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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 27, 2015 |
badonkadonk:them never do learn at all! |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by amInigerian: 9:27am On Dec 27, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:[size=13pt]Take out the "kneeling b4 him" please. I have been introverted for a long time and in my most introverted state, I detested subservient girls/women. Your presumption is that he has low self-esteem because he is introverted and that he will inwardly need an open show of subservience from his woman to feel good inside (although he will not say it). That is first grade crap and perhaps the reason I could not get down with Nigerian girls. Just imagine. That is not really respect because it is borne out of an accepted conclusion that your man has low self-esteem. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 27, 2015 |
1boyl1kevhis: They were taking it too personal.. I guess they are introverts, too. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by MrEverest(m): 9:43am On Dec 27, 2015 |
firstking01:I dont concur with with you. I used to be extremely shy & introverted as a kid to the extent that I'll know answers in class yet will not be bold enough to stand up & say it! I knew it was a big problem & I hated myself for that but later in life I worked on it, I always forced myself to read bible & answer questions during sunday school classes. Again during my NYSC days, I became the CDS president & also took up a secondary assignment as a teacher handling SSS 1,2 & 3 in a mixed school with each class having excess of 50 students. I must confess that doing all these were not easy because I was scared at first but with determination u'll overcome it. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Mafking: Lol. It's okay. Don't try to teach me anything. It's pointless in this context. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Classicman47: Nope. That's not my perception of them. I'm more of an introvert, and I'm very happy with my personality. That was a joke my Lecturer made some time ago nd the topic reminded me of it. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by no1madman(m): 9:51am On Dec 27, 2015 |
As long as u dey open ur legs anytime i want chop. . . . .no wahala! |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by JudgementHammer: 10:13am On Dec 27, 2015 |
amInigerian:Mr bold lettering n esteem. There are 2 kinds of introvert. Name urs 1st |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by jackpot(f): 10:17am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:meanie. Lol |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by jackpot(f): 10:18am On Dec 27, 2015 |
the nairaland user ''introvert'' will get so much mentions ehhhhhh the same way I use to get plenty mentions from these baba ijebu nairalanders. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by blairlady(f): 10:28am On Dec 27, 2015 |
IykeWest: And is this the only reason, you just concluded that ladies are confused? Mtcheww |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by seaga: 10:33am On Dec 27, 2015 |
JudgementHammer: I disagree about a few things if not alot, there is nothing wrong with them, they don't need to see a shrink. It's not even a problem ,to mention psycho analysis . Everyone can't have same behavioral traits. The issue about kneeling down is absurd, to solve a problem that doesn't even exist.Brutality at childhood on the contrary, can even make one, very outspoken and aggressive.Indoubt? Agberos can be used as case study.I like the fact you used the word 'Nature' it has nothing to do with human interference, childhood has nothing to do with nature. The only issue is,a confused lady,simple! Finally:
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 10:45am On Dec 27, 2015 |
jackpot:Lol. No, I'm nice. Really. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Mushyhills(m): 10:48am On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123: Firstly am introverted...I'm shy, boring atimes...Buh girl you have a man that will put u first... If he's a good matched introvert Check his temperament... Try to understand him more... I'm Virgo... I'm proudly introvert and if I marry an introvert... She would be the happiest... Don't forget to pray though... God is with you... NB: EVEN AN EXTROVERT CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE BORING... |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by ibrams(m): 11:03am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Bigsteveg:..... |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by seaga: 11:22am On Dec 27, 2015 |
coveredchic: Couldn't ve said it any better |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Taiwo20(m): 11:23am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Cutehector: They have been confused from the days of Abraham. Sarah gave her hand-maid to her husband, but as time goes by...She asked her husband to send her packing.... So you see, they are a specie on their own To the question....you can make it work... |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by aly123: 11:24am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Mushyhills:tanks |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 11:44am On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Mushyhills(m): 11:51am On Dec 27, 2015 |
sirLeon: |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 11:51am On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 12:00pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
As a guy I can only marry a woman that I'm astrologically compatible with. Gemini, Aquarius or Saggitarius. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123: U both can become extroverts or, more appropriately, ambiverts just like me. I was very shy while growing up but today am one of d alpha males in d world. I stopped being shy by edifying my mind, because I discovered my problem was of d mind. I was scared of being d centre of attraction, making mistakes, being laughed at etc. This fear made me withdraw my self. But I overcame it by laughing at myself and freeing my mind from negative tots. I looked at d extroverts as they feel free, joke and laugh at themselves, do silly things and get laughed at, yet they are still themselves. I then changed my mind and stopped being too serious with things. I started by hanging out with few friends. Then I joined societies and groups both social and religious....the rest is now history. U should do dis with him and I believe wit time, he will be perfect for u. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by madjune(m): 1:05pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
sonofananimal: My broda, I tire for these advisers o. Na ppl like dem advice Jonathan wrongly. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Geofavor(m): 1:14pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
aly123:okay. Normally, in nature, like repel while opposite attract, However, in some rare cases, like attracts. What i'm saying in essence is that, your being introverts doesn't matter,... for now. Your guy is the type that doesn't want trouble. He doesn't want an extroverted lady who will give him a lot of headache through her extroverted behaviour. He wants a lady that is easy going, gentle and calm: a lady he can get along with. Now, you are aware of your introversion, is he aware of his? Awareness is the first step of eliminating any problem introversion may pose. Being introverts shouldn't stop either you or him from speaking out each time an occasion calls for it. It shouldn't restrict you from doing anything you wish to do. You need to have the right perception of introversion. It's a great personality when finetuned: you can be extroverted whenever you like. Right now, you're both still learners. This is why you are not bold, can't speak out and so on. A little work in some time will solve all these. There are steps to be taken. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 1:22pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
dat marriage go dey boring die as u both will b expectin eachoda to talk first but none will. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by JudgementHammer: 1:34pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
seaga:Mr man I've seen ur color all d pic and d story I've seen them all. Know these; 1)The lady is not confused. She knows what she really want 2)Like u said everyone can't have same behavioral traits. What's absurd to u is highly revered by some others including kneeling 3)There are 2 kind of introverts and 2 kinds of extroverts resulting from either emotional brutality or physical brutality 4)Get more knowledge b4 u defend a case u barely know about |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
sirLeon: My broda, to b sincere, being an introvert to d point of being shy is a social disease. It limits ones potential and psychologically, affects d health of d person involved. I advise every introvert to break out from it. Like I said, am now an AMBIVERT. And its d best... |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by 1boyl1kevhis(m): 1:53pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:Lol. even introverts barely display aggression. They're all just miserable folks nursing a bad case of PTSD, and shrunken pockets. Don't be stirred,Bro. |
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by feran15(m): 1:57pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
HARDDON: thinkers rule the world. yes. I'm just disputing the fact that introversion increases the development of the brain over extroversion |
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