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MrLP:
I said i saw her months after. i left her when she insisted she had a bf. 2nd time we met...nothing like that....she just kept saying lets see how it goes. i have to be sure. and i specifically told her if she was seeing someone and doing this with me....she is cheating on the person emotionally.

onyowo:
This is how some ladies miss dia luck all in the name of forming hard to get.....broke girls forming ajebota...she is a hungry girl that is lucky to have people like u around her.....no working class lady can stoop so low to the extent of telling a guy to come and take her out to eat, knowing fully well that the guy is not her boo....abeg guy leave trash for LAWMA....she should go and hug a moving train...she is working and yet can't afford to buy little things for herself, she thinks she is smart but she be proper mumu.

Intrepid01:
Guy you have to wise up..........I met a lady around August last year in a bus, my car had an issue and had to follow bus. I was not even in the mood to chat, she started it all, admired my shirt and all that stuff. We got talking from there and she seemed nice & friendly. That was how all the rubbish started.........I asked to take her out, she agreed and said she preferred Ozone center. We went to ozone center, she insisted on eating before the movie ( note, I went to pick her from her house and she's been at home since morning). To my surprise, she did not eat the chicken on the rice and opted to take it home (mogbe!!).... She started behaving stupidly after that day...asking if I could drive her to her colleagues birthday at Oniru, I stylishly turned her down. The following week my fone's screen got damaged and I couldn't call or access my contact. This babe did not call me once for two weeks thruout the period my fone was bad.

I did not waste my time, I got the message CLEARLY and moved on. I saw her afterward and acted like have never seen her before. I could see the surprise on her face. Before you turn me to maga I will dump you bin.

It is so sad that Ladies have turned to be something else, even the working class ones.

I just dumped another one last week when I realized all she wanted was money and food whenever she comes around. This one stays with her parent but even if she's leaving my house at 10 pm she expects me to take her out and buy something for her. They are just gluttons.

My advice to you is this...never should you profess love or intention to date to any babe until you've been friends for sometime. Just stay as friends for a while, assess her and confirm if she likes you too before making your intention known

Khez:
How can you be this foolish?

Are you deformed?

Are you that short and ugly?

Even at those mentioned, girls still love you

Smh

Humblegoodman:
I love the likes of carolyner, Gracito, Michellla, Hateu2, Cruzita, Evathyst, Misspicy, Happyjuliet, Estharfabian, Kaziblake, Ellafuchsiaordi, Mibi18 and Richiy, who will always speak the naked truth in this forum no matter whose ox is gorred. I was expecting them to defend the Lady, but, instead, chose to give valuable advise to the young man who was being treated like a piece of shit.

Be that as it may, my advise to you my brother is to love with your head and not with your heart. It's only women who love with their hearts, while men should love with their heads.
Finally, always be sensitive when you are chasing a lady who doesn't like you. Engage the reverse gear immediately before you are hurt.

samphemmy5:
I dated my wife for 6yrs before we eventually got married...my surprise..she never asked for anything..not once in that 6yrs..except I decide to take her out or buy her gift. If d gift too big sef, she'll ask me if I can actually afford it @dat time. She doesn't want me to inconvenience myself for her...God..She'll reciprocate my gift by buying a gift for me no matter how small whenever I give her gift..now we are enjoying our home. I have nothing to hid. We're married for just two years and she knows all my bank details, atm pins, acct balances, incomes.

She's just so different..she'll give me her salary when she collects it and ask how I want us to spend it. When she was on NYSC...she always send me recharge card whenever she collects her allawee despite that I was working..

All girls are not gluttons...they may be rare..but not all girls

Humblegoodman:
I love the likes of carolyner, Gracito, Michellla, Hateu2, Cruzita, Evathyst, Misspicy, Happyjuliet, Estharfabian, Kaziblake, Ellafuchsiaordi, Mibi18 and Richiy, who will always speak the naked truth in this forum no matter whose ox is gorred. I was expecting them to defend the Lady, but, instead, chose to give valuable advise to the young man who was being treated like a piece of shit.

Be that as it may, my advise to you my brother is to love with your head and not with your heart. It's only women who love with their hearts, while men should love with their heads.
Finally, always be sensitive when you are chasing a lady who doesn't like you. Engage the reverse gear immediately before you are hurt.

Humblegoodman:
I love the likes of carolyner, Gracito, Michellla, Hateu2, Cruzita, Evathyst, Misspicy, Happyjuliet, Estharfabian, Kaziblake, Ellafuchsiaordi, Mibi18 and Richiy, who will always speak the naked truth in this forum no matter whose ox is gorred. I was expecting them to defend the Lady, but, instead, chose to give valuable advise to the young man who was being treated like a piece of shit.

Be that as it may, my advise to you my brother is to love with your head and not with your heart. It's only women who love with their hearts, while men should love with their heads.
Finally, always be sensitive when you are chasing a lady who doesn't like you. Engage the reverse gear immediately before you are hurt.

Cavenchy:
Senators got your girl living in a mansion and flying to different countries for shopping.. she aint coming back bro.

MrLP:
Hello Nairalanders,

Pardon me, i had to create another moniker just to post this.
I am in love this babe i met in my estate, but i got frustrated and let out a piercing outburst which has made her delete me on BBM, blocked me on Whatsapp and have made her refuse to pick my calls for 2 weeks now. I will attach the screen shot of my outburst below.
In other not to bore u with some long stories, wi just state what actually led to this.
I have been asking her out for a while, i met her in my estate some months back. i left her when she told me she was seeing someone. I later saw her again walking home in my estate while i was driving by. I knew i still liked her, decided to try again as i was not in any relationship too.

We got talking again, but she is always not there. claimed her job and all that. sometimes takes up.to 24 hours to revert my messages even sometimes ti pick up my calls. There are sometimes i see her online on whatsapp, while my message remains pending on BBM. Its always excuse of work,being tired and all that. I had to take it like that afterall am still just an "admirer".

But i noticed one thing, its when i want to get something from a store...she remembers she needs something too. There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it. I dont need to say much, you guys already have an idea. I kept on asking her out and telling her I loved her and all of that. But it was frustrating because we mostly see Sundays, and my Sundays too not always free, as i may be on duty. Her sub finished, my messages weren't delivering, i was able to get her on phone and she told me her sub expired. When she hung up, I immediately recharged her line with quick Teller. it took me about another 48 hrs to even let her know i have recharged her line. She wouldn't pick her calls she wouldn't call back.

This time she acts like she is tuning in with me, next time she acts strangely. To cut it all short, she is been telling me she wished to go clubing. 24th was a public hol though i went to work, but she didnt. Called her and told her, ok today we are both free....what about clubbing? she said fine. Called me like 3 times before i got home. Its only when something is at stake she calls. Told her will come pick her by 9pm then we chill somewhere till late, when club will be opened. At past 9, called her i was enroute, she started complaining it was already late, i was like late at past 9? which club opens by 9. she said she is not going again, she is even hungry, just come pick me to eat and drop me back home. I was like WTF in my mind how can a lady be home since morning and tell a guy to come pick her and buy her food at past 9. Those are things we do on campus. I told her no...we are going clubbing, she will eat along the road. Hung up and met her outside her gate. she was dressed casually with simple slips. I was surprised. so she actually meant it. She entered the car and i drove off...told her she will enter the club like that, i will try not get her bounced. lol. She was boning and angry...i gnored her, picked my friends and drove straight to an hotel that hat a restaurant and lounge. Got her her meal, then we went to the lounge later. Told me she was traveling next day, and i have to drop her at the park or something since i will make her wake late. I agreed, she insisted i dropped her home, as a gentle man i did just that around 3am. Waited till she was safely in, before driving back home.

she called at 8am, and i was still sleeping, i picked and she started saying, you are still sleeping when you know you to drop me off. please come and pick me, i am late. and hung up. I was upset but went to pick her, it was then she remembered she needed to use ATM. I became a driver looking for ATM. we didnt get to use, its either crowdy or no money. That was when she said she can manage with what she had. Dropped her and went back home. Didnt hear from her, no thank you, she didnt even tell me she had gotten to her destination. When i asked and told her how was missing her...took another 9 hours to reply. and it was just a line. i got pissed and exploded.

meanwhile night out , someone was calling and calling she refused to pick. eventually turned off her phone. i later collected it and tuned it on...she had about 76 unread messages on Whatsapp. Phone was locked. I just gave her back...because she was getting angry i was holding her phone.

This made me wondering if that was how she turned off her phone when i keep calling. No calls returned but phone eventually says switched off. Excuse is always work and being tired.

Below was what i told her....becaue i couldn't take her games any longer...But i cant stop thinking of her still. I really like her....and i am almost regret blasting her. But i can't let feelings manipulate my normal sense of reasoning. she is a working class and should stop behaving like an hungry campus girl.

I mean while gather all the admirers and respond to whichever u please to at that time.... I find it strange, whats the gain?

But should i have been more patient?

ewizard1:
Ladies like this are gotten when the going is rough!
God bless the good ones!

DipoDee:
But the Mummu refuse to let her be, like a stray, he keeps hanging around despite all her not-too-friendly body Language. So she has to send him on errands now, or what do you do to people whose common sense is zero...you send them milk and sugar na

Blame MrLP abeg, not the girl who obviously has no use for him or his love advances but he is waiting for a miracle.

cruzita:
some people will say that he is stupid for chasing a particular girl when there are millions of dem out dia ,the guy is in love and once u are in love ,u can do the stupidest of thing to win her heart and please her.but the girl should not take the guy for granted because he might be the one for her

jamela:
Dear MrLP, this isn't a bashing just incase you decide to read this, but having seen some of your replies to some ladies on this thread, I think you need to change your attitude towards women for real, just like your 'little damsel in distress' told 'old superhero' you.

1. Avoid battering words with ladies, its not manly, and I don't know a lady who likes a man that is not manly. Even if you're right, there are a lot of things silence or fewer words (when used appropriately) can fix.

2. Some guys can easily turn from admirers to die hard pests. Now while I don't support some of her selfish inclinations, still, it doesn't matter if she has 75 messages on her WhatsApp, or if she was travelling to meet her boyfriend, you don't have a right to be jealous at this stage, she has a right to decide who is good enough for her, you aren't even dating not to talk of ringing her finger. For now you are only friends.

3. She can, just as any other of your male or casual friends ask you to help her buy some grocery or if she could hitch a ride with you to somewhere they really need to be. You also have a right to decide not to offer any assistance. But when you talk of how you would not use your ATM just because she was probably going to see some other guy? even though you aren't sure? I'm sorry but that sounds selfishly judgemental and I'll tell you what, If she is what you think she is, and you had game? she probably would be spending money out of some other guy's ATM to come see you. I hate to say this but I think you have a classic case of the 'I wish he dates more women so he knows how to attract me'. But how many women would stick around until you actually grow a pair? Its true that women need someone to love us, but we also need someone to love.

Get dating more often and when you feel more comfortable with hot women around you, you would see clearly enough to decide what you really want, because right now you seem to be persecuting a young lady that you happened to help occasionally and therefore expect her to adore the very ground you step on.

OP you asked for advice, no vex if this is a bit tough to sink in.

MrLP:
you can not love 10 billion girls. i have had friends to made more mouth than this. when he fell in love....is own was worse! There may be 1 triillion girls.....it will still take u time to love just 1

Intrepid01:
Guy you have to wise up..........I met a lady around August last year in a bus, my car had an issue and had to follow bus. I was not even in the mood to chat, she started it all, admired my shirt and all that stuff. We got talking from there and she seemed nice & friendly. That was how all the rubbish started.........I asked to take her out, she agreed and said she preferred Ozone center. We went to ozone center, she insisted on eating before the movie ( note, I went to pick her from her house and she's been at home since morning). To my surprise, she did not eat the chicken on the rice and opted to take it home (mogbe!!).... She started behaving stupidly after that day...asking if I could drive her to her colleagues birthday at Oniru, I stylishly turned her down. The following week my fone's screen got damaged and I couldn't call or access my contact. This babe did not call me once for two weeks thruout the period my fone was bad.

I did not waste my time, I got the message CLEARLY and moved on. I saw her afterward and acted like have never seen her before. I could see the surprise on her face. Before you turn me to maga I will dump you bin.

It is so sad that Ladies have turned to be something else, even the working class ones.

I just dumped another one last week when I realized all she wanted was money and food whenever she comes around. This one stays with her parent but even if she's leaving my house at 10 pm she expects me to take her out and buy something for her. They are just gluttons.

My advice to you is this...never should you profess love or intention to date to any babe until you've been friends for sometime. Just stay as friends for a while, assess her and confirm if she likes you too before making your intention known

MrLP:
did i make a mistake...goof means mistake

Lotechi:
a working class guy that earns good cash should not be stressing for girls!!!!be wise

MoNickk:
I swear down...I don't blame the girl. she made her intentions known from the start but the op kept on hoping his being nice to her was gonna change her mind. some guys are pathetic(no offense op). tell them u have a bf n they'll be begging to be a side bf. after all your bf doesn't need to know. that's when I activate my delete button for such desperation.

Eazikeyz:
Lol.... I so love your signature