All this tell me your secret and past life self
If she had kept it to herself you will not be here confusing us
What if you go for innocent one without knowing she is an innocent demon ?? I keep learning everyday..... You just thought me something

cococandy:

@bold really?

I think I have come across this moniker somewhere but can't remember

dont really know about fallopian or ectopic! but I know a lie when I see one!

cococandy:
What past? ,
That she dated someone before and got pregnant.

I bet you have girlfriend. Maybe you're indirectly telling us that after dating her, your relationship with her would have rendered her useless since anyone who ever had a relationship now has a 'past' that makes them scum.

Coming from ladies who can marry a man with 1 testicle (ball)?

Pepunis:
If u are ready for marraige and have prepared with ur money, impregnant her, try for one or two years and she did not concieve, try another person

Women are their own worst enemy. See what a fellow woman is suggesting? To treat a woman like her the way you treat road side suya. To keep a woman for 2 years and be banging her and if bele no come, dump her. No wonder men say you guys have fish brain.

Acidosis:


It is not about what I'm seeing, its about what OP is seeing.

Do you know that a lady who lost her virginity to a rapi.st and one that lost hers to her husband aren't the same?

I'm sure the guy does not have issues with ectopic pregnancy in the case of a married couple. His problem is about the outcome of his lady's relationship with her ex.

another PROBABILTIY

She could have lied to you about it, but she told you the truth all the same. She truly loves and respects you. That is what you need in a marriage. I don't see why she can't conceive with a single Fallopian tube, 3 kids is even a crowd in today's generation.
Go ahead and love your woman!

I'm sure there are things in your past that would also need forgiving, or some character of yours she would need to live with.
Life is too short to bargain about happiness.

sickstars:


M nt claiming tough stop saying dat to me

I cant get all crios nd giv advise to sumone matured enof to tink on his own!

U tink its normal but its not to b sincere it doesnt make sense

Ow wud d girl in question feel wen she told her man d truth only for him to publish it world wide if she was ur sister wat will u do?

Cos u fink its good to expose in d public wat a girl in tears secretly told u smh

Did you learn stu.pid.ity or you inherited it ?

octopusfreaky:
sad stories everywhere.. At least she opened up to you in time,,she's indeed truthful to you..You guys should seek counseling from a doctor and a good pastor "prophet'' ..

Why Pastor? this is not a spiritual problem.

Michellla:
you have nothing to worry about.just be glad
she was honest with you.it is possible to have
a baby even though you had one fallopian tube
removed. The fallopian tube (women generally
have 2), is the tube that allows the egg to travel
from the ovary to the uterus. Where it can be fertilised. Even in cases where one ovary has
been removed,
the remaining one still produces an egg every
month. So it is still possible for a woman to
conceive with one tube.

may God continue to enrich u with more wisdom...

sickstars:


Fertility clinic is dere

he is doin d right thing at d wrong place!!!!!

Simple he takes d girl with him every sane girl will wana kno d state of her womb nd tubes

Op b doin guessing game like his girl heart is a puzzle

Your point is reasonable. However, you may have communicated it wrong words.
@op, I'm sure you have got good and mind-settling advices already. Many of us have learnt from your issue. Ordinarily, I would never have searched google to get answers to suCh enquiry.
Anyways, a professional advice from a professional should have been the way to go and keet it as discreet as possible. I believe she trusts you with her secret. She could be reading this as well from whereever she may be at the moment. NL is everywhere mehnnn!!. News fly

Just get her pregnant b4 marriage simple....u might let her give birth to one b4 marriage sef....its allowed

joborskill:



do u really need to insult me if u have no positive contributions? This is an anonymous forum and i did not mention names nor revealed anyone's identity. No one is an island of knowledge. You should grow up

hv u eva heard d phrase "silent is golden?" U would hv kept him mute n alloww him wallow in his stupidity! I duno hw minors filter in2 NL... *smh*

this is a tricky situation but then let be real to avoid future issues in your relationship, know that this condition was not caused by you but some unknown ex so why take the burden,know that she cares to have brought this to your notice n also know that love conquers all, marriage is a lifelong affair decide anything u feel is best for you no sentiments.

sickstars:
anoda dummy spotted

U dont av matured relatives to ask?

Wow d mumu people in naija increases daily

...n u got 52 likes? Dis must b madness!!!

joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments.

Op, never get disturbed about this.A friend of mine had a similar issue but today, the lady has children.

She opened up to you and not hiding it till you get married.Show her love and understanding.Stand by her as it is ONLY God that gives children.

The worst you can do to her is to abandon her now.What if you are married to her and you in particular happens to have an accident, God forbid,and she abandons you, how will you feel? Nobody that doesn't have their past.

Also try to look at the issue in question, it could be that she is trying to play game with you and to know if you truly love her.


Try to shower her with your love as I believe that this will strengthen your love.

Naughtysite:


Did you learn stu.pid.ity or you inherited it ?

I think it's both. She Learnt and inherited it.
Cos I can't understand how one can spew such nonsense in a thread like this.

.

tpiar:


twins are from two eggs, not two tubes.

if the ovaries release more than one egg, those are twins.

if the egg splits in two after fertilization, those are also twins.

emme re frame my sentences.. her chances of producing diazygotic twins.... MOST TIME the eggs are released frm both ovaries so if there is no fallopian tube to transport the other egg frm the second tube;her chance is still slim.. bt monozygotic twins is very possible

I think it also depends on her age bro, if she's like between 20 and 28 fine , but if not she might have to go through assisted reproduction.

octopusfreaky:
sad stories everywhere.. At least she opened up to you in time,,she's indeed truthful to you..You guys should seek counseling from a doctor and a good pastor "prophet'' ..

u were on track but u went completely offpoint when u mentioned "prophet"

irisola:

emme re frame my sentences.. her chances of producing diazygotic twins.... MOST TIME the eggs are released frm both ovaries so if there is no fallopian tube to transport the other egg frm the second tube;her chance is still slim.. bt monozygotic twins is very possible

But you are still incorrect. Generally only one side releases per month. I can actually feel when my egg is released and can tell what side it came from.

sickstars:


Why u attacking me from threads to threads

U are my frnd nd i dont expect dis from u

Just stop it even if i post dumb random stuffs m entitled to "

Guy you don make me laugh die with this your yeye write up. Na ur guy sha

one fallopian tube is not a problem.. she is still fertile and can conceive a child.



Quick question: What if she can never give birth to a child in life.. would u love her less?
would u still love her the same?
will she still have a future with u?

Emac34:
a friend of my once said love conquers all

lol, it doesn't .Advise you OP not to take chances.

SHOCK7:

u were on track but u went completely offpoint when u mentioned "prophet"

@drnoel and marriott1980 nope i know what im saying since he is considering marriage i think he needs to see a good pastor to pray on the matter. You never can tell the " lady" may not be the right one for him.

sickstars:


M nt claiming tough stop saying dat to me

I cant get all crios nd giv advise to sumone matured enof to tink on his own!

U tink its normal but its not to b sincere it doesnt make sense

Ow wud d girl in question feel wen she told her man d truth only for him to publish it world wide if she was ur sister wat will u do?

Cos u fink its good to expose in d public wat a girl in tears secretly told u smh

what is 'ur problem he didn't reveal any identities, there's nothing wrong in seeking advice in a public forum, it is becos of d interest level of dis thread dats why I opened it,pls if u nothing 2 say just ZIP IT, & let intelligent people talk!

Respect the fact that she was honest enough to tell you. Most will NOT.

If you really love her, forgive her and let God into the situation. God NEVER fails

will u allow people's decision influence u.....she will surely b able to get pregnant in d future. true love is optimistic n not pessimistic, go for wat u want n not wat u hear or see. for her to b able to tell u d truth, u should love her like u've never fallen in love bfor. treat her like a queen cos she deserve to b one

octopusfreaky:
@drnoel and marriott1980 nope i know what im saying since he is considering marriage i think he needs to see a good pastor to pray on the matter. You never can tell the " lady" may not be the right one for him.

Stop being naive a pastor is not d person 2 make dat revelation or decision 4 him!

@OP you have a good woman. For her to tell you this she really loves you and don't want to hurt you in future for this. Marry that girl!!! She can conceive. You lucky shaa good woman hard to find.

joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments.

She can still be pregnant even with one ovary. Having the two increases the chances as egg is released from both ovaries and conveyed through the Fallopian tube for fertilization and implantation in the womb.

octopusfreaky:
@drnoel and marriott1980 nope i know what im saying since he is considering marriage i think he needs to see a good pastor to pray on the matter. You never can tell the " lady" may not be the right one for him.

\

My sister, it's good to seek the face of God for partners, but note that most of the so called prophets in Nigeria are not real.

You are a woman and by looking at the guy's post and the subject matter here, you will come to understand that this lady is real and straight forward by opening up now of her status before marriage and as such should be acknowledged.

Others would hid this and pretend until they get married.This problem at hand has nothing to do with "" lady" may not be the right one for him'

If I am the guy, I will show the lady love and understanding at this point and will go ahead and get married to her because she will remain open. No one is a saint as we are not all righteous in the sight of God.God can change her situation. I know of a couple with same issue and today they are happily married with lovely children. When she was having this challenges,I told her to open up to the guy of her status of which she did and they went ahead to get married. She is an engineer and the guy a pharmacist.Today, they have their own children.
Let us encourage the guy to show the lady love and not to abandon her.Who knows the one he will meet tomorrow? The devil you know is better than the angels out there.