Hackerjay:
It's actually easy for me to approach a group of girls(standing,walking or sitting) only if they are gisting and laughing but if the case is otherwise i.e no gist,sad mood... I can't do the approach o... Lol >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> But my problem now is that i have upto 6 different girls am currently gaming apart from those freshers i don fucck last month(january)... So, the thing has taken over me that i will wake up early in the morning and start comtemplating on which of the girls should i start with cos gaming 6 girls at the same time suck my credit like mad - A broke student like me... >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Now,my question is that, is it advisable to finish a particular girl before approaching and starting another babe?..

Jst Negodu
See what a young man wakes up with as a days ambition.
Shaking My Head For Some Guys...

cassyrooy:


NOW, i've got just about 8days to resumption, i love her but how do i end things with her cus she's more fragile than Chinas. Thanks

Bros just tell her you want to do plastic surgery and be back in a week then you pass me the babe na.

Breaking up is easy to me, just cut line of communication same way MTN cuts your call when credit don finish and since it's even long distance then half of the job is done already.

Why breakup when you can be friend with benefits?

tr3y:


Bros just tell her you want to do plastic surgery and be back in a week then you pass me the babe na.

Breaking up is easy to me, just cut line of communication same way MTN cuts your call when credit don finish and since it's even long distance then half of the job is done already.

Why breakup when you can be friend with benefits?

Thanks, will take it as it comes my way, no be my fault gotta concentrate

my own problem is that the babe I'm gaming is very shy. whenever I'm talking to her she doesn't look at me rather she says she listens with her ears and not her eyes whenever I confront her about it. How do I get her to be open with me?She prefers chatting with me than calling. Her own shyness is out of this world. I'm even thinking of letting her be cos I'm tired. Whenever I call her and tell her I want to meet her she doesn't refuse my request. Gurus in the house should help me with this Abeg.

DjBoosting, xxxtedyxxx.....my own get as e be oo..
OK, I met this young university-aged babe I really liked and clicked with. Everything worked out well...I seduced and fvked her...during the course of our affair I developed feelings for her and wanted to maintain this relationship.
Now the babe is telling me she broke up with her boyfriend before she met me and the reason was her fault. The boyfriend is back and she's confused between the two of us...imagine.
Recently she started giving me one or two drama and today she chatted me that she's leaving....i told her to go ahead if she insists though I would have preferred her to stay with me, I tried to convince her as I could but made sure she understood that the decision was hers. Right now I don bone am but I still want her badly.
I'm well employed and earn well and wanna keep this babe but I don't know how to go about this.
Whether na her kpomo wey don hook me, I no sure but I really like her packaging and every.Please any suggestions would be welcomed...

magikalz:
DjBoosting, xxxtedyxxx.....my own get as e be oo..
OK, I met this young university-aged babe I really liked and clicked with. Everything worked out well...I seduced and fvked her...during the course of our affair I developed feelings for her and wanted to maintain this relationship.
Now the babe is telling me she broke up with her boyfriend before she met me and the reason was her fault. The boyfriend is back and she's confused between the two of us...imagine.
Recently she started giving me one or two drama and today she chatted me that she's leaving....i told her to go ahead if she insists though I would have preferred her to stay with me, I tried to convince her as I could but made sure she understood that the decision was hers. Right now I don bone am but I still want her badly.
I'm well employed and earn well and wanna keep this babe but I don't know how to go about this.
Whether na her kpomo wey don hook me, I no sure but I really like her packaging and every.Please any suggestions would be welcomed...

first tin...don't ever try convincing a babe to do sth. It will always backfire. Let her follower the emotional route instead of going logical trying to convince her to stay.

U r definitely hooked onto her, u need to follow ur heart here. Her bf is back and she is confused between u too. As thngs stand, the bf has straffed her too...no doubt. Forget about being well employed n ready to spend on her. Ask ur sef....in the long run , is she really d kind of babe u wana spend for? Let ur heart speak for u. My advice is : let d babe go, u don't beg/convince a babe to stay with u, just maintain contact. Get ur sef anoda babe. This one cud be ur side chick tho.


Cheers.

anadozie1:
my own problem is that the babe I'm gaming is very shy. whenever I'm talking to her she doesn't look at me rather she says she listens with her ears and not her eyes whenever I confront her about it. How do I get her to be open with me?She prefers chatting with me than calling. Her own shyness is out of this world. I'm even thinking of letting her be cos I'm tired. Whenever I call her and tell her I want to meet her she doesn't refuse my request. Gurus in the house should help me with this Abeg.

don't worry ur sef too much. Just start behaving d way she behaves, act shy too, don't look @ her wen u talk. In order words, mirror her, do it subtly tho, don't make it too obvious.

U r dealing with a girl who is shy, no amount of logical persuasion will work. Go the emotional route. Don't confront again pls. Just act the way she does, and u will see her open up

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xxxtedyxxx:
Gona be kicking this thread off wit a basic concept. YOUR inner Game. That's basically abt ur beliefs or how u see ur ursef. Ur sense of worth and oda stuffs relating to Your inner pysche. Do u see ur sef as ugly, tall, short, etc..well.if u r aving a limiting belief..u need to fix dat first. Becos in the long run..its gona affect how u relate to girl...basically ur outer-game. More on dat later.

yoh bruv..i hav problm with limiting belief,i always see myself as a ugly nigga,wheareas sum pple still dy compliment me..y nah

xxxtedyxxx:
Hey pals...am teddy..aka sweetpapa. The purpose of this thread is to improve our dating game; and if u r aving any dating bottle-necks..u can tell us here and get ur advice. First tins first..pls no insults..if u don't like a post,simple ignore it. Let's help one another. Am gona be posting stuffs dat hav worked for me over the Years. Thankx for stopping by.

Note: IF U INSULT ME--- I GO SWEAR FOR UR DESTINY..Lols

My babe saw my whatsapp where i addressed another girl as baby. The girl vex no be small, block me on all social media. I cant even call her.

What do i do ?

xxxtedyxxx:
don't worry ur sef too much. Just start behaving d way she behaves, act shy too, don't look @ her wen u talk. In order words, mirror her, do it subtly tho, don't make it too obvious.

U r dealing with a girl who is shy, no amount of logical persuasion will work. Go the emotional route. Don't confront again pls. Just act the way she does, and u will see her open up

Thanks boss! I will try the emotional route. I think she still doesn't trust me yet cos I have dem bad boys look as in player looks. She still thinks I see other girls apart from her. Thanks bro.

xxxtedyxxx:
dont try approaching in group if ur not confident enuf, or if u cant hold convo. Forget that " excuse me guys, can i talk to ur friend for a minute". Lol

Trying engaging her and locking eye contact with her. Smile @ her, or even blow her a kiss from afar. She will make her self evailable pretty soon. Just dont stalk her.


My 2cents.

discuss with her when i eventually meet her 1 on
1...i need something that will get her interested..i am a
shy guy nd i am nt too good with convo, so i am gonna
need all the help i can get... Abeg pros in the room can
help as well.. Teddy i take God beg u, abeg Answer me.

anadozie1:
Thanks boss! I will try the emotional route. I think she still doesn't trust me yet cos I have dem bad boys look as in player looks. She still thinks I see other girls apart from her. Thanks bro.

If what I think I'm thinking is the case here, that means you are the one trying to "tūsh up" the girl.

I have a feeling the girl here is a teenage girl. Because I don't see an 18+ girl who can't maintain an eye contact with a guy you come out to see.

Maybe she's busty or cute in her early years that got you interested in her, maybe.
Actually the issue is not with her, it's with you.

What I'm made to believe you're not doing here is - touch.
I think the physical contact you're having with this girl is very little. If you're trying to "nurse" a girl up, it means you want to recreate her logical system.

Because I'm very sure her mum must have been giving her social security that guys can do so, so and so when they talk to her.

The only way to get past that sheild is to build rapport. And not talking rapport, but TOUCH.

I'm sure that shouldn't be hard to generate.

Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com

I love you bro.

See yah around.
Peace
JD.

AarewaMafia:


discuss with her when i eventually meet her 1 on
1...i need something that will get her interested..i am a
shy guy nd i am nt too good with convo, so i am gonna
need all the help i can get... Abeg pros in the room can
help as well.. Teddy i take God beg u, abeg Answer me.

Bro, I love that line there.
But I don't like the mindset that goes with it. The mindset you're using here, is not good. You're using the mindset of

"I don't want to fvck up, I want to say things that will make her like me...."

Let me tell you one secret, immediately you start having conversation with a girl and you're using the frame of "say things to make her like me", you have already lost the game. Why?

Because inside you, you're not qualified enough as a man in your own belief. And when you begin to go with that inner frame, if the girl is not really an extrovert, before you know it, the conversation dies down........
That is because all the fun things, all the flirting, all the playful nonsense you feel like saying, you have restricted them from coming out cos

"I don't want to say that, so that I won't fvck up".

Bro, stop fvcking playing safe!

If you play safe you won't attract her not alone get to the homebase (sex) you wanted.

Talk to her like she's your bestfriend.
Tease her, play with her, talk nonsense, be happy about what you're saying. It is mostly the good positive emotions you're sharing in the convo that will make her get attracted.

So if you're playing it safe, are you sharing that freely? No.

What you lack is not conversation skill, maybe..

What you really lack is CONFIDENCE.

My team, Team Diamond knows this... I tell them

"Work on yourself first, don't come looking for tips. Build that genius in you and all your actions should come from that genius."

Because if you're looking for tips to get A-girl..... what worked for A-girl might not work for B-girl, then you run back again looking for tips to get B-girl.
This is what most people do. THEY WANT TIPS.

Let someone teach you how to be a fisherman yourself and your game will be ON and ready anytime, anywhere.
Not feed you.

Bro, when you meet that girl, play with her, joke with her, tease her, share stories. Mainly talk to her assumed that you guys have know each other a longtime ago.

And hey, I love the way your name sounded "Aarewa", more like "Arewa" on the Yoruba tongue - meaning "Cutie".

Get someone to teach and coach you to WORK AND BUILD UP YOURSELF and YOUR GAME.

Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com

I love you, but I love me too.

Have a wonderful Sunday.

I'm out.
Peace
JD.

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100Cents:



My babe saw my whatsapp where i addressed another girl as baby. The girl vex no be small, block me on all social media. I cant even call her.

What do i do ?

Smile.... Bro, can't you see the handwriting on the wall?
This girl has lost interest for a longtime and she's been looking for a perfect excuse to eject. Well, now she found one.
And you're still asking, what do I do?

What do you even want to do in the first place? Beg her?
Like bro, are you fvcking kidding me?

Do you want to tell me most of the guys on her whatsapp don't address her as baby too?

If you beg her for that, what does that make her - A Queen you have to worship?

And you, what does that make you - A slave to the queen?

(Breakup because of "baby". Imagine, "she vex no be small", That's insane. Let her marry you then.)

Bro, wake up. Decide what you want. You are the man not her.

You are an awesome and charming guy, who if he's trained can and will get any girl he wants. So don't sell yourself short to a girl.

Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com

I'm out.

Peace

JD.

Met à Babe in my school. Sh eis a fresher in my dept. We flow. She always like to hold me when we see. 8 interprète it as maybe cos we are in D same dept and she sees me as someone that might be of help to her.

She has been to my house once, with a friend of hers.
But, shr hardly chat online.

How do I draw this babe to my side, as in make her mine. Thanks

She says she luvs me, bt wants 2 knw who d gal on my dp is.. Hw do I respond...
Ansa needed ASAP bro

Incorruptible:
Met à Babe in my school. Sh eis a fresher in my dept. We flow. She always like to hold me when we see. 8 interprète it as maybe cos we are in D same dept and she sees me as someone that might be of help to her.

She has been to my house once, with a friend of hers.
But, shr hardly chat online.

How do I draw this babe to my side, as in make her mine. Thanks

perhaps she is not the chaty-chatty type. Point is, from your post, she is already comfortable with u, all u need to do is feed of that. Assume the bf role immediately, if u don't act, u might end up being stuck in the friendzone/or being her big brother.... . So assume ur dating her already, and roll with that. U already know how a bf talks/behaves.

JhyMedex:
She says she luvs me, bt wants 2 knw who d gal on my dp is.. Hw do I respond...
Ansa needed ASAP bro

its a test.....don't fall for it. She wants u to open up and play ur card too quick. U need suspense to keep a girl's attraction/investment moving in the positive direction. You can either...Tell her the babe is one of ur very close friends.

Djboosting:


Bro, I love that line there.
But I don't like the mindset that goes with it. The mindset you're using here, is not good. You're using the mindset of

"I don't want to fvck up, I want to say things that will make her like me...."

Let me tell you one secret, immediately you start having conversation with a girl and you're using the frame of "say things to make her like me", you have already lost the game. Why?

Because inside you, you're not qualified enough as a man in your own belief. And when you begin to go with that inner frame, if the girl is not really an extrovert, before you know it, the conversation dies down........
That is because all the fun things, all the flirting, all the playful nonsense you feel like saying, you have restricted them from coming out cos

"I don't want to say that, so that I won't fvck up".

Bro, stop fvcking playing safe!

If you play safe you won't attract her not alone get to the homebase (sex) you wanted.

Talk to her like she's your bestfriend.
Tease her, play with her, talk nonsense, be happy about what you're saying. It is mostly the good positive emotions you're sharing in the convo that will make her get attracted.

So if you're playing it safe, are you sharing that freely? No.

What you lack is not conversation skill, maybe..

What you really lack is CONFIDENCE.

My team, Team Diamond knows this... I tell them

"Work on yourself first, don't come looking for tips. Build that genius in you and all your actions should come from that genius."

Because if you're looking for tips to get A-girl..... what worked for A-girl might not work for B-girl, then you run back again looking for tips to get B-girl.
This is what most people do. THEY WANT TIPS.

Let someone teach you how to be a fisherman yourself and your game will be ON and ready anytime, anywhere.
Not feed you.

Bro, when you meet that girl, play with her, joke with her, tease her, share stories. Mainly talk to her assumed that you guys have know each other a longtime ago.

And hey, I love the way your name sounded "Aarewa", more like "Arewa" on the Yoruba tongue - meaning "Cutie".

Get someone to teach and coach you to WORK AND BUILD UP YOURSELF and YOUR GAME.

I love you, but I love me too.

Have a wonderful Sunday.

I'm out.
Peace
JD.

Tnks alot for the reply...God bless.

xxxtedyxxx:
its a test.....don't fall for it. She wants u to open up and play ur card too quick. U need suspense to keep a girl's attraction/investment moving in the positive direction. You can either...Tell her the babe is one of ur very close friends.

She was so on me b4 I got ur reply... Bt I did Jst wat u asked...
Told her was ma close friend frm sec skul.... Boom..
D G is completely feeling d niggur

JhyMedex:

She was so on me b4 I got ur reply... Bt I did Jst wat u asked...
Told her was ma close friend frm sec skul.... Boom..
D G is completely feeling d niggur

keep the game up. Don't forget...being unpredictable is better than being predictable.

xxxtedyxxx:
keep the game up. Don't forget...being unpredictable is better than being predictable.

U got it... Am gud chatting gals up... My p is starting...

Any advice?.

JhyMedex:

U got it... Am gud chatting gals up... My p is starting...

Any advice?.

starting an approach, be it online or one-one, depends on what conversational method you decide to choose. I normally use humour because it works best for me. You can also use situational openers. " Hey, your phone looks new, did u just get it". -for bus openers.
" I av seen u a few times, but we avent met"- street opener.

"Hey babe, u wana fvck"- nutty direct online opener

A simple "hi" can even do the trick. work on your social interaction with the opposite sex. Develop the habit of talking to random girls you don't know. Say hello, and leave, or ask for the time...etc. Go for random small talks. With time, you will begin to find the process easy.

xxxtedyxxx:
starting an approach, be it online or one-one, depends on what conversational method you decide to choose. I normally use humour because it works best for me. You can also use situational openers. " Hey, your phone looks new, did u just get it". -for bus openers.
" I av seen u a few times, but we avent met"- street opener.

"Hey babe, u wana fvck"- nutty direct online opener

A simple "hi" can even do the trick. work on your social interaction with the opposite sex. Develop the habit of talking to random girls you don't know. Say hello, and leave, or ask for the time...etc. Go for random small talks. With time, you will begin to find the process easy.

U wanna fvck?
Dat I will do....
Gratias guru Tedy

xxxtedyxxx:
perhaps she is not the chaty-chatty type. Point is, from your post, she is already comfortable with u, all u need to do is feed of that. Assume the bf role immediately, if u don't act, u might end up being stuck in the friendzone/or being her big brother.... . So assume ur dating her already, and roll with that. U already know how a bf talks/behaves.

Thanks alot, can we exchange contact?

Kovic08:
Hello house I have a little problem o
There is one girl I'm dating, I disflowered her (with my hand)
We always romance, do all sort of things
But the problem is she only allow me to use hand
To do her
Saying she is scared of getting pregnant all the time
And I have convinced her time without number that
I will use condom but she refused.
So last weekend she want me to use hand again
I just got angry and tell her to wear her cloth and come
And be going home
Now hope I didn't fumble?
NB. I like her but my rule is no sex no commitment

UnCloth her, then yourself, I'm talking about a full nakia here. After that, start using hand but make sure you have put on a condom. Make her wet wella, knead the breastesses, find her weak point, then insert suddenly. She'll calm down SS you gently thrust into her and make the stroke graduate till she comes to town. #JustMyThinking