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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by LastProphet: 4:01am On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123: when you get close to 25yrs and above your confidence will increase, same goes for him |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Obynolee(f): 4:10am On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123: Being shy doesn't neccesarily mean being introverted,you guys need to work on yourself to boost self cofidence.I am an introvert but not shy and i married introvert and we are happy.I never wanted a talkertive because it makes me real uncomfortable.So,the marriage can work. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by zolajpower: 4:42am On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123:get a counsellor |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:43am On Dec 27, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:I'm me. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:50am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Classicman47: I can't remember defining introverts up there nor do I recall asking u to tell me anything. But I guess this made u sleep well at night. That's good, at least. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:52am On Dec 27, 2015 |
1boyl1kevhis: Lol. Yea. Thanks for spotting the joke. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:54am On Dec 27, 2015 |
holysaint1:Whatever! |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:55am On Dec 27, 2015 |
sonofananimal: This animal's quoting me again. Be happy, I'm not getting into an e-fight with you. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:57am On Dec 27, 2015 |
bigass123: I think it's Methylated Spirit. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 4:59am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Mafking: And why should you be pained? All these uptight ppl that can't spot a joke. What if I tell you I'm an introvert? |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by seaga: 5:01am On Dec 27, 2015 |
In my opinion, marriage is about two...., it's not about the way the world sees your Union, let them call it boring.You said you love him? why do you? Do you fill happy when you are with him? You re both shy, but not to each other,I believe.The truth of the matter is you tend to ve him to yourself, unlike the opposite who easily goes astray.Introvert don't find themselves boring, it's others that do.What if you find the opposite, and he goes out every weekend with friends every spare time, returns drunk, cheats and so on due to his philandering nature.Its quite an advantage for a woman to be married to one, because you have a solid sense of security and belonging. They are the kind of marriages that's last forever because you ve something in common. Like someone mentioned, you women can really be confused, even when you ve something special 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by lasisi69(f): 5:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
MichaelChaplain:lol... Abeg o, I never die.. . 1 Like |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Smartguy001(m): 5:55am On Dec 27, 2015 |
With a little work on ur part u cud come out of ur shell n just b at d middle...not an extrovat b at least not an xtreme introvat |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Candybob(m): 6:06am On Dec 27, 2015 |
I think it works better that way |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by avicky(f): 6:08am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:You don't have any advice apart from hmmmm. Ladies complain about everything. You marry what is in you. Op, i don't see that as a problem, and you shouldn't feel bad about what any couple or person feels about you. Just be real. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 6:12am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Introvert-introvert marriages are perfect. Quote me anywhere. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by madjune(m): 6:26am On Dec 27, 2015 |
theMusicNerd: See advice...you for tell them to drive against traffic in front of LASTMA. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 6:27am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Uniben girl? |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 6:29am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Emodeee:nonsense, trash, u are just saying this because u think u are better, introverts are not boring is just that u have not been close to any, it depends because am not boring am the funny type buh am an introvert |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by badonkadonk: 6:29am On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123: You can't eat your cake and have it... The last tym I checked relationship isn't about getting all u want buh bout getting that which u can work it and make it all u need. Build urself up to be dat which u want to see in ur man... Cover his weaknesses.. Men don't like been told u aren't like dis and dat.. We prefer changing by ourselves and in secret.. So chances dat he will change when u tell him is very low.. Buh when he sees u changing just for him.. He would want to change just for the relationship.. Yes I said it! Men change for a greater purpose if u dint know, know now.. Quote me anywhere.. I just hope he already knows that women can't be pleased and I mean cannot (quote me anywhere)... he should change cos he wants to and because he feels it would help ur relationship... And not because u want him to cos when he does dat u may not love him anymore.. Strong men who have had their heart turned to stone by women know this.. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 6:32am On Dec 27, 2015 |
When I was growing up,I realized I was an introvert,but as time went on,I asked myself if I could really cope with my life style towards people.This was how I dealth with it: I started socializing when I got into the university and went as far as playing politics which took me to other departments.From there,I started addressing crowds,though it wasn't easy at first,but I had to psych myself mentally by seeing myself as a giant and my audience as little people. They respected me because of my boldness and I became very popular,won elections and today I don't think there's anything like shyness in my dictionary. Though,introverts are people who lack confidence due to up bringing,psycological problems and environmental factors,but it can be subdued when the person realizes that people could take advantage of you if you appear too quiet. My advise is this: It's very bad for the two of you to be introverts because it'll surely affect your kids,but if you truely love each other,one of you should work on it.But don't forget that learning how to use your right hand at an old age could be disastrous,though nothing is impossible. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by excellencygreat(m): 6:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
....among other advices, both of you should try and get a book titled "public speaking" just that I can't remember the name of the author. It teaches on how to make a speech in the public.o |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by excellencygreat(m): 6:40am On Dec 27, 2015 |
....among other advices, both of you should try and get a book titled "public speaking" just that I can't remember the name of the author. It teaches on how to make a speech in the public. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 6:44am On Dec 27, 2015 |
I don't see why not. Both being introverts are best suited to attract, understand and live with one another. There's a strong reason they caught each other's attentions in the first place. People also change so its possible that in the future one of the them would become more outgoing. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by fabulous01(m): 6:53am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Introduction: My wife is intro but am extr..... I find it easy to relate wt pple but base on her nature I undstad her and I force her to do sam as I desire. And our marriag of 5yrs is in gud shape and beta!!!! Advise: work thg out ursef... Build ursef and also carry him along. Conclusion: pray to God to uphold u and your marriage!!!! Prayer: God will help U to fulfil destiny Amen: fill d gap 1 Like |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by PipSurgeon(m): 6:57am On Dec 27, 2015 |
i dont see any problem here... uu both love ya self, forget wat u think others think... |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by odun99(f): 6:57am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Boring relationship begots boring marriage Make sure a boring pastor doesn't preach at ur weeding ooo |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by arki(m): 7:00am On Dec 27, 2015 |
OP, u have to acknowledge the fact introverts are good husbands cos he'll love u,care for u,make sure u are happy,won't cheat on u etc. It's beta to be in a relationship with an introvert guy who'll give u his time and care than an extrovert who'll not give u his tym. I am an introvert that had same issues like ur guy, when I discovered this, I started working on it by joining the choir in my school, singing in a large crowd etc though it wasn't easy at first. U should be grateful u have such a rare kind of guy who will love u. My ex too was like u who wanted an extrovert though an introvert, but today she's regreting for leaving me. Jst show him and not tell him that he needs to build on his confident issues,if he truly loves u,he will change but not totally. Have a nice day. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by denda(m): 7:08am On Dec 27, 2015 |
it work the more u guys come to live together tins will becoming better ......just matter of tym |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by makahlj2: 7:10am On Dec 27, 2015 |
No, you will just create more introverts. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by aly123: 7:14am On Dec 27, 2015 |
arki:tanks so much buh wat abt wen we start having kids,i hate to have kids dat are dull.....i love sharp and smart kids. Btw,i have always wanted to be someone who wld be able to face a large crowd nd frm ur suggestion........am nt xtian...so, I nid advice on other ways I can boost my confidence |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Prospero01(m): 7:14am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Change is possible. I have seen introverts become extroverted. You both have not stretch the limits of your temperament to actually say if both of you are the way you are. Again, there's the Spirit-filled or controlled temperament that will work for anyone. I recommend you both read Tim LaHaye's Spirit-Controlled Temperament. I am a product of such but now I cannot even tell which I belong cos I have a blend of most if not all. 1 Like |
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