MrLP:

i clearly stated i left her when she talked about having a bf. i met her months after again. this time ...no bf talk...it was lets see how it goes....she said she wasnt seeing anyone again cos i asked specifically.

cruzita:
some people will say that he is stupid for chasing a particular girl when there are millions of dem out dia ,the guy is in love and once u are in love ,u can do the stupidest of thing to win her heart and please her.but the girl should not take the guy for granted because he might be the one for her

firstolalekan:

Nonsense

Stupídity is not the same thing as falling in love

How can someone be loving a mean and stupıd person?

I can't be that stupíd to go the same length op went with that bıtch even if the is Agbani Darego. God forbid!

Mhizizzy:


M not up to 24 Buh I don't act stupidly and childish like DAT...it aint age...it's personality...

cruzita:
I'm sure ur type dey stupid pass when they eventually fall in love

firstolalekan:

My other type does not exist

I don't have time for rubbish


No girl has ever dump in this life coz most of you have nothing to offer. Most times in a relationship, the only thing you offer is SEX which both party enjoys. So what's so special

I do the dumping first

PLANETMARS:
sorry for quoting the full episode. Please sir repeat after me, AM a big olodo,am a big olodo say it 10 times and then bath naked in d market for 7 days. That's d only way to be free from the stupidity u displayed to that girl.
Next time u see her, tell her u r sorry for everytin u said and then tell her u want to say something real bothering u in ur hrt.
Tell her to come close and bring her ear then say this slowly from the bottom of ur hrt "THUNDER FIRE YOU!!!!"

firstolalekan:

Nonsense

Stupídity is not the same thing as falling in love

How can someone be loving a mean and stupıd person?

I can't be that stupíd to go the same length op went with that bıtch even if the is Agbani Darego. God forbid!

Phrankin:
The OP is the type of guy that I would love to have as a boyfriend. God fearing, nice, a gentleman, drives a car and above all very caring and generous.

penquin:


was expecting like RUN buh the FLEE got me rotfl

GeneralShepherd:


I didn't make up one word there

Intrepid01:
Guy you have to wise up..........I met a lady around August last year in a bus, my car had an issue and had to follow bus. I was not even in the mood to chat, she started it all, admired my shirt and all that stuff. We got talking from there and she seemed nice & friendly. That was how all the rubbish started.........I asked to take her out, she agreed and said she preferred Ozone center. We went to ozone center, she insisted on eating before the movie ( note, I went to pick her from her house and she's been at home since morning). To my surprise, she did not eat the chicken on the rice and opted to take it home (mogbe!!).... She started behaving stupidly after that day...asking if I could drive her to her colleagues birthday at Oniru, I stylishly turned her down. The following week my fone's screen got damaged and I couldn't call or access my contact. This babe did not call me once for two weeks thruout the period my fone was bad.

I did not waste my time, I got the message CLEARLY and moved on. I saw her afterward and acted like have never seen her before. I could see the surprise on her face. Before you turn me to maga I will dump you bin.

It is so sad that Ladies have turned to be something else, even the working class ones.

I just dumped another one last week when I realized all she wanted was money and food whenever she comes around. This one stays with her parent but even if she's leaving my house at 10 pm she expects me to take her out and buy something for her. They are just gluttons.

My advice to you is this...never should you profess love or intention to date to any babe until you've been friends for sometime. Just stay as friends for a while, assess her and confirm if she likes you too before making your intention known

Davvymavvy:
Some ladies ehn, their attitude sucks like wtf! I just relocated to my new area, met this lady that we stay on the same street some days after. At first, I acted like she was not worth anything...all na game plan though. Fast forward to yesterday, I had a decent gist with her and later collected her no, mind you, I was on my way out. We parted only for her to call me after taking some steps and tell me that I should buy something for her whenever I'm coming back. Well, for a friend, that's not too bad. I told her no problem,gbam!!! I buzz out. At the bar where i was grooving with my buddies, I received a message, guess who? She was the one...like wtf? the message reads "ehn, I like the shade u put on, will u give me or get me a new one"?..and don't forget what I said you should bring"

Like seriously?....

I replied her immediately in my usual simple sentence...

my reply.."bae, the leeches I see today, I will see them no more

she is not even menacingly Close to being a human being material..

GeneralShepherd:
My experience with a girl in Nigeria, I've never met before... I was hoping we could have been good friends.
Girl : Ma financial implications are
enormous

[Girl : Better don't enter flight to Nigeria without chocolate for me

Me: Boo I can always buy chocolate for you

Girl: Chocolate means goodies hello

Me: Lol

Girl: Plus chocolates too of course

Me : I got you a lovely gown though

Girl: Ok that's one

Girl : List the others

Me: I got you a perfume as well

Me: Again without you asking

Girl: Lol


Girl: Lol

Girl: I think I love you

Girl : Wait

Girl : Which perfume is that?

Me : Is there a list of the ones you don't accept?

Me : I can't remember the name at the moment

Girl : Please let it be issey miyake L 'eau Bleue d 'issey pour homme ED

Girl : D fragrance in the blue container

Me : its definitely not Issey Miyake

Girl : But just incase its not it, you can still get it. It's not expensive @ all



Me : It's about £100 last time I checked

Girl : Add it to the one u already have

Girl: Which is how much in naira?


My brother you are not alone in this fight!!! Lol

UjSizzle:

Wow

sonnie10:


Bros., the truth is that the thing you call love has different dimensions. Because we speak English we lump them all up as love. When you love someone, naturally you feel the person's pain. How do you feel to see the person you claim to love go hungry and you go home and feel comfortable eating your won meal. Maybe because times are hard, people have become socially undesirable. Op said he loves the girl, if so he should follow words with actions. Only a silly girl will hear love love and open her legs. The girl has shown some level of commitment by allowing him spend time with her. He has to show additional level of commitment to take the relationship further. It is not as if she is any other random girl at this point.

Comments like this make me wanna smash my system on my head, pick up the fragments (of my head and the system), reassemble them, locate the OP, and just SMH for them

maiahsaiah:


Even if u didn't want to give her d money, u would have just put ur card in d atm and eject it, tell her its not paying, sh'l know u tried, instead of driving around town looking for atm

adexsimply:
Are you really like this or you're just trolling? Please tell me you're trolling, please

MoNickk:
I get you but most times when a girl tells u she has a bf n later comes to tell you she doesn't have one,she's just in it for the ride. probably she noticed u were a nice guy n had a change of mind n decided to milk u dry. to me,u don't need to apologize to her. you didn't call her names. just leave her abeg.

UjSizzle:

@vjcray
Ogbeni you're truly cray


@OP
Hope is a double edged sword...

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MrLP:

can we be friends please?

booqee:


GAY ALERT!!!!!!!

MrLP:
i am a normal average Nigerian and i am far from ugly. this babe have not said yes hence anything i do or choose to do is my business....she wasnt forcing me. i have seen guy go tru much more stress and later have the babe to their full control. if we were "dating"i would have understood most of what the guys are spilling here. this is not about maga...what have i spent? It's normal for babes tk be difficult at first....
i sent that message to her when my level of patience expired. that message was too see her reactions. she is still childish with her acts...i really liked her so i have to cope to a fault with her childishness. afterall im the one after her. thanks bro

sisiclara:

Another word he should hv used is stupid

Mhizizzy:


Lolz......u funny

jaybee3:
Pure comedy

Phew

Cc: sleekyshuga

sonnie10:


What did he go through? Taking the girl to club was for his own pleasure. Do you know how much some guys pay to have a girl escort them to club? And here we have someone getting it free of charge yet he is not appreciative. Since the girl is also working, it might be that she is testing him to see if he is the kind that would shy away from his basic responsibility should they eventually get serious. Remember, that if one is faithful in little deeds, he could be trusted on bigger issues. Forget about giving her money, for a guy who did not even care to ask how the girl was going to manage after the ATM issue, is not a good sign. The fear of failure, in this case rejection is one reason people do not achieve their goals. Op was too sensitive about being used, so he went out of his way to make sure that he secures his ground first before making commitments.

Show me a man that has never made any mistake and I will show you failure. In life, you cast your bread on many waters. Do you know how many times Buhari gave a shot at the presidency? At a point, people started making mockery of him but he persisted. He must lost money and respect in the process. Do you know that even in business, those businesses with low risk do not have as much profit as those with high risk?

So Bros, take you time and consider what is good for you and go for it. After all, life is about the pursuit of happiness.