRACT LIKES. no b everything Man gat quote or reply |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by bilionaire: 1:20am On Dec 17, 2015 |
it takes a lot of maturity to comport, but why even do it if you can not take it |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 1:24am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:Lol...I saw that too. I just chose to ignore that aspect as it was not really relevant. I guess what she meant was that if i'm suspecting my partner to cheat then I can cheat too. That means when I check her phone it means i'm looking for what I can do too. By that if she can't cheat on her partner that means he can't cheat on her too. Haven't we had uncountable cases of a good guy or woman coming in contact with a chronic flirt/cheat? You see the way some people think? |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:26am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lol.. her likes attract likes doesn't hold here at all. U can bet if it's the guy flirting wahala for Don happen since |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by naijaboiy: 1:32am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Odunharry:It doesn't hold at all! Yes na! That's why I said whoever is caught first is the offender and the finder is the victim. The guy in question may also have other ladies he's toasting but because he caught her first he will still pick offense. Abeg make I enter bed jare. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:33am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Nubian113: If you want to buy a car, you run a VIN check because the history of a car is an indicator of its future performance. If you want to borrow from a bank, they check your credit history because your record is an indicator of what to expect. If you are looking for employment, employers ask for references... And if you get a new doc, he asks for your medical history. A cum-guzzling slut - with 7 years experience - who lies like there is no tomorrow, has had strings of abortions, and has zero morals is not going to change merely because she met me. I think I'm pretty special, but I am not that special. Maybe Mourinho or Jesus can transform her, going forward. Not me. "A leopard cannot change its spots" --------- The Elders. 6 Likes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Odunharry(m): 1:36am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lol.. goodnight.. me too want sleep now self 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Adaeze003(f): 1:50am On Dec 17, 2015 |
If it's a marriage, by all means check. I mean, what's mine is yours. If not? Just try snoop through your own phone. Respect my privacy n I'll do same. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 1:55am On Dec 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Lol! Why not highlight in context? Once a lawyer always a lair Ok bye |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by davidsgal(f): 2:02am On Dec 17, 2015 |
My bf is permitted to touch my phone 2/4/7....nothing to hide.... That's transparency in a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by stuchbedding(f): 2:12am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Please don't check my signature 1 Like |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by poshestmina(f): 2:15am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Tried that once,cried all through the night while he was busy sleeping Learnt my lesson,ignorance is better sometimes |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by dfellow97: 2:19am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Don't check but anytime I notice her fone is passworded I start scoring her below average cos the only passwords I keep are the main entrance to my house and to my office when the need arises. Every other is open.[color=#990000][/color] |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 2:23am On Dec 17, 2015 |
YourMain: *yimu |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 3:27am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I don't think anything is wrong with that! But the guy should understand that when going through his woman's phone, he should just expect anything! Anything in d sense that, she might still have admirers who are still believing that any change can happen! I know of a male friend who was mistakenly sent a romantic text. Only for him to call back the number to verify who sent the text. For him mind, he was thinking d text came from one of his girlfriend. After calling, he realized that a male sent d text n just a digit caused d error! After narration, I thought of so many IFs. What if that text was sent to d wife's phone n it came in as at d time d man was going through her phone? So many things would have taken place before we say Jack! So a man going through his woman's phone should be careful n patient! Before reaction, ensure you get d whole information clear. |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by RexTramadol1: 3:30am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I no dey check am I no gals are loose before Ion av a reason to re-confirm! |
Re: Going Through Your Partner's Phone..right Or Wrong? by onunwa21(m): 3:58am On Dec 17, 2015 |
If u want to die b4 ur time, continue checking ur partner phone. 1 Like |
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