QueenValerie:
I know it's insensitive but your moniker is funny


OK I m gon go read an see if I can help..

hurting:

Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

callMeAlpha:
Bro u keep clamoring on how faithful she is and all DAT... Look,was she faithful wen she met a guy behind ur back?,like u said,she told u she had found someone else,meanwhile u guys were still dating wen she gave the new guy a chance,...lemme tell u the truth,wat you're doing rit nw will never help the situation, women don't appeal to pity, no one wants to be wit someone out of pity,plz stop begging her because it will drive her further away from u,...to me 7 years ain't seven days so I believe if u guys actually had something quality y u were dating den
It will be difficult for her to get over u DAT easily.. So my advise is for u to stop calling her so wit time she'll begin to miss u,work on ur self,get a reasonable paying job,feel challenged,improve on ur dress sense,also she's been ur woman for 7 years so u know what she likes...and remember don't go typing shit on Facebook or else you'll end up saying a lot of trash DAT will even make her feel irritated because rit now you've been clouded By ur emotions, give her a period of 1-2 months of no contact.. She'll jump back begging bt i would advice u let her go except ur lyf is tied to her,there re wonderful and beautiful womem out there,trust me i once had an heartbreak dat got me thinking like u.and plz don't wait and sit around for 2 months,..go work on urself and make some bar.....thank me later

hurting:


Thanks bro! I fear she will get over me if I stay clear. I know her very well. And she is also heartbroken, she cries when I call her, as for d dressing, I have a very good dress sense, I kit well n dats one of d reason she loves me.

hurting:


Thanks bro! I fear she will get over me if I stay clear. I know her very well. And she is also heartbroken, she cries when I call her, as for d dressing, I have a very good dress sense, I kit well n dats one of d reason she loves me.

samdavjustin:
Dude if I were you I would let her go. Delete her number or anything that can remind you of her. Am sorry to safe but she is a Lil bit shallow. What if you get a job she loves then get married and you loose the job then what? And what country are you located because if in Nigeria there is job insecurity. Bottom line she has moved on so should you. I know it's not gonna be easy but you have to.

Justdulla:
Forget crocodile tears and winning her back jare, your matter done dey vex me, are you God? Did you create your condition intentionally? Sha had the audacity to move on without giving a damn simply because Your Alert never soar and your talking of true love my foot, even 2 face when sing true love sef no true.... Dont be blindfolded by emotions and tears wake up man, I bet you in a week or 2 now those tears would stop she go come change hand for you, move on with your lifeshe couldnt stand the heat so she left the kitchen...... If I see you lamenting again, I go flog you koboko

lomprico:

Lol d dude is hurting naa

skarlett:
All these long epistles *yawns



The posters above me have said it all...what did they even say sef

Dreamflyin:
OP, thanks a lot for being honest about her. Some dudes will start off by painting her up as unfaithful and all. Thanks Op. You're on the good path. Thanks again.
She loves you, no doubt about that, but sometimes, life throws things in our path that even the strongest emotion can't withstand.
She's gone, but she's still there.
Don't hate her.
She did her bit.
Dust yourself up. It's hard, and I wouldn't claim to know how you feel, or understand your feelings.
If you commits suicide, you lost. You lost her, and the world/life defeated you.
She always loved you and will still do, but if she grew up in want, that phobia will always get her apprehensive of the future. She wants better for her kids.
I'm not God to tell you that a job is on the way and make you feel good, but you'll be a better man if you pull through this.
Best of luck, bro. I'm in deep sorrow with you. God keep you.

Dreamflyin:
OP, thanks a lot for being honest about her. Some dudes will start off by painting her up as unfaithful and all. Thanks Op. You're on the good path. Thanks again.
She loves you, no doubt about that, but sometimes, life throws things in our path that even the strongest emotion can't withstand.
She's gone, but she's still there.
Don't hate her.
She did her bit.
Dust yourself up. It's hard, and I wouldn't claim to know how you feel, or understand your feelings.
If you commits suicide, you lost. You lost her, and the world/life defeated you.
She always loved you and will still do, but if she grew up in want, that phobia will always get her apprehensive of the future. She wants better for her kids.
I'm not God to tell you that a job is on the way and make you feel good, but you'll be a better man if you pull through this.
Best of luck, bro. I'm in deep sorrow with you. God keep you.

hurting:


Thanks bro! I fear she will get over me if I stay clear. I know her very well. And she is also heartbroken, she cries when I call her, as for d dressing, I have a very good dress sense, I kit well n dats one of d reason she loves me.

peedeeasobie:




stop talking like a kid my friend!
MOVE ON. That boat has sailed!


Be a man and get a life!

suicidal thoughts because of a lady?

you need slap!