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Hey brother!! Congrats man. For me, u did the right thing to cut off an error that could ve sucked more cash out of u.

She is just being a big baby so leave her to continue that way n open ur hrt to more promising n loving damsels in ur estate.

She took u as a milking machine and was winding u like a piece of elastic. Happy u out of her n pls keep it that way.

Cheers bro

MrLP:
Hello Nairalanders,

Pardon me, i had to create another moniker just to post this.
I am in love this babe i met in my estate, but i got frustrated and let out a piercing outburst which has made her delete me on BBM, blocked me on Whatsapp and have made her refuse to pick my calls for 2 weeks now. I will attach the screen shot of my outburst below.
In other not to bore u with some long stories, wi just state what actually led to this.
I have been asking her out for a while, i met her in my estate some months back. i left her when she told me she was seeing someone. I later saw her again walking home in my estate while i was driving by. I knew i still liked her, decided to try again as i was not in any relationship too.

We got talking again, but she is always not there. claimed her job and all that. sometimes takes up.to 24 hours to revert my messages even sometimes ti pick up my calls. There are sometimes i see her online on whatsapp, while my message remains pending on BBM. Its always excuse of work,being tired and all that. I had to take it like that afterall am still just an "admirer".

But i noticed one thing, its when i want to get something from a store...she remembers she needs something too. There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it. I dont need to say much, you guys already have an idea. I kept on asking her out and telling her I loved her and all of that. But it was frustrating because we mostly see Sundays, and my Sundays too not always free, as i may be on duty. Her sub finished, my messages weren't delivering, i was able to get her on phone and she told me her sub expired. When she hung up, I immediately recharged her line with quick Teller. it took me about another 48 hrs to even let her know i have recharged her line. She wouldn't pick her calls she wouldn't call back.

This time she acts like she is tuning in with me, next time she acts strangely. To cut it all short, she is been telling me she wished to go clubing. 24th was a public hol though i went to work, but she didnt. Called her and told her, ok today we are both free....what about clubbing? she said fine. Called me like 3 times before i got home. Its only when something is at stake she calls. Told her will come pick her by 9pm then we chill somewhere till late, when club will be opened. At past 9, called her i was enroute, she started complaining it was already late, i was like late at past 9? which club opens by 9. she said she is not going again, she is even hungry, just come pick me to eat and drop me back home. I was like WTF in my mind how can a lady be home since morning and tell a guy to come pick her and buy her food at past 9. Those are things we do on campus. I told her no...we are going clubbing, she will eat along the road. Hung up and met her outside her gate. she was dressed casually with simple slips. I was surprised. so she actually meant it. She entered the car and i drove off...told her she will enter the club like that, i will try not get her bounced. lol. She was boning and angry...i gnored her, picked my friends and drove straight to an hotel that hat a restaurant and lounge. Got her her meal, then we went to the lounge later. Told me she was traveling next day, and i have to drop her at the park or something since i will make her wake late. I agreed, she insisted i dropped her home, as a gentle man i did just that around 3am. Waited till she was safely in, before driving back home.

she called at 8am, and i was still sleeping, i picked and she started saying, you are still sleeping when you know you to drop me off. please come and pick me, i am late. and hung up. I was upset but went to pick her, it was then she remembered she needed to use ATM. I became a driver looking for ATM. we didnt get to use, its either crowdy or no money. That was when she said she can manage with what she had. Dropped her and went back home. Didnt hear from her, no thank you, she didnt even tell me she had gotten to her destination. When i asked and told her how was missing her...took another 9 hours to reply. and it was just a line. i got pissed and exploded.

meanwhile night out , someone was calling and calling she refused to pick. eventually turned off her phone. i later collected it and tuned it on...she had about 76 unread messages on Whatsapp. Phone was locked. I just gave her back...because she was getting angry i was holding her phone.

This made me wondering if that was how she turned off her phone when i keep calling. No calls returned but phone eventually says switched off. Excuse is always work and being tired.

Below was what i told her....becaue i couldn't take her games any longer...But i cant stop thinking of her still. I really like her....and i am almost regret blasting her. But i can't let feelings manipulate my normal sense of reasoning. she is a working class and should stop behaving like an hungry campus girl.

I mean while gather all the admirers and respond to whichever u please to at that time.... I find it strange, whats the gain?

But should i have been more patient?

TheSixthSense:
The amazing thing about a faceless forum is that everyone always know better than the OP, even the virgin teen boys and girls. I see the Magic Don Juans, love-vendor Cs are all out of their closet tonight. Shout out to the OPs who put up stories and posts for us to read only to get more abusive comments than sensible ones. Life is learning guy, you did nothing wrong because honestly when it comes to matters like these, there is absolutely no right way as humans are diverse and unique.
From what I see here, I do not think the girl likes you and you love her already so I think you should try to back off a little and see if she'll miss you or something. It could also be that your story doesn't portray the whole issue. Do what you think is right, that's what matters because at the end of the day, it's your decision.

You are not far from the truth...i simply ignored their bashings....there are other sensible comments

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PLANETMARS:
sorry for quoting the full episode. Please sir repeat after me, AM a big olodo,am a big olodo say it 10 times and then bath naked in d market for 7 days. That's d only way to be free from the stupidity u displayed to that girl.
Next time u see her, tell her u r sorry for everytin u said and then tell her u want to say something real bothering u in ur hrt.
Tell her to come close and bring her ear then say this from the bottom of ur hrt "THUNDER FIRE YOU!!!!"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA,
Laugh won kill me

drmikeadams:
?..all the shakara go end for church when she don reach 39..cum my church cum see all of them forming born again...op.. U no try at all..u get motor ,them still turn you to cabdriver

so u dey here dey look love love people?

Chai... Nothing wey I no go see for Nairaland. Which one is Ex-lover's Back? Thunder fire Credulity. Only the foolish and insecure would subscribe to this.

MrLP:
Impress with car? Nope. Impress by doing things she didnt ask...that is normal. As for the, she is carried away with so much attention she is getting. she is quite cute and beautiful. She is just 24 so i cant blame her orientation

Sb is asking u to send an apology text... Pls, do no such thing. U simply told her the hard truth. Allow her steam!

Stop allowing urself to be strung along for selfish purposes. That girl's got so many toasters and she's decided to entertain all of them. A decent girl shouldn't do that. Just let her be. U'll get over the feelings with time. It's not as though u have any real bond with her, anyway. There's nothing connecting both of u.

She stays in ur estate, yeah? From henceforth, act as though u don't know her. @24 she's this silly. Let's just hope she's already onto a serious relationship and her bf/fiancé doesn't know about her silly games.

alot of kids on this forum. how is OP a mumu? As far as i am concerned he was smart enough to send that message to her. Doing some of the things he did was normal. For heaven's sake he is asking the girl out. He can only be a mumu if he had continued to be used. Spending some lil money aint too much.
OP u freed yourself. Ignore all this ranting kids

Did I Goof? Yes you did somehow

You don't 'love' her, you are only 'attached' to her. viewonbuddhism.org/attachment.html
Reason is not the same as reality, but doesn't mean she likes you either.

Oliviaarims:
Sb is asking u to send an apology text... Pls, do no such thing. U simply told her the hard truth. Allow her steam!

Stop allowing urself to be strung along for selfish purposes. That girl's got so many toasters and she's decided to entertain all of them. A decent girl shouldn't do that. Just let her be. U'll get over the feelings with time. It's not as though u have any real bond with her, anyway. There's nothing connecting both of u.

She stays in ur estate, yeah? From henceforth, act as though u don't know her. @24 she's this silly. Let's just hope she's already onto a serious relationship and her bf/fiancé doesn't know about her silly games.

You are too sensible

OP this are the comments you should read. Ignore the insults.

fernandoc:
Babe finally eh...u wor wor shaa.

bad guy

Yea Yea, Mr nice guy

Hold on lemme consult oracle

Mehn this is beyond me.

use your head.

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] boys, you deserve a 32 inches flat screen hot undiluted slap for this meandering stupidity. ... .

How can a girl colonize your brain to such level?

Last time I checked there are billions of girls in the world... if one rejects you they are many more who will welcome you with open arms....

As for the girl, next time you see her tell her that I said she is not even menacingly Close to being a human being material....

Just forget about the girl and move on because from what you typed up there, that girl does not have an atom of love for you...



Cheers [/size]

You said it all

Nubian113:
What are you on about!?. If all you see is hungry girls, and the world is a mirror of you, then the problem of hunger comes back to your doorstep. Hungryboy

see me see wahala oh,
I just dey on my own jeje, pesin come dey mention my name,

Aunty how far,

You wan give me food abi you wan dash me money?

Try dis pattern.look for another girl when u do dat ur feeling for her will reduce.secondly go after her and pretend as if u love her more dan ever.give her a lot of fake huge promises.Just try everything posible to outsmart her.Then demand for sex in a romatic way.continue to buy her food but make sure u do dat in an hotel.don't let her choose a venue,u are the man.give her d reason dat ur own venue is better.Make sure its an hotel where they play a lot of good music.if she demand for any drink get her her choice.try every tecknic posible to Bleep d hell out of her.Then ignore her for 1 month and watch if she will call u.If she call u give her excuse dat u ve been very busy dat ur job is taking ur time.Then u concentrate on ur new babe and forget about her permanently.

Some ladies get cray fish brain...........

I meet this girl on a petrol station, gosh good looking.
She came looking for fuel with 20 litres of gallon, unfortunately the petrol station refused selling for us, we chatted up and left for other stations, I got the contact, we chatted had a date, after our first date I kept on calling her, she promised to call me on getting home which she didn't.
I called she gave flimpy excuse, I activated my snub button........ 2 weeks the fine babe no hear my voice nor see my chat, na she come dey call me and chat me up.requesting to come visiting to my house.


Finally chop kpomo, no time joooooo, some ladies self

MrLP u goofed indeed by staying on and taking that load of crap from her. Let her be. If u happen to see here walking by. "Hi or Hello" shld be the maximum nuber of words exchanged.

At my age...i dnt comment or get involve with stupiid tins....stop fallin in love wit a liability....she is not worth....after one week..u shud av given ha red card....c as yeye gal accompanied wit daft love d mislead u...common outgrow sum shiits...dis is 2016...i hate reading stuppid tins

Oso according to your screenshot that's what you call an outburst? Hahahahahahahaha


You seriously don't know how to handle women and you don't even know how to love. You think you can force her to love you? What kind of human being are you? I mean do you have any dorm of self pride in you?


No woman/lady in this life or the next will treat me like a rag like this. Do you even have elder brothers? Don't you gather enough O.T from them?



I feel like crying sha and I even wish to know that Ogufe girl treating you like trash.


Please and please for the sake of all men on earth and your very own self stop talking to that girl for now and forever. She's using you. One day she will be done chewing you then she will spit you out.



If you don't want me to curse you stop talking to her. Forget that b1tch drama queen before you develop mental disorder


Odabo

Intrepid01:
Guy you have to wise up..........I met a lady around August last year in a bus, my car had an issue and had to follow bus. I was not even in the mood to chat, she started it all, admired my shirt and all that stuff. We got talking from there and she seemed nice & friendly. That was how all the rubbish started.........I asked to take her out, she agreed and said she preferred Ozone center. We went to ozone center, she insisted on eating before the movie ( note, I went to pick her from her house and she's been at home since morning). To my surprise, she did not eat the chicken on the rice and opted to take it home (mogbe!!).... She started behaving stupidly after that day...asking if I could drive her to her colleagues birthday at Oniru, I stylishly turned her down. The following week my fone's screen got damaged and I couldn't call or access my contact. This babe did not call me once for two weeks thruout the period my fone was bad.

I did not waste my time, I got the message CLEARLY and moved on. I saw her afterward and acted like have never seen her before. I could see the surprise on her face. Before you turn me to maga I will dump you bin.

It is so sad that Ladies have turned to be something else, even the working class ones.

I just dumped another one last week when I realized all she wanted was money and food whenever she comes around. This one stays with her parent but even if she's leaving my house at 10 pm she expects me to take her out and buy something for her. They are just gluttons.

My advice to you is this...never should you profess love or intention to date to any babe until you've been friends for sometime. Just stay as friends for a while, assess her and confirm if she likes you too before making your intention known

You dude...my kind of guy...thumbs up!!!



Nobody should blame the girl...she gave him the rejection signs on time but he still insisted...so he deserved what was served.

Girls are the most confused set of specie on earth...u don't kill yourself for some 'holes' meeeehnnnn!!!

When you see the serious and futuristic ones...you will definitely know!!!

@thesixthsense,good point. However,the op has learnt a lot from this.

TheSixthSense:
Honey! is that you on your profile?? You're blessed. Please accept my request

thanks. You too

Gracito:
You didn't. I'm a lady but some ladies sha know how to piss men off. You made no mistake. You got rid of a mistake and I'm glad you did. . She doesn't like you at all. .

. I just like ds gracito gal...she says it d way it is......#humanbeing(bae)material#

This is a fairly strange reality 2b faced with @ op,bt dis is my take, let go! , 4 when d pain of holding on is worst Dan d pain of letting go, den its tym 2 let go!. Trust Me,it will put u on d defensive whn she will eventual call. Cos she will!.all d best

MrLP:
thanks. everyone seems to be a relationship boss online. always a lion online but in reality they do worse things. i have read the sensible comments and ignored the bashing which i know are mostly from....

ywC dear, Cheers

StevenJay01:
Words of wisdom from an awesomely beautiful lady

Ahh! Thanks

MrLP:
Hello Nairalanders,

Pardon me, i had to create another moniker just to post this.
I am in love this babe i met in my estate, but i got frustrated and let out a piercing outburst which has made her delete me on BBM, blocked me on Whait'sapp and have made her refuse to pick my calls for 2 weeks now. I will attach the screen shot of my outburst below.
In other not to bore u with some long stories, wi just state what actually led to this.
I have been asking her out for a while, i met her in my estate some months back. i left her when she told me she was seeing someone. I later saw her again walking home in my estate while i was driving by. I knew i still liked her, decided to try again as i was not in any relationship too.

We got talking again, but she is always not there. claimed her job and all that. sometimes takes up.to 24 hours to revert my messages even sometimes ti pick up my calls. There are sometimes i see her online on whatsapp, while my message remains pending on BBM. Its always excuse of work,being tired and all that. I had to take it like that afterall am still just an "admirer".

But i noticed one thing, its when i want to get something from a store...she remembers she needs something too. There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it. I dont need to say much, you guys already have an idea. I kept on asking her out and telling her I loved her and all of that. But it was frustrating because we mostly see Sundays, and my Sundays too not always free, as i may be on duty. Her sub finished, my messages weren't delivering, i was able to get her on phone and she told me her sub expired. When she hung up, I immediately recharged her line with quick Teller. it took me about another 48 hrs to even let her know i have recharged her line. She wouldn't pick her calls she wouldn't call back.

This time she acts like she is tuning in with me, next time she acts strangely. To cut it all short, she is been telling me she wished to go clubing. 24th was a public hol though i went to work, but she didnt. Called her and told her, ok today we are both free....what about clubbing? she said fine. Called me like 3 times before i got home. Its only when something is at stake she calls. Told her will come pick her by 9pm then we chill somewhere till late, when club will be opened. At past 9, called her i was enroute, she started complaining it was already late, i was like late at past 9? which club opens by 9. she said she is not going again, she is even hungry, just come pick me to eat and drop me back home. I was like WTF in my mind how can a lady be home since morning and tell a guy to come pick her and buy her food at past 9. Those are things we do on campus. I told her no...we are going clubbing, she will eat along the road. Hung up and met her outside her gate. she was dressed casually with simple slips. I was surprised. so she actually meant it. She entered the car and i drove off...told her she will enter the club like that, i will try not get her bounced. lol. She was boning and angry...i gnored her, picked my friends and drove straight to an hotel that hat a restaurant and lounge. Got her her meal, then we went to the lounge later. Told me she was traveling next day, and i have to drop her at the park or something since i will make her wake late. I agreed, she insisted i dropped her home, as a gentle man i did just that around 3am. Waited till she was safely in, before driving back home.

she called at 8am, and i was still sleeping, i picked and she started saying, you are still sleeping when you know you to drop me off. please come and pick me, i am late. and hung up. I was upset but went to pick her, it was then she remembered she needed to use ATM. I became a driver looking for ATM. we didnt get to use, its either crowdy or no money. That was when she said she can manage with what she had. Dropped her and went back home. Didnt hear from her, no thank you, she didnt even tell me she had gotten to her destination. When i asked and told her how was missing her...took another 9 hours to reply. and it was just a line. i got pissed and exploded.

meanwhile night out , someone was calling and calling she refused to pick. eventually turned off her phone. i later collected it and tuned it on...she had about 76 unread messages on Whatsapp. Phone was locked. I just gave her back...because she was getting angry i was holding her phone.

This made me wondering if that was how she turned off her phone when i keep calling. No calls returned but phone eventually says switched off. Excuse is always work and being tired.

Below was what i told her....becaue i couldn't take her games any longer...But i cant stop thinking of her still. I really like her....and i am almost regret blasting her. But i can't let feelings manipulate my normal sense of reasoning. she is a working class and should stop behaving like an hungry campus girl.

I mean while gather all the admirers and respond to whichever u please to at that time.... I find it strange, whats the gain?

But should i have been more patient?

Yo bro, I feel ur pain, but honestly Uv done nutin wrong, it just didn't work out cos d girl didnt seem to appreciate u yet. Just try harder, nd don't get frustrated. U broke d rules tho, never express ur frustration or disappointment to a lady, u just dint av to. its either u show love or nutin else, u seem to make it clear u just wanna av ur way, ur desperation is a clear sign of dat. I can't say much tho, if u leave her num, I can seal and deliver her to u

MrLP:
forget it. old lady
you could as well tell me to be giving her tp to work every morning.
thanks for your contribution

dont mind that silly girl