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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by irisola(f): 6:32am On Jan 27, 2016
tpiar:
I am not sure both ovaries release eggs at the same time to produce twins. Not saying its not possible, but I've never heard of such.

However, one ovary can release multiple eggs.


Seems the ovaries alternate the follicle production each month, they don't ripen at the same time but take turns:

http://www.babymed.com/fertility-awareness/can-i-get-pregnant-only-one-ovary
the production of twins is complicated to understand...the ovaries do alternate it like u said.bt in twins both may produce egg.. wen an ovary produces one egg that leads to monozygotic twins.. wen the two produce one egg each is as a result of hormonal disorder or might b hereditary leads to un identical twins
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by LuckyLadolce(m): 6:42am On Jan 27, 2016
tpiar:
you mean a lady will find it difficult to mention she almost lost her life due to an ectopic pregnancy? huh

can you google ectopic pregnancy plz.


if your grouse is why was she having premarital sex, then you should also ask the person who impregnated her the same question. Likewise all guys engaging in such, including yourself and the op.
you may be inexperienced. No offence
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Pepunis(f): 7:07am On Jan 27, 2016
delishpot:
Women are their own worst enemy. See what a fellow woman is suggesting? To treat a woman like her the way you treat road side suya. To keep a woman for 2 years and be banging her and if bele no come, dump her. No wonder men say you guys have fish brain.
since it is becos of children the guy wan take marry am, he no love the babe at all, wat if the babe is pulling his leg, love...... abeg shift
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:32am On Jan 27, 2016
Pepunis:
since it is becos of children the guy wan take marry am, he no love the babe at all, wat if the babe is pulling his leg, love...... abeg shift
is anyone in this part of the world willing to marry without children? So i should because of love not think about fertility? you want me to raise pets as kids like oyinbos do? funnny u smiley
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by drnoel: 7:33am On Jan 27, 2016
octopusfreaky:
@drnoel and marriott1980 nope i know what im saying since he is considering marriage i think he needs to see a good pastor to pray on the matter. You never can tell the " lady" may not be the right one for him.
Madam sorry but immediately u mentioned pastor and prophet u lost me, I knew you had no idea what u were talking about. I agree with taking matters to God but will never agree with anything pastors and supposed prophets come up with.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:41am On Jan 27, 2016
drnoel:
Madam sorry but immediately u mentioned pastor and prophet u lost me, I knew you had no idea what u were talking about. I agree with taking matters to God but will never agree with anything pastors and supposed prophets come up with.
this is why i brought the issue here first instead of my family or pastors in order to avoid discouragement
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:47am On Jan 27, 2016
drnoel:
Madam sorry but immediately u mentioned pastor and prophet u lost me, I knew you had no idea what u were talking about. I agree with taking matters to God but will never agree with anything pastors and supposed prophets come up with.
My man!
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by smileysmiley(f): 7:57am On Jan 27, 2016
sickstars:
AND UR GIRL WILL B HAPPY TO SEE DIS?

CAN U B BOLD ENOUGH TO SHOW HER DIS?

WHEN U CAN JUST WALK INTO A FERTILITY CLINIC ND GET UR FACTS ACCURATELY

U BUSY SHADING A TRUTHFUL GIRL AT HER BCK

SHE DOESNT DESERVE U
you can stop embarrassing yourself now, you have no point, quietly pack well and I'm sure you meant "he doesn't deserve her"
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by naijaboiy: 8:04am On Jan 27, 2016
perryy:
Good one . don't mind those who are incapable of rationalism.
[color=#1980BC]i tell you.[/color]
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 8:53am On Jan 27, 2016
Like most have said, best advice is go for a complete fertility check up for both of you. Mk it something like a pre-marital medical check up to confirm things are as she said and to set u guys on the right path for children. Most couples go for it even before marriage. Go with her cos u as a guy needs to be sure ur sperms etc are good to go too.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 8:56am On Jan 27, 2016
Loisemm:
Like most have said, best advice is go for a complete fertility check up for both of you. Mk it something like a pre-marital medical check up to confirm things are as she said and to set u guys on the right path for children. Most couples go for it even before marriage. Go with her cos u as a guy needs to be sure ur sperms etc are good to go too.
cool thanks
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Zoe99(f): 9:11am On Jan 27, 2016
At least she can still conceive.There's nothing to be perturbed or disturbed about.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Bezed(m): 9:26am On Jan 27, 2016
if you truly love her marry her, it doesn't make any difference, she is still very much fertile with just one Fallopian tube.... hope this link will help
http://www.babycenter.com/400_how-good-are-my-chances-of-getting-pregnant-with-one-fallopi_2275458_756.bc
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by ollybosieb: 9:41am On Jan 27, 2016
As long as the one left is function properly, you should not give yourself sleepiness night. Women only need one fallopian tube. Given her the chance and appreciate for her honesty. Good luck!
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Cockyzy(m): 9:50am On Jan 27, 2016
@poster: dump her. Be wise and conscious. Women know no sympathy and empathy,thats the way nature made them. You cant change a snake. My guy,do you think she would feel sorry for you if you are the one with fertility problems? She will dump you as fast as she can. My fellow female here can confirm. Except they are not yet woken up to how nature made them.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by lovely17(m): 10:07am On Jan 27, 2016
joborskill:
do u really need to insult me if u have no positive contributions? This is an anonymous forum and i did not mention names nor revealed anyone's identity. No one is an island of knowledge. You should grow up undecided
Jesu see how den person collect 350 likes
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 10:10am On Jan 27, 2016
lovely17:
Jesu see how den person collect 350 likes
shey likes na money ni smiley
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by BLESSEDISDLORD: 10:13am On Jan 27, 2016
My dear, she really love you and in other hand, she may use that to tested your your love for her, since she said she can concieve pls impregnate her before marriage, and visit medical centre for advice and be prayerful
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by MummyEsther: 10:23am On Jan 27, 2016
Discuss with a medical practitioner. Mark my words, they'll tell you not to worry abt her only one tube left. And also they'll debunk the 3 children maximum statement. She can have more than 3. Also do you really want more than 3-4kids?
Give her a chance. But as I said earlier, discuss with a medical doctor or a gynecologist to be precise.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by bluice2(m): 10:26am On Jan 27, 2016
joborskill:
do u really need to insult me if u have no positive contributions? This is an anonymous forum and i did not mention names nor revealed anyone's identity. No one is an island of knowledge. You should grow up undecided
Just ignore. kids these days are scared of growing up. They just grow tall.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by fpeter(f): 11:04am On Jan 27, 2016
we have seen vigins who got married and were not able to have kids.
If she were your sister or daughter what would you advice her fiance?
Do you believe in God and the Power of miracles? What if she didn't
confide in you and you went ahead with the marriage? see a seasoned
gynecologist and pray for her.

Genesis 25:21 And Isaac entreated the Lord for his wife, because she was barren;
and the Lord was entreated by him, and Rebekah his wife conceived.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Emac34: 11:19am On Jan 27, 2016
lohresloco:
Where do dey find you people, concentrate for schoollll. .... meeerr!!!
were did u know mehuhcome and help me concentrate
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Emac34: 11:21am On Jan 27, 2016
BiggyB242:
lol, it doesn't .Advise you OP not to take chances.
notedgrin
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by 16snow(f): 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2016
joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments. embarassed
I don't see any reason to be so disturbed here OP. I Know women who has ectopic pregnancy even in marriage and ended up losing one of their fallopian tubes and their husbands did not divorce them. These women (3 women I know, to be precise) don't have any problem conceiving with the remaining tube. A colleague of mine has all her four children with one fallopian tube. Take your girl to the hospital, once confirmed that the remaining fallopian tube is not blocked, then there is no reason why you won't go ahead with your wedding plans.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Pepunis(f): 12:13pm On Jan 27, 2016
joborskill:
is anyone in this part of the world willing to marry without children? So i should because of love not think about fertility? you want me to raise pets as kids like oyinbos do? funnny u smiley
that is why u shud take my sincere advice, so not live in doubt and firing without scoring........i beg i want eat
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by yemoxyl(m): 12:14pm On Jan 27, 2016
Eleyi gidi Gan ooo
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by edetty(m): 4:37pm On Jan 27, 2016
op,, I am a Human Anatomist,,, not a doctor nor gynaecologist,,, so from my proper knowledge based on human anatomy and physiology,,, a human being can survive solely on a single organ or structure wch occurs in doubles in us,,e.g ears,eyes,kidneys,testis,fallopian tubes,ovaries,hands,legs etc with slight modifications or safety habits,,,fertilization occurs at the fallopian tubes(she has one),,pregnancy is located in the uterus (she has one),ovum is formed in the ovary(she has one),she has a virginal and fully functioning single womb,fallopian tube and ovary,,dat is enough to have at least 3kids from my Anatomist stance,,u don't require two for it to bear a child,,,wld have been a different things if she has no womb or any ovaries at all,,so don't be afraid,, all is well,,with love and prayers,, buh medically she is 60% perfect,,not because she is not 100% capable of having a child,, I sed 60% cos she doesn't have the two tubes,,,simple maths dere,,buh if ur still scared,,, visit the clinic for family planning,, bye
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by delishpot: 4:42pm On Jan 27, 2016
Pepunis:
since it is becos of children the guy wan take marry am, he no love the babe at all, wat if the babe is pulling his leg, love...... abeg shift
So you advice him to bang her for 2 years and then dump her if the kids don't come?
Since he doesn't love her like you believe, why not protect your fellow woman by asking him to leave her be so that she can find a guy who will love her just the way she is? Women don't have each others backs at all. Bring the topic of a cheating man and watch how guys will back him up and encourage his woman to forgive and forget, yet and f it was a woman, her fellow women will tear her and spit on her ancestors if possible.
Anyhoe, that is yall's cup of caj.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by tpiaobsession: 4:52pm On Jan 27, 2016
LuckyLadolce:
you may be inexperienced. No offence
you are not a woman, you can never understand what having an ectopic pregnancy means, or even a pregnancy, so I'd say you are the inexperienced one here.

it would be better if you allowed those who can understand the issue to discuss it without you butting in, especially since you lack empathy for what they go through.

same applies to the op.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by tpiaobsession: 4:53pm On Jan 27, 2016
edetty:
op,, I am a Human Anatomist,,, not a doctor nor gynaecologist,,, so from my proper knowledge based on human anatomy and physiology,,, a human being can survive solely on a single organ or structure wch occurs in doubles in us,,e.g ears,eyes,kidneys,testis,fallopian tubes,ovaries,hands,legs etc with slight modifications or safety habits,,,fertilization occurs at the fallopian tubes(she has one),,pregnancy is located in the uterus (she has one),ovum is formed in the ovary(she has one),she has a virginal and fully functioning single womb,fallopian tube and ovary,,dat is enough to have at least 3kids from my Anatomist stance,,u don't require two for it to bear a child,,,wld have been a different things if she has no womb or any ovaries at all,,so don't be afraid,, all is well,,with love and prayers,, buh medically she is 60% perfect,,not because she is not 100% capable of having a child,, I sed 60% cos she doesn't have the two tubes,,,simple maths dere,,buh if ur still scared,,, visit the clinic for family planning,, bye
like op has ever seen a fallopian tube before? huh


no be oyinbo tell am say e dey there? huh
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by profmallory(m): 5:19pm On Jan 27, 2016
Lol


blessedfavoured:
lol i like how you say riding on one engine. your post made me smile
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