This thread is self explanatory and is to every lady out there that wants to know if he's the right partner to plan your future with.

How do you know your Nigerian boyfriend is lazy bone? without much ado, let's go straight to the center of gravity.

1. : He's always broke. If your boyfriend is always complaining of lack of fund and cannot take the financial responsibilities of things such as, shoping, house rent, food e.t.c he's not worthy.

2. -X He smokes weed. Weed smokers are like monkeys that's happy with the bananas but doesn't knw the bananas will later cause their ruine. Guys that smokes weed can be loud, outgoing but they are d worst type of boyfriends you can ever imagine of keeping.


3. He procastinates responsibilities that must be done and shifts the blame on you.

4. He's always having time for sex/demanding for sex than the betterment of the relationship. he simply wants to use you and dumb.

5. : Have you ever watched him argue, fight, carrying sticks and bottles e.t.c weapons before he can defend himself or disrespecting elders? dont be impressed by such display.. he suppose to resolve matters amicably in a more matured way rather than to fight.

6. Is he a chronic gossiper that cannot keep secretes of the relationship? it simply means he's lazy and immature with it.(double wahala).

7. Does he pop pills, alcohol before he can perform sexually? you dont want to marry such man.

8. Is he of help in the house chores like cleaning, cutting grasses in the garden/compound, washing, can he cook?

9. Is he having a reliable and secured job? This matters in every relationships.

10. Lastly, boyfriend must be more of action than end time talkatives...who only knows how to see your mistakes without seeing theirs. tosyne2much will belong to this category.

11. He must be hygienic.

cheers.
Lalasticl.ala pls do justice

Any person with a functioning brain would know that anyone who displays most of these traits you mentioned isn't someone to consider marrying.

We don't necessarily need anyone to lecture us on this or point it out to us. It's common sense.

#tongue

Decker:
Any person with a functioning brain would know that anyone who display most of these traits you mentioned isn't someone to consider marrying.
We don't need anyone one to lecture us on this or point it out to us. It's common sense.

You are not making any sense jare@ above poster

Endtime boys will have in Nigeria nw only knws;
1 EPL
2 Bet360 or merry bet
3 Sex
4 Tribalistic comments
5 Smoking
6 Agbero touts
All of them are lazy like fart...They even have small dickks now like Irunobo and onila always say.

chowlade:

You are not making any sense jare.




Endtime boys will have in Nigeria nw only knws;

1 EPL
2 Bet360 or merry bet
3 Sex
4 Tribalistic comments
5 Smokers
6 Agbero touts


All of them are lazy like fart...They even have small dickks now like Irunobo always say

Are you always this dumb or you just chose today to be dumb?

Aren't we saying the same thing?

I said any lady that doesn't already know these things the op mentioned, is devoid of common sense, because common sense demands that if she sees these trait you and the op rightly mentioned in a man, she should know what he isn't ready and mature enough for marriage.

The kinda guys with the above traits dont ever get married...they just impregnate the girl and take her home and start calling her Iyawo...Lagos boys style...girls sef mumu too

Decker:


Are you always this dumb or you just chose today to be dumb?

Aren't we saying the same thing?

I said any lady that doesn't already know these things the op mentioned, is devoid of common sense, because common sense demands that if she sees these trait you and the op rightly mentioned in a man, she should know what he isn't ready and mature enough for marriage.

chill she's a lady nw..you have done what the op said you people shouldn't.

na god will save us frm dis naija males o
Lalasticlala, seun, ishilove, tosyne2much, irunobo

And then? Is it by force to marry.




Its mostly u girls that are always anxious of getting married.

Ah yeah, Soo right!

funmijoyb:

chill she's a lady nw..you have done what the op said you people shouldn't.

na god will save us frm dis naija males o

Wait, I am still trying to wrap my head around this phrase you just made; She is a lady naw
What has that got to do with anything? So if someone is a lady means she shouldn't make sensible comments? And if she does, someone shouldn't point out her flaws to her?

Look, this is a public forum. Everyone is responsible for every comment made here. All we all do here is air our opinions and I will air mine regardless of the gender of any sobriquet. The way I will reply a guy is the same way I will reply a lady. Anyone who has a problem with that can go fuq a dead horse.

It's because Nairaland has a gender tag on each moniker that's why you are even saying what you are saying. That's why more advanced forums like Reddit for instance, doesn't place a gender tag on the usernames of it's registered members. That way, people can air their honest views without being all sentimental like you are being.

fbtowner:
And then? Is it by force to marry.

Its mostly u girls that are always anxious of getting married.

fabricated lie..no be u guys konji go dey worry? beside op was not talking of marriage..is bf marriage.

Decker:
Any person with a functioning brain would know that anyone who displays most of these traits you mentioned isn't someone to consider marrying.

We don't necessarily need anyone one to lecture us on this or point it out to us. It's common sense.

Thank you very much...her grammar doesn't even lend her much credibility and her simple typos leave little to be emulated

chowlade:

You are not making any sense jare@ above poster

Endtime boys will have in Nigeria nw only knws;
1 EPL
2 Bet360 or merry bet
3 Sex
4 Tribalistic comments
5 Smoking
6 Agbero touts
All of them are lazy like fart...They even have small dickks now like Irunobo and onila always say.

see how gloriously u display ur mumuism.

Decker:


Wait, I am still trying to wrap my head around this phrase you just made; She is a lady naw
What has that got to do with anything? So if someone is a lady means she shouldn't make sensible comments? And if she does, someone shouldn't point out her flaws to her?

Look, this is a public forum. Everyone is responsible for every comment made here. All we all do here is air our opinions and I will air mine regardless of the gender of any sobriquet. The way I will reply a guy is the same way I will reply a lady. Anyone who has a problem with that can go fuq a dead horse.

It's because there is a gender tag on each moniker that's why you are even saying what you are saying. That's why more advanced forums like Reddit for instance, doesn't place a gender tag on the usernames of it's registered members. That way, people can air their honest views without being all sentimental like you are being.

red card. if ur boyfriend handles issues like dis den he is not a serious dude for marriage op u forget to mention dis


before i forget the way u talk to guys ist the same way u talk to ladies forget nairaland am talking of the physical world. change dat perspective asap

Now, this is hilarious hahahahahahaha

zaragal:


red card. if ur boyfriend handles issues like dis den he is not a serious dude for marriage op u forget to mention dis

[quote author=STFUareyouGod post=41491176]Now, this is hilarious hahahahahahaha
[/quote

Dumb would actually be an understatement

chowlade:

You are not making any sense jare@ above poster

Endtime boys will have in Nigeria nw only knws;
1 EPL
2 Bet360 or merry bet
3 Sex
4 Tribalistic comments
5 Smoking
6 Agbero touts
All of them are lazy like fart...They even have small dickks now like Irunobo and onila always say.

zaragal:
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he's only being blunt tho. Which is actually not bad

Authentic.... very nice op

zaragal:


red card. if ur boyfriend handles issues like dis den he is not a serious dude for marriage op u forget to mention dis


before i forget the way u talk to guys ist the same way u talk to ladies forget nairaland am talking of the physical world. change dat perspective asap

Like I said, if you have a problem with how I chose to express myself here on Nairaland, you can go fuq a dead horse. I don't care.

It's still ladies like you that would come tomorrow to claim feminist and scream gender equality at the top of your lungs, but when it comes to issues like this, you won't remember that everyone is equal. Mtcheeeew!

Decker:


Like I said, if you have a problem with how I chose to express myself here on Nairaland, you can go fuq a dead horse. I don't care.

It's still ladies like you that would come tomorrow to claim feminist and scream gender equality at the top of your lungs, but when it comes to issues like this, you won't remember that everyone is equal. Mtcheeeew!

nice one dude...the way ladies want men to cherish them pisses me off

Decker:


Like I said, if you have a problem with how I chose to express myself here on Nairaland, you can go fuq a dead horse. I don't care.

It's still ladies like you that would come tomorrow to claim feminist and scream gender equality at the top of your lungs, but when it comes to issues like this, you won't remember that everyone is equal. Mtcheeeew!

i feel sorry for the woman u will end up with....so so sooorry for her.

zaragal:



i feel sorry for the woman u will end up with....so so sooorry for her.

Well, she definitely wouldn't be as dumb and overly sentimental as you.

STFUareyouGod:
he's only being blunt tho. Which is actually not bad

since wen has being blunt mean being rude.....does it call for phrases like 'Bleep a dead horse" or "u are dumb?" am not surprisred seems both of u are the same

funmijoyb:

fabricated lie..no be u guys konji go dey worry? beside op was not talking of marriage..is bf marriage.

My dear guys that posses all the above attributes will get girls when ever konji catch them.

As far as money is available. I hope you can relate to that

. if the man ain't perfect, the ladies don't want him

@OP aare you sure u are not using sense to tell us how much you have suffered from these kinda men

Worthless girls hanging out with worthless boys

Who will be dating a guy who does all these and won't run

zaragal:


u are very very stewpid....i thought u got brains but taking a look closer i discover ur head is filled up with maggots. have decided not to enter e-fights with anyone on nl. dont push me, tell d devil dat sent u to come himself

Currently playing : Cry Me A River by Justin Timberlake.